emergency red pill needed

[MotivParticipant 441]

Hey guys
Still co living until I find my own place
family holiday/break booked for next week
holiday was pre booked last year
red pilled my life around 10 months ago
Told her I do not and will not spend a week away with her, so im not going
the house to myself to get my plans moving is my holiday
She says thats fine but plays the guilt of messing my child’s holiday up if I dont at least take them
Heres the thing do I still drive her and my 3 year old the 6 hour drive so they can go or leave her stuck?

Some red pill advice is really needed here chaps but do remember my kid will lose out too if I say “Go c~~~ jockey a lift” because thats what I would say if I didnt have a child with her

Cool story babe now go make me a sandwich

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

I say your child, and your childs perception of you, is of the upmost importance. Of course the ex can skew your perception to your kid later, but what your child will DISTINCTLY remember is the times you were there.

Your child, your flesh and blood is involved. Do everything within your power to ensure you were there for him or her.

If the ex is a bad person or influence just be sure to not let your guard down for her to influence you on the trip.

I dont have kids, so take this with a grain of salt. I just think if I did I would want them to know I did everything within my power to help them. I know a chick can f~~~ up their perception of you, but there is only so much within your control.

Resident cynic.

[MotivParticipant 441]

Yeah I have watched her slag her x off so I know how she can and would make me look s~~~ty, I have problems with the car at the moment until I have worked this one out and I have been thinking of all out comes for a couple of weeks now, most likly take them and then return after. staying for the break wont work if it had been just us 3 (me her and our kid) I may of but her teenager is going so im out 100% out on this break.

Cool story babe now go make me a sandwich

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Ancientwisdom wrote:

I say your child, and your childs perception of you, is of the upmost importance. Of course the ex can skew your perception to your kid later, but what your child will DISTINCTLY remember is the times you were there.

Your child, your flesh and blood is involved. Do everything within your power to ensure you were there for him or her.

If the ex is a bad person or influence just be sure to not let your guard down for her to influence you on the trip.

I dont have kids, so take this with a grain of salt. I just think if I did I would want them to know I did everything within my power to help them. I know a chick can f~~~ up their perception of you, but there is only so much within your control.

Yes this. Concentrate solely on kid(s). Treat the stb x as if I home help or childcare worker. It’s about the children.

The ex get pushed to last place.

Once you see here as just a child care worker …. the answers come easy.

Good luck and be to to yourself and kid(s).

[MotivParticipant 441]

“Yes this. Concentrate solely on kid(s). Treat the stb x as if I home help or childcare worker. It’s about the children.

The ex get pushed to last place.

Once you see here as just a child care worker …. the answers come easy.

Good luck and be to to yourself and kid(s).”

I like it.. thats great advise and I hadnt thought of it in the real terms like that even tho I had already been seeing her like this in a way if I look at it more clearly. Taking my kid and not being there is the best outcome for my kid
Great Red Pill Thank you brother

Cool story babe now go make me a sandwich

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Motiv wrote:

“Yes this. Concentrate solely on kid(s). Treat the stb x as if I home help or childcare worker. It’s about the children.

The ex get pushed to last place.

Once you see here as just a child care worker …. the answers come easy.

Good luck and be to to yourself and kid(s).”

I like it.. thats great advise and I hadnt thought of it in the real terms like that even tho I had already been seeing her like this in a way if I look at it more clearly. Taking my kid and not being there is the best outcome for my kid
Great Red Pill Thank you brother

Just seen my crap spelling … sorry … but glad it got through anyway.

I was jerking off as well as texting ?

[MotivParticipant 441]

Haha to many pictures to give some validation off the Craigs list was it lol

Cool story babe now go make me a sandwich

[MotivParticipant 441]

Update.. Car has fixed itself, Taking my kid so she can enjoy a holiday, expenses are to be covered and not by me, Will drive back staying will cause tension and could effect my kid, Will be sad I cant enjoy the holiday with my kid but the devisions would spoil it, Will plan a break for just me and my kid once I am sorted in my on place,
Important thing is for me to be happy so my daughter can see I am a strong father not a beat down mangina that bows to mothers control.

Mods feel free to move to marriage forum if more fitting…

Cool story babe now go make me a sandwich

[Anonymous 11]

Great advice, Kids remember and know what the hell is going on between parents. Be there for them always, and they will never be able to be turned against you.

My friend’s daughter moved back in with him as soon as she legally could make that decision for herself. Her mom is a freak.

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