Escalating Porn Use – Is Porn Addictive?

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  • #426079
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    Eric Lauder
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    The “escalation” is a fake invented by feminists who want to ban porn.
    Feminists want to ban porn because if it’s used in a right way then it’s very empowering for men: it’s a stimulous to jerk off, and after you jerked then women have less to zero power over you.

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    #426081
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    I’ve had better wanks than shags.

    #426098
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    Uchibenkei
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    I haven’t started watching harder and weirder stuff. Maybe it’s true for some men and women but not the majority. I don’t like to watch the same video a million times but that just means new faces and new t~~~ to look at.

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    #426114
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    Anonymous
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    The “escalation” is a fake invented by feminists who want to ban porn.

    I am not a feminist, I do not want to ban porn, and I have seen that escalation in first person. I’ve seen thousands and thousands of guys going through the same s~~~. And do you know how you find that escalation is real? by doing nofap, after months, if you watch the same weird stuff it makes you laugh, that means that using that s~~~ to masturbate was due to the heavy usage. Meaning watching porn each single day, at one point u get bored of the same scenes.

    If you do not believe the escalation watch the porn trends, isn’t that strange that some of the weirdest s~~~ started from a few people years ago is growing at a high rate?

    One of the weirdest s~~~ I have seen(and not fapped to) is porn based on my little pony, check it if you do not believe me. There are people so f~~~ed up(and I am not speaking of teens, but people with more than 20 and 30 years), that they will look at cartoon ponies having sex and jerk off(???????????).

    The same stuff that you laugh of, is being used to masturbate, do you think that those people went from NO PORN to my little pony porn in a single day? or do you think that those people were already using porn, and in great amounts?

    Admit that you explored porn yourself, maybe not my little pony, but you can go from amateur to professionals, to gang bangs, to roleplay etc etc etc, porn never ends, and the more you dig into it, the more weird stuff you will watch.

    If you are not escalating to anything weird, that means that you are not an heavy user.

    #426142
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    DarkRyu
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    If you are not escalating to anything weird, that means that you are not an heavy user.

    Sorry but I’m going to have to disagree. My porn use has fluctuated over the years. When I first started it was maybe an hour a day, but within a year I was looking at it from anywhere between an hour to up to TEN hours a day depending on my schedule.

    Part of it was being 8 years old and having nothing else to do, the other part of it was there was such a variety of furry porn that it took me that long just to explore all the options in species, positions, etc. But you also have to understand that I was reading a LOT of erotica, and reading takes a lot longer than looking at pictures/videos. And I was busting a nut maybe 5-8 times a day.

    But once the novelty wore off, I was down to busting a load about once a day and it’s been like that ever since. I’ve looked at some extreme s~~~ out of morbid curiosity and I’ve never liked it. It grossed me the f~~~ out and I can’t imagine that ever changing.

    I was a HEAVY, HEAVY, HEAVY porn user for about a year but it never escalated to weird/creepy s~~~. I’m still into the same s~~~ I was when I was 8. Now I just read something hot once a day (usually at night right before bed), bust a load, then sleep like a baby.

    If I had the time would I read/look at furry porn for many hours a day? No, because the novelty has worn off and once I bust my load I’m good. I’m no longer curious or eager to read the next story, or look at the next picture unless my b~~~~ are full and need to be emptied. Now that being said, I do read some SFW stories because there are some really good furry authors, but I categorize that under recreational reading rather than porn because there’s no sex in these stories.

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    Anonymous
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    If I had the time would I read/look at furry porn for many hours a day? No, because the novelty has worn off and once I bust my load I’m good. I’m no longer curious or eager to read the next story, or look at the next picture unless my b~~~~ are full and need to be emptied. Now that being said, I do read some SFW stories because there are some really good furry authors, but I categorize that under recreational reading rather than porn because there’s no sex in these stories.

    It is the pleasure before ejaculation that lead you to watch/read. Do you really think that all that furry is not weird? I mean, that is far far away from anything that you can find in real life.

    As for your b~~~~ being full, it does not take a single day for that, for some it takes months.

    #426182
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    It seems that some people experience the need for escalation, and some don’t (including me). I hardly think one can make a universal principle out of something which is influenced by so many potential factors.

    Women are better at multitasking? Fucking up several things at once is not multitasking.

    #426215
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    Anonymous
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    It seems that some people experience the need for escalation, and some don’t (including me). I hardly think one can make a universal principle out of something which is influenced by so many potential factors.

    You got a point here.

