Ending power of the pussy?

[slowjoParticipant 15]

A recent topic under MGTOW Central was lack of intimacy and what to do. This question is for all the married men out there. How do you put a end to the power of the pussy game with your wife? A simple answer would be to leave her or find a FB but I am a man of my word so that is not a option.

[EntropyParticipant 902]

slowjo wrote:

but I am a man of my word so that is not a option.

Therein lies your problem. She sure as f~~~ isn’t a “woman of her word” or you wouldn’t feel this way, right?

The worst part (for me) was realizing that intimacy you are craving doesn’t even exist. You may think it does in the beginning, but it’s a f~~~ing lie every time (she wants your resources, while you want her companionship).

How to play the power game? Indifference.

(Hate is not the opposite of love, indifference is)

"Compare your lives to mine and then kill yourselves" -BBR

[Soldier-MedicParticipant 2566]

Entropy wrote:

The worst part (for me) was realizing that intimacy you are craving doesn’t even exist. You may think it does in the beginning, but it’s a f~~~ing lie every time (she wants your resources, while you want her companionship).

Exactly correct.

What marriage is supposed to be is a social contract in which two people promise, and keep the promise of loving, honoring, and respecting the other party.  At least that is what all of the literature, propaganda, and media tells us it’s supposed to be.

What it has always been is a binding legal contract in which a woman exercises her social worth (babies), and the man gets to work his ass off in order to support his wife and child(ren).  Love and intimacy are discussed on daytime talk shows, and rarely if ever, demonstrated.  Or rarely demonstrated after you “put a ring on it”.

To be honest, it sounds like you are already divorced.

Is it cheating if you find another job if your current employer stops paying you yet demands you continue to work for him?

Is it cheating to satisfy your needs with someone else if in your current relationship, your current partner isn’t meeting your needs?

Right or wrong doesn’t have anything to do with it.  We are talking about human nature and human needs.  We are also talking about breach of contract.

Great!  You’re a man of your word.  What is she?

"I asked you a question. I didn't ask you to repeat what the voices in you head are telling you" ~ Me. ........Yes I'm still angry.

[StandUpGuyParticipant 334]

slowjo wrote:

I am a man of my word so that is not a option

What a load of crap; sorry to be offensive but if you are really a man of your word then you would have to hold her accountable to the word she gave you; and stand up for yourself and your needs.

She is neglecting her duty and commitments. When she does not keep her word then there is nothing to keep. It really is that simple.

Marriage is a contract. So to make it clear: One party does not hold up to their part; and the other party still has to hold up to it is morally wrong. Get that strait.

My advice is to swallow a two red pills to wash down the blue one you just took.

Also it does not hurt to shame her. That is right shame without shame. Take all of her arguments of why she can not be a good wife and trow them back in her face; let her know what kind of POS does behaves the way she does.

[slowjoParticipant 15]

Before we got married we both agreed on two things. One she said a marriage last forever. Two I said I am not going to beg for sex. And as you stated she has not lived up to her word. I told he four days ago that I wanted sex and still nothing. I bring it up everyday ever since. Her answers is she doesn’t want to fight about it, and still nothing. Since she has the power of the pussy I’m torn between giving up on sex and concentrating on other things or find a way even the odds between us.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Please don’t take offence at what I’m about to say. I say it with tuff love ☺

Who is the idiot? Her or you?

Take your time with the answer. I can wait ?

[StandUpGuyParticipant 334]

I really have some sharp things to write; because I am tired of this BS augment I get from blue-pill men; so I will be as nice as I can.

I have one simple rule in a relationship. Put-out-or-get-out, it works both ways and more that just sex.

To have you come on this forum like we are some kind of emotional tampon for your woes blows me over. Again I do not write this with meanness; I am hoping to give you the strength to see that you matter; your needs matter; and she is taking your for a hurtful ride. She is hurting you and using your good points to do it. Stand up for yourself without apology.

[WillGoveParticipant 8]

Agree with all the comments. Standing by your word (which “was” my way – now long gone) is a fallacy. The bitches use their “perceived” power over us. Don’t give away your power by begging for sex. Walk away, SHOW her it doesn’t matter, throw it back in her face. If she doesn’t value you, why are you valuing her? Doesn’t make sense. There should be no power play for anything in a relationship. That is bulls~~~, plain and simple. For those of us who used to care about this stuff, we have learned our lesson. Now it’s time for you to learn your lesson. 50-50 or 0-0. Get out intact, make sure all your assets are protected. Don’t get manipulated by the bulls~~~ power they think they have.

[FermatParticipant 3478]

Marriages do not last forever. The contract itself lasts forever but the actions that support the contract certainly don’t.  She is aware of that.  You are not. You mentally associate the longevity of your contract with the execution of the acts that support the contract. They are two different things.  When women say they want a marriage to last forever it means they want the contract to last forever but certainly don’t plan on making you happy forever.  Understand the difference.

I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

[OldscoundrellParticipant 412]

The ability to do without is power. *quote by someone smarter than me.

Its a losing game. The only way to balance the beam is withhold your contributions to her, which will create resentment, which is like pen on paper…ot doesn’t erase.

Be sure and park your empathy for her somewhere out of reach and lose the keys. Because she has already done the same, if she ever had any to begin with.

[Deus Ex MachinaParticipant 1068]

Females will always treat sex like a “Reward”

 

It’s always come down to

 

“taking out the trash”

 

“Help clean up”

 

“taking the kids away for a day so mommy can have me time”

 

“i have a headache”

 

“I’m feeling tired today”

 

 

That’s absolute and utter BULLS~~~. Females use sex to their advantage to either manipulate, get money, reward, and or throw around like some treat to a f~~~ing dog. My Ex Wife did that crap towards the end of our marriage. I hated it, and looking back it’s wrong and it will always be wrong when Women use sex in that kind of way.

