Emotions vs Reality

[oruixo13Participant 23]

2 weeks ago I became a MGTOW. I broke up with my ex GF and moved out. During this 2 weeks I have been thinking about stuff.

Pros of being MGTOW:

– I decide how to spend my time
– I decide how to spend my attention
– I decide what to do with my money
– No more emotional hijacking (If you dont do what I want I will leave you)
– No more sexual hijacking (If you dont do what I want I wont have sex with you)
– I get to decide what to do with my life

Sometimes I get sad. Then I think I have to create my purpose. My exGF gave me purpose, but not the one I wanted.

I will update this with my thoughts later.

I know it is disorganized. Sorry about that brothers

[RoyDalParticipant]

oruixo13 wrote:

Pros of being MGTOW:

– I decide how to spend my time
– I decide how to spend my attention
– I decide what to do with my money
– No more emotional hijacking (If you dont do what I want I will leave you)
– No more sexual hijacking (If you dont do what I want I wont have sex with you)
– I get to decide what to do with my life

Yep!

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[OldscoundrellParticipant 412]

Being in a relations~~~ is a lot like being in a small boat with big waves, you get used to the riding the emotional roller coaster. So once you get back to solid ground, your legs keep anticipating those waves, and throwing you off balance.

It will wear off soon enough, just keep those thoughts of ups and downs in check and kiss the ground because LAND HO!!

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

oruixo13 wrote:

2 weeks ago I became a MGTOW. I broke up with my ex GF and moved out. During this 2 weeks I have been thinking about stuff.

Welcome to the path. You will still have emotional ties to your ex GF for a while. It will get easier. It is like getting out of jail – (vagina jail is real) Enjoy the peace and sweet freedom.

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

Consider this: you know yourself better than anyone. Make a list of everything you want out of life. I often look at my list 3 times a week.

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[Deus Ex MachinaParticipant 1068]

Stay strong brother!

"If You have the Tooth of a Whale, You must have the Whale's Jaw to hold it". (i.e. One Must have the right qualifications for leadership) -Hawaiian Proverb

[Dark KenshiParticipant 2132]

Same here… It took me a long time before I finally have no regard at all at my ex.

But it wears off, brother. As like any addiction, the less you consume it, the less power it have over you.

That will pass, in a month or more… It will be you who will dictate how long it will take for you to get rid of the pussy addiction, but it is YOU who are holding your own “leash”.

When the “high” wears off, you will feel the greates peace you’ve ever felt in your entire life. No drama, no bulls~~~, only you, your objectives, your mind, and your way.

MGTOW is amazing as this. No wonder monks more than often refuses women. It brings a clarity that you will regret not having before.

Hope it helps.

"Young was I once, I walked alone, and bewildered seemed in the way; then I found me another and rich I thought me, for man is the joy of man." Odin, Hàvamàl, stanza 47.

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