Do you have MGTOW friends in the "real" world?

[LionOnTheLooseParticipant 1315]

I think the inevitable trajectory of a MGTOW is increasing frustration/disillusionment with the blue pill world, and increasing isolation from friends/family/society.

That suits me well, because I love solitude, but it is sometimes frustrating that not a single person in my offline life understands my worldview. I should say that, working in the arts in the UK, I’m surrounded by pro-EU liberals, feminists, Corbynistas, manginas and worse. So most social interaction for me involves a fair bit of tongue-biting.

I’m curious to know: do you guys have MGTOW/red pill friends in the “real” world? Or do you rely on this forum (or elsewhere online) to let off steam with likeminded brothers?

There aren't holes in your pockets. It's called marriage.

[TheSpiceParticipant 2644]

I don’t. It’s not a topic that’s socially acceptable in most cases. I do throw in some red pill knowledge when opportunities emerge. I’m waiting on seeing a friend have an “a-ha” moment like I did.

"I've been thinking about what it would be like if we got back together."
"You know it's too late for that."

[LosPukeParticipant 514]

First rule of Fight Club is the first rule of MGTOW in the real world.

[GoodKid44Participant 1524]

I don’t. Most men who are mgtow are all at different levels and paths in their lives. Most of them are simply frustrated or angry. I don’t think I could ever find someone who’s at my same trajectory in terms of how to use mgtow to help benefit not only yourself, but those around you.

Sure, mgtow can come off as “be selfish” and “put yourself first” but don’t get that confused with knowing that mgtow men are some of the most selfless people on the planet. We’ll go out of our way to do what’s right and just. We are some of the most rational level headed people out there right now. The reason why we even exist is because we saw far too many women taking advantage for their own narcissistic benefit. Making innocent men suffer. No logical person can stand by and allow that to happen over and over again. So here we are.

I have one close mgtow friend who is similar in age, but even we don’t agree on most things. We do agree that you should not blame any one thing (hypergamy or gynocentrism) to say why one can’t accomplish their goals in life. Life isn’t fair and that’s a good thing, but it’s also key to understand what’s going on around you, hence why the red pill is so important. Use the knowledge to your advantage etc.

But for the most part I tend to favor people who are simply honest and fair. These are people who don’t let anyone pull some bulls~~~ whether woman or man. And when I see a human stand up to a woman who’s obviously pulling some bulls~~~, mgtow or not, that person is an ally no matter what their gender.

I don’t think I’ll ever tell anyone I’m mgtow. But I will use these teachings on here to make myself a better person so that others will see me as the type of leader/mentor they want to have around. I get that people want to make mgtow out to be a fraternity of sort, but mgtow is merely an idealogy. It’s a not an organization where you show up and vote or wear a patch on your jacket.

We’re all at different levels in life and we’ve all had different experiences. Some men have been married. Others like me have simply dated a ton of women and seen the horrors of what that brings. One experience is not better than the other. They’re just different and we can all learn from them in sharing/discussing it.

Having a place to share this s~~~ is so important, so I’d say, as cheesy as this sounds, everyone on this forum who’s willing to share an experience is a friend in some crazy/odd way.

Here’s to making friends who walk the stoic path

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22522]

LosPuke wrote:

First rule of Fight Club is the first rule of MGTOW in the real world.

That first rule keeps one alive.

[hmskl’dParticipant 6406]

Have friends and acquaintances, I’ve lived in these Sam’ hills for decades ..however, there are just none MGTOW ..as far as I know.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

I’ve never really heard anyone claiming “I’m MGTOW” or “I’m redpill” but I do know a lot of guys in the mid 20s to mid 30s age bracket who have never been married who think marriage is a s~~~ deal and claim they won’t do it. I’m sure some will fall off the horse and end up married, but regardless…I think my generation will maintain a much lower marriage rate than prior generations.

Of my handful of buddies I hung around with a lot growing up, a couple of them turned into total poon hounds and would f~~~ anything that moved, but never ended up married, me and a few others kinda fell into the realm of dating occasionally with a few girlfriends over the years but ended up single because all we found was crazies and sluts, and one of them married the first girl that f~~~ed him and I’ve talked to him about once in the 10 years since then because she hated all his friends lol. He could be divorce raped by now and I wouldn’t know…wouldn’t give him the time of day if he ever tried to reconnect.

