Do your friends` wives come on to you?

[Man SoloParticipant 111]

Over the last few years I’ve been at friends’ parties and small get-togethers, where the relationships between the husbands and wives seem to be just fine and dandy. My married and childed friends talk about how great life is for them and never miss the opportunity to encourage you to follow in their footsteps. They also never miss an opportunity to post some great family Kodak moments on Facebook extolling the virtues of the married life. Everything seems just perfect for these guys, and I often can`t help thinking that maybe things should have been different for me.

Only problem is…a lot of my friends wives have been coming on to me. More than just some, lots! Sometimes it’s cheeky and playful, just for fun, but never when husband is nearby. Sometimes they make very little effort to disguise their feelings and it`s obvious to everyone there, what’s going on – like following me around all night, grabbing my arse in full view of everyone and saying how much you loved me all those years ago.

This inevitably leads to some very awkward moments that end up weakening the strong bonds I have with my best pals. I never follow up on these passes because I value my friendships very highly and would never do anything to betray the people I love.

This sort of thing just makes me realise how hard it must be to stay in a relationship with somebody for decades on end and not feel the urge to fall in love again or just have a wild adventure with your partner’s best friend – anything to relieve the boredom of being married.

"Marriage is a good way to meet someone you hate and then buy them a house'

[~BSParticipant 3266]

yeap, all for attention and potential monkeybranching. and yeah, it’s very awkward. Because as a man’s friend, you respect him, which means respecting his marriage bond whether his idiot wife does or not.

"He didn't marry until now, so he won't ever do it. Think about it, why would a man like him ever marry? It's too late to catch him. " ~some cunt

[KeymasterKeymaster]

YES. Strongly. Mostly it’s married exes who act inappropriately, but if I know the guy, they may not actually follow through, but they definitely flirt up a storm and test for it.

A VERY good friend since I was 14 is married to an ex model and they have two kids. I got invited over frequently. Innocently, one day she says he’s out of town (for work) and she would love to go out for a bite to eat because she hasn’t done that in too long. She got a baby sitter and everything.

OK.

I drop by to get her and she’s looking GOOD, but I don’t even think about anyone else’s wife – not even in my wildest imagination(!) – it’s just off limits. But she didn’t think so.

She gets in the car and says “Ah, finally. Do me a favor and don’t tell Mike”.

“Don’t tell him what. This isn’t a date. It’s chicken fingers.”.

“Well you know he gets jealous.”.

“What? It’s ME. If he asked me I would tell him. I’m not LYING to my friend of 25 years. I went to your wedding for f~~~ sake. Have you been drinking? What’s with you?”

Ho boy, she didn’t like that at all. Realizing I would be more honest with him than his own WIFE is… I told her “if this is gonna cause some tension, you better stay”. Now she starts back-peddling like she was “just kidding”.

Ever since that day, she REALLY doesn’t want him around me.
If that’s a “marriage” they can keep it.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Man SoloParticipant 111]

Good story Keymaster. It’s amazing how blunt and upfront it gets, as if hubby, who is sitting just yards away, is completely blind or non-existent.

"Marriage is a good way to meet someone you hate and then buy them a house'

[Anonymous 42]

modern women throw their asses in the air like clockwork c~~~work!

I just don’t give a f~~~ what time it is, they can have fun with a lamp post!

I lost my virginity to a girl asking a simple question and that being “wanna f~~~”, and things never changed until I went my own way.

I never f~~~ed a friend’s wife or GF, but I have f~~~ed someone’s wife or GF on too many occasions, and that alone moved me to become MONK for life. Since then I’ve turned down more wives than I ever f~~~ed!

Now I’m a clean mean MGTOW machine!

Here in upside down world f~~~ing them is easy, not f~~~ing them is really the challenge!

NEVER PLACE FAITH AND TRUST IN ANY WOMAN! AWALT!

