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Goddamned it F~~~ My Life.
It’s THAT time of year. The holidays are coming up, the winds begin to change and good ol’ princess cupcake gets the regrets and sad feelz because she “made a mistake”.
The problem is that she has my Daughter. I only get custody of her for a period of time during the summer and winter. So staying amicable with the ex is BY FAR in my best interest.
After the divorce and her attempted monkey branching to “something better” didn’t pan out (surprise, surprise) now she wallows in regret and tubs of ice cream. She was at one time a GORGEOUS model, now turned obese single mom who lives in her parents house. The wall for her was a f~~~ing WRECKING BALL!!!!
While most of you probably cheer, laugh and high five at that, (me too, me too!!) It paints an awfully large target on my back. She now can see through 20/20 crystal clear hindsight that her life was great with me, and total and utter s~~~ without.
I see it the exact opposite; My life with her was complete and utter s~~~. My life as a MGTOW (Monk Mode) is filled with tranquility, peace and introspection.
There is no escaping hamster-wheel logic, solopsism and narcissism so deeply embedded in womens brains. Even though SHE is the one that is totally at fault, started the divorce and left, because I’m now what she wants (again) she WILL act like a goddamned wild animal to get it.
First, she will be nice. That’s where it is at the moment. I got the texts this morning (I’m full of regrets, I miss what we had, I’m feeling nostalgic) then she starts trying to use pet names (thanks Dear).
I responded at least an hour late on purpose to her text. I responded only to texts regarding my Daughter, and completely platonically. I’m not a dick, but I’m not nice. I try and treat her like a female co-worker.
It won’t end here. I have to fly in to pick up my daughter, or she flies here. She WILL make a physical attempt to “rekindle” the flame, it won’t work, and she will go BATS~~~ CRAZY.
This has happened every year for the past few years. I could almost set my f~~~ing watch to this by now.
This time is going to be much worse, however. My Daughter is getting older and will soon start to get an interest in boys. She NEEDS ME in her life, so she can have at least some chance to not turn into a psychotic harpie just like her mother and grandmother.
Right now she’s being raised by those two. It sickens me, to be honest. I try not to think about it most of the time. They are teaching her that “looks mean EVERYTHING” and all you have to do is be “pretty” to be successful.
Any amount of common sense would prove otherwise, as both of these used up land whales used to look good in their prime… then turned into human trash as adults.
Goddamned it. This s~~~ just sickens me. I want to be a good Father. The ex wife uses her like a f~~~ing pawn to try and monkey branch back.
My Daughter is ALWAYS welcome back to my house, for as long as she needs. The Ex wife is not even allowed in the goddamned dog house. Get Off My F~~~ing Property.
This won’t end well. It never does. It feels like I’ve got to get “Re-Divorced” Every f~~~ing year at this time. I have to put on f~~~ing kid gloves for this bitch, because she goes f~~~ing ballistic if even a semblance of reality is imparted on her (we are NEVER getting back together). She tried having me THROWN IN JAIL earlier this year for child support, which is over half of my paycheck, after taxes. I’m still a F~~~ing Wage Slave for her, yet it’s still not enough. She must have EVERYTHING. She must have her PLOWHORSE BAAAAAAACK.
She doesn’t know what I look like now, either. Which sucks. I look better than I ever have in my entire life. I work out, eat healthy, sleep like a rock at least 8 hours a night. I vehemently avoid social media, so she has no idea what I look like after the past year. Last she saw me I was a nervous wreck, on the verge of mental collapse. I probably looked like a homeless man.
Goddamned it. F~~~. Let me reiterate to new MGTOWS: Don’t EVER Get Married. Don’t EVER have kids. Kids= interaction with woman= psychotic woman with the nuclear option at her fingertips, who will ALWAYS blame you, even when it was her fault. Because… feelz.
I’m going to try and get some rest. It’s times like these I want to grab my pack and just go to the woods with no plan on if, and when, I ever return.
Hang in there, NomadicExpat. Get some rest tonight and think about how to handle this situation tomorrow. You will figure something out. This shows what an amazing father you are. Your daughter is very lucky and I am sure she is extremely proud to have you as her father. We are all with you, brother.
Stay strong.
You have to brace yourself that no matter what you do your daughter may turn out like your ex. Because awalt. She is a female, she will be a woman. The best you can do is try to instill a sense of morality and fairness in her by The Golden Rule or whatever religious background you have. It is really the only thing left that has a chance at restraining female hypergamy.
Awalt. Realize you can only help to restrain it.
Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.
It could be worse. I could be a hell of a lot worse, and you know it.
You could still be married to her.By what you’ve written here, I think you’re handling the divorce and custody situation well.
You should probably make more effort to keep your ex out of your life. The text messages must be kept to a minimum, but they are better than talking on the phone, because you can document what is said.
Make the most of your time with your daughter and strive to gain as much of that time as possible.
Don’t give in to the urge to denigrate her mom in front of her, but don’t go out of your way to put her in an untrue, positive, light, either.
It’s best to let her form her own opinions based on what she sees on her own, rather than what she hears from others.
She is probably old enough to see the dynamic between her parents, now, and hopefully, she will see your good qualities.Good luck and I hope you are able to raise her into what men would like women to be.
Hang in there, NomadicExpat. Get some rest tonight and think about how to handle this situation tomorrow. You will figure something out. This shows what an amazing father you are. Your daughter is very lucky and I am sure she is extremely proud to have you as her father. We are all with you, brother.
