Exes, why can't they just let you go?

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

So here is my story atm.

Ive been dating this stunning 32 y/o investment banker girl. She picks me up in her Porsche 911 takes me out to dinner, always pays (#winning) and absolutely f~~~s my brains out. It’s so casual and easy for both of us.

However, my nasty ex from 3 years ago finds out I’m with this gorgeous younger woman, im 41 y/o, and she goes about through networks of mine to create drama, interfere and make false allegations in hope this girl believes her and runs away. Quite pathetic actually since she married another guy and got pregnant immediately to him.

My question is, why the f~~~ do women act like this? I mean, they couldn’t be happy with me then why sabotage me finding happiness in other areas of my life and people?

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Nothing P~~~es an ex off more than you traded up or are happy in your life.

The fact that an ex cares about what you are doing is proof that she is thinking about you.

She wants to punish you and get revenge; to hurt you for leaving her ; rejecting her.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

Get revenge? She left me….

Anyway, I’m having a great time.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Doesn’t matter. For some reason she wants to punish you. She most likely feels wronged, she wanted you (Briffualts law) and changed her mind. She thinks you failed her/wronged her.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[Anonymous 54]

Pure ego.She can’t compete so she’ll punish you. It doesn’t matter who left who. X can’t stand a hot new girlfriend.Witch means You Win !!

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Narcissism. Just because you broke up doesn’t mean she doesn’t want you to wish you had her back. It hurts her ego that you traded up from her. In her mind she’s the best you could ever get. She doesn’t like the fact that she was wrong, so she needs to punish you. The only alternative would be to admit she was wrong, and that will NEVER happen.

Order the good wine

[NerevarParticipant 8040]

Jan Sobieski wrote:

Nothing P~~~es an ex off more than you traded up or are happy in your life.

The fact that an ex cares about what you are doing is proof that she is thinking about you.

She wants to punish you and get revenge; to hurt you for leaving her ; rejecting her.

Reverse hypergamy, you nailed it, brother! Bitches can’t handle that!

"One of the best things internet exposed is just how insane women are." - Freeman_K

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

Exes, has nothing about you its more about her not getting anything from men, she has been unsuccessful,glory days of men coming up to women to hit on them are over. Other words:

“She’s not in high demand, as she thought she was.”

C~~~ who is a investment banker? lol. She’ll be bankrupt by 2020. She probably bang the ceo to get that job. Rich c~~~s are the worse. CORRUPTION!

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

bigboy83 wrote:

C~~~ who is a investment banker? lol. She’ll be bankrupt by 2020. She probably bang the ceo to get that job. Rich c~~~s are the worse. CORRUPTION!

Hey im NOT gonna marry her. But I will nail her while she is still hot and tight, help her spend her money and I have zero problem being chauffeured around Sydney in a new 911.

She did s~~~ test me a few times, and seriously thanks to my red pill, MGTOW brothers here and all your advice I pulled her into line very quickly and it showed her who was boss. Not only that I was prepared to walk there and then… You gotta have this mindset. Those few instances god me laid so hard each evening and her totally submitting to me. Plus she knows I am dead serious about never getting married, that alone makes her try harder to win me over and to the ladies who are reading this: i’m turning this franchise around and doing exactly what you do to men!

As for the ex, she is just a sad pathetic 42 y/o single mum who married a sad older single dad. He’d probably s~~~ himself if he knew what was going on. Sounds like she’s either a vindictive c~~~ or still holds a flame. Either way he is the simp!

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

CONTROL

If the can’t control your life, they will control you’re unhappiness, social destruction or death.

They just can’t stop trying to control.

[Anonymous 6]

Nerevar wrote:

Reverse hypergamy, you nailed it, brother! Bitches can’t handle that!

Nice, shoving their own bulls~~~ right back up there entitled assholes.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

DeepInThought wrote:

My question is, why the f~~~ do women act like this? I mean, they couldn’t be happy with me then why sabotage me finding happiness in other areas of my life and people?

This “if I can’t have him nobody can” crazy & possessive attitude is everywhere.

Women simply can’t live with themselves (admit) knowing they made big mistake.

Men generally QUALIFY women.
Women look to DIS-qualify men.

Remember the mobile phone analogy……

When you want to buy a mobile phone, you compare and contrast all the POSITIVE features and make a purchase decision based on that. If it doesn’t function, you take it back and/or exchange it for a new one. Perfectly sensible.

