Domestic abuse and white knights

[vincentosaurusParticipant 147]

 

In case anyone is ever in a situation were they need to explain how domestic abuse against men is actually a huge problem this video may help to get the point across in a tangible way.

Here’s the video

It’s just one of those stupid “social experiment” videos but this one actually manages to stumble across a serious issue. As you can see not only is no one willing to help a guy who is being assaulted by his girlfriend but these white knights are actually willing to attack him for the crime of defending himself.
I remember when one of my ex girlfriends slapped me in the face (because she was mad at me for walking away from her while she was screaming at me) how incredibly surprised she was when I packed up her s~~~ and kicked her out from my place. I remember actually having to explain to her that hitting me was no different than me hitting her and she was lucky I was too tired of her to even bother retaliating. I remember her saying with shock in her voice “but… you’re a guy. Girls slap guys.”

In your opinions what is the best course of action if a girl assaults you? Dish it back to play it fair, call the cops to prove a point or is it better to play it safe considering the prejudice against men when it comes to violence perpetrated by women?

[MyselfParticipant 353]

vincentosaurus wrote:

In your opinions what is the best course of action if a girl assaults you?

In my experience with a fairly toxic girl disagreements would turn into arguments, arguments would turn into temper tantrums, words would turn into pushing, pushing would turn into kicks, etc…  In my case I never raised the game to the next level.  I still remember the first time we were arguing and I tried to walk past to leave and I got a shove in the chest and a finger in the face. Arguing with more than just words fundamentally changes the way two people relate with each other – things move into a different “dimension”.

I so wish I had the foresight to see that the terms of our relationship had changed.  When an otherwise intellectual or emotional argument turns physical, it is time to get the f~~~ out. The means to deal with basic problems have deteriorated to the point where pushing, slapping, and worse become “options”.  That is no way to deal with s~~~, and the root cause of this new confrontational dimension lays in all the psychological bulls~~~ that preceded the first shove/slap/whatever.

In other words, don’t “deal” with domestic abuse from women.  Leave them immediately.

 

[BDParticipant 1146]

vincentosaurus wrote:

In your opinions what is the best course of action if a girl assaults you?

First thing is preparation because most of them hit. I recommend first that you have cameras in your house.

Your reaction should definitely depend on your situation, severity of the assault, presence of white knights, in public, cameras,, witnesses, etc.

Have you ever tried to restrain a psychotic female? They bite, scratch, hair pull, kick, scream, punch etc. You will definitely incur more injuries by trying to restrain her, you might lose your nerve, or in the difficulty of restraining her, you may leave bruising on her wrists or arms which will go against you.

One thing I know for sure, if a woman hits you, you need to delete and ghost her, zero contact, change all your passwords, no contact directly or indirectly, give her absolutely no reason to ever talk to you again.

In Canada, I’ve had several women assault me, and the police did absolutely nothing except charge me on one false allegation(In this circumstance the girl actually threatened me that she would ruin my life and then she hit herself in the head multiple times to have injuries to show, it was insane),  she admitted to them later that she lied in her statement and the charge was dropped, any consequences for her lying, of course not.

I believe any situation involving abuse from women is a lose-lose, get out immediately, run far away.

 

 

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

[HitmanParticipant]

most women do hit.i used to block punches, kicks etc. a few i would use only an open hand to administer a glancing blow to the side of the head,onto where hair is.. NEVER with a closed fist..the law is tricky..do not put a f~~~ing mark on a women because the police will arrest you immediatly. no marks and if they show up at least you got a chance to offer to stay at a hotel,then get a f~~~ing restraining order on that bitch! once s~~~ gets violent its just a matter of time before its over anyway.

[HitmanParticipant]

more double standards  in favor of ” the weaker sex ” bulls~~~.

[experiencedParticipant]

Maybe cameras she’ll never know about.  I’d never hit a LAYDEE because if everyone knows she deserved it eg self defense etc, the laws and courts and police and society are so effing stacked against the guy it’s sickening. They want you to hit them because it will give them unbelievable power to hurt you, in a life changing way. For the record, I’ve never hit one, but as Sean Connery says to not rule it out as an option.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[RoyDalParticipant]

When an otherwise intellectual or emotional argument turns physical, it is time to get the f~~~ out.

