Do you like to be alone?

[3.14Participant 54]

Hello

Since like forever i used to like to be alone.i never liked big crowds loud places weddings corporate parties and so on

strange this is that the more i disliked these the more i was invited to such gatherings

i like to be secluded and left alone with my books

it seems that with modern people evertything is about status money cheap talk about trivial subjects and ofc about their problems and their ego

 

if is stare at the sea for 10 h our fish for 20h staring at the water i feel recharged. if i go to a wedding i need 1 week to recover from zobie state

i wonder if i am autistic , antisocial or downright evil

Regards

[MOWsince95Participant 1446]

I love being alone, and the more I observe about society, the more I love it.  I can amuse myself more with abstract thoughts and concepts, and as well can engross myself with better humor than I ever get from being social.

Someone once said “the more I know of man, the more I love my dog.”  Truer words there are not, but I substitute our superficial f~~~ed up society for man in that phrase.  And I don’t give a f~~~ any more if people think I am odd for not playing the social game.

If you are MGTOW when you are young you have no heart.
If you're not MGTOW when you are 20 you have no brain.

[qeeqoParticipant 1168]

I Didn’t when I was younger but I do now. I could never Imagine sharing my space with another human especially when it requires entertaining or spending copious amounts of time listening to someone I have essentially nothing in common with. I also don’t care to have to engage anyone unless I really feel like it.

[– Deleted on Request –Spectator 936]

Do I like being alone?  Yes!  I’m used to it, being an only kid with few relatives in this country.

By being alone, I can always guarantee that I’m in the presence of a well-educated and highly intelligent man.

 

[experiencedParticipant]

It’s a mix.

There are times for everything.

What challenges guys are the moments, out of the blue, when contentedly alone and mentally focused on something and a noticeably attractive woman will hit on them. The eyes..the face..the aura, the vocal tone. That’s one of the reasons for this website – to catch that earlier, recognize it for what it is, and to know the consequences. Then you decide, you steer, not her. Yank the wheel to the right and jump out before it goes over the cliff.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[Anonymous 12]

I love being alone as well. I also used to wonder if I had some mild form of autism. I have since worked out that I am Introverted and a HyperSensitive person. Not sensitive in the sooky sense just sensitive in terms of noises and small talk, having people hover around trying to talk to me etc.

If I am at work for example I need my breaks alone, almost every one will go out with someone but I would see that as a wasted lunch break. I need space, same with after work, I don’t go for drinks or anything like that.

Introverts find their energy from within whereas extroverts tend to take it from people around them. I also believe we tend to be a little more picky about who we talk to and we don’t talk s~~~ very well at all. In fact I usually find it to be quite torturous and although I don’t exactly panic when someone starts talking to me, I do find myself wishing they would stop as soon as they started. I just don’t really know what I am supposed to do in those situations.

Yet I am intelligent, well spoken and have various interests and am employed in a management capacity.

 

 

 

[snake plisskenParticipant 3]

Not always,no. But i mutch prefer this than be a slave.

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

I love being alone. No woman giving me a headache driving me to drink. I don’t feel the need to meet retarded people who are useless c~~~s.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[Anonymous 0]

I don’t like to use the Phrase “..like to be alone”,  I rather prefer to say “I am with myself” that implies more that nothing is missing.
Being with myself is one of the highest levels of freedom for me.

3.14 wrote:

if is stare at the sea…staring at the water i feel recharged.

I know this feeling very well. I do not fishing but near my living place there is a river that leads to the harbour. I can sit there for hours watching the ships and the boats, and nothing is missing. That’s Great.

[treelville..miamiParticipant 893]

I would say sometimes, few of my male friends come over a lot BBQ watch sports, of course they have their retarded gf’s who also come on occasion. But most of the time its just them, I think they see my place as a refuge from all the estrogenical treachery.

"The wounds of honor are self inflicted"

[Anonymous 12]

As George would say…

I drink alone…

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o8E7aFdsSIY

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

MOWsince95 wrote:

I love being alone, and the more I observe about society, the more I love it. I can amuse myself more with abstract thoughts and concepts, and as well can engross myself with better humor than I ever get from being social. Someone once said “the more I know of man, the more I love my dog.” Truer words there are not, but I substitute our superficial f~~~ed up society for man in that phrase. And I don’t give a f~~~ any more if people think I am odd for not playing the social game.

