Do you still desire female companionship? I gotta say, I don't!

[DoinMyOwnThing40Participant 1000]

I noticed a huge difference in the way I think and feel. Comparing me now at age 41 to when I was, say, age 14 to 26.

I do not desire any kind of female companionship. Sure, I still desire sex, but that’s it. And I certainly will not go to any great lengths to get it. That is actually an understatement. I do not flirt with women at all. Not at all. The girls in the gym I bet they think “What is up with this guy? He doesn’t even crack a smile t me? Never a hello? Nothing!”

I am NOT depressed. Quite the opposite. I just do not show any kind of flirtation or emotion towards women at all.

When I was 14 to 26 I had such a huge desire for female companionship. And I was quite depressed at the time because I never had that great girlfriend.
That loving sweetheart that all guys are “supposed to have.”

So yeah, it bothered me when I was a youngster. But now? No way Jose. I swear to you that even if the most beautiful woman threw herself at me and fell in love with me and was the perfect Unicorn………….I can honestly say that there is no way I would ever be able to fall in love with her.

When it comes to spending time with someone, doing things, sharing interests, taking road trips………..I used to be real down on myself because I never had a girl to share those times with. But now a days, I don’t even WANT I don’t even need or want a woman to share times with.

It’s like with dogs. I am not a dog person at all. So I have no desire to spend time with dogs. Some guys love spending time with their dogs and that is fine. It’s just not for me. Same thing with women. Some guys love spending their time and sharing experienced with a female. But not me, it’s just not even in my interest list at all.

Is this weird? Or nah, not really?

Women are parasites. Each and every last one of them.

[Anonymous 18]

DoinMyOwnThing40 wrote:

I swear to you that even if the most beautiful woman threw herself at me and fell in love with me and was the perfect Unicorn………….I can honestly say that there is no way I would ever be able to fall in love with her.

I was listening to one of the audios in the archives and a truth bomb was dropped and many red pills were scattered; I picked few and swallowed as other by-standers did so too. What the man said was:

You either understand women or you love their kind. Impossible to do both. For believing in one excludes the possibility of the other.

Sexual desire is there regardless of how many red pills I take. But it is getting harder to lie myself to act up on the sexual desires to be with a woman. For example I was fingering a short-haired officially registered bi-sexual feminist I picked on Okcupid (curiosity got the best of me, but she was just too easy to be honest) a few weeks ago. After a while as I was half-fisting her I asked “wanna do it?”. She said no.

Later same week she goes “you asking me to f~~~ was coercion and felt rapey”. Blocked the c~~~. Moving on.

It is just too easy now to not run around a vagina salivating. If she has nothing sensible and intelligent to say, there is no appeal to f~~~ing her regardless of how much sexual desire I have. Porn in HD seems more apt without the bitch’s claims of ‘rapey’. C~~~.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

All the s~~~ these c~~~s put you through, not really.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[Anonymous 5]

DoinMyOwnThing40 wrote:

Is this weird? Or nah, not really?

I was asking this question to myself for 3 or 4 years before I discovered MGTOW.
Around about 2000 I realised I was never going to live in a legal relationship again but I still missed a loving relationship.
Over the years, dealing with women, I missed it less and less.
I got to the point about 3 or 4 years before MGTOW where I’d only feel lonely one day a year, Valentines. The rest of the year I’d celebrate being “alone” every time the issue came up.
I was stoked about it but I still thought I might have been “damaged” or had some type of phobia or disorder. I didn’t care, I was happy.
It wasn’t till I discovered the literature and realised all my views based on experience were spot on, in fact, I’d been giving them too much credit and furthermore, I still believed it was just the women in my life. I still believed in unicorns.

From Red Pill time on, I love being alone. This last “Valentines Day” was a blast as I saw all the suckers having to offer up tokens and acts of worship to their female masters.
When your subconscious mind realises the thing you’re lonely for doesn’t exist, you cease to be lonely for it.
It’s sort of like wishing for happiness if only you had enough money.

[Anonymous 42]

If I were Dr. Frankenstein I’d mate a dogs brain to a females brain stem and maybe try that out.
Female companionship? That’s shallow and superficial like the spirit it represents, females are the fools gold of friendship…..

[GrotesqueRogueParticipant 116]

I don’t really crave the female companionship now. I mean, I would rather do something that I like or useful.

I used to consider some females as my friends, right now it’s completely different. They still exist in my life, but to me they became just someone I can hang out with if I want to. They are just… people who know me better than the others. I don’t initiate the conversations, I am stopping to be an emotional tampon.

Relationships? Nah… I know how the things will end up. And the worst thing would be if I didn’t notice the red flags.

I am not naive anymore.

[Anonymous 3]

Once you turn off the TV and unplug from social conditioning, it’s hard to tolerate females. A lot of dudes are extremely thirsty, I wonder if it’s not from some sort of subliminal messaging going on through media.