Yes, get the f~~~ out.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[vincentosaurusParticipant 147]

experienced wrote:

For the record, I’ve never hit one, but as Sean Connery says to not rule it out as an option.

As  side note I love Sean Connery for sticking to his guns on that one over the years. Every couple of years they ask him if he changed his mind yet (really what they mean is have we bullied you into being on our side yet) and every time he says it like, “no, sometimes they need a smack.”

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

DON’T GO NEAR WOMEN

How many time do we have to say this until it sinks in?

Don’t live with them, don’t marry them, don’t have kids with them …. if you must f~~~ them …

BUNNY RANCH

Once again for the stupid:

DON’T GO NEAR WOMEN

I’d rather holiday in Fukushima

[narwhalParticipant]

It depends on the situation.  First off, the second a conversation with a woman gets emotionally charged, I’m done with the conversation.  If it’s not at my home, I walk away.  I may discuss later if she demonstrates she can discuss without it escalating, but not before.  As Myself said, you can see the signs before it happens.

However, if that’s not an option for whatever reason, it’s depends on the situation.  If it was like the woman in the video, she would not be able to make contact with me, not after the first slap at least.  Once it’s escalated to this point, adrenaline would kick in  (similar to the WK in the 2nd video) and there is no way she is going to ‘win’ this fight.  I would tell her she does not get to hit me and she needs to stop and walk away for her own good right now.  I’ve been told I can get rather scary when I’m angry and that will likely sink in that she’s made a rather poor choice in attacking me.

Of course, it also depends on whether she has a weapon or not, whether my kids are near by, and whether we are in public or not.  Regardless, if she takes a swing at me, there will be no second chances.  If she tells me she’s hit a man (or woman) in the past and felt he/she deserved in (non self defense or training), then she’s immediately done.

The way I see it, if you have a violent nature, man or woman, they you need to take up MMA or some other violent hobby as an outlet.  I’ve know several guys that did this and it helped keep them out of trouble. Having a violent nature is a gift, but like most gifts, it can be a curse if you don’t learn proper judgement.  As well, you need to learn the signs of when a situation is escalating and how to get out of the situation before any damage can occur.

Ok. Then do it.

[Smacktalk73Participant 296]

One extremely negative side effect of all the public condemnation of male-on-female domestic abuse is to create shame and avoidance among men who get hit by women. What kind of a big pussy lets himself get abused by a helpless woman?

I am convinced that at least some of the feminist emphasis on male-on-female violence is to give women justification for their own violence. After all, if every male is just a potential rapist/wife beater, then who cares if you smack him around a bit? It isn’t like he’s a walking potential victim, like a woman is.

The younger feminists I know are sometimes also super violent when drunk and/or angry. They are able to rationalize this by constantly talking about how oppressed and victimized  are – so OF COURSE they are always on the edge of losing it and beating someone up.

Conversely males have “anger management” issues rather than any legitimate greivances, so whenever a guy loses his s~~~, he is considered seriously defective.

 

 

 

 

 

[treelville..miamiParticipant 893]

All women hit, all of them. Its a form of leverage that they use against men, they hit you switch it around or vice versa, then call the cops whatever, and its a wrap.

There’s really no right way to deal with a lying conniving violent c~~~ other than just not at all.

"The wounds of honor are self inflicted"

[SnakeSpectator 2080]

Women are more physically violent than men. From my own experience, and from statistics. It takes self discipline to physically control yourself. You think a woman that can’t put the ice cream down is going to hold back from kicking you? The best course of action is to never live with a woman.

[BigDParticipant 3024]

I have never laid a hand on a woman, even when I should have.  I know now just not to get myself in situations where I would have to.  Thus, MGTOW.  You can’t be accused of something when you aren’t even there to do the alleged crime.

Don't stick your dick into anyone you aren't willing to put up with for eighteen years and nine months.

[Anonymous 11]

White Knights and domestic “abuse” are like flies to a steaming pile of s~~~.

@Snake-Yes, women are more violent. The one that have hit me are lucky I hold back as I fight like a cornered hellcat.

[EnlightenedMGTOWParticipant 291]

Always have cameras and voice capturing technology in every room of your own (subject to your local state laws). You never know when you will need it.

If you have something to capture sound, after she assaults you, act surprised and say “Did you just hit me?!”

When she says yes or you deserved it (plus whatever idiotic reason her hamster brain will concoct), you’ve caught her admitting to assault.