Women do the equivalent of taking every phone (man) and smashing it on the ground (s~~~ test / disqualify) and which ever doesn’t break and is most willing to put up with her CRAP….. is when she starts convincing herself “he’s the ONE”.

They use the “American Idol” method. It’s not really THE BEST singer who “wins”….. it’s merely the last of the eliminated — the one left standing after the others have been voted OFF.

The focus is not on “who stays because they are better”….
It’s “who is going home today”. Completely f~~~ing backwards.

When you move on and get a new one, she starts questioning her own decision. She NEEDS to think dumping/smashing/trashing you was the right thing to do. When a woman appears to be quite happy with you, the ex loses her mind. She would rather see you end up with NOBODY if you’re not going to end up with her. Imagine the arrogance required for that.

This is why women will BASH AND SMASH YOU TO A PULP and backstab you within your mutual social circle to MAKE SURE you never end up with any of her friends. She needs to believe “I disqualified him” and that’s the end of you. When it isn’t, she will stop at nothing to f~~~ it up.

F~~~ her sister and/or best friend after a break up, and she will go ballistic.

(This is not carved in stone of course, it’s just a formula which can be studied, observed and understood by anyone really.)

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 3]

DeepInThought wrote:

I’ve been dating this stunning 32 y/o investment banker girl. She picks me up in her Porsche 911 takes me out to dinner, always pays (#winning) and absolutely f~~~s my brains out. It’s so casual and easy for both of us.

It looks like for me, that this thing is still in the starting phase. It began the same way with my ex gf, although she was not that stunning but always f~~~ed my brains out in the first few months and the whole thing was just casual sex and I really liked it. But afterwards, we got more and more problems. And then she got demanding to move together and marry and think on children. And I just broke up for that and found the red pill and MGTOW community. So, I suggest you to enjoy it but be careful and break immediately if she gets demanding or baby rabies. By the way use condom and do not let her steal sperm, sudden baby rabies can be damn evil, many stories are in the manosphere.

DeepInThought wrote:

However, my nasty ex … and she goes about through networks of mine to create drama,

From tactical point of view, it is the best to divide and conquer. Do not have your networks interconnected, if it is possible. It can have s~~~ty consequences. For example I have here the MGTOW brotherhood, where I can be fully honest, and have my mother’s family who thinks I am a regular guy, and have the workplace, where I behave like a regular but slightly red pill and sometimes funny professional guy, and my ex works in a totally different workplace. My friends do not know the ex’s friends. Family members do not know people at work place, and so on.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Women want what they see other women having, and the more they perceive the other women as being more attractive and successful than themselves the more they want what she has. The man himself (or the shoes or the clothes or the jewelry or whatever) is largely immaterial in this calculation of theirs.

Your ex sees this younger, hotter, fitter, richer woman having you and millions of years of evolution tell her she should want you as well. Except she knows she will never have what this other woman does, namely you, because she already had you and threw you away. She knows she will never, ever get you back. Moreover she is incapable of recognizing that in hindsight that was a mistake on her part.

So the only way she has to resolve this dilemma is by doing everything she can to split you and your new girl. I know that’s f~~~ed up and irrational, but that’s how women operate. AWALT.

Probably the best way to deal with this is to make use of that same female nature. Let your current girl know all about everything your ex is doing, but frame it as your ex trying to split you two up because she wants you back for herself. Make your current girl think of your ex as potential competition, even laughable competition, and everything your ex does will only serve to make your current girl desire you more.

DeepInThought wrote:

Not only that I was prepared to walk there and then… You gotta have this mindset. Those few instances god me laid so hard each evening and her totally submitting to me.

That’s exactly how it works.

Just like I keep saying, men don’t need “game” or any of that nonsense. All you need to do is Go Your Own Way.

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

Anonymous wrote:

break immediately if she gets demanding or baby rabies.