Throughout most of history fathers had to PAY men large sums of money to take their daughters off their hands. Somehow in the more recent modern times it became the opposite, with men paying vast sums of money for the “privilege” of marriage, to get ordered around, and then continue paying even more money after cupcake decides it’s time to dissolve the “partnership” for which she never actually contributed in the first place.

The way things are now, I think we’ve hit some sort of zenith. The pendulum is going to have to swing but I’m not even sure if it will be gradual, it might be a quicker and even deeper shift, with women becoming property and having no rights. I mean it really has been absurd for a long time now, there is probably a lot of resentment.

30 years ago I would have at least stemmed the tide and argued for fair treatment and letting bygones go, but eh, I’m not going to do that now. It will take a large sum of money and a young woman to get me to take care of her, but if other men are abusing women I can’t even bring myself to care.

I am one of the “good men” and I don’t care. Feminism has destroyed “good men” and made them “gone.” All that is left are white knights and thugs, and I can assure you a white knight is very quick to turn and certainly is not going to stand up for a woman once the tide turns.

[OldBillParticipant]

Desire female companionship for companionship alone? Perish the thought. Apart from sex, women provide next to nothing for me. I’ve a female acquaintance with whom I hike. Hiking together allows us both to hike more often and in more places than we could do so alone. I know very little about her personal life, she knows even less about mine, and we’re both satisfied with that. Just as with the woman I routinely attend the theater with, my hiking companion could be male for all her gender brings to our “relationship”.

Desire female companionship for sex? Desire is too strong a word for my current attitude towards sex. I still enjoy sex, but sex is not worth jumping through hoops or, more importantly, compromising on my values. When sex is offered to me, I’ll occasionally accept but sex only occurs on my terms.

I’ve friends who think I’m lucky when it comes to sex but that is because they don’t truly understand just what luck is. Napoleon once remarked that luck occurs when preparation meets opportunity. Because I don’t jump at every possible opportunity for sex or stomp about trying to create the same, I’m far more prepared for those opportunities I do accept.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[Anonymous 5]

I remeber two weeks ago I was out and a lady came up to me and said I was “cute” and went on about how I was far more “mature” I was she said she enjoyed men who are “in control” of themselves. She was not hostile nor rude but non the less I could care 2 s~~~s for what she was saying I felt like I was done with small talk. It didn’t matter how hot she was nor and the fact it was a easy score. I knew inside I wasn’t through with women but that I have changed. In meaning I have alot more sheilds up than I did before. Do I want sex ?- hell yeah. But that’s my body speaking my mind wants more- I want freedom I can have through life to walk a path that only I can. So with this surging through my being at the time I remeber losing myself completely -silently thinking of how I can respectfully tell her to leave me alone. I didn’t know how. So interrupted, and told her I was having a bad day and I needed time to myself. Man the f~~~ing hell I got for saying that.. Smiling my ass off. But that smile I had felt like having the ability to fly.

DoinMyOwnThing40- All am trying to say is the desire for women may come as a “must” in today’s society. But it seems like nowadays your following your heart – your dreams which is something you should never give up. Whatever people may say towards Mgtow -it may bring enlightenment to yourself. It is not werid.

[Everything is all we’ve gotParticipant 233]

I’ve pretty much been single for 2 years now and I just don’t feel a desire to date anyone at all right now – never felt less interested in relationships.

I’ve not even slept with anyone for coming up to a year and that’s not bothered me as much as I thought it would… I’m too busy trying to improve my life to worry about my crappy sex life right now.

"You can suffer from a life experience, or you can learn, move on and thrive."

[rebelandboltmanParticipant 640]

Do I want sex and cuddling? Only if it’s beneficial to me and not used as a tool to control me. Do I DESIRE sex? On occasion, but I can easily extinguish this desire through youjizz or fux.com. It’s not the end all be all for me. Do I need a female around me 24 hours a day 7 days a week? Absolutely not, since there are entitlement issues, baby momma drama, and nagging, abuse of social networking sites, physical abuse, emotional abuse, abuse by the invisible Alpha Male that which is the government. It’s just too high a price to pay to desire female companionship.