I get a vibe about social interactions out there being akin to the movie Cube.  In it, people who built a death trap, doing a part on their own, have to live in their own creation.  They just mindlessly did whatever they were doing, and didn’t think of the outcomes and how it impacted them.  More on the film:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cube_(film)

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

[Mango IngawayParticipant 2264]

Crazy Canuck wrote:

I love being alone. No woman giving me a headache driving me to drink. I don’t feel the need to meet retarded people who are useless c~~~s.

Funnily enough, the less I see people the less I want booze. The dishonesty and stupidity of most people drive me f~~~ing nuts, as it would with anybody who isn’t a dumbass and has some moral values. Except with my best friend, I’ll choose a walk in the woods with my dog over clubbing or whatever bs, any day.

It is a common failing of childhood to think that if one makes a hero out of a demon the demon will be satisfied.

[Biggvs_DickvsParticipant 3725]

3.14 wrote:

Hello Since like forever i used to like to be alone.i never liked big crowds loud places weddings corporate parties and so on strange this is that the more i disliked these the more i was invited to such gatherings i like to be secluded and left alone with my books it seems that with modern people evertything is about status money cheap talk about trivial subjects and ofc about their problems and their ego if is stare at the sea for 10 h our fish for 20h staring at the water i feel recharged. if i go to a wedding i need 1 week to recover from zobie state i wonder if i am autistic , antisocial or downright evil Regards

You’re not alone brother. The absurdly inane and egocentric conversational norm is like nails on a chalkboard for me. NO I DON’T give a flying F~~~ what any of the kar-trashians are wearing or doing this week, and frankly that makes me a BETTER person.

The fact that you recognize that and choose not to participate makes you part of an elite, albeit small, group of people, and we should all feel privileged.

I’ve recently begun to read Aristotle’s treatise on politics and poetics and I have to say guys that there really is nothing new under the sun. He specifically discusses the effects of a population pre-occupied with trivia and superficiality and over-privileged consumption. In his case though, he was speaking  to how this can be used as a means of control and maintaining the status quo in various governance situations, most notably oligarchy, which is now our defacto form of government since the geniuses on the supreme court effectively legalized bribery (Citizens united).

I’m absolutely awestruck by how incredibly accurately a philospher 2500 years and 6000 miles away from us nailed our exact dynamic of power.

 

"Data, I would be delighted to offer any advice I can on understanding women. When I have some, I'll let you know." --Captain Picard,

[BoomhauerParticipant 36]

Yes. In fact, I love being alone. I don’t like crowds, parties or conventions, etc. I just don’t. The strange thing is I’m not anti social, and I can talk to people with no problem at all. I guess I prefer not being the center of attention. I see no point really, since I’m MGTOW and cynical the majority of people hate what I have to say. So I just hang back and keep to my self.

 

[HuckFinnParticipant 5]

Ahhh…solitude. Wonderful stuff.

Cheers!

[hmskl’dParticipant 6406]

Love being alone ..later this evening, I’ll be at Fitzgerald’s Pub sitting next to Enda & chatting with Assumpta (Series 2, episode 9) 🙂

[GrumpyParticipant]

Most of the time I prefer to be alone. When i desire interaction with others I’ll participate with them. Mostly, I don’t p~~~ them off, and they aren’t breathing my air. A fair trade by my standards

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[WolfParticipant 890]

3.14 wrote:

i wonder if i am autistic , antisocial or downright evil

Nah, you’re just an introvert, and there’s nothing wrong with that. I’m an introvert, love my personal space and alone time.

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

Yes and no. Ive lived alone for nearly my entire adult life. I enjoy not having to deal with a nagging bitch, or some douch bag dude (there are PLENTY where I live). I also enjoy when my true, authentic friends come and crash at my place for a few days. Solitude is something I am very used to. But there are times when I would rather hear the voice of good friends, delve into analysis of their lives, their problems, share their joys and tears over my own,

 

I tend to be a hyper analytical, and getting “out of my head” is much easier by surrounding yourself with others.

Resident cynic.

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