Drinks with a unicorn co-worker last night

[OneLaneOnlyPlsParticipant 1747]

A girl I work with, whom I’ve fooled around casually couple times, asked me out for a drink in city after work. I would regard this girl as a friend foremost, whether or not there was anything sexual or not.

Although arguably the hottest girl i’ve known, post mgtow –
I’ve already let her know on more than one occasion, that I’m not looking to date anyone, or settle down. I would never divulge anything mgtow-related to her, quite simply, I don’t and shouldn’t need to.

During the evening, learnt a fair bit about my work situation that I didn’t know, that alone was worth the night out. I’m glad I decided not to work in her department. Beyond that part, I had to internally control the lol’s at some of what she opened up about.

She asked if I was dating anybody, and I reminded her I wasn’t interested and happy being on my own, just casual with her. She then proceeded to tell me about her dating experiences. I knew bits of it from previous time fooling around, but not like this…

Around a year ago, she decided to date 2 guys at once, compare them, then dump the runner-up. I wasn’t surprised hearing this, but disappointed. She starts getting a bit teary… it didn’t work-out with ‘Guy 1’, as he lost money in his business and was unable to provide a new house and have enough money for kids, so she dumped him and went back to ‘Guy 2’. Apparently Guy 2 and her were unable to rekindle the spark, Guy 2 just didn’t feel the same about her anymore.

I was having my drink thinking ‘and this is someone who I thought was relatively normal’. She then goes on to say she dated some dude who, along with her, bumped into me in the gym. I didn’t know who he was at the time, but he seemed irritated at her saying hello to me. She kept saying how they tried over and over to make it work, ‘but he was a real d1ck’. Translation – she had him in a playoff as well.

By now she was almost sobbing, saying how she doesn’t want to keep hurting guys. Again I remind her that I’m not looking for anything from her. I basically say ‘we can hangout and fool around, but you don’t have to worry about hurting me, I’m good living my own life thanks’. This seemed to annoy her. It’s like her ego insists on hurting guys, and my mgtow shield is in the way of that.

I suggested we end the evening soon after. She asked where I parked and since it was close to her train station, we walked together. I think she was in a daze, either not being able to nail me down, or hurt me. We kissed and I said ‘see you tomorrow’. Dunno if I could be bothered doing anything with her again.

MGTOW has saved me in so many ways, and will continue to do so.

[Anonymous 18]

OneLaneOnlyPls wrote:

By now she was in tears, saying how she doesn’t want to keep hurting guys.

She is a c~~~.

You know that already.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Allow me to repeat what already has been stated.
C.U.N.T

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[bladeParticipant]

This chick loves drama and attention . A slut that is full of cum and trouble . DANGER

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[Sky-OParticipant 18949]

OK.

Based on what you wrote, I need to unleash a Sky-0 breakdown of the situation. I’ve been there, done that & got the T-shirt. I don’t make this stuff up.

She is never ‘single’ or looking to find a boyfriend. Currently, she has 2-3 alpha/Chads in the perimeter and she’s getting c~~~.

During the period of time she was ‘dating’ two guys at the same time, she was in BAM (Beta Acquisition Mode), not really into either one of them: But getting alternate c~~~ on the side from another guy that she utilized to get her off harder, longer and better than any potential beta could.

By attempting to secure you as a guy to date – She is in the process of rebuilding her orbiter base. You gave her a clear indication you are not down for that.

The ‘daze’ you described her being in has nothing to do with you personally. You just made her realize she failed at getting you to lock on and it creates more work for her to build up her OB (Orbiter Base)

Meanwhile. Once she got on the train, she immediately scrolled through the contacts on her phone to text the most likely DTF (Down to F~~~) alpha / Chad that she has for later that night. And was getting pounded by the time you got home and were basking in the glory of having turned down a chance to get in line and be the next guy.

And to conclude. The reason why she told you she doesn’t want to hurt guys anymore is because:

01 – By letting you think she hurts guys, it revalidates her own subjective value as being hot enough to be the one that causes the hurt with a breakup.

and

02 – By pre-staging and notifying you that she ‘hurts’ guys, if you had decided to get onboard the Beta Express, she was absolving herself from any guilt, if or when she had to ultimately hurt you.

Cats like to play with mice. She likes to play with potential orbiters.

In closing and this wraps things up:

If she had wanted to f~~~ you, it would have went down.

No offense, but you were not in control of that possibility in any way. And before you claim that you didn’t want to bang her – You already mentioned that she is attractive, has some unicorn traits & you did go out for drinks with her.

