Do you guys always think about women and TRP ? Or do you find ways to cope ?

[YoungshredderParticipant 33]

I guess what i mean is are you guys always worrying about women or the fact that you have girl problems ( for those of is who do ) ?

Ive learned to let go awhile ago, sometimes it comes back and makes me feel like s~~~ but i cope pretty well. Lifting or any kind of working out , even cardio, gets my mind off things. I also play guitar alot and longboard.

Id also love to mod my car but i dont have one yet lol. I should be getting my license next week after i take my road test. Never had a chance to get it or have someone take me driving when i was young because i grew up poor. So i had to spend alot of money to get an instructor but its worth it.

So yea cars would go on my hobby list too. It sucks being average looking in todays society , espically like me , im average looking in the face with low bodyfat and with alot of muscle from lifting so im not the most geneitically gifted person in the world.

I just dont let it get to me and focus on my hobbies and enjoying life. No reason to dwell over something you have no control over.

Im about to start looking for electrian apprenticeships. I can get one from some schools around here. My gi bill will cover it. Trades make good money. Hopefully between work and my hobbies ill be thinking of women even less because of how busy ill be.

I also hope to one day move back to helena montana. Beatiful part of the state , small town , know alot of people there from my child hood and everyones friendly. That wont be until later down the road unfortunately.

So yea guys what do you do for fun ? What do you do to take your mind off things ? If i thought about RP stuff all day id go crazy.

You take the blue pill—the story ends, you wake up in your bed and believe whatever you want to believe.You take the red pill—you stay in Wonderland and I show you how deep the rabbit-hole goes.

[narrow road travelerParticipant 1680]

Youngshredder wrote:

I guess what i mean is are you guys always worrying about women or the fact that you have girl problems ( for those of is who do ) ?

The body of your post assumes, that men here have solely romantic problems with women.

Women falsely accuse men of crimes to the state, then collect resources from the state.

The state robs regular men, to provide resources to women that they had no hand in producing.

To answer your question for my account. I don’t think of women all day. I’m aware that they can rob me at any time via the state. So I prepare myself accordingly.

The supreme art of war is to subdue the enemy without fighting. --Sun Tsu

[YoungshredderParticipant 33]

narrow road traveler wrote:

Youngshredder wrote:

I guess what i mean is are you guys always worrying about women or the fact that you have girl problems ( for those of is who do ) ?

The body of your post assumes, that men here have solely romantic problems with women.

Women falsely accuse men of crimes to the state, then collect resources from the state.

The state robs regular men, to provide resources to women that they had no hand in producing.

To answer your question for my account. I don’t think of women all day. I’m aware that they can rob me at any time via the state. So I prepare myself accordingly.

Some but not all. I dont think everyone here does. Everyone has their own reason for taking the mgtow path. And ofc women can obviously ruin your life. You should always take precautions.

You take the blue pill—the story ends, you wake up in your bed and believe whatever you want to believe.You take the red pill—you stay in Wonderland and I show you how deep the rabbit-hole goes.

[bagsofsandParticipant 1391]

I don’t think I’m ‘coping’ although the majority of ‘blue pillers’ would like to think I’m having such a strategy. I would rather say I’m ‘living’……….

I totally get what you mean, but at some point you just say f~~~ it, I truly don’t CARE about being with a woman.
They can offer me NOTHING (besides sex, and that I can get from a whore if I want) – they can NOT offer me companionship, because a woman can NOT love you for who you are. They will only USE you to stimulate their wildly fluctuating ‘feel good’ neurotransmitters, or milk you as a human ATM machine, as needed.
They CAN offer me children, but the costs are just too high, and until society and its women change their s~~~ty conditions and behaviour I’m not having any.

The more you’ll excel in doing your interests/hobbies, the less you’ll care about women and their opinion of you.

I think it’s about ‘channeling’ your desire and energy into stuff that ultimately makes sense to you (making good money to provide for yourself, learning new skills, sports, traveling, care for your friends if you have some, whatever floats your boat) – and it helps learning about women’s ‘true nature’ and exposing feminism as the cancer it is.

I’m certainly still ‘raging’ from time to time, but I accept that and I’d like to think I’m moving towards a more peaceful and serene, content state of mind as I get older.

[bagsofsandParticipant 1391]

Btw, you don’t need a woman to live a long and happy life.

Take it from Mr. Mortensen who had the 2nd ‘longest verified lifespan of any male in history’ (115 years old!)
According to the wiki ‘he was married for less than ten years, divorced and had no children. He did not remarry.’

