Don't be ashamed of being a man.

[VarunParticipant 2981]

Just thought I’d post a thought.

You guys might be familiar with the common disquisition on how men always bottle up their emotions, do not display their weakness and blah blah blah…. not to be indulgent in c~~~-talk but sometimes if we accidently hear things of this like, it makes us feel kind of ‘down’.

If any of you have ever experienced that moment, where you feel ‘ashamed’ because you are not doing something right, I want to say: Don’t feel ashamed.

We men do get in touch with our emotions; for some of us, that might be regarded as a ‘weak link’, a link that women very well take advantage of. So all this talk of ‘men are heartless creatures’ are false.

To tell you the truth, I’ve been hurt. In ways that would not earn me any sympathy. Even if a badass gangsta gets his jaw broken, he still gets taken to the hospital where a nurse dresses his wounds. But I never received any bandage for mine.

Most of my ‘bad time’ was in school. There was once a time when I was talking to a friend on our way back home from school in our school bus. My friend and I liked to discuss science stuff; so we were having our usual out-of-the-ordinary-geeky chit-chat when the Diva of the bus who was sitting just a few seats ahead of us, turned her head (probably annoyed by listening to all the Physics stuff she had no idea about) and shouted at the top of her voice:

: Oh My God! Look! These gus are taking about ‘pheeezikks’!

Everybody laughed. Even my friend did. But her voice was so irritating….and it had hit me when everybody started laughing…

I stood up and told her to shut the f~~~ up!

In a second, comes her blue-pill boyfriend and lands three good punches at my face…… my lower lip tore away and I was bleeding profusely.

Luckily the driver got to know of the tantrum, stopped the bus and interfered or else I’d have suffered certain brain damage that day.

I didn’t understand one thing then: Why did that bitch even bother to ‘listen’ to us? We were just minding our own business.

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The reason this gynocentric society exists is because men are very powerful. As a collective power, we would be the ulltimate force that no one would be able to stop if turned rogue. That’s why nature designed us in a way we can never become a collective force, in short, we’ll always be fighting among ourselves, trying to establish dominance over each other.

That is also why society programmed us in a way so that this power is kept in check…. or ‘wasted’ on fulfilling the needs of women. The government actively promotes the second-class citizenship of men; women always try to beat down men taking advantage of our lack of collectivism. They know that they cannot defeat us if we were to realize out true potential.

Do not be ashamed of being a man. Look at the mirror. Notice those huge hands, those muscles, that big chest .. those strong thighs and legs.. even the meekest wimpiest man is stronger than the average girlpower.

Be proud to be a man. We are superior than every other species with our intellect and strength combined. And had not there been the advent of the ‘good men’ of the likes of eg: Mr. @jan.Sobieski and Mr. @oldbill, we would have been living in Mr. @MG-ɹǝʍoʇ ‘s post-apolycalyptic earth.

Peace.

EDIT: I forgot. Happy 4th of July/Independence day to my North American brothers. Hope you guys have a good time.

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

Did men evolve to bottle up their emotions so that they would not show weakness to other men? or did they evolve that way so they could not so easily be manipulated by women? My guy friends might give me some harmless ribbing if I show feelings, but then they are honest about it themselves afterwards. They usually forget the conversation ever happened. A woman, on the other hand, stores that s~~~ in her data bank so she can use it at another time. If I bottle up emotions, it’s because a woman has used them against me, not a man.

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[GayovichParticipant 23]

What most people don’t understand is the saying that men are stoic, emotionless, etc. isn’t founded on nothing, a masculine man doesn’t let s~~~ get in his way and knows there’s a time and a place to show emotion. And more often than not it isn’t the time nor place, and there is a huge distinction between bottling emotions away and CONTROLLING THEM so they don’t get in the way.

And why is this? Because for the men who care enough, it gets women’s panties SOAKED. They instinctively look for that stoic, masculine man and when they see one they get aroused. If women turned around one day and collectively said they liked weak, effeminate, emotional men then men would become weak, effeminate and emotional seemingly overnight, but this isn’t the case. Women are already neurotic and hyperemotional enough by themselves, the last thing they want is to have to put up with bulls~~~ coming from the men they expect to be their rocks.

So men aren’t heartless creatures, if anything they have the biggest hearts out there. Hearts that definitely s~~~ on the capacity for love and passion of the “gentler/fairer sex”.

When men understand this, unity/brotherhood and not putting up with women’s s~~~ then I’d argue if western societies haven’t already collapsed beforehand then those wizened men will pave the way to bringing back sanity and not repeating past mistakes.

"I have never wished to cater to the crowd; for what I know they do not approve, and what they approve I do not know." -Epicurus

[Anonymous 11]

Damn Varun, that was very f~~~ed up that her White Knight attacked you like that.

