Does The Wall move?

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

I was wondering if, as a man gets older, the women that appear attractive to him also will get older, so he gets interested in more women, or does it stop somewhere?

In short, does the Wall move for a man, on a personal level?

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

[Governor Megachris%Participant 3584]

Good question.  I’m the type that is physically attracted to younger-looking women, which is usually those around 17-20 (and even 20 is pushing it).  For me, the Wall hasn’t moved at all.  I’ve gotten older, but my attraction hasn’t gone to older women yet.

[Anonymous 18]

Sorry I need some clarifications, please ignore if I am just too dumb to get your question.

Do you mean that man get more interesting from a woman’s perspective as he ages? Or does he find more women to be interesting after they have encountered the wall?

Edit: Ok I understand your question based on the above post. I am guessing it moves for most men. It’s a relative thing. The woman herself will never admit what she used to have or get with much convenience. But her attitude of ‘settling’ may be more pleasing to older men (in her own age bracket). Since there is younger crop out there. But for the man he just accepts the lack of drama (seemingly) that should come with degenerating quality of goods post-wall. In short, its relative and for me it moves. It’s late, apologies if I make 0 sense.

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

As I have gotten older (I am in my late 40s), I have found that I find a wider range of women in the 20s more attractive, and the 30s have opened up for me.  I wonder if the 40s will be of interest to me, when I am in my 50s.  Of course, a woman that is an utter trainwreck won’t really be of interest to me.

I just wonder if it moves over time, and when it stops moving.

For myself, thoughts of teen age girls now, is too young for me, and a girl can look too young to interest me.

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

[Anonymous 12]

I’m 41 and am simply attracted to attractive women. I work on a case by case basis, I have seen many women who are 18-25 who look worn out and old, likewise I have seen older women 30 plus who look great. If age itself excites you and  admit  do find an age gap exciting than maybe that is all you need but for me I go by looks, attitude, how easy or not she is to get along with etc.

No point in a hot 18 year old if she is a headcase.

 

[hmskl’dParticipant 6406]

I believe the age of attraction has also moved slightly with me. I just did four days of Jury Duty. The jury had eight women, ranging in ages from approximately mid twenties (I would guess) to mid sixties or slightly older.

I would say that the two that I was most attracted to were about early to later thirties.

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3293]

Anonymous wrote:

I’m 41 and am simply attracted to attractive women. I work on a case by case basis.

I am also 41 and I totally agree with this.  What I have found though, is the older a woman is the lower percentage of women that age I find attractive. What I am finding now is that it is rare for me to be attracted to any woman over the age of around 45.  The general thinking is the wall hits women at around 33, and I agree this is the age when a woman starts to lose her attractiveness.   The after effects of hitting the wall are different for all women and effect women at different rates, but I think we can agree that by the age of 50 it is rare to find an attractive women who has not had some sort of cosmetic surgery and spends hours every day on her appearance.

A friend my age is married to a woman 10 years older than him so I have seen what has happened to her over the last 15 years or so.  I have spoken to her about this and she says that she realised she had become anonymous to men around the age of 47.  Obviously this is absolutely devastating to women who have been used to using their looks and sexuality to get whatever they want.  As men, unless you are one of the 20% of Alphas you are used to being anonymous to women but for women the thought of having another 40 years of life being unnoticed is terrifying.

Obviously the whole Cougar phenomenon is women being in denial that the wall effects them, but there will still come a point when men will not even consider them for a one off pump and dump.

 

 

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Yes it moves …. to reveal another wall … then another … and another ☺

[peterfaParticipant 833]

I’ve definitely found myself more attracted to older women as I got older. I don’t mind the few disappointing shifts in appearance. I rather have a person who’s where I am in maturity. If you find one who’s mature (31) let me know. The only women I can find who are decent are like in their sixties. I don’t go for that kind of thing.

[RennieParticipant]

Governor Megachris% wrote:

Good question. I’m the type that is physically attracted to younger-looking women, which is usually those around 17-20 (and even 20 is pushing it). For me, the Wall hasn’t moved at all. I’ve gotten older, but my attraction hasn’t gone to older women yet.

Me too, hope it never changes either.

[Governor Megachris%Participant 3584]

ILiveAgain wrote:

Yes it moves …. to reveal another wall … then another … and another

That doesn’t sound like a Wall, it sounds like a fragging LABYRINTH!

[Knights Templar RisingParticipant 5106]

I am 47, and for me the wall moves.  I can find women up to 5 years older attractive, if she at least makes an attempt to take care of herself.  The lower end of the age range moves too, because I don’t want a 20-something because their intellect is inferior at that age – I don’t want to be constantly explaining things to someone.

Sovereignty above all else.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

I think a big part of the wall is the mind set of the woman.  If they are hot and dumb, don’t take care of themselves so they age hard, do nothing in terms of career, and pop out a kid so they can proudly claim single mom status…no, the wall does not move, it will hit early and hard.  If they take care of their body and live healthy, aren’t a super whore that has had enough dicks in her to make any guy cringe, and have actually done something productive with their life other than create loads of drama and baggage, I think the wall will come much later for them, and probably not be nearly as hard of an impact.

[WolfParticipant 890]

Anonymous wrote:

I’m 41 and am simply attracted to attractive women. I work on a case by case basis, I have seen many women who are 18-25 who look worn out and old, likewise I have seen older women 30 plus who look great. If age itself excites you and admit do find an age gap exciting than maybe that is all you need but for me I go by looks, attitude, how easy or not she is to get along with etc. No point in a hot 18 year old if she is a headcase.

I agree with this. I have seen young women who are unattractive and older women who were attractive, and vice versa. For me, the criteria is attractiveness – not age. With this said, regardless of how hot she is, I can not associate with women who are complete nut jobs. If all she can say is “and one time, at band camp…” then it’s too painful for me to even spend a couple of hours with her.

[– Deleted on Request –Spectator 936]

While I like looking at younger women, I find their lack of maturity and, often, intelligence detracting.  Unfortunately, older women may have the maturity and intelligence but their looks have faded.  I can’t win, can I?

 

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