    #426220
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    Sidecar
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    The real reason it is so frown upon is because it gives women rather difficult standards to live up to.

    As if shutting the f~~~ up on occasion is all that difficult a standard to live up to. That’s the only advantage I personally see in pornography: the off button.

    However there’s an even greater reason why porn is frowned upon.

    There is a strong correlation between the availability of pornography and the decreasing value placed upon long term monogamous relationships (marriage) and procreation (baby jail), which are the two main ways society traps men into being used up as good little surplus producers.

    The mechanism behind this is irrelevant (though trivial to guess, and guess wrong – see below). What matters is marriage is down when porn is up (and, more importantly, porn is up when marriage is down).

    More porn always indicates less men are enslaving themselves to serving the needs of women.

    Regardless of whatever ridiculous rationalizations they give, THAT is the real reason why society and feminism and tradcons and so on are dead set against pornography.

    They believe that by limiting access to pornography (also prostitution, sex dolls, etc.) they can force men back onto the plantation.

    Personally I don’t think it will work. Correlation does not mean causation, and I think society and tradcons and feminism and so on have the causality exactly backwards.

    The worse they make marriage for men, the greater the demand they engender in men for pornography (and other alternate options for sexual release). And wherever there is an increased demand, a market will grow to supply it.

    In other words, restricting access to porn will NOT increase the rate of marriage. It will only increase the number of increasingly frustrated and disaffected men. But eliminating the risks to men in marriage will decrease the demand, and therefore supply, of pornography.

    Of course admitting that means also admitting that men are not the problem here, and that is something society (and feminists and tradcons) will NEVER do.

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    Surfdude12
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    1. Did anyone get hurt?
    2. If answer to question #1 is No, proceed.

    #426226
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    Sidecar
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    1. Did anyone get hurt?
    2. If answer to question #1 is No, proceed.

    Women consider refusing to give them all your s~~~ to be hurting them.

    It isn’t, but they believe it nonetheless.

    #426234
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    DarkRyu
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    It is the pleasure before ejaculation that lead you to watch/read.

    No, not really. The only thing I care about is emptying my b~~~~, and the sooner I can do that, the sooner I can get back to more important things.

    Do you really think that all that furry is not weird? I mean, that is far far away from anything that you can find in real life.

    Yeah, that’s the whole point. Because real life women SUCK! I wouldn’t have sex with a real woman for free. Fantasy porn is cleaner, hotter, and on demand. Let me tell you this – men can make better things out of their imaginations than what actually exists here on this planet. I don’t give a s~~~ if it’s not real. I just want to get off! And the best thing is, I’m not even remotely attracted to human women anymore. I’m about as attracted to a 18 year old hottie as I am to your avatar (not at all).

    #426507
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    Michael
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    Porn is only addictive when you’re not getting any pussy …

    #426522
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    Rafe GB
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    I don’t think porn is addictive.
    For instance, I never fap to the same porn twice!

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    #426532

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    Yeah, that’s the whole point. Because real life women SUCK! I wouldn’t have sex with a real woman for free. Fantasy porn is cleaner, hotter, and on demand. Let me tell you this – men can make better things out of their imaginations than what actually exists here on this planet. I don’t give a s~~~ if it’s not real. I just want to get off! And the best thing is, I’m not even remotely attracted to human women anymore. I’m about as attracted to a 18 year old hottie as I am to your avatar (not at all).

    Until they invent a Matrix simulation where women can love a man unconditionally, you are bounded to this world mate. There are many ways to escape reality, and the most common are drugs. I do think that videogaming, porn, TV and anything else is so mainstream because it is exactly what it offers, an escape from reality. I do not know about you, but I got tired of escaping and now I face reality and I just don’t give a f~~~ about women.

    Still playing videogames tho, lol.

    #426583
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    Shine
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    Porn is only addictive when you’re not getting any pussy …

    False, I’ve had FWB that are OK looking for late 30s, vanilla and plain in bed, and I was glad to fap / go back to fapping, more satisfying and the FWB flipped out anyway.

    The power of the pussy wasn’t enough, chemistry was lacking.

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    #431854
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    Michael
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    Porn is only addictive when you’re not getting any pussy …

    False, I’ve had FWB that are OK looking for late 30s, vanilla and plain in bed, and I was glad to fap / go back to fapping, more satisfying and the FWB flipped out anyway.

    The power of the pussy wasn’t enough, chemistry was lacking.

