Do you know any other MGTOW's in person or are you a lone wolf?

[Just MikeParticipant 393]

As the title says. This site is like a newfound haven of wisdom and general awesomeness for me but I don’t know any other guys in person who have successfully and completely red-pilled. Most of my good mates are in relationships/married/kids; I have broached on a few MGTOW topics with them in the past but haven’t done so for a while. I figure there’s no point, really. As much as a conversion would be nice, unfortunately I don’t think I’m ever going to be able to change their minds; most people have to find out the hard way, mates or not. I don’t want to harass them and I’d never wish the hard way upon any of them but down the track, who knows? Maybe a few of them will learn that it takes a few broken eggs to make a good man-cake, and the yolk will be on their face in the process.

Just sad knowing that at least one of my good mates has kids/engaged to a *complete* c~~~. How do you even bring that topic up in good faith and common sense without sacrificing a good mateship?

So, for the time being I’m staying strong and flying my man-flag solo. I have no real issue with this, I love my life; just sometimes I think a drinking session in person with another red-piller/s would be mad as f~~~. No-one would be forced to go home early from that or be berated and guilted over the phone for enjoying life; no sir, none of that bulls~~~.

Anyway, on an unrelated note, the more I come to this site the more I have to admit: this place is f~~~ing classy, dudes. I hadn’t gone much past the forums until just before I wrote this and I realised there’s a whole wealth of great information and affirmations in the actual site content. Even the presentation reminds me of sitting in an expensive lounge somewhere, in a tailored suit, drinking a bad-ass martini. Kudos to the legends that put this whole show together 🙂

 

Society: I refuse your stick and carrot. If you try to beat or shame me you'd better take me down first time. If I want smoke blown up my ass I'll buy a cigar and a length of hose.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Just Mike wrote:

I have broached on a few MGTOW topics with them in the past but haven’t done so for a while. I figure there’s no point, really.

In my experience “MGTOW” is best internalized unless you’re in mutually understood company. But I do have a good friend who I explained “MGTOW” to who is still there and takes an active interest since the site’s inception! He actually submitted an anonymous article to us for future consideration.

I also met a very hard core former PUA who is VERY red pill and the stereotypical “alpha’ with the tattoos and … well you know what I mean. He actually LOOKS like he owns a motorcycle and he will kill himself on it. We connected at random over lunch in a restaurant and spent the next 3 hours talking. He was very intrigued by MGTOW and actually may be on his way there – personally.

But the majority are EXTREMELY blue pill and so far gone it’s ridiculous. One of them (in California) actually said “Im doing something you would think is totally crazy”……. “I’m getting married”.

“NAH!!! MAN GOOD FOR YOU!!!!! I ABSOLUTELY BELIEVE SIGNING A MARRIAGE CONTRACT IS RIGHT FOR YOU!!!
WHO ELSE WILL KEEP THIS RIDICULOUS GONG SHOW GOING???
I’M SURE SHE IS A DIAMOND IN THE S~~~ PILE!!!!
DON”T LET ANYONE TELL YOU OTHERWISE!!!
They’re just bitter.”

I don’t like him anyway. He’ll be signing up here about 4.5 years after the wedding. We’ll be be waiting.

Keymaster wrote:

Anyway, on an unrelated note, the more I come to this site the more I have to admit: this place is f~~~ing classy, dudes. I hadn’t gone much past the forums until just before I wrote this and I realised there’s a whole wealth of great information and affirmations in the actual site content. Even the presentation reminds me of sitting in an expensive lounge somewhere, in a tailored suit, drinking a bad-ass martini. Kudos to the legends that put this whole show together

That’s awesome and we thank you very much for that.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Mango IngawayParticipant 2264]

I don’t know anyone who truly shares my opinions.
Most people I know are blue pill as f~~~.
Simply not being interested in a relationship with a girl already gets me odd stares, so I better not try to pull out any mgtow stuff from my hat.

It is a common failing of childhood to think that if one makes a hero out of a demon the demon will be satisfied.

[Anonymous 12]

I’m a lone wolf always have been in all aspects of my life.

The only men I really spend time around are from work and that is only at work. They are mainstream type morons who don’t question anything and bye the lie hook, line and sinker.

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

In my experience “MGTOW” is best internalized unless you’re in mutually understood company.

Dont throw your pearls before swine.

To answer the original question; it was actually a good friend of mine who told me about this site. He stumbled upon it on youtube. Never asked him if he posts here…lol I definitely should now that Ive been posting.

One of my other good friends reads the red pill sites. Hes read up on MGTOW, but hes convinced MGTOW offers no solutions and only bitches about problems. His words not mine, or else I wouldnt even post here if that was the totality of my perception.

Bottomline: yes, several of my close friends share the views expressed on this forum. Im not sure what the hard line definition is of being MGTOW, but I do know I identify with many of these concepts going YEARS back. And so do several of my friends.

For me, its cutting through the BS women feed us, and what weve been taught to beleive about women. I have no hard and fast rules. Just identifying BS where it exists, and not allowing the childish charm of females to get away with zero accountability and responsibility.

Pretty simple.

Resident cynic.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

I’d rather be a lone coyote. They get all the best stuff. Usually from ACME. And they live pretty nice once they give up chasing after that f~~~ing bird.

Ancientwisdom wrote:

Hes read up on MGTOW, but hes convinced MGTOW offers no solutions and only bitches about problems.

Show him those pics of paycheck stubs with everything going to child support from that other thread.

Then show him your new motorcycle for which you paid cash.

The benefits of Going Your Own Way are immediate and obvious.

[FullMetalExoParticipant 2383]

Mango Ingaway wrote:

Most people I know are blue pill as f~~~.

Same.

