Every man needs to read this, Every man for himself.

[The man in the mountainParticipant 4102]

First things first, i personally have grown to appreciate and respect the men in this forum, personally you all made me laugh time and time again when i needed to laugh after having a bad day, for that i thank you all brothers from another hole.

To start this i want to say that as much as you would hate to hear it or read it in this case, you are in fact alone, not everyone will understand you, not everyone will be able to relate with your life choices and experience, but that should not devalue you as a man, every single one of you is unique, self taught and capable of bringing great positive change to those that you love and respect or this rotten society (if that’s your choice).

I don’t advocate for anything and i don’t spend my time thinking or speaking with my lips how i think people should “behave” or how they should treat me, i am like a mirror, i treat you the same way you treat me.

Everything that happens around you has a certain impact that cannot be denied, we are not perfect, we all get a little broken up on the inside from time to time, specially when we get overwhelmed by the amount of f~~~ery we get to see or hear about on our everyday.

I want you all to continue to walk that road to happiness, it just so happens that the destination called “happiness” has many roads that lead to it, we shouldn’t sit here and argue what’s the correct one, we should invest our precious time wisely trying to maximize our inner happiness and doing what we love to do.

There’s enough people trying to get you to do things that they call “the right things to do” to get you to do them, but is it kind or is it fair?, is it fair for you when you put so much of your time and energy into things that don’t give back? the simple answer is NO, the complicated answer is that its up to you and what or whom you consider worth of your time and energy.

Don’t let people take advantage of you, practice awareness in every situation, think before you speak, think before you act, society is always waiting and looking to put you in a situation you wish you wouldn’t have gotten yourself into, many people might call you a coward for not acting, well eventually most heroes are forgotten and their graves lay in dust.

Time is precious and don’t let people piggy ride you all the way into the sunset, they will if you let them.

[Anonymous 3]

Good stuff,my anonymous brother.
Thanks!!

[53ClicksUpParticipant 1345]

These are truly wise words. Nobody knows how much time we each will have on this earth. It would be a shame to spend our allotment simply doing what others expect of us. Be yourself, do the things that you enjoy doing, whether you chose to do them alone or with others.

Personally, it took me 2 years to recover mentally from the craziness of being married to a bipolar woman with a severe narcissistic personality disorder. I now relish the peace and quiet of a rainy Saturday or Sunday cleaning my house, doing my laundry, reading my books, listening to my music and walking my dog.

Enjoy and embrace your solitude wherever and whenever you get the opportunity. There is nothing wrong with this. It beats the s~~~ out of living with crazy 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, 52 weeks a year, for decades on end. I mean that is just f~~~ed up and a waste of life.

Tonight, when the roads dry out I will jump on my Harley and go for a cool comfortable and exciting high speed ride to a small brewery on the south side of town for a pale ale. I will then traverse across the county to my favorite Mom and Pop Italian restaurant for a fine meal…. I will likely get all the socialization I require at these two locations, where I will be welcomed by the staff and personally greeted by the owners of each establishment.

Afterwards I will come home, take the dog out, read a little bit and then fall peacefully to sleep in whatever bed or couch in the house I chose. With the thermostat set at whatever temperature I want it. After 20 minutes or so my dog will join me in whatever bed room I am in. We will then both slumber in tranquility with him chasing squirrels and rabbits in his dreams and me dreaming about going sailing around the world or flying up to Canada to do some fishing, or riding my motorcycle across the entire continent.

Life is what you make it…… Make it yours, make it good and make it count! 🙂

[ChristopherParticipant 2478]

Thats good stuff mountain man. +1

Good post 53. +1 . Falling asleep peacefully is worth more than money in the bank imho.

Peace out.

Feminism was funded by bankers/politicians to create more taxpayers. MGTOW IS FREEDOM https://archive.org/details/mgtowisfreedomblurayready

[Anonymous 42]

A soul drained of kindness need not be unkind to themselves.

Take care of yourselves, my brothers, nobody else will, nor do they care, they have their own lives to sort out and have no business sorting out yours!

We are few and far between as numbers go, but by logic and mutual understanding we are closer together than any other human beings, we are the veterans of the gender war waged against men.

We’re brothers in arms on a spiritual level in a war that’s coming to a gruesome end, we are its survivors…

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Yup, is what I always say, we are not buddies, I’m not part of a movement, I don’t know you nor give a s~~~ about you.

I might give or ask for an advice, but it doesn’t mean s~~~.

Watch your back I watch mine, both of them.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

You know how people hate Jews? Well. its cuz they are only looking out for themselves. And when they do? They do great in life.

So where do you want to be?

Be the honorable guy and be a chump the get f~~~ed over by the rest?

Or be the guy that never gets f~~~ed over, and somehow manages to get respect for that from other men?

I’m more like Captain Kirk. I don’t deal with non winning situations.

Yea. People suck. It’s just how it goes.

Life does come back to bite your ass.

Live how you want. It’s your life.

But to not give a s~~~ about your fellow man is no better (FOR ME) than being a woman.

Do what works for you. But I know the law of averages. Most PEOPLE SUCK.

Men with honor or self RESPECT don’t want your money. They don’t want to use you.
Most guys just like to get together, do stuff have a good time.

Still. Would I put my faith in another person? HELL NO.

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

[Space CowboyParticipant 1466]

It’s a sad reality, but reality none the less. The next generations are going to be so f~~~ed up and selfish from social media demands on kids these days. Their awkward years documented and logged, each friend and each ‘like’ a measure of fake success.

This world will grow more lonely as time goes on and we get more ‘connected’ through technology. We are alone, the lucky ones have a few close friends they can count on. I’m mostly alone but my job means I’m away from home a lot. I broke through loneliness to a tranquillity of enjoying my own time and choices in life.

I’ve sat in many resteraunts and hotel rooms alone. The looks of others in resteraunts does not phase me. I have learnt to ignore social judgement for looking scruffy in work wear as well. I’m there to earn money it’s not a fashion show.

"Have you ever thought about any real freedoms? Freedom from the opinions of others...even from the opinions of yourself?"

[Vajra VarahaParticipant 1284]

Anonymous wrote:

A soul drained of kindness need not be unkind to themselves.

Take care of yourselves, my brothers, nobody else will, nor do they care, they have their own lives to sort out and have no business sorting out yours!

We are few and far between as numbers go, but by logic and mutual understanding we are closer together than any other human beings, we are the veterans of the gender war waged against men.

We’re brothers in arms on a spiritual level in a war that’s coming to a gruesome end, we are its survivors…

That was a perfect message. Really hit me right when I needed it. A timely reminder my friend…..thanks.

[AzraelParticipant 502]

Anonymous wrote:

A soul drained of kindness need not be unkind to themselves.
Take care of yourselves, my brothers, nobody else will, nor do they care, they have their own lives to sort out and have no business sorting out yours!
We are few and far between as numbers go, but by logic and mutual understanding we are closer together than any other human beings, we are the veterans of the gender war waged against men.
We’re brothers in arms on a spiritual level in a war that’s coming to a gruesome end, we are its survivors…

Sounds like the perfect day.

Quit looking at my signature, queer-mo.

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