Ejaculate then re-evaluate.

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  • #483863
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    Anonymous
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    That’s one thing a lot of older MGTOW’s don’t fully comprehend. Taking the redpill in my early twenties is one of the hardest thing I’ve ever done in my life.

    I have a high sex drive, and, it’s just crazy. But, thank God, this website exist.

    For me, it’s four rules, i must follow.

    ~No marriage, No cohabit, No procreation, and No relationships.

    Dating is still on the table. Straight up sex, nothing more.

    And your paying half the bill on whatever we order.

    I ain’t spending a dime on a bitch.

    We splitting EVERYTHING, bitch.

    #483865
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    Narwhal
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    I wouldn’t disagree with that approach, but I don’t think anything tops wisdom and understanding. Even if you did empty the tank before a date or whatever, it’s not going to stop you from doing something stupid if you don’t know better. You’ll be trying to grease the wheels to try and get a shot at it for a later date.

    I think you want to have your logical arguments at the ready at all times. The reasons why you don’t want to react emotionally when reason is required. It takes a bit of time to get to that point, but it will save you at times where you can’t just go empty the tank.

    Of course there is the down side of masturbating that others have pointed out. It does have it’s drawbacks, and you’d probably have a better life if you dedicated less time to it. In a lot of ways, it’s similar to tv or video games. It can be fun in the short term, but perhaps not the best use of your time in the long term.

    Somewhat of an aside…I think porn can help a man figure out what he likes. Women will tell you that porn makes a man have unrealistic expectations of women. I think it helps a man figure out that he cares less about the size of her t~~~ and more about how fit she is. Or perhaps the reverse. He won’t guess and assume ‘this is the best there is’ because he knows better. He knows the juice isn’t worth the squeeze.

    Ok. Then do it.

    #483869
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    Narwhal
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    That’s one thing a lot of older MGTOW’s don’t fully comprehend. Taking the redpill in my early twenties is one of the hardest thing I’ve ever done in my life.

    I don’t think that’s necessarily true. We all have different sex drives. Personally, I’d say my drive is about the same, maybe more then I was in my 20s. Regardless, older MGTOW absolutely do understand the nature of desire. That is, it’s doesn’t really matter how much you want it, since your desire doesn’t effect the outcome of your action.

    Having a stronger desire may mean that the payoff is worth the risk, especially if you take precautions to mitigate that risk. You still need to develop the skills to evaluate risk logical, consider alternatives, and make the wise decisions.

    If you want to have sex then have sex. Just don’t have sex, have it turn out badly and pretend you didn’t know better, that it was someone else’s fault.

    Ok. Then do it.

    #483872
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    Surfdude12
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    Yes. Just like “Eat up THEN go grocery shopping!”

    #483887
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    MarketWatcher
    MarketWatcher
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    Agreed. After I cum I always come to my senses.

    #483907
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    Awakened
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    i have always considered suicide as a life option.

    I have always considered suicide as a death option.

    In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

    #483994
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    GeordieMGTOW
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    I used to fap a lot. Several times a day. I never thought I was the type of person who could stop. Have went a couple of months without fapping though, and weeks regularly for some time, quite comfortably. Fapping at the moment (not literlly right now) but mostly a bad habbit picked up again, boredom, frustration because I don’t have my own place anymore. Once you stop though you get so much more focus and energy – in my opinion. Maybe not for all but in my experience.

    And I didn’t get super horney like many would think one would because you haven’t blown your load for a while. Actually fealt great. Did not feal like I was missing anything.

    #484018
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    Anonymous
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    This motto is great. After what I I countered with that young woman and then last week a crazy ex made contact. Why are the nutty ones so great in bed? Overcompensation maybe? Any way just shoot some sock babies and I’m good.

    #484031
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    Roy Rogers McFreely
    Roy Rogers McFreely
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    A story today on the Drudge Report says that too much porn and spanking off ruins men’s libido. It can lead to sexual dysfunction, not being interested or not being able to get it up. Personally, the best way for me to clear my head and to help me refocus on my monk lifestyle is to watch lots of porn and pleasure myself frequently. A vasectomy did nothing to lower my sex drive.

