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Gotta say, I’m a little bit disappointed with the behavior of the men in this thread.
That’s too bad. Because I made real effort to explain the benefits of not placing himself in a position where his “happiness” (or at least his contentment) is dependent on anyone else – especially a woman whom he credits for pulling him out of a depression.
You don’t sign a marriage contract because it “feels like you’re in love”. That’s an emotionally-based decision a man can’t afford to make. His original post is also an emotionally-based decision.
When someone tries to force feed you a blue pill, they don’t get to be “disappointed” when you spit it back out. Its’ a mistake to assume they should just swallow it in the first place.
What did you expect? Us to congratulate him and wish him well?
Hopefully, Joker will read it and realize we were really trying to help him.
Hopefully Rockmaninoff will too.
I’m about to hit a late show, so to all a good night.If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.I know a lot of men here are bitter (including myself), and for good reason. But I really feel that the entire seven pages of this thread is because misery loves company.
You ever imagine if you had to warn someone a train is coming while they’re standing on the tracks? Would you have a quiet monotone about it? Are some members bitter?maybe but most are aware,you are mistaken awareness for being bitter. If you read his previous post you will clearly see his need for female validation and approval is on level 10 (“when she touches my hand”) gibberish. High enough that most know she will not stick around because women do not value those traits in a man. Do you think he’s the first guy here that has relapse to the bosom of a women? Why do you think we save seats at the table because we know they always come back. Yes some of us my come off as harsh but guess what if you want a more toned down approach there are plenty other site that police speech and not hurt feelings so stop taking this so personal,after all he said he’s not coming back.
Never lose sight of what brought you here.
I’m glad Keymaster and others are willing to go toe to toe and keep up with this f~~~~~ and deconstruct every shaming tactic he can vomit. Can’t “handle”? lol, are you serious Joker?
You intentionally be a piece of s~~~ like a women then accuse others of “not being able to handle it” f~~~ you
I read the first four pages and couldn’t read anymore your clearly f~~~ing delusional.
It’s no big conspiracy. It’s all in your imagination. Maybe it’s your social skills that are screwing up your life, not random women “conspiring” against you.
Not all of us said it’s a conspiracy. However the past few ex-girlfriends knew what they were doing and it was no accident when they messed me around and hurt me.
Im just tired of putting all the effort in, chasing women and trying real hard to make relationships work. Just to ALWAYS get hurt.
Maybe not all women are the same but my own experiences have been a lot more bad than good.
Joker, if you’ve found “the one” good for you. But I certainly haven’t and I used to get depressed after trying and coming away with nothing . But now Ive realised Im was just wasting my time and happier not trying. Somebody previously replied “yeah the one maybe out there, but its like looking for a needle in a haystack” good analogy.
Joker, I can see why you have received these replies… Every one of us have been like you… Meeting a woman and the first few weeks were amazing, it felt so perfect to start with, so we thought shes “the one”. Only for it to end in tears. Ive been there.I don’t mean to ruffle any feathers, but I am going to do what I’m going to do. I just wanted to share my feelings because I had given up and was going the MGTOW route. But I just want to live while I’m alive. I just don’t see the reason for giving up when there are girls out there who who just want an honest man, not some weird PUA “badass.” They want a real relationship and are willing to talk things out. My girlfriend and I communicate 24/7.
This is a plea for all of you men who have given up:
PLEASE just put yourself out there one last time. Stop making excuses and actually LOOK for the good women. I want you to feel what I feel right now before you die. I want you to FEEL the strong emotions I have when my girlfriend and I are together. We sit on the couch close to one another. As we hold eachother’s hands, we interlock our fingers and exchange energy. We sit on the couch cheek-to-cheek with our hands interlocked and it’s the most wonderful feeling in the world.
Please believe me.
Anonymous54I didnt heer an enchore.Exit stage left.
Anonymous54Hey…yea, what happend to forever!!! Hahah
Oh girl your so silly!!!!
This is a plea for all of you men who have given up:
Make me an offer I can’t refuse.
PLEASE just put yourself out there one last time.
NO.
