Dealing with prying questions from women

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  • #733081
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    OneLaneOnlyPls
    OneLaneOnlyPls
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    Hey guys,

    Went into my local cafe this morning before work. They have bagels I crave, otherwise I wouldn’t bother. At the counter, lately some young chick initiates conversation beyond the order itself. I keep things short, albeit at times its frustrating. There is a line behind me, and she doesn’t even care. However today it went to another level.

    She started going on about “applying for her visa”, I just tapped my debit card on the machine and moved away. I had airpods in, so I pretended to be unaware.

    A few of my work colleagues were in this place, so I was mindful of being overly rude to this woman. Next thing I get a tap on my arm, she gives me the bagel, along with :

    ‘hey, I think I’ve seen you around (my suburb)’.

    I mumble a ‘yes’.

    ‘Do you live alone?’

    Every part of me wanted to tell this young tart where to shove it. Mindful of my job, and where I was, I just said :

    ‘Yes happily’

    And walked out. Another place I won’t be returning.

    How many of you guys deal with daily routine place like this, where you just want to get brekkie or coffee to go, and have to deal with the basic courtesies, then get personal questions thrown in?

    Imagine for one moment… a guy working there doing this to a woman? He would be ridiculed, shamed, perhaps worse.

    No bagel is worth that mess.

    #733083
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    Monk
    Monk
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    She started going on about “applying for a visa” …

    Who put out the lights?

    This red flag is so big it’s blocking out the sun.

    #733088
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    Boar
    Boar
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    Well played, good sir. It looks like the parasites are getting aggressive in their attempts to snag a wallet.

    Untamed wrote: Quit complaining and Go Your Own Way in whatever manner suits you best.

    #733090
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    Arcturis
    Arcturis
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    She started going on about “applying for a visa” …

    Who put out the lights?

    This red flag is so big its blocking out the sun.

    Wise words. This didn’t even clock for me until you pointed it out Monk.

    I feel your pain OP. I have a coffee shop I frequent on the weekends to journal. The baristas are always trying to make pointless conversation with me. – I just keep it short, polite and sweet.

    Protect Your Sovereignty. Women WILL TRY To Manipulate You. #NOCONTACT #ICETHEMOUT
    #733095
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    Jan Sobieski
    Jan Sobieski
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    Just grunt and shake your head.

    Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

    #733102
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    OneLaneOnlyPls
    OneLaneOnlyPls
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    Who put out the lights?

    This red flag is so big its blocking out the sun.

    Yeh she sounds Canadian too, you can just see the deceitful nature reverberating thru her. I’m just amazed sluts like this are so open about it.

    Well played, good sir. It looks like the parasites are getting aggressive in their attempts to snag a wallet.

    It’s just such a double-standard. The laws allow this behavior from women. They know no bounds, she would have to be almost half my age.

    She started going on about “applying for a visa” …

    Who put out the lights?

    This red flag is so big its blocking out the sun.

    Wise words. This didn’t even clock for me until you pointed it out Monk.

    I feel your pain OP. I have a coffee shop I frequent on the weekends to journal. The baristas are always trying to make pointless conversation with me. – I just keep it short, polite and sweet.

    Have you at any point considered not going there? I only ask as that’s where my head is at now. I prefer not to, however its hard to maintain the rage, when these sluts are so BLATANT about it.

    #733104
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    Duke Togo
    Duke Togo
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    2664

    Just grunt and shake your head.

    ^ This, that is if you let it (the situation) get to you, because to say something with meaning can be interpreted the wrong way and/or be used against you. Or you could always treat the situation as a big joke only you are in on, and reply with the most outrages responses that don’t make any sense. This is a simple take of KeyMaster’s classic “The only straight answer I give a woman is when I am saying “NO”.”

    #733115
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    ForeverDone
    ForeverDone
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    2928

    Hey guys,

    Went into my local cafe this morning before work. They have bagels I crave, otherwise I wouldn’t bother. At the counter, lately some young chick initiates conversation beyond the order itself. I keep things short, albeit at times its frustrating. There is a line behind me, and she doesn’t even care. However today it went to another level.

    She started going on about “applying for her visa”, I just tapped my debit card on the machine and moved away. I had airpods in, so I pretended to be unaware.

    A few of my work colleagues were in this place, so I was mindful of being overly rude to this woman. Next thing I get a tap on my arm, she gives me the bagel, along with :

    ‘hey, I think I’ve seen you around (my suburb)’.

    I mumble a ‘yes’.

    ‘Do you live alone?’

    Every part of me wanted to tell this young tart where to shove it. Mindful of my job, and where I was, I just said :

    ‘Yes happily’

    And walked out. Another place I won’t be returning.

    How many of you guys deal with daily routine place like this, where you just want to get brekkie or coffee to go, and have to deal with the basic courtesies, then get personal questions thrown in?

    Imagine for one moment… a guy working there doing this to a woman? He would be ridiculed, shamed, perhaps worse.

    No bagel is worth that mess.

    I only experienced this when I am dressed nice. So, I fixed that. I walk around with tan timberland work boots, jeans, shirt, hoodie and coat. They think I do not have two pennies to rub together. No one bothers me. It works well in the mall as well. I am never bothered with questions or “samples”.

    You’re dressing up too much. Dress down bro. No one will bother you. I got that tip from some very well off clients of mine. You’d never know they have a pot to p~~~ in. Well, he does have his toys though…

    #733116
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    Bestieboy666
    Bestieboy666
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    Reminds of a p~~~ed up slut I picked up cabbying one night. She sat in the front leaning on me while I was driving, throwing suggestive remarks at me…

    So, are you happily married or something.
    Nope. I’m happily single.
    Wouldn’t you rather be happy with me?
    Well I’m already happy.
    You could be happy with me.
    Why should I risk it? Been there done that.
    You shouldn’t give up on one bad relationship.
    I’m not. I’m giving up after lots of them.