[hmskl’dParticipant 6406]

I was just thinking about this same topic yesterday while I was mowing and cleaning up some brush piles around the farm. I asked myself, when I get home tonight do I miss not having a female around? Not surprisingly, I quickly knew that the answer was a resounding .. no. I looked forward to a quiet yet busy evening with no one to have to deal with. No woman loaded down with issues and instead time to just contemplate and think. If I feel like it I can play music though out the house, I can watch whatever dvd I desire. I can have a home cooked meal and all the vegetable trimmings or conversely, munch on pizza. No one to explain anything to.
I also have recently begun to realize that I like not having anyone know exactly what I do and when I do it. For example, I have some hobbies that I don’t want to explain to a woman. I don’t want to have to get her permission to buy some item of memorabilia or maybe an autograph that I wish to collect.
If I spend my evening reading literature, or if I spend several hours reading some unique comic books … it’s my choice and I don’t want any female telling me to get my material off the coffee table.
I like astronomy and If I want to spread a huge room size map on the living room floor and sit atop a stepladder looking at the constellations below me … no lady will tell me to clean up my mess. I can leave that map on the floor for days and nobody cares …unless there is a new boss around the house 🙂
My Virtual Life (whatever it is … it’s working and I’m happy) … as far as companionship and/or intimacy .. lately, don’t need it. Ok, it all boils down to this; I find women exhausting and the hoops that I would need to jump through to chase companionship are not worth the effort. That so called companionship is also a game that I would eventually lose and the the entire exercise would be an effort of futility. I no longer want any woman becoming familiar enough with me to get to the point where she can show up at my place, and heaven forbid, walk into my home and plant her self down on the couch and start crashing my peaceful existence.

[Wolf redpillmanSpectator 1658]

You go my friend same as me i dont even smile at them they might accuses me of sexual harrasment mgtow is that only way let thoses manginas and blue glorify them let them get validation from them while us.mgtow enjoing our life doin what we want

[Wolf redpillmanSpectator 1658]

Remember women need.our validation not that other way around, only blue pillers and manginas need validation from females they are miserable in their.pathethic littler world lol trying to impress women

[No CountryParticipant 759]

Two words. F~~~ NO.

[DoinMyOwnThing40Participant 1000]

Anonymous wrote:

You either understand women or you love their kind. Impossible to do both.

+1 for that statement alone!

Women are parasites. Each and every last one of them.

[DoinMyOwnThing40Participant 1000]

Anonymous wrote:

When your subconscious mind realises the thing you’re lonely for doesn’t exist, you cease to be lonely for it.

Another brilliant quote!

Women are parasites. Each and every last one of them.

[Anonymous 3]

I thought about it a little more and I think I can say part of the reason I don’t desire female companionship is I don’t trust women even as far as I can throw them. I don’t believe women are capable of love and commitment. Everything is just on their terms at their whim for as long and only as long as it benefits them. Briffault’s Law pretty much states as much.

So once you realize they aren’t going to actually commit, what is the point of making such a one-sided commitment where you always give and they always take? The second you’re down they’ll kick you and run off. Women only break men down, never build them. This society does a damn fine job of breaking men down on its own, you don’t need a woman to break you, you’ll have your hands full just standing against society.

We have had 40+ years of female rule. They created these divorce laws and this economy and media sentiment. This is the female utopia. When men are in control, by necessity men put checks on female behavior, because otherwise it’s impossible for men to build and maintain a society.

I suppose it’s because of technology that the state decided men are redundant and women decided to dispose of any and all concessions and compromises they had made while the world was not safe for them. With a giant government and large corporations there to protect and serve women at every turn, they don’t need to pretend they care about men. Women even know that despite being outright hostile to men most men are so dumb and desperate they’ll still come running and sign up for the inequitable “relations~~~” women offer now.

But as an aware male that understands female nature, I just can’t suspend my knowledge and act the clown like other men do. I don’t believe I am inferior to women and so can’t grovel or degrade myself. I understand for the average Western male this is unthinkable and they can’t understand it, and so I have just as much in common with the average Western male as I do the average Western female. I even support Western females doing what they do to Western males, I don’t feel the same rage others do with those examples. These men accept and uphold these terms willingly, so why should I be angry when it bites them afterwards? It’s pretty much stated upfront and has been for 40+ years that this is how things work in the West.

[OneforfreedomParticipant 930]

Anonymous wrote:

Later same week she goes “you asking me to f~~~ was coercion and felt rapey”. Blocked the c~~~. Moving on.

Uh-Oh. That’s not good.

In response to the original question, Yes, I still desire female companionship. I’m in my 20s and testosterone is at its peak in my life. So I desire it very much. I see all these young girls walking around. I desire it a ton.

But then I go back inside, take another red pill, and move on with my life.

[MattNYCParticipant 2329]

Companionship from a woman? Nope. There are really only 2 things i want from a woman:

1) Her to follow my lead on the dancefloor, and
2) Her to follow my lead in the bedroom.

I get both of those without a romantic relationship, so any costs (financial, emotional/drama etc.) of relationship/commitment would be sunk.

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Ya know it’s funny, thinking back to my upbringing, how a boy/man treated a girl/woman was the most important thing on the planet. It still sometimes blows me away at how destructive that idea is. My redpill journey is still in progress (a process, more than an event), but it’s well-along enough that looking back on that seems like a night v day comparison. Like a ton of bricks on a Friday evening.

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