    Never again

    #484033
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    Anonymous
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    If ya into wanking try sitting on ya hand before having a flog .

    I no longer wank and don’t need to clear my mind .

    Also known as “The Stranger” as you sit on your hand until it goes numb.

    #484389
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    DarkRyu
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    Once I’ve blown my load I don’t care about porn or sex anymore. I’ve never had sex, but the thought of not being able to just turn it off and do something else and instead have to “cuddle” or listen to some bitch complain or talk about her BS makes me ill.

    I don’t find humans attractive anymore anyway, so it’s easy to just turn off the porn when I’m done. It’s literally like flipping a switch. When I’m fapping I think whatever I’m reading or looking at is SO hot, but afterwards it’s like “meh, whatever.”

    #484402
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    Neon_Phoenix
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    i have always considered suicide as a life option.

    I have always considered suicide as a death option.

    Awakened, you got me on that one, your line makes more sense 🙂

    Neo: "Why do my eyes hurt?" Morpheus: "Because you have never used them before"

    #484474
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    Sidecar
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    Never go grocery shopping when you’re hungry.

    #484516
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    Anonymous
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    Never underestimate the destructive power of a full load.

    I was with an ex for eight years and three weeks before our wedding day I caught her cheating. The next day having fractionally calmed (on advice from family) I went round to talk to her.
    She was dressed in just a bathrobe (and yes looking back I know what a thick t~~~ I was). A couple of fully loaded barrels had me confused enough that my blue pill addled mind got manipulated. After years invested and the fact that having not ‘actually’ caught her impaled on c~~~ had me waiting almost a whole week before waking up and cancelling the wedding.

    Here be the blue icing on the cuckcake
    I did not even f~~~ her that night and this guy was not even a little bit chad, he was some mangina f~~~ who ended up breeding with and getting cheated on by said c~~~.

    #484532
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    Gargamel
    Gargamel
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    Once I’ve blown my load I don’t care about porn or sex anymore. I’ve never had sex, but the thought of not being able to just turn it off and do something else and instead have to “cuddle” or listen to some bitch complain or talk about her BS makes me ill.

    That’s the core reason why I stayed away from LTR’s because they turn into Long-Term-RelationS~~~S.

    Having to sit in front of the TV and watch some brain-aching bulls~~~ “just to be with her” and maybe get to the money shot “later on”…

    That wasn’t worth it.

    I always adapted the principle: “If it doesn’t come naturally, leave it”.

    If you don’t share common ground with your snowflake, then just having one around for some f~~~ing isn’t worth it.

    If she annoys you with the things she does, then stay away or get out before she becomes a pain in the ass.

    Since women only come with smartphones and give these things all of their attention, they have become an annoyance all by themselves.

    Cumming off before making ANY dating or “relations~~~” decisions is a must for you to think clearly. After the hormone curtain falls you are more likely to see her stupid smartphone addiction and you remember that this is her “disloyalty device”…

    Take the “erotic component” out of your vision on women and you will see that if you enter any relations~~~ with any woman, you will just end up up paying the lifestyle of someone else’s spoiled daughter.

    And even if she has her own money and takes care of herself (the modern feminist argument) she will still be a c~~~ and treat you like s~~~.
    Take the sex out of the equation and women only need you to throw their bad moods and temper tantrums at you.

    ALL I ever met were like that, including and especially those of my family…

    And I grew up doing a big part of my mother’s housework. While she was bitching and sitting in front of the TV watching Boris Becker go “Böck, Böck; Böck…”. For hours at a time. (1985)

    You couldn’t even talk to her. She is now 92 years old and still her TV and her cats are more important than what her son has to say.

    Even running a company and doing everything by yourself – INCLUDING the bookkeeping – is less stressful. (Woman always offer to do that so they can see what you earn and pocket some it it by paying fake bills… Oh, man I have seen…)

    Women are lazy and what begins with “Can you do me a favor” ends up in “How long do I have to wait until…?”…
    And “IF you don’t…., then I WILL (divorce) you…!”

    No, I had enough.

    In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

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