Don't get consumed by topics dealing with women

[JollyMisanthropeParticipant 3356]

One observation I’ve made is that a certain segment of MGTOW’s, though avoiding unnecessary (a subjective term of course) female contact, whether it be sex or relationships, etc., still tend to focus a lot of their time and energy on topics related to women. I understand that there is a time and place to vent, discuss, etc., but I think that it is paramount that we focus a good deal of our time not even thinking about women and instead work towards our goals and enjoy our personal freedom. Female behavior p~~~es a lot of us off and that’s completely normal, yet being in a sour mood most of the time because of men in general getting the proverbial shaft, something we really have no control over directly, is not embracing all that going our own way has to offer. You could be hundreds of miles from civilization, enjoying the great outdoors by camping, hiking, hunting, fishing etc, but if your mind is still focused on women (who are nowhere for miles upon miles) then you are still bringing that with you wherever you go, regardless of how far removed from them you are physically.

This is one of the reasons why I embrace moderation when it comes to forum participation, as well as YouTube MGTOW video consumption, blogs, etc. There is no need to put undue stress on yourself by repeatedly being exposed to things we know women do repeatedly where their behavior is concerned. We learn more about them and know their habits, their mindsets, their strategies, etc., so seeing an article, video or TV segment on them doing the same old s~~~ isn’t really offering any new form of enlightenment. It’s just reinforcing what we already know, and given we know about it we “get it”.

I’ve traveled throughout the web to different sites dealing with a plethora of topics, whether it is political, spiritual, scientific, politics dealing with racial issues, etc., and the one common denominator is that overexposure to these various types of content can very easily deteriorate your day to day life. Another common factor for me is that I eventually stopped going to them, or visited them very infrequently because I just didn’t need to be reminded day in and day out how f~~~ed up things are. I am no white supremacist by any stretch of the imagine but I do know that society views me as a white male and I absolutely refuse to feel guilt about it, so you can imagine how tiresome it got consuming content that was just focused on how white men are being f~~~ed over in certain areas of society and reading rant after rant by genuine racist assholes that are all going to have heart attacks and die before they get any chance to exact their vengeance against their “sworn enemies”. It made me miserable, c~~~y towards other people, and I had to completely divorce myself from being on those forums and websites.

Burnout by being overexposed to any philosophical or political idea is a very real consequence and this post is just to remind all fellow MGTOW that it will only benefit you to focus your time on yourself and bringing enjoyment and pleasure into your own life while not giving women a second though. Let the MRA’s and other activist fools spend their days consumed by all the gender war BS, they embrace futility and I guarantee you it eats away at them the more they ramp up their enthusiasm, even if they deny it. We cannot change things to any meaningful extent by engaging in activism, the world never has and never will be changed by this. Oceans of blood have been spilled in order to mold the path of the world throughout history, it is our human legacy and the tried and true way for creating change. Given we have opted out and have no desire to participate in such insanity, lets enjoy life and have a hearty laugh at the fools that still try and prop things up because they think activism and voting will save us all.

And finally don’t forget that there are legions of men out there that are true MGTOW or are very close to the red pill that have no idea what MGTOW is. They outnumber us greatly and the numbers will only continue to grow. Let this phenomenon snowball on its own, to me it seems inevitable as the equal and opposite reaction to the oppression of masculinity.

The Children of Doom... Doom's Children. They told my lord the way to the Mountain of Power. They told him to throw down his sword and return to the Earth... Ha! Time enough for the Earth in the grave.

[Ned TrentParticipant 4894]

JollyMisanthrope wrote:

One observation I’ve made is that a certain segment of MGTOW’s, though avoiding unnecessary (a subjective term of course) female contact, whether it be sex or relationships, etc., still tend to focus a lot of their time and energy on topics related to women.

You do have a very valid & true point there ChaosOverAll and that meanwhile is also quite often a critisim coming from rad fems whenever they try to shame us on their kind of platforms on the net as I’ve observed myself several times. A good counterpart of the regular and a bit too often practiced rants could therefore well be as you also say laughing it off take it with a sense of humor or even (without any cruel illwill intended) ridicule it to some extend, which is part of what I intend to do soon in a new audio podcast I am trying to put together.

Maybe we should extend our reading and posting activities a bit more towards the sections like “Funstuff” or “Sports & Leisure” rather than the very “MGTOW Central” section itself or maybe even create another subsection like say “MGTOW external” if need be.

 

Anyway regrading the humor aspect of it, as far as I can see, Keymaster keeps doing a great job and as far as I can tell also has an over all good balance between occasional rants as well as an occasional funny side to it with usually spot on biting humor combined with great rhetoric skills which is a good thing, having these mentor qualities as the admin and moderator, big respect to you, sir & do keep up the good content work, it just has to be said here…

 

Ned T.

I'd rather die a natual death with a clear MGTOW conscience somewhere off the grid than one within "modern" civilisation with a big stress mark on my forehead and a couple of dozen tubes plugged into my body. Back to the plantation..? Me..? Hey, literally: I won't ever fucking kid myself...YZERLMNTSIC

[Soul ManParticipant 1856]

I like throwing rocks at c~~~s.  It’s cathartic.