[RorschachParticipant 2083]

Man Solo wrote:

Over the last few years I’ve been at friends’ parties and small get-togethers, where the relationships between the husbands and wives seem to be just fine and dandy. My married and childed friends talk about how great life is for them and never miss the opportunity to encourage you to follow in their footsteps. They also never miss an opportunity to post some great family Kodak moments on Facebook extolling the virtues of the married life. Everything seems just perfect for these guys, and I often can`t help thinking that maybe things should have been different for me.

Yeah buddy things would have been different alright. You would be the one being cucked by said ladies or theres at least such a high risk factor its basically not worth it. So rejoice brother you are free from this nonsense, keep on saying no and smiling.

The accumulated filth of all their sex and murder will foam up about their waists and all the whores and politicians will look up and shout "save us!"....... and i'll look down and whisper "No."

[Rolling Tin FistParticipant 484]

Man Solo wrote:

Only problem is…a lot of my friends wives have been coming on to me. More than just some, lots! Sometimes it’s cheeky and playful, just for fun, but never when husband is nearby

Oh yeah. Some were more blatant than others. However, the women knew me well enough to know that I’m a bros before hoes type of man, period.

"Love is the delusion that one woman differs from another" - H. L. Mencken

[Jim01Participant 6678]

one of my ex-friend’s wife pretty much blew fire at me she hated me so much.

My crime – having a fun time with her mangina husband with her not around

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Jim01 wrote:

one of my ex-friend’s wife pretty much blew fire at me she hated me so much.

Could talk about that for a month too.

A husband’s unmarried friends are like “the escaped slave”. Wives spent years alienated their husband’s friends to try and cement “she’s all he has” – to try and make her departure as devastating as possible. Have seen it plenty right before my eyes.

YEAR 2 : “What happened to that friend of yours who used to come around?”.

YEAR 3 : “He must have gotten tired of you trying to set him up with one of your over-the-hill, single fat friends, and grilling him on why he’s not enslaved yet”.

YEAR 4 : “Then he was never really your friend.”.

YEAR 5 : “He was kinder to me than you.”

YEAR 6 : “PS. I want a divorce. You’ll never do better than me. Make sure the check is in the mail on the first of every month.”.

S~~~ writes itself.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[RhinoParticipant 3477]

I work in property management and deal with a lot of wives in the buildings I manage and I can tell you a lot of stories of these women hitting not only on me but the superintendents I manage as well. We get together once in awhile and talk about this stuff it never gets old and you can see desperation in these women and they don’t think nor care about sexual assault they will grab your junk and beg you to do them its sad really.

A lot of these wives haven’t even hit the wall but they all have one thing in common, they are women with children. But single mothers are by far the worst they do everything they can to try to hook you into their world stay away from them. When they try to invite you into their home it is a trap. Usually under the guise of cooking you a thank you dinner for something you helped them with or like Keymasters story they want to take you out for a coffee or dinner if their husband is out of town. They don’t hide their motives nor care so long as they get you in bed before the husband returns.

[Jim01Participant 6678]

Keymaster wrote:

Jim01 wrote:

one of my ex-friend’s wife pretty much blew fire at me she hated me so much.

Could talk about that for a month too.

A husband’s unmarried friends are like “the escaped slave”. Wives spent years alienated their husband’s friends to try and cement “she’s all he has” – to try and make her departure as devastating as possible. Have seen it plenty right before my eyes.

YEAR 2 : “What happened to that friend of yours who used to come around?”.

YEAR 3 : “He must have gotten tired of you trying to set him up with one of your over-the-hill, single fat friends, and grilling him on why he’s not enslaved yet”.

YEAR 4 : “Then he was never really your friend.”.

YEAR 5 : “He was kinder to me than you.”

YEAR 6 : “PS. I want a divorce. You’ll never do better than me. Make sure the check is in the mail on the first of every month.”.

S~~~ writes itself.

so so true!