THAT, my friend is the redpill reason he kept on trucking with a nice cigar forever and ever….

On his 115th birthday Mortensen gave his advice for a long life: “Friends, a good cigar, drinking lots of good water, no alcohol, staying positive and lots of singing will keep you alive for a long time”

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Christian_Mortensen

[Anonymous 11]

Working out and doing things for yourself are key to overcoming the gynocentric grip on your mind.

Once done, you’ll will no longer think of them other than through a red pill lens.

[Zuberi TauParticipant 10606]

I don’t waste my vitality worrying about trollops.

No debt, no alimony, no child support, no problems.

[YoungshredderParticipant 33]

bagsofsand wrote:

Btw, you don’t need a woman to live a long and happy life.

Take it from Mr. Mortensen who had the 2nd ‘longest verified lifespan of any male in history’ (115 years old!)
According to the wiki ‘he was married for less than ten years, divorced and had no children. He did not remarry.’

THAT, my friend is the redpill reason he kept on trucking with a nice cigar forever and ever….

On his 115th birthday Mortensen gave his advice for a long life: “Friends, a good cigar, drinking lots of good water, no alcohol, staying positive and lots of singing will keep you alive for a long time”

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Christian_Mortensen

Well ik that. Otherwise i wouldnt be on these forums. Never want kids either. Muchless marriage. This why i cant wait to eventually move back to helena. Like i said nice little town where everyones friendly. People will leave me the f~~~ alone. Only 30k population.

In the valley of the beatiful rockies. Plenty of fun outdoors stuff. I hate living in a densely populated area.

You take the blue pill—the story ends, you wake up in your bed and believe whatever you want to believe.You take the red pill—you stay in Wonderland and I show you how deep the rabbit-hole goes.

[Shadow1275Participant 1178]

You have enough problems on your own to be worrying about Women, and trust me they always find a way to make you care less.

A woman almost drove her White SUV into my Honda Civic the other day bc she wanted a Coffee from Dunkin Donuts, she went zero to thirty in 5 seconds at a drivethru and nearly rammed her fat front into the driver seat of my car.

there are no f~~~s given for Women where this man is concerned, *Holds up thumbs*

He who is Brave is Free - Seneca

[AttonParticipant]

Zuberi Tau wrote:

I don’t waste my vitality worrying about trollops.

No debt, no alimony, no child support, no problems.

Like a nascar losing 900kg.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[Anonymous 6]

I don’t worry about not having a woman on my arm because I know they will always be there. I’m sure there will be a time when i will entertain a few chicks every now and then, but I have forever to do that. I don’t have forever to accomplish my goals.

I’m a educated black man just getting started on my career, with no baby mama’s, no kids, no messed up credit, a good head on my shoulders, 6’3, and broad shoulders. I’m not an eligible bachelor, i’m an eligible TARGET!! And by the time I’m settled into my career, women will be throwing themselves at me, not because of who I am, but because of what I have.

I always say, I want two trucks and a house to park them at. I want the truck because I like it, but when a woman sees it, she’s not gonna think, “WOW, that truck with the lift kit is awesome”, she’s gonna think, “WOW, if he has that truck, he must have some money, I should get with him”.

See my dilemma???

[Old RottweilerParticipant 1520]

Buy an old car you like and fix it up. You will learn, if you choose wisely you will make money. Take your time, ask old guys for help, I and others like to teach young guys. Look for an old Porsche 914 or old classic pickup. There are websites where you can find deals on parts and ask for help and advice.

Most importantly, with cars, and life, take your time and learn.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Very rarely, and mostly I will keep it all very internalized. I only “red-pill” in my personal life when necessary, and inline with this philosophy:

“A Jedi uses the force for knowledge and defense.
Never for attack.”
-Yoda

That little green guy knew what he was talking about.

“Beware of the dark side. Anger. Fear. Aggression. The dark side are they. Once you start down the dark path, forever will it dominate your destiny. Consume you, it will!!”

Pretty amazing.

So in my everyday life, the lightsaber is holstered. But I take it with me everywhere I go.

There was a time when I would allow myself to carry around some “red pill rage” and I found myself slightly snapping at the next random person who talked to me. Had to make an effort to keep that in check.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[IntellectualSaviorParticipant 1238]

Anonymous wrote:

she’s not gonna think, “WOW, that truck with the lift kit is awesome”,

I know a chick who would say that. But again that chick wouldn’t work her ass off for that truck too, she would gladly have a man give it to her. They know the game man, they’re so good at it so don’t be fooled by their knowledge. It’s just a wolf in sheep’s clothing.

