Don't Be Nice!

[RoyDalParticipant]

Lesson learned: Being nice is a trap. Say what you think — expletives deleted — not what you think they want you to say.

Your false friends will drop you, and that’s a good thing. Your real friends will hear you out, and they will tell you the truth in return.

What Nice Men Don’t Say To Nice Women

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[LurchParticipant 3866]

If all of that is lock up within the nice guy, heaven help us if we find out what is locked away deep down inside, the twisted psychic of the “nice” girl.

Blue-Pill Virgin: Women hate me! That's what it is.
MGTOW Man: Hate them back; it works for me.

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

My problem is that I”m too brutally honest I’m far being nice. That’s why women hate men now. hahah

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[SpacemonkeyParticipant 1481]

Crazy Canuck wrote:

My problem is that I”m too brutally honest I’m far being nice.

Honesty isn’t a problem, bro. Honesty is a virtue and in particular it is a masculine virtue. Wiminz cannot be honest, they lie to each other constantly, they lie to men in order to make themselves appear virtuous and worst of all they lie to themselves.

“Long is the way and hard, that out of Hell leads up to light.”

[Spank The MisandristsParticipant 2308]

I like being a nice guy and I like treating other people nicely. However nice doesn’t equal stupid, and my threshold is quite low, once you hit that threshold, you’d better be prepared for my evilest retaliation plan.

[Anonymous 11]

Spank The Misandrists wrote:

once you hit that threshold, you’d better be prepared for my evilest retaliation plan.

I so love engineering my enemies’ downfall. They don’t ever see it coming and don’t even know I did it. After watching that, I’m not nice by the way they describe it.

I’ve always had great respect for others’ boundaries but neglected my own. I now have very strong boundaries and defend them with great zeal.

I am nice until someone gives me a reason not to be nice.

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22521]

RoyDal wrote:

Lesson learned: Being nice is a trap. Say what you think — expletives deleted — not what you think they want you to say.

I disagree. “Being nice” is a wonderful tactic. It makes people underestimate you. Because they mistake “being nice” as “being weak”.

As MGTOW, most of us are not looking to date women, we are trying to escape the matrix. We want society to underestimate us, as we fly under the radar and escape without being noticed.

Also, that video only likely covers what is already known. “Beware the nice ones.” Because, if pushed far enough, the nice people can become the meanest, cruelest, and most sadistic people imaginable.

[Spank The MisandristsParticipant 2308]

Anonymous wrote:

I am nice until someone gives me a reason not to be nice.

More power to you brother!

[HitmanParticipant]

i’m usually in neutral.
i can shift gear into fight mode or help a person mode.
nice does not come free, you have to earn nice from me.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Single mothers raise boys to be nice. Then adult females don’t want them. And say there are no good men left?

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[LDream5Participant 27]

Jan Sobieski wrote:

Single mothers raise boys to be nice. Then adult females don’t want them. And say there are no good men left?

Exactly my problem right now. I’m new to the forums and posted my intro not that long ago. When my parents got a divorce, my mom mostly raised me. I need to snap out of this nice guy thing, because it hasn’t gotten me much at all. I have no idea how to approach girls any other way though. Hoping to learn how to.

I’ve lately come to the conclusion that I don’t want to continue with a relationship if I’m not getting my needs taken care of too. Tired of giving my time and attention to them…then not getting what I want. Maybe I should just be more honest about what I want? And that if it’s not working…to realize their is no value in trying with her. I seriously only want affection and sex right now. (I think that’s a fair trade too. They want the attention and stuff…and all I want is some affection.) I don’t think I want marriage or kids. How do I make that happen more?

I feel like I just beat around the bush and treat them well…then I may get lucky once or twice. Not worth it any more to me. I think I just realized this tonight really. Why am I trying to cater to them when they don’t do much of anything at all for me?

[experiencedParticipant]

“…then I may get lucky once or twice.”

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Consider reality – YOU are the prize, and “SHE of the many” may get lucky once or twice.
You in a position of power, left the game.
That is why they are so upset about mgtow.
It’s not degree or quantity.
It’s quality: men want women(to varying degrees)…….women need men(to varying degrees).
Much easier to control ‘wants’ than ‘needs’.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[Anonymous 3]

LDream5 wrote:

I have no idea how to approach girls any other way though. Hoping to learn how to.

Brother, that’s where you are really wrong. Women ain’t s~~~. They are not some like wild animals that you have to approach in a certain way in order to catch. Stop thinking like it’s something you’re lacking, something that you have to learn, as if it’s some sort of skill.

Instead of thinking “Hmm, how do I approach this girl here?” to yourself, try something along the lines of this “What makes her worthy of my time?” Before you know it, women approach you!

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