Do you wish you knew your cool dad,before his spirit was crushed

[shovelheadriderParticipant 2400]

I remember as a youth being some of the guy’s fathers when THE WIFE was not around.He would speak of the fast cars and fun times he had when he was young.My male friends all had dreams of fast motorcycles and cars,maybe a pro sports career.Our sister were planning on a house and kids and a Husband to pay for it. I could not understand how theses formally cool guy men defect to the lets play house?We did not think sex was the reason as it was down right creepy to picture anyone have sex with these Bon Bon eating whales.There was an occasionally HOT Mom.But no one was going to give up hunting ,fishing and fancy cars for.We now know that theses women/moms had him deep in debt and facing jail if he did not pay.Looking back I know these fathers were suffering marital PTSD.I made a vow to never be like these dads.I do remember the light return these fathers faces when talking about the good old day’s they traded for pussy anytime they wanted. Times were different and this was before Baby Daddy was OK and a Bastard was not what anyone wanted.Men stood up to bad deal and fell inline and thought they played so they have to pay”We Have to get married” was the right to do.Uncle Sugar was only too happy to pay for her with other men’s taxes and let her not be responsible for her actions.

[Anonymous 11]

I must have had an abnormal upbringing, because my mother never crushed my father’s spirit. She was never that type, and he wouldn’t have let her if she were.

[TuneoutParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

I must have had an abnormal upbringing, because my mother never crushed my father’s spirit. She was never that type, and he wouldn’t have let her if she were.

I hear you,mine too,funny though most people I tell this to are surprised as well.
They’re fathers were either subservient toe-licking wimps or hard core abusive assholes.

Lifes a bitch,but you don't have to marry one!

[shovelheadriderParticipant 2400]

Most fathers that would not be crushed were no longer in the Home.My father was a P.O.W. his plane was shot down.After living as a P.O.W. he was not about to put up with a Bitch Woman warden .He had his own issues.All that knew him from college star athlete an outgoing person to a distant person that would not let things or people get in. He had a PTSD from a different source.

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