It doesn’t take an FBI psychological profiling team to be able to determine that given all objective facta of the situation: You wanted to f~~~ her.

And she was taking c~~~ later that night from a guy that doesn’t fit her criteria for a boyfriend that she will wind up hurting, as she stated she does every time.

[Anonymous 6]

Did you at least get a blowjob. I would have gotten a blowjob. You really should have gotten a blowjob…WHY DIDN’T YOU GET A BLOWJOB!!!!

[RorschachParticipant 2083]

OneLaneOnlyPls wrote:

By now she was almost sobbing, saying how she doesn’t want to keep hurting guys. Again I remind her that I’m not looking for anything from her. I basically say ‘we can hangout and fool around, but you don’t have to worry about hurting me, I’m good living my own life thanks’. This seemed to annoy her. It’s like her ego insists on hurting guys, and my mgtow shield is in the way of that.

Wow she actually told you the truth and thought you would be stupid enough to go for it. I’m so used to lies and manipulation that its surprising to see some c~~~ actually try to use the truth to hook you. She probably had some other prick on the line and you would have been the other guy. The one of the best parts of being MGTOW is sitting back listening to this horses~~~ and smiling knowing your not going to be part of it.

The accumulated filth of all their sex and murder will foam up about their waists and all the whores and politicians will look up and shout "save us!"....... and i'll look down and whisper "No."

[OldBillParticipant]

OneLaneOnlyPls wrote:

MGTOW has saved me in so many ways, and will continue to do so.

True, but it didn’t save you from kissing her at the end. You need to work on that bit.

As you surmised, the little c~~~ was s~~~ testing you the entire evening. She “confessed” to some minor sins while expecting you to assure her that she wasn’t a bad person. She turned on the tears hoping you’d console her. While you didn’t take the bait, you didn’t call her on her s~~~ tests either.

You only passively resisted her tests, that’s why she kept trotting them out. She thinks she only needs to find the right test to lure you in. Kissing her goodbye only further convinced her that you may still be lured in.

As soon as she started “sharing” the details of her personal life. you should have shut her down immediately. You can do so politely while still being firm. As soon she tries to trot out some personal tidbit you tell her:

“I would prefer not to hear anything about your personal life.”

By couching your request in the form of feelings you’re turning the tables on the little c~~~. You’re telling her that the topic of conversation is upsetting so, if she keeps it up, she’s the bad guy.

I’ve used this line for decades now to shut down both women and men who feel the need to share intimate details about their lives. It works if you remember to use it.

Good job with her, but I know you can do better.

P.S. If you haven’t yet read Sky-O’s masterful analysis of your story, do so. If you have read it, re-read it until you understand it.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[OneLaneOnlyPlsParticipant 1747]

blade wrote:

This chick loves drama and attention . A slut that is full of cum and trouble . DANGER

Am going to keep a clear path. It isn’t worth the fooling around. I don’t directly work with her, although we work on the same floor.

Note how despite what she did, she still tries turn on the tears and somehow be the victim.

[Anonymous 0]

Hell hath no fury like a woman spurned.

Time to watch your back jack. Keep one ear open for the HR dept.

[OneLaneOnlyPlsParticipant 1747]

Sky-O wrote:

OK.

Based on what you wrote, I need to unleash a Sky-0 breakdown of the situation. I’ve been there, done that & got the T-shirt. I don’t make this stuff up.

She is never ‘single’ or looking to find a boyfriend. Currently, she has 2-3 alpha/Chads in the perimeter and she’s getting c~~~.

During the period of time she was ‘dating’ two guys at the same time, she was in BAM (Beta Acquisition Mode), not really into either one of them: But getting alternate c~~~ on the side from another guy that she utilized to get her off harder, longer and better than any potential beta could.

By attempting to secure you as a guy to date – She is in the process of rebuilding her orbiter base. You gave her a clear indication you are not down for that.

The ‘daze’ you described her being in has nothing to do with you personally. You just made her realize she failed at getting you to lock on and it creates more work for her to build up her OB (Orbiter Base)

Meanwhile. Once she got on the train, she immediately scrolled through the contacts on her phone to text the most likely DTF (Down to F~~~) alpha / Chad that she has for later that night. And was getting pounded by the time you got home and were basking in the glory of having turned down a chance to get in line and be the next guy.