And you’re going to have to more compelling than typing one sentence for man to even THINK about it, ya lazy puke. We’re BUSY. Pursuing women doesn’t pay. It only COSTS. And you can’t even come up with an incentive besides “PLEASE”.
The Manswer is NO. You said you were leaving forever. Get out.
We sit on the couch close to one another. As we hold eachother’s hands, we interlock our fingers and exchange energy. We sit on the couch cheek-to-cheek with our hands interlocked and it’s the most wonderful feeling in the world.
You should probably aim higher in life.
In the mean time, don’t EVER give up hope.If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
Anonymous54That s~~~s right out of one of thoses romance novels ckics read.
OP
Will you marry me?
Hahahhahahah
Gotta say, I’m a little bit disappointed with the behavior of the men in this thread.
OP came here to say that he’s enjoying something (for however long it may last), and suggested to other men that they can enjoy it to. And he’s responded to with insults, accusations of being a woman, and a general attempt to tell him he’s stupid for enjoying what he’s enjoying right now.
I know a lot of men here are bitter (including myself), and for good reason. But I really feel that the entire seven pages of this thread is because misery loves company.
How you feel now after his latest post Mr “Heal the world”,you need to be very aware of these mangina yeast infections you put your neck on the line for.
I don’t mean to ruffle any feathers, but I am going to do what I’m going to do. I just wanted to share my feelings because I had given up and was going the MGTOW route. But I just want to live while I’m alive. I just don’t see the reason for giving up when there are girls out there who who just want an honest man, not some weird PUA “badass.” They want a real relationship and are willing to talk things out. My girlfriend and I communicate 24/7.
This is a plea for all of you men who have given up:
PLEASE just put yourself out there one last time. Stop making excuses and actually LOOK for the good women. I want you to feel what I feel right now before you die. I want you to FEEL the strong emotions I have when my girlfriend and I are together. We sit on the couch close to one another. As we hold eachother’s hands, we interlock our fingers and exchange energy. We sit on the couch cheek-to-cheek with our hands interlocked and it’s the most wonderful feeling in the world.
Please believe me.
Never lose sight of what brought you here.
SECRET AGENT TUNA
LILITH IS THE HEAD SUCCUBUS AND SHE LIVES ON THE DARK SIDE OF THE MOON
I don’t mean to ruffle any feathers, but I am going to do what I’m going to do. I just wanted to share my feelings because I had given up and was going the MGTOW route. But I just want to live while I’m alive. I just don’t see the reason for giving up when there are girls out there who who just want an honest man, not some weird PUA “badass.” They want a real relationship and are willing to talk things out. My girlfriend and I communicate 24/7.
This is a plea for all of you men who have given up:
PLEASE just put yourself out there one last time. Stop making excuses and actually LOOK for the good women. I want you to feel what I feel right now before you die. I want you to FEEL the strong emotions I have when my girlfriend and I are together. We sit on the couch close to one another. As we hold eachother’s hands, we interlock our fingers and exchange energy. We sit on the couch cheek-to-cheek with our hands interlocked and it’s the most wonderful feeling in the world.
Please believe me.
Haha! Good job troll! I felt for you until I read the last post.
You can’t be a woman. Because it is very hard to believe that women could be so good at trolling. So you definitely have to be a mangina.PLEASE just put yourself out there one last time. Stop making excuses and actually LOOK for the good women. I want you to feel what I feel right now before you die. I want you to FEEL the strong emotions I have when my girlfriend and I are together.
Why are you assuming that your audience doesn’t understand how you feel? Most of us have had girlfriend’s and even been married. We know what that feels like. We also know what it feels like to be free of the lie…that you need a woman in your life to be happy. You may have tried MGTOW before, but it’s clear that you never figured out how to be happy without having a GF.
You’ve assumed that all men secretly want to have a woman love them, just like you do. You assume that we gave up hope. I didn’t give up hope, I simply saw what’s been offered and decided I didn’t want that. I am happier without that then I ever was with it.
Ok. Then do it.
Stop making excuses and actually LOOK for the good women. As we hold eachother’s hands, we interlock our fingers and exchange energy.