Stay strong.
Thanks Brother. Its great to have you all to talk to when the chips are down.
I cant stand having my Daughter used as an emotional pawn just so cupcake can try and upgrade her standard of living.
You Guys are the best. Gambit, as a Solid Broseph, I give you the coveted Predator handshake-explosion:
You Guys are the best. Gambit, as a Solid Broseph, I give you the coveted Predator handshake-explosion:
Brothers for life.
It could be worse. I could be a hell of a lot worse, and you know it.
You could still be married to her.Damn, your absolutely right. That alone will help me sleep better tonight.
The more things change, the more things stay the same.
You’ve encountered this behavior consistently. So since you are so used to it, her efforts should roll off your shoulders like the summer breeze. No need to be bent out of shape. You know what you have in yourself, and what you had before. You know you’re not looking back. The flies buzz around the ass of a horse. A horse pays no mind, giving only the occasional flick of the horse’s hairs.
Stay positive. She monkey branched and now she’s alone. Serves her right. You on the other hand are on the right path.
Anonymous7Geezuz f~~~.
How in the f~~~ to men deal with this?
There are others here in your shoes. They know….Your children are being used as a weapon against you. How the f~~~ do you not……
Man, I wish I had wisdom to offer but I don’t. Others here do..
Best of luck
Men have to swallow the red pill of truth about female nature and society. It’s a tough pill to swallow. But women have their own pill to swallow: it’s called the wall, and it’s a bitch. Count yourself lucky that you swallowed yours FIRST. Best of luck, brother.
Women are better at multitasking? Fucking up several things at once is not multitasking.
Anonymous43Expat, having kids held hostage sux. I’m there with you brother.
Focus on being the best dad for your child. All you can do. This business of the ex trying to get back in your life…absolutely not. Do not allow that c~~~ in your house. Do not text on anything other than child related, as few words as possible.
Make sure you keep the layer in the loop. At some point she will see that you are unassailable, un approachable and ungettable, then she may attack. Watch out for the child is “uncomfortable around you”. This is a code word in court meaning, daddy is doing bad touch. Good luck defending against that. Of course the child is not permitted in court, this is a lie created by your ex.
Mid teens is tricky amigo, watch out
Mine has tried that f~~~ing unbeleavable .
Just got news on the weekend mr f~~~wit gave her a black eye .
NFG for her but my kid is there .
My daughter lives far from me to bro .
THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .
Hopefully that daughter of yours falls far from the tree.
A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!
Hang in there sir. Be extra careful, she will up her game soon because the Holiday effect will be taking hold.
Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.
Expat, having kids held hostage sux. I’m there with you brother.
Focus on being the best dad for your child. All you can do. This business of the ex trying to get back in your life…absolutely not. Do not allow that c~~~ in your house. Do not text on anything other than child related, as few words as possible.
Make sure you keep the layer in the loop. At some point she will see that you are unassailable, un approachable and ungettable, then she may attack. Watch out for the child is “uncomfortable around you”. This is a code word in court meaning, daddy is doing bad touch. Good luck defending against that. Of course the child is not permitted in court, this is a lie created by your ex.
Mid teens is tricky amigo, watch out
This is what terrifies me. Due to AWALT, she flies completely off the handle when she doesn’t get what she wants, and has displayed that she WILL use the nuclear (legal) option to enforce her whimsicle desires.
I have remained completely calm (externally) throughout these interactions. I’ll stay the course, but have new challenges I haven’t had to deal with yet.
For instance: She asked if I would fly in for my Daughters Birthday Party. This is during her custody, and far away in another state.
My Daughter would LOVE THIS. BUT…. It puts me in constant physical contact with THE HIVE. My EX wife and her psycho-bitch mother would no doubt try to manipulate me every way possible. They would “insist” I stay at their house, which would in turn cause my Daughter to beg me to stay there.
I see my Daughter only twice a year. It would break my heart for her to beg “Please Daddy, PLEASE stay with us for my Birthday!!!”
I would likely cave to that sweet little girl. Then the hive’s trap would be set.
If I say I won’t fly in for her birthday, I will feel like a horrible Dad.
I can’t stand my EX wife.
Women will always fail, they always miss judge, and even worse for them, never plan for the future. EVER.
Losers are going to lose.
Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.
Anonymous12Let me reverse that.
Goddamned it. This s~~~ just sickens me. I want to be a good Father. The ex wife uses her like a f~~~ing pawn to try and monkey branch back.
Honorable. What a “man” … “should do”…
Right now she’s being raised by those two. It sickens me, to be honest. I try not to think about it most of the time. They are teaching her that “looks mean EVERYTHING” and all you have to do is be “pretty” to be successful.
this prevents you from being a good father.
Your daughter will,
WILLbecome like her mother and grandmother.
Father once cared about: looks
Mother and Gran still care about: looks
End result: daughter cares about looks.
Soon her boyfriends will care about looks
and she might be hired based on her looksHow about you stop wasting your effort? Your Child is already in the hive mind, and there is nothing you can do about it other than
Walk away towards your own sanity.She is gone.
Gone.
Walk away.?
sorry, i’m a childless heartless backstage.So staying amicable with the ex is BY FAR in my best interest.
When my kids turned 18 I never had to see the ex again. Focus on that day. It’s coming. Its pure joy.
If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.
So glad I don’t have kids, that must make it so so much harder to deal with a divorce. Once my divorce is final I will never have any reason whatsoever to deal with my ex again.
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