    I usually do this sort of thing in jest but do make sure I get my point across. It usually gets rid of them.

    Women are so bad, if they changed the law so I kept the house, I still wouldn't marry one. I'd rather be homeless.

    #733117
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    Freeman_K
    Freeman_K
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    While this was a nice response you still give out info. I prefer to give out zero info.

    Pressure flip:
    ‘Do you live alone ?’
    ‘Do you live alone?’

    Disagree and amplify
    ‘Do you live alone?’
    ‘No, I live with my 64 cats. And cobra’

    Ridicule reframe
    ‘Do you live alone?’
    ‘Hey lady, i know you for 5 seconds, i am not sure yet if i really want you in my bed’.

    Haha, that one should be used sparingly because you probably can f~~~ her afterwards.

    This was s~~~ test for sure, women never ask s~~~ like this if they are not interested.

    Advice is taken from here, gold article for dealing with s~~~ tests.

    The S~~~ Test Encyclopedia

    The choices we make, not the chances we take, determine our destiny

    #733120
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    Fragmented
    Fragmented
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    Do this … But instead of “Seattle” just say “No”. Give them nothing.

    http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

    #733122
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    Keymaster
    Keymaster
    Keymaster

    How many of you guys deal with daily routine place like this, where you just want to get brekkie or coffee to go, and have to deal with the basic courtesies, then get personal questions thrown in?

    OH HELL YES. And when you really think about it… wouldn’t the questions women ask be considered “creepy” and unacceptable if you asked her? It’s actually staggering.

    • “Where do you work?”
    • “Where do you live?”
    • “Do you live alone?”
    • “So What do you do?”
    • “How do I know you’re not a serial killer?”

    I s~~~ you not, a woman asked me that on a date. Like I’m supposed to somehow “prove” to her that I’m NOT a serial killer and claw my way out of the sewer to the level of “free-roaming citizen” just to appease her? She can f~~~ off.

    … and my personal favorite when she senses I’m no simp …..

    • “Are you gay?” Or “are you sure you’re NOT gay?”

    This stupid s~~~ can easily irritate, but I have learned to expect their dumb line of questioning, and will creep-shame them back to amuse myself – reminding myself of this very important MAN-tra.

    Never give a woman a direct answer to a question –>> unless it is “NO”.

    I’m serious.

    Never give a woman a direct answer to a question –>> unless it is “NO”.

    “Do you live alone?”

    “What a creepy question. Are you a stalker?”

    “How do I know you’re not a serial killer?”

    “How do you know I AM?”

    “So What do you do?”

    “I’m an astronaut. See that? ( points to the sky ) that’s my office.”

    “OMG REALLY???”

    “No.”

    Never give a woman a direct answer to a question –>> unless it is “NO”.

    And give her a s~~~-eating grin like you know something she doesn’t.
    Cracks me up every time.

    No bagel is worth that mess.

    After a while it becomes hilarious. Just be creative and amuse yourself, because women are totally boring and predictable that way. You can almost predict what’s gonna come out of her mouth.

    “I bet you’re…..”

    “you can’t afford to lose that bet.”

    One of my favorite responses to “so what do you do” is by OldSage.

    “So what do you do?”

    “I hunt witches. But don’t worry. It’s my day off.”

    I LOVE that one.

    If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
    #733124
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    It'sallbs
    It’sallbs
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    Fcuk of biatch is a good response.

    http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

    #733127
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    Sky-O
    Sky-O
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    18949

    End the questions.

    Just say ‘I’m broke and have a small dick.’

    Bye, bye skanks.

    #733128
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    It'sallbs
    It’sallbs
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    What a creepy question. Are you a stalker?

    With English TUNA that s~~~ gets them all giggly and they get their knickers wet.

    http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

    #733129
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    Sidecar
    sidecar
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    She started going on about “applying for her visa”,

    Call INS on the shop for employing her without a work visa.

    Problem solved.

    #733131
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    OneTrueMisfit
    OneTrueMisfit
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    2690

    I like to give them a “huh!” as in “huh! isn’t that something.” But just a huh. or you could do a “hmm!”

    Don't care

    #733132
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    It'sallbs
    It’sallbs
    Participant

    End the questions.

    Just say ‘I’m broke and have a small dick.’

    Bye, bye skanks.

    Tell her you’re unemployed.

    http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

    #733135
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    OneTrueMisfit
    OneTrueMisfit
    Spectator
    2690

    Do you live alone?
    Sorry, what was that?
    I asked “do you live alone?”
    What? I couldn’t hear you.

    Just keep repeating this until they p~~~ off.

    Don't care

    #733136
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    Keymaster
    Keymaster
    Keymaster

    Just say ‘I’m broke and have a small dick.’

    “No you can’t have any money” would be a hilarious stock response.

    “Can I ask you a favor?”

    “No you can’t have any money.”

    But personally, I refuse to be self-deprecating around women. Even if I’m kidding. I won’t present myself “not good enough for her” – not even to shut her up.

    They already walk around with this grossly over-inflated view of themselves and expect us to “measure up” and answer their questions directly so they can make a judgement call… so I will deny her that.

    Recently I met a bitch who I have bumped into a few times, and she asked me my name. I could tell her, but they don’t make an effort to remember it for next tine. So what’s the point?? But they ALWAYS remember this . . . . .

    “You may call me Sir.”

    That really p~~~es them off. Next time she sees me, she can greet me with “hello Sir”. Of course donkeys will fly out of her ass before she brings herself to say it, but I don’t care. Her hamster has already been REKT.

    I prefer that, anyway.

    If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
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