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As I think about the battle of C-slut vs. Man it occurs to me that one of the hardest habits to break as a human (and man) is emotional attachment. My Buddhist teachers once said you shouldn’t become emotionally attached to anyone or anything (yes show loving kindness to all), but human love ❤️ and hate are our downfall.
This makes sense. The challenge with women (and life) is we face these attachments (with women for example), and then we get pulled off our path into their female gravitational field and eventually are destroyed by their tractor beams. Over attachment to people may lead to getting stuck with them in the ghost world just like a bad marriage.
Some men can have sex easily without attachments (I’m working on it). Like father Popp says (hit it, quit it and leave it on the lot).
The support of men here for other men is more like loving kindness (or bro kindness).
I’m meditating more and trying to work on letting go. Women are dangerous because for every alpha man who thinks he can handle the hardened heart of a women there’s another who’ll get eaten alive and his dead bones spat out. The majority of the pain from a breakup is: emotional and the loss of sex (plus getting divorce f~~~ed for the married guys). I know guys who’d love to be free, but they can’t afford a divorce as they would be in a homeless shelter under threat of inprisonment for not paying child support. I guess knowing that the women suffer even more then us as lovely old cat ? ladies while we’re still viable is some solace. I can tell you tinder will create a lot of lonely old women (they can’t handle solitude the way we can – in the end we don’t need a women but women are emotionally destitute without a man)
Like popp says we all die alone, some with help from our dieties or god. Emotional independence is the first step to a good death.
I completely agree. Best form of freedom is no emotional attachment whatsoever. Why should you?? Most women in the US have as much compassion as a culture circling overhead waiting on a wounded animal.
If it costs you your peace of mind, then it is too expensive.
human love ❤️ and hate are our downfall.
Love and hate keep us focused on the WRONG people. Our energies are wasted. We should focus our energies on our selves, and how we can enrich/enjoy our own lives.
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Why would you get emotionally attached to women who don’t even view you as a human being? To them, you’re just a tool to be used up and thrown away. Why would you feel anything at all toward women? Indifference is key. Not even worth a second thought.
Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.
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