All human beings have free will. They can choose to let others control them, to let their emotions rule them, let their bodies rule them, or to control themselves. This goes for men and women alike. The only real difference is culture saying men should be independent while women are punished (often by other women) for independence which leads to massive herd mentality.
The women who have to keep up with the Joneses, fall into the femnazi echo chamber, end up blowing all their man’s money on the latest fashions, and otherwise can’t seem to act on their own without the approval of others are letting others control them. They have zero self respect and zero self esteem which is fostered from an early age with the “herd mentality” that going to school and going on social media forms. She bows to the stereotype of “get pretty, get man, get kids, die” and wants nothing else. Expect her to be “high maintenance” at best and it only gets worse if she has kids. Their counterparts are the men who “need” women to feel complete, the “yes men” down at your job, and the super vain/PUAs.
The women who must have a man to be happy, get depressed whenever they see they aren’t the best, fly into rages at being wrong, have tons of abandonment/parent/anxiety issues and are emotionally manipulative are letting their emotions control them. They never figured out how to deal with the fact that reality isn’t always a nice place to live and, chances are, were coddled with Hello Kitty Princess bulls~~~ during childhood. The emotional manipulation stems from the fact that they are easily manipulated emotionally so they think you are as well. Expect her to scream RAPE, use NAWALT to make herself feel better if anyone says something “bad” about women, and try for sympathy as she was “abused” and has “nasty exes”. The male equivalent is the mangina, especially those who have the exact same traits.
The woman who lets her body rule her has serious image issues, is very vain, and most likely will cheat if she’s bored as her body is “craving a man again”. Her self esteem may be good and if it is she’s likely to be very self-centered and not care about anyone else’s emotions. She will hit the wall. HARD. From there expect an angry femnazi to emerge from the wreckage. If her self-esteem isn’t good she’ll have all sorts of eating disorders and screw anyone just to feel validated as a person. Expect overlap with those who let their emotions control them and, on top of it, she will likely be a big ball of crazy. The male equivalent is the guy who just has to have sex with a woman even if it means buying a whore, the man-whore, and any PUA who wasn’t covered earlier.
The woman who controls herself… is invisible! As she doesn’t need outside attention to validate herself nor does she give a f~~~ what others think she’s not on social media or public places. As she doesn’t bow to what others tell her she “wants” she most likely has no kids, works at her own job, does her hobbies alone, then goes home. She doesn’t need a pat on the head for this so she’s not blogging about how “feminist” she is or otherwise drawing attention to her activities. Boyfriend? Nah. She’s the invisible unicorn and happy on her own. She may become a transman eventually as she doesn’t identify with any of the female bulls~~~. Her equivalent is us.
And the reason we don’t look for the invisible unicorn is because… seriously? It’s an invisible unicorn. You can’t see them, hear them, or touch them, and they’re so rare you’re liable to get an ass with a carrot strapped to her head instead of a unicorn. Considering the world is full of asses with carrots and not so full of unicorns, hedging your bets is wise.
Beauty fades, dumb is forever.
KingOfTheSea 4 years, 4 months ago.