I’ve posted about this one ex-friend’s wife on various threads, but it is the same story that probably 99% of men on here have experienced

[Anonymous 11]

My friend’s wives are all obese. God, I hope not. They usually try to set me up with other landwhales though so they are probably trying to drag me onto the Plantation.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Anonymous wrote:

They usually try to set me up with other landwhales

That is the part that p~~~es me off.

The terrifying part is how they never talk about her or “sell” the idea very well. They drive the point home that “she’s single and looking”… but that’s not a reason to go out with her.

“I should to set you up with my fugly/fat/friend Tiffany! She’s single right now and looking!”

“Oh really? Can you tell me anything about her that I would find interesting? – other than she’s single right now? Because being available is really not a selling feature. Some stores sell Limburger cheese too, and I’m making an effort to cut out dairy. I even put down a good brie last week.”

“You’re an asshole.”

“But still nothing positive to say about your friend. Tell me, why is she your friend again?”

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 1]

No actual passes, but a friends wife has commented in front of several people (my friend included) how handsome she thinks I am. That’s happened on more than one occasion. Whenever we talk she gives me strong eye contact and a gleaming smile .

My brother’s wife is a huge flirt. We we’re having a conversation in her kitchen once and she informed me that I got the looks in the family. Quickly followed by “don’t tell your brother”

I’ve also noticed when talking to married women that some will introduce themselves as “unhappily married” or quickly berate or criticize their relationship with their husband, just to let you know, all bets are off.

[Anonymous 11]

Keymaster wrote:

That is the part that p~~~es me off.

It p~~~es me off too. Note that they never mention that Tiff is 385lbs and tatted to hell and back with three kids from possibly up to five baby daddies.

She may be single and looking, but I am single and running.

[Anonymous 42]

Keymaster wrote:

S~~~ writes itself.

Like dropping the needle on the record permanently etched into our minds!

It plays itself out and the villainy of women is found in damn near every note! I didn’t compose it, I only play it!

Anonymous wrote:

She may be single and looking, but I am single and running.

Throw in the rest of us and it’s called a STAMPEDE! 40,000 feet on this website alone! <rumbling coming from a massive dust cloud>

You can call me “Dust Bowl Daddy“, or DB for short.

[Anonymous 0]

The only time a friend’s wife hit on me was at my second wife’s funeral. When I didn’t take her up on her offer, she told her husband that I hit on her to cover her tracks. F~~~in’ hypergamous, monkey-branching bitch. Result, lost a friend.

Currently, I am friends with another couple and he has been diagnosed with metastatic cancer. Nobody is saying anything but we all know his days are numbered. His wife is suddenly finding ways to rub her t~~~ up against me at every opportunity. F~~~in’ hypergamous, monkey-branching bitch

So yeah, I have trust issues where women are concerned.

[AttonParticipant]

Biology can often overpower societal constructs.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[thisistheguy123Participant 2063]

Absolutely not, they know better.

I take my friends gfs out on the town when they have to work or if my friend is out of town…My friends know I am more loyal than a dog.

I’m way too honestly and blunt for anyone of these women to think they can subtlety come on to me without me picking up on it, telling them off and telling my friend exactly what happened.

Women call me a rat
My male friends call me the best man they’ve ever known

Funny how that works

[narwhalParticipant]

Not specifically friends wives, probably because I have always kept my distance.

I would say in general, I avoid ‘flirty’ women more then others. If she will flirt with a man who isn’t her husband/BF when husband/BF isn’t around, then I want nothing to do with her. If she will dress up for men other then her husband. Really, if she will flirt with more then one man at a time, I will avoid her. There is no such thing as innocent flirting. Don’t buy the whole “I’m just outgoing, friendly, touchy-feely” argument. And no, it’s not that your husband is ‘too jealous’.

From what I’ve heard from history, this sort of behavior was not allowed in the past. A wife who made eyes at another man would be reprimanded by her husband, and really society in general. It was extremely disrespectful. A man who made a play at another man’s wife could expect anger and maybe violence from the husband. Marriage was sacred.

Ok. Then do it.

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