Does it get better?

[AlmostNiceGuyParticipant 210]

Quick disclaimer, it’s not “bad” at the moment, I’m just asking if things work to your advantage later on. I’m a young dude, I don’t have much money, don’t have power, or looks on that matter, but what I do have is a very straight path ahead, I know what I want to achieve and won’t stop till I get it. The “thing” in question is not money itself, but “wealth”. Chris Rock said on one of his specials “Shaq is rich, the man paying Shaq is wealthy”. Here lies the problem. While I’m on that road, I see that us “lads” get essentially pushed around in society. We’re seen as potential rapists, wife-beaters, child molesters, and so much more. We get treated as if we HAD done such crimes. Thus, “safe sex” (NO possibility of rape allegations or sperm jacking) is difficult to find, specially in college campuses. Does this phenomenon get better with age, or is it worse the more “wealthy” you become?

[Everything is all we’ve gotParticipant 233]

You should be aiming to get a comfortable wage but if you’re looking for ‘wealth’ then you’ll probably never end up happy and fulfilled as it’s all to do with perspective. There’ll be people in Africa living on nothing but still feel ‘wealthy’ whilst there’ll be a CEO somewhere who has all the wealth but will just be existing rather than LIVING.

Things will get better with age if you make them. Just focus on you

"You can suffer from a life experience, or you can learn, move on and thrive."

[BeerParticipant 11832]

I think it gets worse as you age.  Basically, since it seems like you have goals, you’ll be stepping up as you proceed through life.  Many women on the other hand, they just accumulate kids, debt, and emotional baggage.  If women feel like they aren’t worth the hassle at 20, wait until 30…they pretty much just become a joke to you.

[Cipher HighwindParticipant 1144]

In reply to the titular question – no. That is why I’m sitting the rest of this one out.

[Anonymous 11]

The less you give an actual f~~~ the better things get. Do not interpret this to not keep your nose to the grindstone though.  Other people are only there to use you as a means to their ends. We are all disposable.

[Anonymous 18]

Strive for whatever you want to achieve. Go through the ups and downs. One point or another you will find a balance where you feel a sense of worth, identity, and pleasure of what you have accomplished so far. It does get better how society treats you/values you if you have attained some tangible goals. Internal peace and happiness is another beast.

[RoyDalParticipant]

AlmostNiceGuy wrote:

… what I do have is a very straight path ahead, I know what I want to achieve and won’t stop till I get it.

That is the best recipe for success I know. It may be the only recipe. What is left is the details

Anonymous wrote:

Strive for whatever you want to achieve. Go through the ups and downs. One point or another you will find a balance where you feel a sense of worth, identity, and pleasure of what you have accomplished so far. It does get better how society treats you/values you if you have attained some tangible goals. Internal peace and happiness is another beast.

I agree. People without goals and objectives in their lives are without the juices of life.

I also agree with the sentiment that wealth is truly not measured by money or material possessions.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Every day you wake up is a success ☺

[ScandinavianParticipant 590]

AlmostNiceGuy wrote:

Quick disclaimer, it’s not “bad” at the moment, I’m just asking if things work to your advantage later on. I’m a young dude, I don’t have much money, don’t have power, or looks on that matter, but what I do have is a very straight path ahead, I know what I want to achieve and won’t stop till I get it. The “thing” in question is not money itself, but “wealth”. Chris Rock said on one of his specials “Shaq is rich, the man paying Shaq is wealthy”. Here lies the problem. While I’m on that road, I see that us “lads” get essentially pushed around in society. We’re seen as potential rapists, wife-beaters, child molesters, and so much more. We get treated as if we HAD done such crimes. Thus, “safe sex” (NO possibility of rape allegations or sperm jacking) is difficult to find, specially in college campuses. Does this phenomenon get better with age, or is it worse the more “wealthy” you become?

 

 

NO! It actually just get worse!

If you find sperm jacking a problem as a young man, just wait til you end up like me at 36 and wake up in the middle of the night in a cold sweat grabbing your b~~~~ like Michael Jackson just to make sure you’ve not ejaculated though you know you went to bed alone….

 

Women 35-42 are crazy. Nothing but crazy.