This ^^^^ scenario is already locked and loaded 🙂

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10911]

You also should remember that when she left you, she probably gave reasons for leaving you to her friends and people that knew both of you. These reasons no doubt didn’t cast you into a positive light. She probably trashed you and your reputation and painted a picture that made her look like the Virgin Mary herself.
Now you are out with a fine young woman that has ALL the fixings. Youth, looks, money and other people that knew you and your ex are seeing it and wondering, “If he’s such a bad XXXX and an asshole for XXXX, why would some woman who looks like THAT be with him?” Now her credibility comes into question and for her that’s not good. So in a desperate attempt to save face, she pulls out every stop possible to save her credibility AND to make you miserable. Just a theory.
In the end, a woman will NEVER admit they f~~~ed up.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[AttonParticipant]

Pretty simple, you c~~~ punted a c~~~ with the force of a nuclear weapon.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

Mr. Spock wrote:

You also should remember that when she left you, she probably gave reasons for leaving you to her friends and people that knew both of you. These reasons no doubt didn’t cast you into a positive light. She probably trashed you and your reputation and painted a picture that made her look like the Virgin Mary herself.
Now you are out with a fine young woman that has ALL the fixings. Youth, looks, money and other people that knew you and your ex are seeing it and wondering, “If he’s such a bad XXXX and an asshole for XXXX, why would some woman who looks like THAT be with him?” Now her credibility comes into question and for her that’s not good. So in a desperate attempt to save face, she pulls out every stop possible to save her credibility AND to make you miserable. Just a theory.
In the end, a woman will NEVER admit they f~~~ed up.

That sounds extremely logical. Thanks.

[Masculine_ManParticipant 2735]

Keymaster wrote:

DeepInThought wrote:

My question is, why the f~~~ do women act like this? I mean, they couldn’t be happy with me then why sabotage me finding happiness in other areas of my life and people?

This “if I can’t have him nobody can” crazy & possessive attitude is everywhere.

Women simply can’t live with themselves (admit) knowing they made big mistake.

Men generally QUALIFY women.
Women look to DIS-qualify men.

Remember the mobile phone analogy……

When you want to buy a mobile phone, you compare and contrast all the POSITIVE features and make a purchase decision based on that. If it doesn’t function, you take it back and/or exchange it for a new one. Perfectly sensible.

Women do the equivalent of taking every phone (man) and smashing it on the ground (s~~~ test / disqualify) and which ever doesn’t break and is most willing to put up with her CRAP….. is when she starts convincing herself “he’s the ONE”.

They use the “American Idol” method. It’s not really THE BEST singer who “wins”….. it’s merely the last of the eliminated — the one left standing after the others have been voted OFF.

The focus is not on “who stays because they are better”….
It’s “who is going home today”. Completely f~~~ing backwards.

When you move on and get a new one, she starts questioning her own decision. She NEEDS to think dumping/smashing/trashing you was the right thing to do. When a woman appears to be quite happy with you, the ex loses her mind. She would rather see you end up with NOBODY if you’re not going to end up with her. Imagine the arrogance required for that.

This is why women will BASH AND SMASH YOU TO A PULP and backstab you within your mutual social circle to MAKE SURE you never end up with any of her friends. She needs to believe “I disqualified him” and that’s the end of you. When it isn’t, she will stop at nothing to f~~~ it up.

F~~~ her sister and/or best friend after a break up, and she will go ballistic.

(This is not carved in stone of course, it’s just a formula which can be studied, observed and understood by anyone really.)

Keymaster nailed it, she doesn’t want you but no one else should have you. To make matters worse, you traded in a busted used old bitch for the newer sexier model. In her mind, you are still her property to claim. She doesn’t like that some younger, hotter, thinner, prettier woman is f~~~ing her property! How dare her!

If it costs you your peace of mind, then it is too expensive.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

DeepInThought wrote:

So here is my story atm.

Ive been dating this stunning 32 y/o investment banker girl. She picks me up in her Porsche 911 takes me out to dinner, always pays (#winning) and absolutely f~~~s my brains out. It’s so casual and easy for both of us.

However, my nasty ex from 3 years ago finds out I’m with this gorgeous younger woman, im 41 y/o, and she goes about through networks of mine to create drama, interfere and make false allegations in hope this girl believes her and runs away. Quite pathetic actually since she married another guy and got pregnant immediately to him.

My question is, why the f~~~ do women act like this? I mean, they couldn’t be happy with me then why sabotage me finding happiness in other areas of my life and people?

Actually this is what you should do, fork away as much money as you can from this c~~~, then turn around and invest in mgtow merchandise, then if some c~~~ has a problem with it, tell her don’t blame me, my girlfriend paid for all this.

Feminists c~~~s are the best recruiters for mgtow, why not have them fund it too? Lol

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

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