Does the thought of dying alone scare you?

[MINDustryParticipant 80]

I recently joined this website and have enjoyed it quite a lot. However there is this one thing that’s been bothering the hell out of me. As someone who plans to be a bachelor throughout my life without a wife or children, I often worry about what will happen to me as my 70’s, 80’s, and 90’s are on the horizon. Now, I’m aware that this is a very long time from now but the prospect of dying alone is very real and very scary.

I have 1 sibling 6 years younger who will pretty much get old with me and cousins all around my age who will be close to the same age anyways. Maybe their children would take care of me if they have them? I don’t know. I don’t feel like going into a senior citizens home so the only option I figured I have for myself if the pain ever becomes insurmountable or I get some terminal illness is to just pull the trigger.

Having children doesn’t mean you will be taken care of either though as lots of children who are married often neglect aging parents.

Sad I know but without immortality or vastly longer life expectancy I fear those 3 decades if I make it to them alive. I wonder if we will be living significantly longer by 2074 when I am very old (80’s/90’s).

What are some of your thoughts on this? Have you all thought of the same thing?

[MINDustryParticipant 80]

My grand father, was married. He actually was married 6 or 7 times. Had a dozen kids, couple dozen grand kids. had a big family and many many friends. Well he died alone. Everybody was busy with their life that day. They found him the next day on the floor, nobody bothered checking on him.

Women most of the time use this shaming tactic: you will die alone, or you will be a bitter old man all alone. Well guess being married and having kids doesn’t guarantee anything after all.

Exactly. That’s the SCARY part.

You can do the “right” thing considered by society and STILL die alone in old age.

[Anonymous 42]

Alone is a state of mind, “alone” is one of the battle cries by the lopsided feminist agenda for us to return to the plantation. Think of it as a proposition to have the misery they spawn and to suffer that misery “together”.
If alone means being unshackled from misery (and it does) why not embrace it?
In a hundred years from now I’m sure all that I am won’t matter, I’ll be nothing but dust then. Why trade misery for company? Who wants to be tortured by endless mindf~~~s for the sake of keeping bad company just to not be alone?
The choice is simple; spend your life in a dungeon of gynocentrism, or be on your way (alone) enjoying verything life has to offer.
Besides, all the fruits of your labor not being squandered is better than dying “alone”, especially after being utterly plundered, abandoned, criminalized, and ruined by the empty promises of a deceitful woman, In which case you’ll die alone anyway, with a long trail of mental abuse and scars that won’t heal.
In this world dying alone is the other side of living in misery.
The modern female is actually this bad, so much so I prefer to live alone.

[JackinovParticipant 5229]

I don’t get this “dying alone” s~~~. Let’s say you’ve got people near you the instant you die. What changes? Nothing.

I can see being concerned about falling down and not being able to get up, but with proper counter measures in place, contacting help shouldn’t be an issue.

I prefer my own company.

are you a chia pet in man drag

[Zuberi TauParticipant 10606]

Nope!

[narwhalParticipant]

I think my father would qualify as ‘dying alone’. He had kids at a later age, and end up passing when all his kids and young kids that got all their time. He also retired with much savings and divorced my mother after retirement, leaving him with s~~~ty insurance coverage. He got visits, but for the most part his was alone in lousy conditions..

So to me, I am not so much afraid of dying alone as I am of dying slowly and under poor care. I do not want to be a burden to my children, but hope to either pass suddenly, or within a good care facility.

Aside: A single female coworker passed away about a year ago. Her funeral was rather depressing. There was a lot of people there, but it was a lot of very louse connections. Her family kept repeating about how much she loved her dogs, and that they wish they had got to spend more time with her. I suppose I worry that something like that would happen to me, but I don’t know that it should me I give up spending time on what I like to get closer to people I don’t want to spend that much time with.

Ok. Then do it.

[RoyDalParticipant]

No. There are worse fates than dying after a happy life.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[numbCruncherParticipant 772]

My grandparents were married for 60 years. She visited him every day in the care home towards the end of his life. He died when she wasn’t there.

She had 2 kids and 5 grandkids. She was unconscious for a few days before she died. She wasn’t aware who was there when she died.

No. Dying alone doesn’t scare me.

Being shackled for 50 years to someone who hates me and thinks they have some automatic moral ascendancy over me because of their gender – that scares me.

You say "love is a temple, love the higher law" ...You ask me to enter, but then you make me crawl. And I can't be holding on to what you got, when all you got is hurt

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Even if being married somehow made your last few days/months/years significantly better…is that worth making the next 50 significantly worse?

[Big BossParticipant 4496]

F~~~ no. I’m f~~~ing awesome.

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

MINDustry-
You’ll be fine.
I see death all the time.
Sometimes I see an attentive wife and loving kids, but most of the time not.
Love is a rare commodity these days.
A lot of people are closer to friends than they are to their families. Along the way you will pick up close friends.
You’ll be fine.

[MINDustryParticipant 80]

I guess as men, you just have to be strong and persevere. I either hope to pass suddenly in my late 90’s, or by my own hand if I have a terminal illness and am no longer able to take care of myself.

You’re right though. Death is death and you will technically die alone no matter what.

I just see my grandmother who is in her 70’s take care of my crippled grandfather who is nearing his 90’s. They were born in the 20’s and 30’s though. Times were different. The woman knew her place in the marriage and took care of the man.