You said you were leaving FOREVER. Don’t compound being an idiot with being a liar. Now F~~~ Off for good.
You’ve found a good woman. We get it. After she rips your heart out through your testicles make sure to sign up under a different name. You’ve sullied this one.
So you believe in angels, and unicorns; and you believe that the surge of energy designed into your human makeup at the touch of somebody you find sexually stimulating is some kind of metaphysical energy transfer. Are the Care Bears and My Little Ponies real too? Wait don’t answer that, you said you were leaving so just BE GONE!
I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.
I made real effort to explain the benefits of not placing himself in a position where his “happiness” (or at least his contentment) is dependent on anyone else
EXCERPT FROM:
http://www.deikman.com/personal.htmlPersonal Freedom
Arthur J. Deikman, M.D.
On Finding Your Way to the Real World
The list of the seven deadly sins has left out the worst one. For if you want to know reality and act in it with your creative power, dependency will do you in. Perhaps it’s not listed because it’s so often hidden and has so occupied our perception that we are not aware of how tyrannically it binds our lives. What we are told is dependency is a caricature: the man or woman still tied to the mother’s apron strings or dominated by a spouse. Dependency is more subtle and disguised than that: it is just the wish to have parents.
Dependency is a disease, an insidious fantasy of protective power looking down, guarding you, judging you, rewarding you, punishing you. The disease has symptoms: helplessness, envy, vanity, jealousy, and admiration; blaming, exploitation, and reproach. “You’re supposed to love me no matter what I do, for I’ve done my part [submission, feeling small and frightened], now you do yours!” Consider the justified anger, the sweet despair, the mournful longing, and the upward gaze, or the sullen pout that says, “I can’t do it, I have no choice. You’re supposed to do it, so give me what I need!”
I just don’t see the reason for giving up when there are girls out there who who just want an honest man, not some weird PUA “badass.”
Okay, well perhaps you haven’t had enough bad experiences. And let’s hope that you never will.
But I will tell you, every time I’ve put my “honesty” out there for women to see, I’ve regretted it. EVERY TIME.
They want a real relationship and are willing to talk things out.
Okay, if you say so. Then where are they?
PLEASE just put yourself out there one last time. Stop making excuses and actually LOOK for the good women. I want you to feel what I feel right now before you die. I want you to FEEL the strong emotions I have when my girlfriend and I are together. We sit on the couch close to one another. As we hold eachother’s hands, we interlock our fingers and exchange energy. We sit on the couch cheek-to-cheek with our hands interlocked and it’s the most wonderful feeling in the world.
Please believe me.
Yes, that is all wonderful, and I do believe you. But that does not change the fact that every single time I put myself out there, I, and most other men here, regret it.
I’m done sacrificing. It’s time to look out for me; because if I don’t look out for me, no one will.
You say that there are women that want honesty. Fine, then they can make the effort to show me that. I always give women the opportunity to make an effort, but they never do.
I’m done putting myself out there, making the effort, and having my heart stamped on again and again. I haven’t written off women, but I have written off putting myself in a position to be taken advantage of by women.
". . . elle, suivant l’usage des femmes et des chats qui ne viennent pas quand on les appelle et qui viennent quand on ne les appelle pas, s’arrêta devant moi et m’adressa la parole"—Prosper Mérimée
Why is having a woman equal to having hope, and not having one equal to despair? That’s illogical
I have plenty of hope and I keep all my wealth, focus me while having an awesome single life.
Hope is not about having a woman.
If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.
You don’t know a woman until you’ve met her in divorce court.
Go p~~~ up a rope. We’re not coming back.
Fuck this planet.It’s my opinion that you shouldn’t give up hope. There is someone out there for everyone. My girlfriend proved it to me. I find it very hard to believe that all women are plotting against you. Paranoid much?
It’s no big conspiracy. It’s all in your imagination. Maybe it’s your social skills that are screwing up your life, not random women “conspiring” against you.
Grow up.
Take your ‘grow up’, turn it sideways and stick it straight up your candy ass.
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