My old man started teaching me how to physically fight at a very young age. I was the nerd people feared in high school though I eschew violence. I had one incident with some football jocks two years ahead of me after which the entire school thought I was crazy and never again would anyone f~~~ with me. It was a 4 against me situation, and my Celt genes took control.

I bottle my emotions too. My Chad friend will cry at chick flick movies solely to manipulate women. Guess what, they think it makes him special. I know this f~~~er like the back of my hand, and he never cries. He’s actually very abusive towards women.

Most men just have better control over their emotions than women do. A bird will feign health if it is sick to not attract predators. It may be the same mechanism at work for men too.

Never apologize for being a man.

[NerevarParticipant 8040]

I have never felt ashamed for being a man. Men make, women take.

"One of the best things internet exposed is just how insane women are." - Freeman_K

[Anonymous 54]

Bitches say men dont show there emotions.Then if you do show your emotions your not a real man.There just fuking with us.Its all just to keep us off balanced and confused.Yes I have emotions. But they are MINE! I have always been proud to be a MAN!Don’t Care what bitches think.I am strong and in control.

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10916]

Typically women like the things that serve their purpose. So when you are showing your emotions by crying during a part of the movie when a woman is leaving a man or a man is getting ready to die for some bitch, it’s OK. When a mangina is getting all romantic and doing pathetic things to suck up to his c~~~ girlfriend, it’s OK. Displaying these emotions during any other time earns you ridicule and shame because the emotions aren’t for her benefit or any other woman’s benefit. Hug a man in front of other women or exude joy in seeing that man and that man get’s labelled as your man crush.
There is no shame in being a man and showing human emotions. No c~~~ has the right to assert any boundaries on what defines a man nor define what a man should be.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

I think society as a whole has steam rolled emotions out of men. You’re not allowed to show anything as a man without being called a pussy or weak or whatever. I think the only acceptable emotion a man can show is anger, and that’s going away too.

Ha, women think they have a monopoly on emotions.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[AnthonyParticipant 2281]

I’ve always seemed more stoic/calm. I almost never experience strong emotions. Or at the very least, those strong emotions never get expressed. Even when I have my picture taken by family members, people always tell me I look “grimly stoic” or something similar ha. And whenever I do try to smile, it looks sorta creepy because I almost never smile.

Women say they always want more “emotional” men, but they’re lying. Any time I try to express my frustrations to someone in my family, I almost always get told to “man up” and deal with it.

Once you have a Fleshlight real vaginas become worthless.

[Anonymous 54]

Mr. Spock wrote:

Typically women like the things that serve their purpose. So when you are showing your emotions by crying during a part of the movie when a woman is leaving a man or a man is getting ready to die for some bitch, it’s OK. When a mangina is getting all romantic and doing pathetic things to suck up to his c~~~ girlfriend, it’s OK. Displaying these emotions during any other time earns you ridicule and shame because the emotions aren’t for her benefit or any other woman’s benefit. Hug a man in front of other women or exude joy in seeing that man and that man get’s labelled as your man crush.
There is no shame in being a man and showing human emotions. No c~~~ has the right to assert any boundaries on what defines a man nor define what a man should be.

Mr.Spock speaking about emotions!!!I though ide never see the day!

[Anonymous 11]

Anthony wrote:

Women say they always want more “emotional” men

The only emotional men women really respond to are those men who have emotional or psychological problems like manginas.

Mr. Spock is right about women liking men showing emotion whenever it fits into their delusions. My Chad friend is a perfect example. I had his woman tell me about his movie crying. She was still swooning reminiscing about it. I was trying to keep from spewing. I knew the f~~~er was just faking it so my emotion was one of disgust. Of course, I said nothing. I held my emotions within me, wisely. Another reason I don’t show emotions is that I do not like to show others my hand. I always keep a poker face. One never knows if one is dealing with a potential covert enemy.

I feel emotions the whole range of them. Whenever someone starts getting emotional with me, I immediately begin to suspect manipulation unless there is a valid reason like your car just got stolen, or your dog just died.

I was exposed to many John Wayne movies as a young child right in my formative years. My dad loved John Wayne movies. I still love The Duke.

[experiencedParticipant]

It’s important to not give a f~~~ about what women think.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[AnthonyParticipant 2281]

Anonymous wrote:

The only emotional men women really respond to are those men who have emotional or psychological problems like manginas.

That’s definitely true. Women like to get different types of attention for different things from different men. Manginas fit the bill perfectly when it comes to wanting attention for emotional reasons.

Being more stoic, especially in public, is definitely a great thing.

And I’m not a big fan of western movies, but I do like John Wayne movies. They’re great and my dad loves them as well.

