Erasing Memories…

[AutoliteParticipant]

https://www.sciencealert.com/scientists-have-figured-out-how-to-to-erase-your-painful-memories

If it were possible to have your memories erased, would you do it?

When I think back on my life, I have a hard time recalling any genuinely good memories. Even memories of what should have been ‘the good times’ have since been tarnished when you realize what the people in those memories are really all about and who they really were. It’s the same for me whether it’s memories of friends or family.

Are you divorced guys able to retain any good memories from your married life? I haven’t been able to keep any good memories from any of my previous relationshhits. I am wondering if this normal or is it perhaps just me…

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

Autolite wrote:

Even memories of what should have been ‘the good times’ have since been tarnished when you realize what the people in those memories are really all about and who they really were. It’s the same for me whether it’s memories of friends or family.

I hear ya there…Eventually, MOST showed their true colors…

Autolite wrote:

Are you divorced guys able to retain any good memories from your married life? I haven’t been able to keep any good memories from any of my previous relationshhits. I am wondering if this normal or is it perhaps just me…

I did have “good times” with the wife for a number of years before and after marriage, but now knowing female nature for what it is I can’t help to also realize how much of the “good times” were all part of her entrapment and enslavement.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[AutoliteParticipant]

Awakened wrote:

I did have “good times” with the wife for a number of years before and after marriage, but now knowing female nature for what it is I can’t help to also realize how much of the “good times” were all part of her entrapment and enslavement.

This is what I’m getting at. I’ve found (at least in my case) that those ‘good memories’ have now turned into bad memories. I can’t seem to get past that and I am curious to know if many others feel the same. Those good times now seem ‘fake’ once you realize how others really felt about you…

[SpiderHerderParticipant 3759]

Agreed.

But the good times I’ve had by myself, for myself, remain good, untainted by betrayal.

That’s what remains.

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22521]

I am slowly coming around to the idea of the possible use for re-education centers for the most destructive parts of society, such as SJWs, feminists, and anti-U.S. academics.

It could be debated that it would be better if feminists had the traumatic memories removed that they use as excuse to be bitches.

[Branched offParticipant 10928]

I am very sad to hear you feel your good memories have been poisoned by bad outcomes Autolite.

I think this is a problem with how humans see reality. You are not alone in this I know. Even Shakespeare’s “all is well that ends well” points to the fact that the ending is the bit we all look out for. For example did a disgraced politician or a business man whose once great company fell from grace and went bust have successful lives? We tend to say not but they probably got to do a lot of really cool stuff and make quite a lot of difference to people’s lives. We just look at the ending and read back from there.

The problem does exist and there are memories I have of women I have loved that I cannot enjoy, even though I enjoyed the times of because of how the love stories ended, so I do understand what you mean. However I think we do need to fight to see the good in our lives or else we are doing ourselves a considerable disservice. Personally I would never erase a memory but I can understand the wish and I hope its not a feeling that lasts for you.

A woman is like fire -fun to play with, can warm you through and cook your food, needs constant feeding, can burn you and consume all you own

[AutoliteParticipant]

Branched off wrote:

However I think we do need to fight to see the good in our lives or else we are doing ourselves a considerable disservice.

I get the impression that you’re saying that must try to ‘kid ourselves’ as a coping mechanism. Which I suspect is exactly what most of us do anyway…

[ChristopherParticipant 2478]

I posted a reply but it didnt appear so ill try again
I can definitely relate Autolite – I had many bad memories in life too – keep on trucking – Branched off and other replies are heartening – winter doesnt last forever spring always follows. A friend told me that when a year ago i thought this life was over for me

I had got over the bad memories but then bad health a year ago seemed to bring more bad memories back as i wasnt getting on with life the way i wanted – now gradually making changes and plans again – small steps – ive experienced real peace and contentment for a few years as mgtow before so i know its possible

Epigenetics is interesting – good nutrition, gut healing the microbiome, good lifestyle and intentions can switch on or off genes and literally reshape our lives, bodies, brains ..Never give up hope even when things are seem like hell – rebuilding and a sort of rebirth can happen given the good steps – small steps – gradual change.. peace

Feminism was funded by bankers/politicians to create more taxpayers. MGTOW IS FREEDOM https://archive.org/details/mgtowisfreedomblurayready

[MonkParticipant 16985]

Faust For Science wrote:

I am slowly coming around to the idea of the possible use for re-education centers for the most destructive parts of society, such as SJWs, feminists, and anti-U.S. academics.

Only Dr Mossberg can deprogram these people.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22510]

we are mgtow by our experiences. remove them and you’re just a beta cuck gynoplantation slave again.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

You guys are not thinking. Or not being open about it. This is the stuff I have been tracking for a while. This was apart of the CIA operation that explored how you could tamper with the brain. In fact, this feedback is what is needed in order to keep Modern day advertisements going.

Think about the sent of Plastic or how a car smells. THat’s no accident. Your nose is a line to the a very powerful part of the brain. Even more so, its one of the reasons why people can’t stop doing drugs like MDMA and others.

This will be the new market going forward of women and even men trying to forget their past abortions and actions. In fact, this has been talked about since even as way back as the 1800’s.

My History teacher actually did a lecture of the perfect abortion. The perfect abortion would be close to what you would have seen in the Eternal Sunshine of the spotless mind.

THe sad truth is, If you could forget the pain. WOuld you?

Most people would.

I’m looking to do something much more interesting.

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

[bladeParticipant]

I live in constant pain from my memories . Humor helps . Had good times too . At the end of the day i am thankful for the pain i have sufferd for it has made me who i am today .

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[GrumpyParticipant]

Good, bad, ugly, or painful.
Erasing my memories for any reason is a definite NO for me. Period
My experiences, and my memories of all those experiences made me who I am today. I suspect that is the same with most of humanity.
IMHO
For each and every “bad memory” I “erase” that also means the experience I gained will be lost as well.
As everything has an equal and opposite action/reaction I suspect I would also lose a good memory and the experience as well, should I opt out for “erasure”.
Why would I trade the experience of wonder as a child, of the first time I looked up and saw those big white fluffy clouds and made fun shapes of them with my imagination, because I had a s~~~ty relationship or another bad experience later in life?
I suppose, perhaps I just didn’t have so many “bad memories” that outweigh or outnumber the good after all.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[Branched offParticipant 10928]

Autolite wrote:

Branched off wrote:

However I think we do need to fight to see the good in our lives or else we are doing ourselves a considerable disservice.

I get the impression that you’re saying that must try to ‘kid ourselves’ as a coping mechanism. Which I suspect is exactly what most of us do anyway…

I wasn’t meaning that we should trick ourselves, I was saying that the human tendency to judge everything only by its end result leads to us tricking ourselves that many things have been wasted or were worthless. I was saying that we need to fight to overcome this incorrect bias.

So my example of the entrepreneur who started a company that employed people and did good things for customers but who lost it all again a few years later is an example of where we might say he was a failure but actually he did a lot of good and probably had a lot of good relationships and good times until it failed. That man may judge himself a failure but actually he was a success. He did so much more than had he not bothered but he may feel worse about it (particularly when he remembers the failure and having to let customers and employees down at the end) than a bum who did a bit of odd jobbing and took a bit of state aid and never tried or failed.

A woman is like fire -fun to play with, can warm you through and cook your food, needs constant feeding, can burn you and consume all you own

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