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[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Approx 25 of us met in London a few weeks ago. Doing it again in August.

Don’t know where it will go but it was good to meet other mgtow.

I’m hoping it can become a mgtow night out on the town.

Lots of guys having a good time and giving no s~~~s.

Imagine a club where all the guys were mgtow …… the wo-men wouldn’t have a clue what was going on …… overtime hamstering 😆

[MOWsince95Participant 1446]

I know one guy at the office that I suspect is MGTOW, but I won’t bring it up because around the workplace it is best to keep your MGTOW thoughts to yourself.  If you ever have a disagreement with a woman at the office, your MGTOW ideas will be brought up and you will be labeled as a woman-hater and likely fired, or at least disciplined, even if you are right.

My family is very aware of my ideas and are cool with that (my mom maybe doesn’t like it but I don’t give a crap). My few friends are all married blue pill bitches, actually.  They all hate that they are married, but wouldn’t know what to do without their overweight hags nagging every aspect of their lives. One married dude I thought could maybe be of sound mind (if he wasn’t married) turns out to be hypnotized by and obedient to any set of big t~~~ attached to a semi-attractive whore.  Blows my mind to see this guy completely transfixed and subservient to this s~~~ chick at work.  I asked if he recognized she is just another bitch, and his response was “yeah, but damn she has a rack.” I responded “maybe, but unless you are tittyf~~~ing it, why would you care? And even then, why?”  He looked at me like I was from another planet.

If you are MGTOW when you are young you have no heart.
If you're not MGTOW when you are 20 you have no brain.

[Binary LogicParticipant 2351]

Just Mike wrote:

As the title says. This site is like a newfound haven of wisdom and general awesomeness for me but I don’t know any other guys in person who have successfully and completely red-pilled.

The wealth of knowledge here is downright AWE-INSPIRING. I’ve been here for months, and yet every time I step foot through the threshold.. I thirst. For more knowledge. For more feedback. For more understanding.  And I am NEVER disappointed.

Just Mike wrote:

So, for the time being I’m staying strong and flying my man-flag solo.

Yeah bro. I can definitely understand you there. Sometimes I wish I could scream what I’ve learned from the rooftops. . but then I realize it’s always more fun to just horde the knowledge till its needed. Beyond that I almost feel like it would take nothing short of a few years to really let the lessons here soak in and truly become ingrained in one’s character.

Funny, isn't it? How women thrive on a mans time, attention and resources, while simultaneously telling him he isn't enough...

[Anonymous 9]

Lone wolf over here…

I’m too aware.

[fififi89Participant 48]

I have two friends that have always been MGTOW without even knowing the brand.

We don’t talk about this movement but we share the same opinions and ideas about women and about how good life is without them. We laugh about people getting married, travel, have fun.

 

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

I ran into a MGTOW locally, and would of never known if I hadn’t started discussing doing my own thing.  From there, the conversation went MGTOW.  He said a line that was really of value.  It was something like: “I became MGTOW the moment I realized I didn’t need a woman for validation”.  He also said he was MGTOW before he knew the term existed.  I think that is a thing you are going to run into.  Men who are MGTOW but don’t even think of that as a label for themselves.  They just go about their lives, minding their own business.

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

[rorickParticipant 682]

I’m a lone wolf myself.. I have been labeled as a woman hater right from when i was a kid its something like whenever i try to explain the true nature of a woman to my friends they would give me this look like I’m going to slaughter every women i come across.. Now most of them are married and few are going to get married soon they still view me as some kind of a psychopath living alone (to them i live in a cave)..

Sometimes i feel pride to be a MGTOW cause not many can be one .. One day a friend of mine visited my room and he laughed at me and said that he never wanted to be like me or end up like me, I replied “Don’t worry! You never will” It definitely feels awesome to be a MGTOW cause just look out the world 99% of the people are following the same old pre-written script., but we MGTOW creates our script live the life the way we wanted.. It definitely takes courage to be a MGTOW, which many lacks..

[martygParticipant 103]

I have talked to a handful of guys about it. They are technically in agreement but are not yet willing to give up the squishy parts. Not yet….

[MENGINEERParticipant 583]

I have had three MGTOW friends for many years. Go on hikes, eat a lunch with no complaints, laugh at everyone getting hitched/fat/having babies.

Only thing bad things about having MGTOW friends is the jaw pain from laughing so much at women and the hangovers from all night drinking! 🙂

[Anonymous 5]

My friends are pussy whipped and hate marriage. I wont be shocked when they divorce in a few years.

[Knights Templar RisingParticipant 5106]

I don’t know of any true MGTOW types.  90% of the men I know are Blue Pill to a fault.  I know of 3 guys who unknowingly went MGTOW after divorce, they just stopped “caring” if they had a GF or not; they have all been divorced approx 10 years and only now one is about to move in with a woman, if he does she may be in for quite a shock because he stopped caring what women think 10 years back (even though he doesn’t know what MGTOW/RedPill is).  I also know one older guy who was divorced twice, now that he is hitting 60yo he would rather spend his free time hunting (AFAIK he now goes the prostitute method).

Sovereignty above all else.

[Anonymous 11]

I have only one friend who goes his own way.

You’ll weird many guys out by mentioning MGTOW as they are uncomfortable when the curtains are removed from the illusion. A White Knight could possibly give you an uppercut for improper c~~~ worship.

Women themselves are our best recruiters plus a man has to arrive at that point himself. Both my friend and I were bludgeoned into MGTOW.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Do you know any other MGTOW’s in person or are you a lone wolf?

Yes, a pal directed me to the term ‘MGTOW’. I had not heard of it before, although I was one.
Yes, I am on my own. I communicate with others, but do not hang out with them.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

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