Once you have a Fleshlight real vaginas become worthless.

[EtrangereParticipant 706]

leverage all my time in self learning.

Fill your mind up and you do not have to pussy around with emotions. You end up being very busy and there is no time for bs.

This^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

oh , and I was the tallest kid in school so if there was any bullying , it was usually me doing it.

[Anonymous 5]

My dad still hugs me he crys about my brother dying.but my dad was in Vietnam and escaped abuse from his dad who would hit him .

[Anonymous 54]

Anonymous wrote:

My dad still hugs me he crys about my brother dying.but my dad was in Vietnam and escaped abuse from his dad who would hit him .

Sorry about your Brother. Your Family has been through alot.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Varun wrote:

You guys might be familiar with the common disquisition on how men always bottle up their emotions

100% pure female-perpetuated crap of course.

Then when you SHOW your emotions, the same bitches says “you’re reacting emotionally” and “don’t be so emotional”. The same idiots who accuse you of not being in touch with your emotions will now accuse you of being TOO emotional.

Varun wrote:

So all this talk of ‘men are heartless creatures’ are false.

Of course it’s false.

Who created the most moving and emotional music, symphonies, operas, and song lyrics? Classic literature, stories, films and poems? Who is there to rescue the animals after natural disasters? Who climbs into burning buildings to save people at the cost of their own lives.

Now which sex is heartless by comparison?
One billion abortions worldwide will answer that one for you.

Prince writes “I would die for you”.
Beyonce writes “You better put a ring on it”.

“Men always bottle up their emotions” is just woman saying men are better than women at not making emotionally-based decisions. Just because a woman can burst into tears on command for no apparent reason doesn’t make her “better” at being emotional. Emotional outbursts don’t make women “better” at expressing their emotions.

She is the same idiot who would sign a marriage contract because it “FEELS like she’s in love”. A stupid emotionally based decision.

“WOMEN ARE BETTER AT BEING EMOTIONAL!!!”

“That’s like saying a Hummer burns gas… better.”

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 11]

@doom93: I’ve read that having one’s child pass is the worst possible thing one can experience. I’ve also been told by people who have lost children that is was the worst thing they ever experienced. That is one situation where it is proper for a normal man to express his emotions.

I think it is emotionally more mature to only express your emotions outwardly when it is proper to do so. One thing I’ve learned as I’ve grown older is that no one gives a flying rat’s ass about how you feel. The only thing that matters are results. Women and unstable men tend to be overly emotional.

Nice shred, Key!

[FreedomParticipant 295]

I learned in Psych class that the female brain is physically smaller than the male’s, but contains more neurons. The extra neurons are specifically concentrated in the regions responsible for emotional processing and communication.

So, neurologically speaking, emotions have a stronger presence in the female brain. Female behavior is more dominated by them, and women are better at expressing them, and at reading them in others, than men.

The male brain, on the other hand, is streamlined for rapid response in emergency situations (where women commonly freeze up), as well as the capacity to make logical decisions quickly and while under pressure.

Further, the peptides associated with emotions are addictive, and as such women are much more vulnerable to becoming addicted to strong emotional states, and unconsciously create circumstances that evoke them. This is why men tend to be the voice of sobriety in emotionally-charged situations, whereas women just go crazy.

Relevant video:

It is wise to fear dangerous commitments.

[VarunParticipant 2981]

Anonymous wrote:

Damn Varun, that was very f~~~ed up that her White Knight attacked you like that.

My old man started teaching me how to physically fight at a very young age. I was the nerd people feared in high school though I eschew violence. I had one incident with some football jocks two years ahead of me after which the entire school thought I was crazy and never again would anyone f~~~ with me. It was a 4 against me situation, and my Celt genes took control.

I bottle my emotions too. My Chad friend will cry at chick flick movies solely to manipulate women. Guess what, they think it makes him special. I know this f~~~er like the back of my hand, and he never cries. He’s actually very abusive towards women.

Most men just have better control over their emotions than women do. A bird will feign health if it is sick to not attract predators. It may be the same mechanism at work for men too.

Never apologize for being a man.

I’ve been quiety training myself to build up my muscles as well. I can’t afford a gym membership, so right now I have to satisfy with lifting sandbags and doing all the heavy jobs around the house; even if I don’t want to. I’ve been a late bloomer, the muscles took too long to appear. I’ll train mysef heavily and build up and wear RED most of the time so that when people look at me, they would be anything but not intimidated.
I’ve been more emotional in the past; but I’ve finaly learned how to do that tough poker face. You know what’s the great thing about it?

People actually do get intimidated.

Of course violence is never the right path and I’ll try to stay away from fights as much as I can, but if somebody tries to mess with me like they did in the past, I’ll slap the taste right out of their mouths.

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

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