Do you have lots of friends?

[MenckenParticipant 693]

I still see people turning down marriage to be a minority, though growing. In highschool, I had lots of friends, or thought I did. I enlisted in the Navy and had a few, but less. Later, I had very few and learned to do all the things I like alone. One year I went deer hunting with a friend from highschool and suddenly became extremely aware of why I have very few friends now. Hypergamy.

I convinced him to go overnight which he had to do quite a bit of work done and beg his wife. I picked him up in the morning and met his wife. She said hello but with an evil glare. Obviously she hated that he was going to have fun on his own and hated me for it.

We drove a few hundred miles out of town into some forested badlands, somewhat remote. We backpacked and drove around in the evening. When he got into reception, his phone started blowing up from his wife. She was p~~~ed and wanted him to come home. He begged, pleaded, and apologized all day.

The next day, I had found out that his bitch had called both my parents and my other friends parents looking for her husband. She was rude to my dad who took great pleasure in telling the c*** to go pack sand. The next day we ended the trip early because of her. My friend said he had to get home. He said he felt bad for her that she was all alone with the kids and that it was wrong for him to leave (despite making plans). He got grouchy and was upset with me. I tried to convince him that he did nothing wrong. Later, he never returned my call. I was fine with that.

It was devastating to see a former marine become such a mangina. His wife was attractive but in zero way worth anyones attention. He became an accountant and they bought a bigger house. She quit her job.

Three years later he messages me asking me to help him get a deer. I did but he was only allowed a few hours in the evening near town. He was interested in going with me on my trips but the moment I said it required full days, he said no.

For awhile I thought something was wrong with me. Am I annoying? No status? No, people would like to do thing, but they are wage slaves to hypergemous women. Than I noticed the few friends I do have are all single. They have time to enjoy life and the money.

At age 30, other men are all married. They may get out with family every so often, but thats it. Of course they are considered real men. They grew up and settled down. In my opinion, they gave in to primal temptation, social pressure, and threw their lives away.

I am guessing most men on this board are somewhat older, perhaps learned the hard way when they were young. My question to others, is do you have lots of friends? Are they married or single?

Misogynist - A man who hates women as much as women hate one another.

[Anonymous 42]

Mencken wrote:

My friend said he had to get home. He said he felt bad for her that she was all alone with the kids and that it was wrong for him to leave (despite making plans).

Call me Toby! I’ll stay in the woods and not come out f~~~ing ever! You should give him a cellphone activated SHOCK COLLAR! And a f~~~ing doggie bone!

Mencken wrote:

My question to others, is do you have lots of friends? Are they married or single?

No I don’t, I had lots of friends and like you they grew up, got married, got fat, AND GOT F~~~ING MISERABLE!

I will NEVER attend another wedding again! F~~~ING WORTHLESS!

Real men don’t chckhold down to a narsistic self entitled f~~~ing c~~~!

I have 3 true friends and one of them is my brother. The others are just figurative stick-figure friends that I know are not to be relied upon.

There’s a very high caliper of men here more than worthy of friendship, they’re truly brothers and the keepers of lost souls! The only kind of men I associate with.

I have NO, ZERO, F~~~ING NADA, Woman friend/s in this entire world, including familia! Their arrogance and inconsideration is far to repulsive and poisonous to establish a working friendship, they may (for all intents and purposes) f~~~ off and die a grizzly death!

Let the cats eat them for all I care.

Does that answer you question?

[MenckenParticipant 693]

That is good to hear. For awhile I was wondering if something was wrong with me. Three is the same number I have except two live across the country. Though I am likely never to date ever again, my prejudice is not quite that extreme. Concerning the women that are absolutely motivated by hypergamy, yea, they can go eat cats. Your disdain is not unfounded though. Their reputation has been earned.

Misogynist - A man who hates women as much as women hate one another.

[Mister StealthParticipant 362]

Like MG Tower I also have three friends at this point in my life.

I am in my early 30s and just starting my divorce. I was only married a short time but I was seeing myself much like your friend being manipulated and folding to the pressure of his wife. (My friends took me a side before I got married and told me not to do it – and where still there for me to tell me to get the f~~~ out when I was ready to listen)

I’d rather have few quality friends or be alone than have s~~~ty friends a woman says I can hang out with

Stay strong brother

Steel sharpens steel

[The Long WalkParticipant 1282]

Anonymous wrote:

I will NEVER attend another wedding again! F~~~ING WORTHLESS!

Gods but I HATE weddings. An entire f~~~ing day dedicated to everyone worshipping the bride and her c~~~ery. I’ve got better things to do. Like watching this paint dry over here.

Mencken wrote:

My question to others, is do you have lots of friends?

