Downcheck on my personal fulfillment

[Soldier-MedicParticipant 2566]

Guys, I have to tell you.  I got life by the b~~~~.

I’m retired from the army (4 years ago), just got my undergraduate degree that I have always wanted, applying for graduate schools, got a great relationship with my sons, living within my means.  Got a woman that I get together with from time to time for a little sumpin sumpin.

Between retired pay, disability, and the Post 9/11 GI bill I have enough to save if a hard time comes around.  I have steaks in the freezer, whiskey in the bar, porn on the computer, and complete and total access to my mongosso flat screen in the living room that is surrounded by bookcases full of s~~~ I like to read.

I have a ’72 Pontiac Le Mans convertible in the garage, a workshop full of an insane amount of tools, Tickets to a Longhorn game during the season, and wood flooring throughout the house.

I have what I want so far, with more on the horizon.

What I don’t have in empathy or sympathy.

I don’t have any empathy or sympathy for the mangina my ex wife married.

And yet I don’t feel as though my life is hollow.

Is that bad?

"I asked you a question. I didn't ask you to repeat what the voices in you head are telling you" ~ Me. ........Yes I'm still angry.

[MrDextroParticipant 111]

you once had empathy or sympathy, and said f~~~ it; whats the point. I was never the one for quotes but the military, sums this one up pretty good; “Never push a loyal person to the point where they no longer care“. I myself find it hard to be “stoic” but this world is NOT for honesty, you Have to be an “asshole” not to be confused with a douchebag. Deal with who is in your life, family or friends, but don’t let in anybody new. Your life is not hollow, nobody knows you but “you” if I traveled the world, was in the French Foreign Legion, Bi-Lingual, was a monk for two years in Lithuania…No-One would ever know, it doesn’t matter, so if someone was bragging about something trivial, I would be polite and say, “wow, that’s very interesting” keep quiet and go on with life. Hey, you can laugh to yourself about your ex wife’s mangina-husband, I’m sure you have been around, met all walks of life, many people have not…observe and laugh.
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[Soldier-MedicParticipant 2566]

MrDextro wrote:

if I traveled the world, was in the French Foreign Legion, Bi-Lingual, was a monk for two years in Lithuania…No-One would ever know

This is what I like about MGTOW.com.  You meet, albeit through the internet, a host of men with a vast wealth of knowledge that come from living life on their own terms.

What better source of wisdom is there?

I would love to sit down with you, and men like you, and hear all about the things you have done, and what you have taken from those experiences.

"I asked you a question. I didn't ask you to repeat what the voices in you head are telling you" ~ Me. ........Yes I'm still angry.

[Anonymous 18]

That’s pretty amazing Soldier-Medic. It’s quite nice to hear from men who feel happy and complete going their way.

I guess the key was to maintain that strong relationship with your kids.

 

[MrDextroParticipant 111]

No Doc, not from me, I just did a 4yr stint in the USMC (I f~~~ing hated it) although I met very interesting people, in those 4-years (I grew up in a small town). although, my mentor a friend from my Aunt is a very humble guy, that never said much, he was an MD for 10yrs and is now a Computer Science Professor, I really looked up to him when I was a teenager…it wasn’t later until I found out a lot of work he was involved with, very interesting man. He never married or had kids, he travels a lot during the summer. Yes, that is why I come to these forums also, I read almost every post!

[Soldier-MedicParticipant 2566]

Anonymous wrote:

I guess the key was to maintain that strong relationship with your kids.

The key was being my own man.  I love my kids.  The ARE a byproduct of an unhappy marriage.  But they are people.  People that have had responsibilities for, but still people.  The have their own developing minds.  It is an amazing thing to watch a baby develop in to a person that has a mind, opinion, sense of humor, idea of fair play, and love.

Once, while I was dropping my boys off to grade school, I gave one of them a hug and a kiss.  A little girl.  I guess she knew one of my sons.  Said “Daddies don’t give their sons kisses”.  Or something like that.  I told her, “I can show my sons how much I love them, and not have to get anyone’s approval”.   Or something like that.  I have seen men turned in to hamburger, and don’t have to justify a F!@#$%^ thing to anyone.  Especially a ten year old little girl with a developing, misguided, opinion about what a man should be.

I have to be honest.  If men could reproduce asexually, and if I could afford it, I would have a bunch of boys running around the house.

I have recognized in myself for more than a few years now, a strong nurturing aspect of me.

Having a vagina doesn’t elevate you to a lofty throne, because of the ability to push a child from your parted ankles.

There are plenty of men, real men, that are fulfilled from being a daddy and everything that comes with it.

I think that more than a few women out there feel threatened because of this.  I think my ex wife did.

"I asked you a question. I didn't ask you to repeat what the voices in you head are telling you" ~ Me. ........Yes I'm still angry.

[Anonymous 18]

Soldier-Medic wrote:

There are plenty of men, real men, that are fulfilled from being a daddy and everything that comes with it.

I totally get that. I have a young niece and I don’t think me being a guy has any drawback on how much I love and protect her.

She’s not my daughter but still I am surprised to see how much of attachment and love an average guy like me can have to his own family. It just comes naturally to more men than women like to admit.

 

 

 

 

[RoyDalParticipant]

Soldier-Medic wrote:

Guys, I have to tell you.  I got life by the b~~~~.

Awesome!

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[BufordParticipant 935]

Nothing wrong with that kind of life fella.

I’m  42 yo, got 4 bikes (bicycles – 3 road, 1 MB). Not a scrap of debt, take my holidays when I want to, camping/MB normally, not getting drunk on beaches cos the bitches want home comforts. Work hard when i’m in work but forget it when I clock out.

Just a man doing things that connect him to the real world, and revelling in his masculinity. One life, why waste it by letting a f~~~ing huge limpet attach herself to your heel?

You’ve got the best you’re ever going to get. Why question yourself?

"This happens every time one of these floozies starts poontangin' around with those show folk fags. - Sheriff Buford T. Justice"

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