Are foreign women any different or have they been ruined as well?

Would you trust a foreign woman?

[JackinovParticipant 5229]

MINDustry wrote:

I guess as men, you just have to be strong and persevere. I either hope to pass suddenly in my late 90’s, or by my own hand if I have a terminal illness and am no longer able to take care of myself.

You’re right though. Death is death and you will technically die alone no matter what.

I just see my grandmother who is in her 70’s take care of my crippled grandfather who is nearing his 90’s. They were born in the 20’s and 30’s though. Times were different. The woman knew her place in the marriage and took care of the man.

Are foreign women any different or have they been ruined as well?

Would you trust a foreign woman?

AWALT

are you a chia pet in man drag

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Fear of what.

Everyone dies alone. Sure the room might be full of greedy relatives or ER doc’s / nurses but you are dieing alone.

From my studies of bushido, nilhlism and stoicism I am at peace with dieing. If fact if I knew i was going to die today, I’m fairly “meh” about it.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[MonkeyMindParticipant 5340]

It did when i first went MGTOW, it was something that bothered me the most. Now i couldn’t care less about it.

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10910]

Being alone doesn’t bother me. Even if you are married, you are on your own and alone. Sure someone is physically with you but you can be in a room full of people and still be alone.
My father was married to my mom for 38 years. He passed away of lung cancer in 2008. According to my mom, the night he passed he woke up out of a deep sleep gasping and coughing for air. His lungs were filling up with blood. He was desperately trying to cough up all the blood and clear his airway out. He collapsed onto the floor. My mother went over and was too weak to roll him over. He died in that position. My mom called us kids with the news..
When I arrived the ambulance and coroner were already there. When my mom told me what happened, I was f~~~ing p~~~ed. This man had worked his whole life doing for HER. He never asked for help or anything in return. The ONE time he needed her help and she was too weak to roll him on his side in an attempt to help him? It wasn’t like she didn’t know about his condition. My father weighed 190 pounds. Now there is no way to know if her rolling him over would’ve made a difference but it does make you think.
It was that very incident that told me that marriage was bulls~~~. It was the nail in the proverbial coffin that made me decide to divorce my wife. 4 months later I filed. What is the point in being married if you can’t count on the person to be there when you need them the most? You do for them, pay the bills and sacrifice for what? Some c~~~ who’s only purpose is to have sex with you when SHE needs it? At least being single, you can have fun and enjoy life.
Either way you are ALONE.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[experiencedParticipant]

The thought of hinging ANYTHING on the whims of a wimmen, now that is scary.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[Anonymous 7]

If i really didn’t want to die alone I’d get the c~~~ nurse to fetch someone on the street for me and I’d pay him 10,000 dollars an hour.

In all seriousness dying alone might suck but once your dead your f~~~ing dead.

[FullMetalExoParticipant 2383]

In short, yes the situation is way better. But, hypergamy is what it is and you would need to be careful anyway.

MINDustry wrote:

Are foreign women any different or have they been ruined as well?

hmm…will try to compile my half-years observation. Its not so simple:

SO FAR:
In general: For the most part (East EU Latvia/Russia) Its way better then what I see from USA/Canada/Sweden etc., still hypergamy is what it is (women are who they are.) and there are bitches, lazy c~~~s that grow fat after marriage (although less from what i see) that I do avoid. etc. My country is not exception in that aspect, its just less of it and SO FAR we don’t have our government pushing any radical feminazi bulls~~~ on us.

Observation N1: If we talk about college space, Its very good, comparing to “first world civilised” countries. We get all the data we need without political or gender bias. We study proper biology, proper chemistry etc. In fact – I consider myself very lucky and I have a proper atmosphere to learn medicine.
Students help out each other, learning as we should. Professional, encouraging atmosphere.

Observation N2: I met some smart people care/med care oriented girls, women and old women in medicine I must say SO FAR! and many helped me out already, without even me asking for help in some cases. (starting with sharing!! information, career possibilities, practice and contacts!! for my future medical practice etc.). I see a number of women with traditionally masculine traits here – logic, knowledge, helping those who are near, team work, career, loyalty to what they teach and where they teach (the college) etc.

I see medical professors/business women with good money, etiquette and respect EARNED, And I don’t see them cry about patriarchy, instead – they do work and motivate us (students) to care about people and study.

Observation N3: Those student girls who come from farming regions/villages/small towns are less spoiled. All girls I know are traditional when it comes to family.

Observation N4: Some are married already but study medicine and work at the same time. And look 6-8/10. From all of the young girls I study with – 60% of them work and study medicine.

Conclusion: In Latvia, there are educated and working women (proper sciences/medicine), that earned the respect and cash by dedication, multiple educations (in the same field and career stairs, from the bottom till the top) and work. Instead of blaming “patriarchy”bulls~~~. But you would need to look in right places as you can tell.

So that’s the situation. Most of the women here in LV I still would not bang and avoid, it’s just the way I prefer. My Way. But yeh, the girls/women in medicine for the most part are cool. So far. Will share if I find out anything else anyway.

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[Wolf redpillmanSpectator 1658]

We all die alone plus if.you got family.members.they.be around but.they.are not gonna.die with you so why be scared???plus.once you die theres.nothing.elses no feeling.no.pain no happiness.nothing,

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