[Binary LogicParticipant 2351]

I think it “getting better” is completely dependent on the individual. Effort has to me made, as nothing worth having comes easy, else everyone would be prosperous. It’s akin to a cup of water. If you set it down, and do nothing with it, it is stable but for a time. But then it may go stale, or worse yet evaporate. However if you continue to fill it with substance, eventually, it will overflow with abundance.

Funny, isn't it? How women thrive on a mans time, attention and resources, while simultaneously telling him he isn't enough...

[BDParticipant 1146]

AlmostNiceGuy wrote:

I don’t have much money, don’t have power, or looks on that matter, but what I do have is a very straight path ahead,

Money, well women try to take that. Power, they will try to ruin that for you as well.

And your path... women are dream killers and will try to derail you with manipulation and control tactics. Stay on your path.

Everything is all we’ve got wrote:

but if you’re looking for ‘wealth’ then you’ll probably never end up happy

I’ve met wealthy people, and once you have it all you realise that it doesn’t mean anything. Living for the experience is what gives fulfilment.

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

Happiness and success doesn’t come with money. Money can only temporarily make you happy because you can get things. However you will need more things to make you just as happy, eventually you will hit a wall just like a drug addict. Money is necessary to live life not to be happy.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[ScandinavianParticipant 590]

Crazy Canuck wrote:

Happiness and success doesn’t come with money. Money can only temporarily make you happy because you can get things. However you will need more things to make you just as happy, eventually you will hit a wall just like a drug addict. Money is necessary to live life not to be happy.

 

not much more than a year ago I lived from paycheck to paycheck, having to use my vacation money if i needed to repair my car or go to the dentist. Now I earn plenty and can save approx $2k/month. And hell yeah: I AM happier!

[BeerParticipant 11832]

There have been studies done about money buying happiness.  If I remember correctly they found that it didn’t really have much impact over about 70k a year.  More or less if you make enough to get by comfortably without stressing over money, and have a little extra for an occasional toy or vacation, that’s about all the happiness you can purchase.

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

I would say things get better as you personally get better.  Perceptions, by the world of you may not change,  But, if you ignore them, and work on yourself, you don’t have to worry about it.  The thing that needs to get better is you.  You can’t control the world.  What can happen, assuming you do get a bunch of money and have yourself together, is that people will be nice to you, if you pay them.  They will fake being decent around you, so they get money, so you will at least get that.  You can create a nice bubble of comfort from the bull of the world.  If you don’t get there, learn from the monks and mystics of the past and find this bubble of sanity in other things you made yourself.

As far as feeling wealthy, if you can live below your means, and see good in what you have, get content, and be able to give thanks, you will be wealthy.  It is more of a state of mind.  As far as having lot of resources, you are going to have to provide a sufficient amount of goods and services, which can include owning things that do that for others, to gain material wealth.

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

[BurgundyParticipant 1525]

Taking a step in the right direction, every day.

I’m still on the path to the goal myself, and an important thing to note here is, “it’s darkest before the dawn”, this is important, because many people give up, even though they were over halfway there, the problem was, they couldn’t see it from where they were, because the most independent and well off things in life, are the ones, where you feel like being in the middle of an ocean or dessert, when halfway, and even when you reach the spot, you might still feel something more is over the horizon, the journey may never end.

 

The path to freedom, while being well off, and comfortable on your terms, that’s my side aim, in what I’m going towards, and I’m already out in the middle of the ocean, and know it might be a few years, before I see land.

[Binary LogicParticipant 2351]

Search this site in the work area for REAL ESTATE. Yes, life gets better when you get tools, skils and can do deals. I think all MGTOW should get into rental property. I wrote quite a bit on this site about the blessings of it. Everyone needs a pkacw to live. They have to work one werk a month to pay for it. GET INTO THE BEST GAME IN TOWN.

 

Thanks brother. I’ve been strongly considering this and didn’t know where to start. Good lead!

Funny, isn't it? How women thrive on a mans time, attention and resources, while simultaneously telling him he isn't enough...

[FrankyParticipant 2338]

If you’re asking if it will get better as in if society and women will start treating us better, my answer is no.In fact it’s going to get worse and it’ll keep getting worse until they do something far too extreme (like the holocost for example).

If you’re asking if it will get better for yourself, well that depends you can always make life better for yourself.My life got 10 times better after i stopped interacting with women and watching mainstream media.

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