That’s when you calmly tell her to pack her things up and leave. Then you press charges and enjoy your big fat payday.

Marriage is the disease, divorce is the cure. MGTOW is the vaccine.

[vincentosaurusParticipant 147]

Here’s a story about a fellow who played it smart after his wife accused him of beating her he recorded her with his phone threatening to do it again if he didn’t move out. He didn’t want to be thrown out of his own house so he used this to prove she was full of s~~~ and threw her out. This is just a written story. I remember finding a youtube with the actual recording in it but now I can’t find it. Anyway the bit he recording went like this:

Her-“I want you to know what’s going to happen.”
Him-“Ok”
Her-“If you are not out by tonight with all your stuff, I will call the Albany Police Department, and say that you beat me, and get an order of protection next week against you.”
Him-“Are you going to make something up that I hit you?”
Her-“Yes, without a doubt.”
Him-“Why would you do that kell?”
Her-“Why would I do that? To get you out of the house, that’s why?”

It’s just a shame these vindictive liars don’t get caught more often with this crap because they pull it all the time.

[FitzBonesParticipant 304]

I’m usually a very laid-back and easy going kinda guy, not much ruffles my feathers. If a woman or a partner struck me though? Turn, snarl viciously n get right in her face and tell her to get the f~~~ away, to get the f~~~ out of my life and that I never want to see her face again. After that I’d swing past the local police station, get a restraining order and then if I ever see her again, show it to her and tell her to get the f~~~ gone. A very legal way of doing it but it protects me and alerts the police to the situation if she should try and turn it around and claim it against me there is a precedent for her own violence.

"If you can fill the unforgiving minute with sixty seconds' worth of distance run,"

[Deus Ex MachinaParticipant 1068]

Domestic abuse among Females on Males sometimes Boyfriends, Fiancee’s or Husbands are at an alarming rate. I personally know two Guys who were abused, one of which had it filmed and documented twice for the Police and as evidence to have his Children removed from their psycho mother. My Ex wife started to punch, slap and kick just a little before our marriage ended. She then stabbed me three times, twice with a scissors and once with a knife.

 

In my honest opinion, the abuse has to be Filmed, pretty much every cell phone now has a camera and video on it. Turn that sucker on and start filming like your Werner Herzog!. Why?, the sad reality is, most police and court systems wont even believe the Mans side of the story, especially with evidence (i.e. black eye, bruises, stab wounds).

 

Next step, give the bitch THE BOOT, IMMEDIATELY . after the punches and kicks escalated, i somehow justified my abuse to: “Well, She’s a girl, that’s what they do”. No, that’s absolute f~~~ing bulls~~~. any form of punch, slap or kick is ABUSE. Don’t matter how, when or where. The f~~~ed up part is that very, and I mean VERY rarely anyone will come help a dude if they see a Female beating Him up or attacking him.

 

"If You have the Tooth of a Whale, You must have the Whale's Jaw to hold it". (i.e. One Must have the right qualifications for leadership) -Hawaiian Proverb

[narwhalParticipant]

There is another factor to the domestic abuse numbers.   A few years back, I had a few dates who, unbeknownst at the time, was absolutely insane.  She had severe depression issues, and was prone to physically harm herself (usually cutting) when the depression got too bad.  She was not suicidal, just that pain made her feel better, that she felt she deserved it or something.  Yes, that crazy.

She was a mother who had already lost rights to her kids.  She had weekend visitation rights, but that’s it. (She told me her ex was cruel and used the legal system against her, I didn’t know that her ex and the states were really protecting the kids from her).  She knew that if her episodes continued, she would further lose access.  So, if she had a particularly bad night where she had to seek medical treatment, she would have to call 911.  She could not state that she inflicted the damage herself, so she told authorities she was a victim of domestic abuse, the non-existent boy friend.   Authorities were not allowed to question her claim.  The could not press charges since she never named anyone (because domestic abuse is so emotional you can’t expect women to do the logical thing).

So the point is, women know how to play domestic abuse from all angles.   Not only to damage their husband/bf etc, but when they have physically harmed themselves and don’t want to face the consequences.  I would not put it past a woman to beat her child, then give her self a bruise or two, and blame the whole thing on some fictitious BF.  Because women never lie about domestic abuse.

Ok. Then do it.

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