 

They also fail to realize that half the Men have to take s~~~ from their boss, their co-workers, young dumb ass kids who want to screw them over to take their position, then come home to a wife who either doesn’t cook, doesn’t clean, and doesn’t even f~~~.

 

Your Wife knows the need you have, and the urge, and you know something Bud?, she gets off on that s~~~.  Females love when Men grovel, beg, and ask for sex repeatedly. They get their jollies off on that s~~~(I’m not f~~~ing kidding, they do). I saw it with my Ex wife, and how i would have to clean the house, do the dishes and pretty much buy her a new car in order to have sex. I didn’t see it at the time, however years later and careful observation and reading material(the manipulated man) made me come to the conclusion, that Pussy is used to “gain” something not to give.

 

The worst part (for me) was realizing that intimacy you are craving doesn’t even exist. You may think it does in the beginning, but it’s a f~~~ing lie every time (she wants your resources, while you want her companionship).

 

F~~~ING A !!!, too true beyond belief.

 

The love I had looked for, either in a long term relationship, or my marriage that ended never truly lived up my expectation.  We all want the Fantasy of love, and companionship, and respect, and yes the mind blowing sex we think will come after the “I Do” are said. Truthfully speaking, it’s a damn lie that doesn’t exist. Females now are too selfish, too manipulative and too evil to even procreate with. They have this entitlement attitude from the time they’re little brats, all the way in their 50s when the pussy is all dried up and the looks have been long gone.

 

Point is, make yourself happy. If this wife of yours doesn’t want to give that ass up, LEAVE HER. It ain’t worth arguing over something an Escort will do at the drop of a hat. Harsh, but true.

 

Best of luck.

 

 

 

 

"If You have the Tooth of a Whale, You must have the Whale's Jaw to hold it". (i.e. One Must have the right qualifications for leadership) -Hawaiian Proverb

[StandUpGuyParticipant 334]

Deus Ex Machina wrote:

Point is, make yourself happy. If this wife of yours doesn’t want to give that ass up, LEAVE HER. It ain’t worth arguing over something an Escort will do at the drop of a hat. Harsh, but true.

True, True , True.

[slowjoParticipant 15]

So finally after five days of no sex or any explanation on her part I cornered her her and told her like it was, her neglecting my needs is B.S. and I’m not putting up with it anymore. I said you haven’t lived up to your end of the marriage agreement and I’m done. Of course she had the usual excuses she has said in the past and I still called her out on it. I told her I’m not going to live like this anymore and if she didn’t like it to pack her s~~~ and leave. Then comes her threat, if I do I’m taking the girls with me! So I said if you take them your taking all their s~~~ with you. At that point she didn’t know what to say. I told her I will no longer be her workhorse and expect there to be no more money put into our bank account. I do have a separate checking account that she has no access to. She said that she has never used sex to get what she wants or to use it as a weapon, and that she is sorry for having such a low sexdrive. I said that when I want sex that means I want sex and if she doesn’t want to then get out.

[Sessna12Participant 119]

slowjo wrote:

A recent topic under MGTOW Central was lack of intimacy and what to do. This question is for all the married men out there. How do you put a end to the power of the pussy game with your wife? A simple answer would be to leave her or find a FB but I am a man of my word so that is not a option.

 

simple…..are you right handed or left?

Sebastian

"We can no more stop him from marrying than we can stop him from making a well researched decision to poke his eyes out with a stick."
-Sidecar

[KeymasterKeymaster]

@slowjo…. This was recorded just for you:

“AN OPEN LETTER TO MY WIFE” from a guy who told her if he’s not dumping it at home… he’s gonna dump it someplace else.
Make her understand that, and all her power is GONE.

/audio/women-who-use-sex-as-a-bargaining-tool/

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[slowjoParticipant 15]

Amen! During our argument last week I told her the same thing. Put out or get out I am done playing your game. Needless to say she put out for three days straight before her period which usually lasts two weeks. We did it twice on the first day.

[Anonymous 9]

That’s what I hate about being in relationships.

It’s like at times you’re begging for sex, and that s~~~ is not cool. I don’t like feeling helpless, especially over something like that.

Being single gives me a clear mind.

[The_reality_factorParticipant 211]

Welcome to 90% of all retarded marriages, and why I divorced and have been “single” for 6 years…….thank Jesus! LOL

To beg, play games, manipulate and argue for sex…..it’s just plain unmanly and degrading!

Chivalry and keeping one’s word to a women = MANIPULATED!

 

 

 

[BubParticipant 1404]

@ Op said – Amen! During our argument last week I told her the same thing. Put out or get out I am done playing your game. Needless to say she put out for three days straight before her period which usually lasts two weeks. We did it twice on the first day.

You should be getting BJ’s for 2 weeks now!

Just rolling down the road

[ApplejackSpectator 235]

LOL. I freaking love it when this happens. The f~~~ing whore realized that she isn’t getting a free ride anymore, so she begrudgingly decided to pay for her keep and let you f~~~ her. Whores try to manipulate us by making us think we’re in love with them. Then they don’t have to put out and do the only thing they’re f~~~ing good for. It’s a free ride to awesomeness in their eyes.

If women truly were strong minded and independent, they’d tell you to f~~~ off and leave you on the spot. That’s what I would do if I were your wife and you said that s~~~ to me. But then again, I’m a MAN and I actually have a brain. I’d never whore myself out to anyone for any amount of money. But women have no shame. It’s all a big f~~~ing game to them. They know they’re whores, but they don’t want to admit it.

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