When I have a pen in my hands, it's lethal.

[FullMetalExoParticipant 2383]

I got nothing to cope with, indifference comes naturally. Because, in your words:

Youngshredder wrote:

No reason to dwell over something you have no control over.

There is nothing to think about women really, only when my brain spots a nice ass, It thinks about it for a moment. Then I proceed with my day.

To take my head off the medical education/practice, to relax: I do MTB, games, weed, music, meet my friends, go to the sea. I can’t be more blessed, and don’t need more.

Yesterday I was mountain-biking again, 25 miles in forest/hills and sandy roads. It was outstanding, beautiful Latvian nature, hot day, I was cooked but happy, Life is blossoming. Right now Im chilling, listening to music. Thinking about what game I want to play.

Work wise : I want to help, cure other people and make enough money for my level of living. Money is a means to enjoy my life and relax. Serenity in life is a goal.

Main Goal: 1 year left, once I get my diploma, start working properly. Helping people, being respectful, making a living.

Next Goal: I will start looking in to motorcycle license and motorcycle courses. Can’t wait to ride my way to the sea on my own motorcycle, to enjoy day, night, dusk and dawn at the beach. Whenever I feel like it. And I feel like it every week.

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[foghornleghornParticipant 3449]

You get burned enough times you realize that chasing women and caring about what they want is about as useful as using a shake weight.

[Anonymous 13]

Youngshredder wrote:

It sucks being average looking in todays society , espically like me , im average looking in the face with low bodyfat and with alot of muscle from lifting so im not the most geneitically gifted person in the world.

I fail to see what sucks about having a decent average body, with low fat, and good muscles.

Seriously wtf!?

[Anonymous 3]

Youngshredder wrote:

I guess what i mean is are you guys always worrying about women or the fact that you have girl problems ( for those of is who do ) ?

Does a warrior worry about hippopotamus?

We have to deal with women every day. Some more than others, they are the dangerous animals and the poisonous snakes in our modern hunting grounds.

So, the warrior needs to know the dangerous beasts and avoid them, but they are not important in his life.

The core change of MGTOW is a change of focus: abandon the hunt for hippos and start doing something else.

All you/we ever known was a programming that said: “you need a woman, your success comes from a woman, your value comes from a woman“.

But with experience and reason this programming is proven false, and actually contradictory:
– It is women that need us.
– Women will drag men down, extract everything, and prevent their success.
– Women never value men, they destroy them to scavenge possessions from the remains…

So, your life is perfect for you, if you look at it with MGTOW eyes. You are doing what you want, in peace, and brings you contentment.

What prevents you from enjoying it is the old programming, that says you need a woman. For what? To destroy your peace and contentment?

[The DealParticipant 236]

I second Spirit’s comment above. You’re probably better in that area than you seem to think.

Men put up with women’s s~~~ for sex. There’s no better explanation. Men want a woman for companionship, love, etc., but they rarely if ever get that from a woman. So that leaves sex — or in many cases, the vague possibility of it occurring. I hardly think about women anymore and haven’t had actual desire for one in about 7 years. I focus on my kids and on stuff I want to do. I have an insatiable desire to learn and do new and creative things. I build things and take classes to learn new skills and have new experiences. I haven’t had cable tv in 11 years. That was the first thing to go when the wife left.

[YoungshredderParticipant 33]

Anonymous wrote:

Youngshredder wrote:

It sucks being average looking in todays society , espically like me , im average looking in the face with low bodyfat and with alot of muscle from lifting so im not the most geneitically gifted person in the world.

I fail to see what sucks about having a decent average body, with low fat, and good muscles.

Seriously wtf!?

Anonymous wrote:

Youngshredder wrote:

It sucks being average looking in todays society , espically like me , im average looking in the face with low bodyfat and with alot of muscle from lifting so im not the most geneitically gifted person in the world.

I fail to see what sucks about having a decent average body, with low fat, and good muscles.

Seriously wtf!?

Theres no doubt the better looking you are the better your treated. Its all about the face tbh. Thats all i was getting at.

You take the blue pill—the story ends, you wake up in your bed and believe whatever you want to believe.You take the red pill—you stay in Wonderland and I show you how deep the rabbit-hole goes.

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