Nope, I’m a taciturn kind of guy and a private person. Not exactly conducive to having a large social circle, but that’s how I like it. I please myself primarily, other people are a secondary consideration for the most part. Most of the guys I used hang out with have already been isolated, robbed, chewed up and spat out by you guessed it.. Hypergamous women. The rest are sure to follow soon enough.

[thisistheguy123Participant 2063]

The older I grow the more private I become.

I can text/call anyone to go out at anytime, but I’m better off doing my own thing.

Lone Wolf

[ExecrationParticipant 1496]

I wouldn’t concern myself with how many friends I have, I think its best if you do the same.Like MGtower I have 2 people who would call me friends out of the mass of people who I’ve met and know. If others think I’m their friend well , it begs the question why I dont consider them the same.

Here however , I beilieve its possible to make many more as this is a hub where people can relate, understand eachother and show sincerity as Mgtower stated.

Understand with enlightenment the worlds understanding doesnt come or completely change right away.

In your instance dont think less of your marine buddy, he doesnt know any differently and hes doing what he thinks is right. You cant change anyones mind no matter how smart you are.

Unfortunately the more awake you are the less possible I beilieve it will be for you to understand others. With understanding attempt to develope its co operating trait , patience and understanding for others.

[OgreParticipant 5863]

I’ve got lots of friends from the military, guys that if we’re in each other’s town I’ll meet up for lunch. Nobody for hunting trips or motorcycle rides though, which is fine. I like myself enough to be alone without being lonely.

Since I actively dislike more people than I like it’s just easier to disassociate than to have to try to be sociable.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[Mr.NeverAgainParticipant 146]

Damn. I was just like your buddy there. Met my best friend in another town far away from home. Only friend I had for years. When he left his house to go fishing, he spent more time heaping love and praise on his dogs, only to look at his wife and say “Bye woman.” And he didn’t answer the phone if she tried calling him. He’s divorced now (obviously, as the above quote is not an exaggeration.)

Me, I spent hours obtaining permission to go, only to spend half the time on phone getting bitched at or answering her inane texts.

We are still friends, but he lives pretty far away so I don’t really have anything social going on in my life. Married girls do not like their hubbies playing with single men, and all my old friends from past lives are too happily married to do anything more than make excuses as to why they can’t stop by.

“I know your race. It is made up of sheep. It is governed by minorities, seldom or never by majorities. It suppresses its feelings and its beliefs and follows the handful that makes the most noise." The Mysterious Stranger by Mark Twain

[Mr. ManParticipant 2916]

I regularly get the stink eye from the wives or girlfriends of my male friends. A single man is seen as an enemy to a married man’s place on the plantation. Can’t have freemen like me putting wild ideas into a husband’s limited life view.

At the moment, I only have one friend who has a girlfriend and yet is allowed to go cavorting with me without her. I’ve lost the rest to their respective cupcakes.

Such is life.

[Rolling Tin FistParticipant 484]

Mencken wrote:

My question to others, is do you have lots of friends? Are they married or single?

From an Awakened While Married perspective, the other men here are correct. Most married men eventually and gradually get worn down into submission and compliance, and seclusion from their friends, by their wives. Shame and guilt are two of the more popular tactics.

While I always did my thing before the Red Pill, I always felt guilty if my wife didn’t give her full endorsement. Always. This typically would make me miserable during the trip aided by her incessant calling to check up.

Post Red Pill, I’m permanently cured of this and I do at least one Red Pill Getaway a year. Usually with other AWMs, MGTOW, Red Pill men. And no, I mean NO WOMEN, are allowed on the trip. It’s usually about a week. Sometimes it’s international. Sometimes is a motorcycle rally. I’m on radio silence while on these trips except to talk to my kids.

My circle is a lot smaller since the Red Pill; two years as of yesterday. I had to create distance between me and a lot of folks that where once family and friends.

You’ve got to rid yourself of as many toxic relationships as possible or you can’t thrive to your potential.

All my married friends have been worn down and none are Red Pill. The ones that had a chance to go MGTOW, post-divorce, all opted to return to the plantation. All of them. However I don’t judge them because I’ve been there.

I have one older Red Pill relative and I’m closer to him than anyone as I’ve know him for decades. We’ve both been though deaths and separations.

There’s one older friend, who is one of my ride-or-die buddies. He’s full-blown MGTOW. I don’t see him as much as I used to since I moved but we keep in touch. We’ve ridden hundreds of miles together and I always feel better about myself and life after spending time with him. Our adventures are legend and we still joke about them.

Finally, there’s a younger Purple Pill guy. He’s been a great friend over the years. He’s shifted from Blue to Red and most recently back to Purple Pill. He’s recently allowed a very attractive foreign woman to infiltrate his Red Pill-dom. She’s now his girlfriend and she’s successfully convinced him that it’s a good idea to let her move in with him.

