Easy vs. Difficult

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

I want a girlfriend that’s easy on the eyes, easy to get along with, and easy to have sex with. However, I’ve noticed that a lot of women want to be with a guy that’s hard to get along with and hard to get. Examples: movie stars, rock stars. These guys are similar to regular guys even though they have special talents and fame. The difference is: they are not available to the average woman that wants to be with them. And some of them already have steady girlfriends so they aren’t looking for women to date. I think this drives women crazy and makes them desperate to do ANYTHING to win their approval. And if a guy already has a hot girlfriend, other women will flirt with him and make it really easy for him to cheat on his girlfriend. I’m sure you’ve guys have noticed this too: when you’re lonely and wishing for a girlfriend, these ladies can’t be found. As soon as you get a girlfriend and life is going great for you, these ladies suddenly appear. Could it be that they can’t stand to see another woman happy in a relationship? [“Hey, I’m a sexy woman too. Why don’t you dump your girlfriend for me? *giggle*] Who knows. It seems like they have to prove their worth to you when you don’t need them.

I think woman, in general, are pre-programmed to be unhappy because they can’t feel okay about getting something of value unless they go through some s~~~ to get it. Or maybe they want happiness to be just out of reach so they can waste a lot of energy and experience a lot of DRAMA chasing after this elusive prize. I don’t see how I can have a good relationship with women who want to walk on a rocky road to “happiness” when I’m trying to pave a smooth street for us.

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[RoyDalParticipant]

I the application of r/K selection theory to humans has a direct bearing on the topic you raise. Read all about it: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/R/K_selection_theory

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Fun said:

I think woman, in general, are pre-programmed to be unhappy because they can’t feel okay about getting something of value unless they go through some s~~~ to get it. Or maybe they want happiness to be just out of reach so they can waste a lot of energy and experience a lot of DRAMA chasing after this elusive prize. I don’t see how I can have a good relationship with women who want to walk on a rocky road to “happiness” when I’m trying to pave a smooth street for us.

A slightly different take on this. We’ve all heard the saying “a happy wife, a happy life”. One of my many red pill moments came when I realized my ex lacks the CAPACITY to be happy…… It’s literally not in her DNA to be happy. She said to me one time “I bet you could be happy in a one bedroom apartment with just a futon and a TV couldn’t you?” My response was, “Depends. How big is the TV?”

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[Mr. SpockParticipant 10910]

In my experiences women just don’t like the word no or any other word that is like it. Tell her something is off limits and she interprets it as “Try harder to get it at ANY cost!” Before I got married, women didn’t seem to show a lot of interest in me. Their interest increased after I got married, I would tell them I was married and I always wore my shackle but that didn’t seem to phase them. I remember reading one of those feminist, blue pill articles that explained it like this; When a man gets married he shows his willingness to commit which is attractive to women and since a woman accepted and married him, it gives off the signal to other women that he is good and an OK person BLAH BLAH BLAH. Once I went with the red pill, it became obvious why women go after the men they cannot have. It’s a way to boost their ego. They don’t care about the men only the perception that the other women have and see of them. It’s a cruel competition. Naturally if a woman attracts a movie star, rock idol, someone rich and famous it makes them look good and their perceived stock goes up. Chasing married men does it another way, it boosts their ego by being able to seduce another woman’s man. She could care less about the man but secretly wants other women to know that she is so beautiful, seductive and pretty that she can take another woman’s man away and that means her stock is top of the line. Well at least to her it does. Any attention from a married man, from a glance to going all the way to sleeping with a married man boosts her ego. In her mind, her value is determined by her ability to manipulate men in comparison with other women and there isn’t a better gage (to other women) than pulling the attention of someone else’s man.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

TaxGuy wrote:

“I bet you could be happy in a one bedroom apartment with just a futon and a TV couldn’t you?” My response was, “Depends. How big is the TV?”

I could be happy with a one bedroom apartment, a futon, a big screen TV, cable TV with a deluxe sports package, internet access, a laptop, beefy nachos with cheese, and a bottle of Heineken.

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[Dark KenshiParticipant 2132]

FunInTheSun wrote:

TaxGuy wrote:

“I bet you could be happy in a one bedroom apartment with just a futon and a TV couldn’t you?” My response was, “Depends. How big is the TV?”

I could be happy with a one bedroom apartment, a futon, a big screen TV, cable TV with a deluxe sports package, internet access, a laptop, beefy nachos with cheese, and a bottle of Heineken.

My s~~~ too!

I would only add to that a very nice work out in the morning at the gym and a work out in the evening by my kendo training.

Everything else is just a thing that I have to do, not to have…

😀

"Young was I once, I walked alone, and bewildered seemed in the way; then I found me another and rich I thought me, for man is the joy of man." Odin, Hàvamàl, stanza 47.

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