Drama – advice from men needed

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    Swisschees
    swisschees
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    Hi guys,

    Need some advice how to handle a situation. Last night, a friend of my Ex girlfriend (which i dont know) texted me with this sentence: “ur best friend is realy s~~~y, why u have such friends? thats poor” and she added some screenshots from a facebook conversation between her and my best friend. He basicaly asked her if she wants to have sex with her. To say here is, he hates women and likes to play with them. We also f~~~ed the same girl in the past and we also joke about how we had no problems, to get each other our sisters. But, i told him clearly not to contact my ex cause i realy was in love with her and she hurted me bad as f~~~ which months after resulted to be here. Anyway, i had some drama and i blocked everything from my ex and she texted me through the phone of here friend cause there is no way my ex can contact me otherwise. I talked about what im supposed to do now with my female friend but she gives s~~~y advice in topics like this.
    I wrote yesterday: “Next time dont say “u have s~~~y” friends cause what do you think does that do to me and it also puts me in a situation i need to “do something”. You are a grown up mature and u can block people with 1 mouseclick if u feel they harass you. I will ofc talk with my friend and say thats not appropriate”. Anyway, cheers Ben”.

    She sended me then a voice message blah blah need to talk with my friend rly i replied with i dont care i have so much other things to do and then i blocked her friends phone also. No time for kindergarden.

    Ofc i told my friend it wasnt a nice move and in the future there is a 0 contact policy to my ex gf which i told him in the past anyway. What do you think about i handled this situation? Did u had similiar experiences? cheers guys

    #235991
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    Anonymous
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    The only way to stop the razors of dramma from cutting is to remove them from your heart.

    Your policy of ZERO contact is firm and correct.

    Loose her.

    Consider loosing your friend too…

    Men that hate women and use them for sex are void of moral scruples.

    Men that love women and sustain from them due to legal consequences are morally and ethically sound.

    It’s your life, make sure you’re not living in a bucket of immoral crabs…

    #235992
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    Swisschees
    swisschees
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    Thank u very much! Feel better now.

    #236002
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    Anonymous
    25

    Unless she is making you a sandwich and asking you what filling you want, there’s really no reason to engage. Even then you can find ways to shop and buy what you need without having to engage with them. It’s great.

    Taste the freedom.

    #236037
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    Anonymous
    5

    Your Ex’s “friend” is doing the same thing your friend is doing,,,trying to f~~~ her friend’s Ex,,,,you!
    The reason for contacting you was just an excuse to contact you, but I think you already worked out it was just a childish game.
    She’s just as calculating and ruthless with her friend, your Ex,,as your friend is with you.

    The vast bulk of “Adultery” I’ve seen around me in my life has been with “The Best Friend”

    You’ve already done the right thing.

    #236042
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    XSDBS
    XSDBS
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    My Advice?
    No contact. No response. Of any kind. Ever.
    Never allow any of that toxic drama into your life.
    Any/all emails, texts, or and voice mails from either of them?
    Don’t even bother to open/read them. DELETE. DONE.

    #236112
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    Hellraider
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    yup, put up the wall of silence, works wonder with men and women.

    #236145
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    Eric Lauder
    Eric Lauder
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    Hi guys,

    Need some advice how to handle a situation. Last night, a friend of my Ex girlfriend (which i dont know) texted me with this sentence: “ur best friend is realy s~~~y, why u have such friends? thats poor” and she added some screenshots from a facebook conversation between her and my best friend. He basicaly asked her if she wants to have sex with her. To say here is, he hates women and likes to play with them. We also f~~~ed the same girl in the past and we also joke about how we had no problems, to get each other our sisters. But, i told him clearly not to contact my ex cause i realy was in love with her and she hurted me bad as f~~~ which months after resulted to be here. Anyway, i had some drama and i blocked everything from my ex and she texted me through the phone of here friend cause there is no way my ex can contact me otherwise. I talked about what im supposed to do now with my female friend but she gives s~~~y advice in topics like this.
    I wrote yesterday: “Next time dont say “u have s~~~y” friends cause what do you think does that do to me and it also puts me in a situation i need to “do something”. You are a grown up mature and u can block people with 1 mouseclick if u feel they harass you. I will ofc talk with my friend and say thats not appropriate”. Anyway, cheers Ben”.

    She sended me then a voice message blah blah need to talk with my friend rly i replied with i dont care i have so much other things to do and then i blocked her friends phone also. No time for kindergarden.

    Ofc i told my friend it wasnt a nice move and in the future there is a 0 contact policy to my ex gf which i told him in the past anyway. What do you think about i handled this situation? Did u had similiar experiences? cheers guys

    Why do you care about her blabbering?
    Silence is most times the best answer.
    I had a somewhat similar situation when I was in the college: I had a girlfriend and I had sex with her sister, also I dumped the girlfriend and I beginned another relationship with a friend of her.
    She pierced the tires of my car as act of revenge. All four tires.
    Not bad, I was a bastard, four tires aren’t exactly cheaper for a student but I survived, quite well.
    Today she would falsely accuse me of rape and I would be ruined for life. That’s excessive and unfair: a boy shouldn’t be ruined for life due he cheated his girlfriend and/or dumped her. The old times of pierced tires were fairer.

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    #236150
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    Jan Sobieski
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    These people are bored and are stirring the pot to get a rise, some stimulation.

    Why are you even talking to females?

    Why are you talking about sex with strangers?

    Ignore them, don’t respond. Just don’t respond to them.

    Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

    #236216
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    Stargazer
    Stargazer
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    These people are bored and are stirring the pot to get a rise, some stimulation.

    This. Once any relationship goes off the rails of maturity, good taste and decency, pull the brake lever, grab your s~~~ and get off and walk at a right angle to the whole thing, never looking back.

    You can’t fix it, you can’t stop it… you can only rise above it.

    #236450

    waling

    Never lose sight of what brought you here.

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