YMMV…

HISTORY...learn from it, memorize it, DON'T repeat it...

[Cipher HighwindParticipant 1144]

Your post displeases me and I will be s~~~ting all over it.

JollyMisanthrope wrote:

One observation I’ve made is that a certain segment of MGTOW’s, though avoiding unnecessary (a subjective term of course) female contact, whether it be sex or relationships, etc., still tend to focus a lot of their time and energy on topics related to women.

Which segment? Who fall in said segment?

JollyMisanthrope wrote:

I understand that there is a time and place to vent, discuss, etc., but I think that it is paramount that we focus a good deal of our time not even thinking about women and instead work towards our goals and enjoy our personal freedom.

This so happens to be the place to vent.

JollyMisanthrope wrote:

Female behavior p~~~es a lot of us off and that’s completely normal, yet being in a sour mood most of the time because of men in general getting the proverbial shaft, something we really have no control over directly, is not embracing all that going our own way has to offer.

Who here is in a sour mood? How is this evidenced?

JollyMisanthrope wrote:

You could be hundreds of miles from civilization, enjoying the great outdoors by camping, hiking, hunting, fishing etc, but if your mind is still focused on women (who are nowhere for miles upon miles) then you are still bringing that with you wherever you go, regardless of how far removed from them you are physically.

There are these things called “jobs” that most people have; that’s why they’re not “hundreds of miles from civilization”.

My bowels are now empty, so you got off lucky.

[DazzleParticipant 67]

I second your sentiments my friend. I have been taking a break from this site for just that reason.  I had been focusing too much on the negative female comments and not enough of the positive thinks I should be doing.

Don’t get me wrong, I’ve needed the overdoes of red pills this great site has given me, as the decades of indoctrination are a tough thing to purge.

I’m now trying to focus on myself and getting out the rut I’ve been in. I’ve finally got off my arse and sorted out a loan to pay the bitch off to get the house in my name and the divorce will be completed in a months time.

Time I was 100% mghow !

[Ned TrentParticipant 4894]

Cipher Highwind wrote:

Who here is in a sour mood?

Well you know, every now and then for instance I am and you know what? I gladly admit it, too…

I'd rather die a natual death with a clear MGTOW conscience somewhere off the grid than one within "modern" civilisation with a big stress mark on my forehead and a couple of dozen tubes plugged into my body. Back to the plantation..? Me..? Hey, literally: I won't ever fucking kid myself...YZERLMNTSIC

[JollyMisanthropeParticipant 3356]

Cipher Highwind, if you have something to say then say it. I don’t want the filtered version.

The Children of Doom... Doom's Children. They told my lord the way to the Mountain of Power. They told him to throw down his sword and return to the Earth... Ha! Time enough for the Earth in the grave.

[Cipher HighwindParticipant 1144]

My bowels are still empty. I will s~~~ all over a post of yours another time.

JollyMisanthrope wrote:

Cipher Highwind, if you have something to say then say it. I don’t want the filtered version.

[JollyMisanthropeParticipant 3356]

Well I’ll wait to respond until that time comes. 🙂

The Children of Doom... Doom's Children. They told my lord the way to the Mountain of Power. They told him to throw down his sword and return to the Earth... Ha! Time enough for the Earth in the grave.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Cipher Highwind wrote:

My bowels are still empty. I will s~~~ all over a post of yours another time.

JollyMisanthrope wrote:

Well I’ll wait to respond until that time comes.

Oh! How I wish! How I wish I had an emoticon at hand to respond to this!

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Anonymous 5]

Terrific post Chaosoverall!

It doesn’t matter what aspect of society we look at, technical (approaching singularity), climate, the western version of democracy, the very real “conspiracy theories”, our out of control world debt problems and petro-dollar wars,,,,,,,,,,,,,and the reality of the cult of the 2-legged sacred cow and the resulting discrimination against males.

The net gives us an unprecedented access to information that very quickly overloads us emotionally.
No generation before us has ever had this type of exposure to the reality behind the news.
It can all be too much and absorbed too quickly. Burnout is inevitable.

Thanks for the reminder. You’re spot on about women here especially, I’m sick of thinking about the c~~~s.
I’ll try and concentrate on MGTOW positive alternatives

[Solid SnakeParticipant 255]

I mainly post up articles to attacks on our movement just because I like reading everyones experiences, their opinions and it gives us a chance to put our heads together and tear apart their argument.

I find you can learn a lot from other people and observation.

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

Agree with your post that anything can be over-done. But my reading and contributing here does not put me in a sour mood, or otherwise keep me mad or resentful about how screwed up things are. I’m a single white college educated STEM employed christian hetero’ male supporting no wife or kids… I got something to offend just about everyone I meet…lol.