    Glad I don’t think that. Real sex is better than porn any day of the week. Even if chemistry is lacking. Porn sucks. I don’t like porn. I hate it porn. It’s not real. I hate being “forced” to use it simply because I was born in the wrong era and don’t have a wife.

    Porn is just a cheap substitute for the real thing. Unless of course, the real thing is middle aged and overweight. Ha ha ha.

    #431910
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    Anonymous
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    Because real life women SUCK!

    They do 😉

    I wouldn’t have sex with a real woman for free. Fantasy porn is cleaner, hotter, and on demand. Let me tell you this – men can make better things out of their imaginations than what actually exists here on this planet.

    Now here is the problem.
    Let us say we buy a game like Call of Duty, and we use it to play chess. What is the problem? The problem is that you are wasting the game, you gave neither a good chess game, neither a action game.

    There is to many valuable things to do in this world. At my late 40’s I am starting to take motorcycle lessons. I already have a flying licence, and I graduated black belt. I do a bunch of activities I love.

    But I do understand where you are coming from. When I was young I was very reserved and did nothing. I would dream and fantasize about other things, and be very frustrated that they where not real.

    Unfortunately my fantasies where very vivid, and I could have them like a movie or something. So I could experience what I wanted to the point of banalization. It got frustrating, and I asked myself the critical question:

    “Is there anything that I would not grow tired of?”

    In time I realised the answer was no.

    That, my friend, is depressing. I would warrant the people kill themselves with these experiences.

    However I noticed something, that I was usually happy. Isn’t this contradictory?

    To make a long story short. I found out that it is day-dreaming or fantasizing that is problematic.
    If you look at a hot woman, and you only see a hot woman, then there is no problem.
    But we start thinking how it would be to have sex with her, to have her, and THAT is a problem. Our imagination will never include the ugly, hurtful or unpleasant. To a point it is TO PERFECT.
    Then we make the mistake of thinking that SHE IS PERFECT, when she is AWALT.

    You gave the next step. You realised that fantasy is more perfect than reality. The problem is that this idea is false, it is the builder selling his own creation to himself. Its empty and circular.

    My advise: experience, live, touch, smell, run, get hurt, get tired, get frustrated.

    Who wants perfection? Without the ugly how do you know the beautiful?

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    #432254
    Rennie
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    Maybe it was a bit of an addiction when it was a novelty to me, many, many years ago. But I never had more than 500 pictures in the porn collection when it did exist. It has been gone for years now and I don’t find myself missing it. Never got into the hardcore stuff either, was always quite repulsed by it and still am.

    It was all free and I can say with pride that I have never paid for porn once in my life. Not interested in financially supporting that filthy business.

    Bronies are perverted horse f~~~ers that like the my little pony show. They constantly shove it in your face and their porn is super messed up. I have my little pony images blocked on the major furry sites that I frequent, but some of it still gets through. I wouldn’t be surprised if bronies wanted to f~~~ little girls and are just into the show to attract victims. They’re annoying as F~~~ and think that the furry community is a great match for them. Sorry bronies, but the furry community is NOT for PEDOPHILES and HORSE F~~~ERS!

    Yeah bronies are a nuisance, don’t dare criticize their show, or they’ll go nuclear on you. But you do have to wonder what the appeal of a show for 8 year old girls is to a grown man. Seems like something that would appeal to pedos looking for a snack.

    OK now that you mention cartoons, I saw my first “hentai” porn a long time ago and I definitely got wood from a cartoon. Bugs Bunny didn’t have that effect on me…. even when he was in drag.

    Used to use non nude anime character pics for fapping in the days before I was a teenager. But then I got interested in real girls and the means to get the pics of the girls you fancied at school became available(digital yearbook) and porno. Never could go back to cartoons after that.

    #432260
    Thanasi
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    Like another poster said, sex is infinitely better than porn. Personally, I just get off on memories of my wife, it’s usually more difficult to have fantasies about previous women, that may be because being with my wife wiped those memories.

    As a teenager back in the 80s, watching Sabrina dance in the pool in that music clip got me off pretty badly. Ah, those were the days when I never saw a live naked woman. I was SO F~~~ING HORNY but didn’t want to touch any of the girls at high school, even when they tried to launch themselves at me. Once I found the right woman, that changed everything. When I finally tasted the real thing, then I realised how much those guys in school had it wrong.

    Nowadays I would watch some porn every now and then featuring some honey-skinned latina. The skin colour of white women put me off. I’m white. The Playboy magazines I had in the 80s are now lame. Too much airbrushing – no good to fap over.

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