And to conclude. The reason why she told you she doesn’t want to hurt guys anymore is because:

01 – By letting you think she hurts guys, it revalidates her own subjective value as being hot enough to be the one that causes the hurt with a breakup.

and

02 – By pre-staging and notifying you that she ‘hurts’ guys, if you had decided to get onboard the Beta Express, she was absolving herself from any guilt, if or when she had to ultimately hurt you.

Cats like to play with mice. She likes to play with potential orbiters.

In closing and this wraps things up:

If she had wanted to f~~~ you, it would have went down.

No offense, but you were not in control of that possibility in any way. And before you claim that you didn’t want to bang her – You already mentioned that she is attractive, has some unicorn traits & you did go out for drinks with her.

It doesn’t take an FBI psychological profiling team to be able to determine that given all objective facta of the situation: You wanted to f~~~ her.

And she was taking c~~~ later that night from a guy that doesn’t fit her criteria for a boyfriend that she will wind up hurting, as she stated she does every time.

^^^ what a post this is.

Of course I want to F her, I just don’t want to pay the price, and what she was asking was too much. I’ve done everything but F her, and until last night I was happy seeing her casually, but I don’t need that headache she unloaded.

Spot on as always. When you are in Sydney next, will shout you a beer.

[OneLaneOnlyPlsParticipant 1747]

Anonymous wrote:

Did you at least get a blowjob. I would have gotten a blowjob. You really should have gotten a blowjob…WHY DIDN’T YOU GET A BLOWJOB!!!!

Yes i’ve had a BJ from her when she was at my place last time. Was hoping to tick that extra part off the list, but yeh, just not worth it now.

Lol she just sent a wall of text to my phone, will post it on here when I get chance.

[Can’t Stump TrumpParticipant]

OneLaneOnlyPls wrote:

A girl I work with

Stop right there and go listen to Lord Leykis on dating women you work with. In short: DON’T. You shouldn’t s~~~ where you eat.

Women are better at multitasking? Fucking up several things at once is not multitasking.

[Anonymous 6]

OneLaneOnlyPls wrote:

Venom wrote:

Did you at least get a blowjob. I would have gotten a blowjob. You really should have gotten a blowjob…WHY DIDN’T YOU GET A BLOWJOB!!!!

Yes i’ve had a BJ from her when she was at my place last time. Was hoping to tick that extra part off the list, but yeh, just not worth it now.

Lol she just sent a wall of text to my phone, will post it on here when I get chance.

[OneLaneOnlyPlsParticipant 1747]

Can’t Stump Trump wrote:

OneLaneOnlyPls wrote:

A girl I work with

Stop right there and go listen to Lord Leykis on dating women you work with. In short: DON’T. You shouldn’t s~~~ where you eat.

Tom Leykis has been great to listen to so far, will try and find that one, you got link?

Anonymous wrote:

OneLaneOnlyPls wrote:

Venom wrote:

Did you at least get a blowjob. I would have gotten a blowjob. You really should have gotten a blowjob…WHY DIDN’T YOU GET A BLOWJOB!!!!

Yes i’ve had a BJ from her when she was at my place last time. Was hoping to tick that extra part off the list, but yeh, just not worth it now.

Lol she just sent a wall of text to my phone, will post it on here when I get chance.

LOL at gif, will respond in kind when I’m back online. Gotta head to gym.

Will SC her pathetic text, and pics of her tomorrow.

[Jack HarperParticipant 2863]

How the f~~~ is she a ‘unicorn’ again? sounds like typical AWALT drama s~~~ to me.

[IRuleMeParticipant]

When women share their dating stories, they’re giving you an open map to what tingles their ‘gina. They’re hoping you will pick up on that road map and act out some of those traits. Give them nothing.

[Anonymous 13]

It’s really very simple.

You’re a CHALLENGE.

As to the rest, just usual c~~~ish drama and bulls~~~.

Oh, and her ability to just keep hurting guys.

Awww poor ickle narcissist.

Leave her to the wall.

[trader1913Participant 1577]

The moment she starts talking about other men she has dated is the moment I stop giving a f~~~. Talking about ex boyfriends is for friend-zoned and gay men. I have no interest in being an emotional tampon.

This is what happens when you have female friends; they are always playing games with you and making themselves the center of attention. They give nothing to you as a friend (usually asking for favours) and expect you to carry the friendship.

[Anonymous 1]

Sky-O.. thanks.

That’s a great analysis. Despite being aware of all of those details, they didn’t cross my mind when reading the situation — its so clear once explained.

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