But my time spent on this site does not put me in a bad mood. For me, it just reassures me that the perceptions I came to on my own before finding this site were accurate, and the decisions I made to protect myself were the correct ones. It may be true that the world is going to s~~~. But largely as a result of having accurate perceptions and making decisions accordingly, my world is actually pretty good. The rest of the world is not my problem.

I always knew that my decisions were correct for me, but until I found this site, it seemed to me as though I was the only one who’d had the perceptions I’d had. This site was enormously reassuring to me that I was not the only one seeing things as they are, and I remain grateful for that. So, my most common goal when posting is to try to give something back in the way of reassurance to new members here that their perceptions are accurate, that the world really is screwed up, but then to make sure they get the message that their world need not be a part of the screwed up overall world.

I think the anger and resentment comes from the frustration of trying to, or wishing to change the rest of the screwed up world. As long as you disengage and keep your focus on separating your world (going your OWN way) from the rest of the dysfunctional world, you’ll spend more time grateful, content and reassured, and less time frustrated and mad.

I never really needed the cooperation of the rest of the world to make my small part of it comfortable for me. It was the rest of the world that needed the contributions of me and others like me to make it a comfortable place for women and other people who may have been counting on me. That the rest of the world may be getting more and more screwed up without me and the contributions of others like me… is not my problem.

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[RoyDalParticipant]

BrainPilot wrote:

I think the anger and resentment comes from the frustration of trying to, or wishing to change the rest of the screwed up world.

Yes! Focus on getting your own head straight. There is nothing you can do to change the rest of the world — that’s up to them, not you.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Darth SinParticipant 576]

MGTOW is primarily an understanding of reality and subsequent freeing oneself from the restrictions and chokes placed on you, the man, by that said reality.

Discussing about women is just part of this. However, yes, after a point, MGTOWs need to start focusing on the self. One cannot remain at the same level of the rabbit hole, that is not progress.

[Zuberi TauParticipant 10606]

A mere fraction of my time is spent on topics dealing with trollops.

Most of my time is spent on hobbies, independent study and self preservation.

 

[DakotaParticipant 341]

Got to agree, Chaos.  I don’t have a T.V.  Knowing that the world is falling apart is one thing.  Watching the world fall apart…that’s a whole nother deal.  Can’t take watchin’ that s~~~ everyday.  One can almost feel their soul rotting…internet is the same damn thing.

However, I’m still giggling that someone had the b~~~~ to create such a site as this.  Ain’t no place quite like it.  The fact that I haven’t been banned yet is a true testament to how manly this place is.  I hope it stays this way.  To do that, it would have to stay ad-free…no advertiser in their right mind would put their business logo next to the words “dumb c~~~.”  Which is why the rest of the internet smells like FDS.

Cipher… HOLY S~~~ BRO!   Dude was just sayin’ that if you spend toooo much time working yourself up, that you can get angry and bitter.  You sound angry and bitter.  Chaos is a good guy who made a good argument.  If you think a man should spend every waking hour reading about dumb bitches, create a topic so other men can have their chance to “s~~~ all over it.”  Goddamn cuz, save that s~~~ for the cum-dumpsters.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Agreed with Chaos above. And it’s perfectly sensible.

But we have to maintain, not getting consumed on topics involving women is unrealistic – and damn near impossible – with the non-stop cultural bombardment – in EVERY single facet of the media, and in life.

To navigate the roads succesfully, it isn’t enough to just “be a good driver”.
One must actively practice collision avoidance.

MGTOW is primarily a REACTION — to the female action.
Even a great part of professional acting … is RE-acting.

The same is true in man’s personal life. He can’t just waltz through life unaware of the existing threats that we encounter to an extent I can’t even express with words. You can’t just be “indifferent” to the cars and road conditions around you and expect to get to your destination safely. You CAN’T. This the best attitude on the road and it will keep you alive, collision free to the best of your ability, and it will even lower your insurance. In fact, you need to REACT more than you ACT.

MGTOW is the manifestation of one word: NO.
“No” wouldn’t even need to be said if the cultural forces against Men who wish to go their own way didn’t exist.

The other day, I went about my own business. I was at a gas station and a woman approached me while I was gassing up and going about my life. She asked me for a “favor”. I said “NO”. No explanation or apology. Just “NO”. If it were possible to just go through life without this s~~~, I could recommend others do the same.

Unfortunately we don’t live in that kind of a world.

I saved more by saying “NO” than I ever gained by saying “YES”. Know what I mean?

PUAs are consumed by women. MGTOW are just the Millennium Falcon in the asteroid field.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[RennieParticipant]

Keymaster wrote:

PUAs are consumed by women. .

I have some friends like that. All they think about is snatch and ass, hopelessly addicted to porn. It’s really pathetic.

“Dumb C~~~”, *remembers dogface and laughs to himself*

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Hear here! I think a bigger mistake all men make is taking women seriously. Be aware, talk about them, watch and observe closely, but don’t take women seriously, and for your own sake, men, don’t take them TOO seriously. That’s the thing MGTOW could afford to do less of. Women are a joke. They have turned themselves into a joke. Not joking.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

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