Even if a woman is non-toxic, it doesn't mean she is a NAWALT

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

Ok, the context I am using NAWALT here is this post, has to do with what matters most on a personal level at least to me, and that would be a woman who would be appropriate to have a long-term relationship with, or marry.  There is the feminists NAMALT comeback, which ends up saying, “Sure not all men will kill men, or rape me, but why do I want to risk dealing with any harmful men?”.  What I see is that a personal issue is not being able to find a woman that fits.

Here is the thing, as I see it, even if a woman has her stuff together and isn’t toxic, and is decent: Just because she is that, doesn’t mean she is a fit for me.  She could be fine (assuming this true), but she doesn’t necessarily fit my life.  And I would say, to take a man and woman that don’t fit together, and try to have them be together is something that very likely can take two people and make them toxic, as things snowball.

But, you have society push the need to get married and partner up and talk about compromising and sacrifice and all sorts of making men less than they would be, for the name of a healthy marriage.  And I would say this is a reason why a MGTOW can’t be married, because the idea of MGTOW is your own way is above anything else out there, and the sacrifices for marriage just undermine that too much.  Well, unless a MGTOW did find a NAWALT (a real one), then maybe, but the odds are just too low.

So, anyhow, that is my take here.  Please feel free to comment below.  I just see that finding a non-toxic woman isn’t enough for them to be a NAWALT.

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

[FermatParticipant 3478]

Agreed. Women in general don’t fit my mold. If they are NAWALTS then why can’t we just be friends? A NAWALT as a friend sounds a lot more beneficial to my life than trying to Financially Tie myself to them.

I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

[OldscoundrellParticipant 412]

In the early years with the ex, we had particular arguments(the co-existing kind). My point was that it didn’t make logical sense. Her point was “because thats what people do”.

I wasn’t just arguing with her, I was arguing against SOCIETY!

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

Oldscoundrell wrote:

In the early years with the ex, we had particular arguments(the co-existing kind). My point was that it didn’t make logical sense. Her point was “because thats what people do”. I wasn’t just arguing with her, I was arguing against SOCIETY!

And that is one of the aspects of MGTOW: You don’t need to justify to anyone why you don’t do things that other people do.  You just don’t do it.

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

[Zuberi TauParticipant 10606]

A woman can be as cordial as a stray kitten and still not be a nawalt!

Sorry……

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

The only way I could believe a woman was non toxic was if she were no longer living.

If there is (are??) woman/women running around in some remote corner of the globe, I have yet to meet her.

I have yet to meet or here one guy in my life say,

“I have NEVER had a woman screw me over one way or the other”

[Anonymous 13]

I have met guys that have met a woman that has never screwed them over, they are all old over 70, a few are in their 40s and those met their wife in high school or junior high.

Today – its different.

NAWALT: acronym for ‘not all women are like that.’ Repeated endlessly by women to men in hopes that if men hear it frequently enough, they’ll believe it. The reality is that all women ARE like that (manipulative, abusive, sociopathic, destructive, drama-oriented, liars)

[sidecarParticipant 35874]

The law is the law, and the law is not on your side. Women themselves are irrelevant.

Even if by some miracle you have discovered some perfect NAWALT unicorn, all she has to do is change her mind some day and you’re f~~~ed. Because the law is not on your side.

AWALT = NAWALT + time

IGMOW (I Go My Own Way) wrote:

There is the feminists NAMALT comeback, which ends up saying, “Sure not all men will kill men, or rape me, but why do I want to risk dealing with any harmful men?”.

Which is insane. Seriously. The only thing rarer than actual rapists are NAWALT unicorns.

Fermat wrote:

A NAWALT as a friend sounds a lot more beneficial to my life than trying to Financially Tie myself to them.

A true NAWALT wouldn’t want you to get financially tied to her in the first place. The very fact that she wants to tie you down proves she’s no Unicorn.

AWALT

[Mango IngawayParticipant 2264]

To be honest, some women may seem like NAWALT’s, but the second something doesn’t really go their way, it’s like some demon takes possession of them.
Reminds me of little girls who act all sweet, but throw a tantrum the second daddy refuses to buy them a new doll.

It is a common failing of childhood to think that if one makes a hero out of a demon the demon will be satisfied.

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