She also managed to almost infiltrate our last Red Pill Getaway. I called him out on it, and we agreed that she’d be gone by the time my plane landed. He had extended the front part of his trip before I arrived so she could come down to our destination because she wanted to and he didn’t want to put his foot down.

I’ve shared all the Red Pill knowledge I can with him but swore I’d never shove it down his throat as it’s each man’s individual choice to choose the Blue or Red Pill. No one can choose for you.

Ultimately, he kept his word and she was p~~~ed, but bros before hoes.

"Love is the delusion that one woman differs from another" - H. L. Mencken

[Anonymous 6]

No friends left, found out my last good friend is giving up his sovereignty next month, have not seen him in years and tried to advise him but no talking him out of it, he has invited me to this harmonious circus next month. At least I’ve still got you brothers here!

[MenckenParticipant 693]

The wiser we get, the more alone we become? It is a pattern throughout history. Dissenters in any society are usually ostracized for having thoughts outside the “3×5 card of allowable opinion.” Yet it is these same people that see the world for what it could be instead of what it is. These are the innovators, entrepreneurs, and political dissidents. Remember the Greek government executed one of their greatest thinkers on the grounds of heresy simply for asking questions.

There is a pattern in these posts and it is unfortunate. I was kind of hoping to hear that other MGTOW had lots of friends and were always doing cool things with each other since they had time but reason told me that this pool of people with time and resources was small.

Misogynist - A man who hates women as much as women hate one another.

[narwhalParticipant]

I don’t have any friend that isn’t married. The friends I do have, I see rarely. I just don’t care to try and deal with this. Through the years, I’ve gotten tired of friends drifting away when a GF or wife comes along.

I hope to get involved with some group sometime this year, as I’d like to be more active, but I want to avoid married folk as much as possible.

Ok. Then do it.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Mencken wrote:

My question to others, is do you have lots of friends? Are they married or single?

A lot of friends is no indicator of quality or value. You only need to live long enough to figure out if you have 1 or 2 true friends in the world, you’re doing VERY well, and better than most. That’s not bulls~~~.

I once met Katy Perry’s body guard when I admired his motorbike, and a 2-minute conversation became a 4 hour conversation. He talked about how these famous people he worked for all had houses in the Hollywood Hills, with parties and countless numbers of people around them…… and he said something I will never forget:

“If you’re ever concerned that you don’t have enough friends… just wait until you’re famous. They are the loneliest people of all”.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[anonymousyamParticipant 4605]

I have friends for now (i am a young guy) but if they all go marry in the future i i fully expect they will be forced to cut contact with me by their wives. So as of right now i expect many of my current friends as of this date to ditch me but their is a possibility a few might go mgtow.

As for the future i do not know how many people in the fields i am looking at will decide to marry as i plan to either become a comedian, a voice actor, a radio personality or the singer of a band as of now unless that all fails to which i will look being a bartender or a bar owner.

So i do not know how many of these guys are gonna f~~~ing stick around in the future compared to what i have now but i hope at least one of them as of now sticks or i get into contact with the friends i had in the past (the ones who moved away, switched schools or i simply lost all contact with right now).

Just an east coast asshole who likes to curse, If you get offended by words like fuck, cunt, shit, piss, bitch or any racial slurs then you just scroll down.

[IceBankMiceElfParticipant 124]

I have a few real close friends from high school that I am still close with. I also spent a few years in the military where I met some good friends and try to see them when I can as they are spread throughout the country and if I get their way then I try to hook up with them. Some of my best times have been when there have only been guys there.

Speaking of which, I’m sitting at the house watching one of my favorite movies, Predator. The early helicopter scene came on where Long Tall Sally was playing, The Body was spitting on Apollo Creed’s boot, and somebody’s girlfriend had a pussy as big as a house!

[debt slayerrrrParticipant 36]

i know a lot of people. But I have no actual friends.

[Anonymous 11]

We extroverts are a minority here. I am blessed with about a dozen very good friends and have a wide circle of acquaintances.

I even have a few platonic female friends, but I do have lower expectations of them. I don’t mean that in a bad way either for they are what they are. They will make sammiches for me though.

Anonymous wrote:

I will NEVER attend another wedding again! F~~~ING WORTHLESS!

I had to attend a family wedding. The bride and her bestie friend made a cat lady reference when they were at the mike. I ran with it and made about 100 people laugh. I had people coming up to me telling me they could not believe I said that. I am that guy, yes.

[LeoParticipant 25]

I had few friends and a lot of acquaintances when I was still a student, but now I have only 2 people I can call friends. Other got girlfriends, got married, moved to a different city, with some people I knew contact disappeared naturally, as we both changed and don’t have things to talk about anymore.

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