Strangely enough out of the bunch, those of us that dated a bit but couldn’t find anything of quality worth keeping around also ended up being the ones who in our 30s have the most going on for us in terms of career and assets, and the least issues with criminal histories, drugs, and alcohol abuse…exactly the kind of guys women want when its time to settle down and find a nice guy(wallet), only we’ve already played the game enough to know they aren’t worth it. If they weren’t worth it at 24 they certainly won’t be worth it at 34.

[WPLParticipant 2390]

I’ve had one close friend for the last 30 years who is a MGHOW, but in his case it’s not a specific reaction to modern feminism. It’s just how he’s always been.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Ghost society 100%

[TwistParticipant]

My brother has been MGTOW his entire life. But he doesn’t know it…

And friends? I have long term friends who have been married for decades, some who have had the pleasure, like me, of divorce rape. I would not label any of them MGTOW, but I would call them all pursuers of Truth.

And they do get a knowing kick out it when I go off the rails on one of my rants about the C~~~ies.

[MACHOParticipant]

I have met many men going their own way! What do you expect in a world that practically criminalizes being a man if you show too much interest in women. Men don’t have to hang out on here or other mgtow sites to go their own way.. They just need to know how to remain relatively safe which is a no-brainer in 2018! duh!

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[ArcturisParticipant 2819]

TheSpice wrote:

I do throw in some red pill knowledge when opportunities emerge

Similar to Spice I take opportunities to plant a few seeds from time to time. I don’t have any MGTOW friends. Half of mine are in long term committed relationships like I WAS. – (Haha, just had a little giggle to myself)

I see MGTOW as a path one must find for themselves, so I try not to discuss my choices with others.

I think its better that way.

However, if one of my male friends was to ‘wake up’ and start asking questions, I’ll be there.

Protect Your Sovereignty. Women WILL TRY To Manipulate You. #NOCONTACT #ICETHEMOUT

[Greg HondaParticipant 6406]

I wanted to meet guys I had talked to here in real life to see if we could connect in person as well as we do here.

It involved a transatlantic trip but it was worth it.

Turns out that most guys are just regular guys who don’t want to get burned again.

Just switched on guys.

It's Time to get Wise

[LionOnTheLooseParticipant 1315]

Great replies chaps, thanks.

PistolPete wrote:

Ghost society 100%

This is where I’m heading.

Arcturis wrote:

I see MGTOW as a path one must find for themselves

Agreed. MGTOW isn’t a club or a religion, we don’t meet up in church halls and we’re not out to recruit people to the cause. I think I see it as a kind of virtual brotherhood.

Sometimes I see a guy and think, hmm, I wonder if he’s a MGTOW. Let me know if someone ever comes up with a secret MGTOW handshake. 😀

There aren't holes in your pockets. It's called marriage.

[Anonymous 13]

Myself and several other members have had death threats for being MGTOW and dropping truth bombs.

They are s~~~ scared.

F~~~ing good.

[OgreParticipant 5863]

In the real World, I was dropping red pills and saying what I “might” go for to replace my current situation. Three women in hearing range, all laughing, none meeting my criteria.

Hamsters nuked = 3. Time wasted was zero, since I had to be there anyway. My situation is unique. I’m recognized as the savant at my job, and I make no pretense at pursuing individual females. #metoo can’t take it to HR, they know they’re out of my window. I can say or do anything, it’s their choice to giggle or not.

P.S. they know I’m right so they always laugh, even if the truth hurts.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[Gravel PitParticipant]

I’ve rallied so hard for MGTOW to most my acquaintances, for so long, that many of them are starting to understand it and guard themselves. But some of them are still stupid as hell, like getting married a third time, or planning an engagement….

I’ve actually converted my best friend who is twice my age. He gets it. It took him about 2 years of me pointing out misandry left and right for him to finally catch on. MGTOW will stay small though, guaranteed.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

I have no friends, don’t need them.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[Mr LogicParticipant 625]

I have a younger friend next door to me that shares a bowl now and then and he hears my stories. I wouldn’t even need to tell him about MGTOW.

[FragmentedParticipant 2758]

No

Everywhere i go guys are still in the blue pill lala land. They all have girlfriends, wives, and are servants of the hive.

It would be nice to have some guys to go target shooting with, and just hang out with … But it’s just not possible right now. I’m pretty isolated and confined to my bedroom as it stands right now.

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