Do women change their last names during marriage to escape their past?

[anonymousyamParticipant 4605]

I heard a theory from sandman a while back on why women change their last names during marriage (unless they are spanish) the reason they change their names is to escape from their past creeping up on them. No ex boyfriends can find them now since they took her husbands last name giving them a clean slate. My question is is that the actual reason they did it as a means to escape their past? or was it just the culture?

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[anonymousyamParticipant 4605]

In spanish culture a woman keeps her last name and adds it to the children of the couple (We take both our last names at birth) so therefore they don’t get their easy pass.

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[SpacemonkeyParticipant 1481]

Not all wiminz do dump their maiden name. Many join their maiden name to their husbands surname to form a new double barreled surname.

My ex did that though I did not follow so we actually had seperate surnames. I guess that was a sign of things to come. I have no idea if continues to use my name, I just call her C~~~…

“Long is the way and hard, that out of Hell leads up to light.”

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

Nope, it’s to have easier access to your bank account.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[MgtowWaveParticipant 4352]

Who know????!!! Who cares unless you want to read a book about ancient history to find.

The answer is probably lost in history.

frankly my dear i don't give a damn

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Spacemonkey wrote:

Not all wiminz do dump their maiden name. Many join their maiden name to their husbands surname to form a new double barreled surname.

This concept actually p~~~es me off.

She won’t take his “name”…. but she will take EVERYTHING ELSE — with NO problem whatsoever.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

What is worse is she won’t change it back after the divorce.

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[SpacemonkeyParticipant 1481]

I don’t know how it is anywhere else but in UK you can legally call yourself whatever you want. All you need to do is inform the man you have changed your name, get a new passport and divers licence and you are good to go.

“Long is the way and hard, that out of Hell leads up to light.”

[anonymousyamParticipant 4605]

Spacemonkey wrote:

Not all wiminz do dump their maiden name. Many join their maiden name to their husbands surname to form a new double barreled surname.

My ex did that though I did not follow so we actually had seperate surnames. I guess that was a sign of things to come. I have no idea if continues to use my name, I just call her C~~~…

Not even the spanish do that one the spanish keep their names but the maiden name goes on the children so it would be Pablo, Martinez, Garcia. With the father being Martinez and the mother being Garcia. There is no excuse to add a last name to your own unless its both your parents.

Just an east coast asshole who likes to curse, If you get offended by words like fuck, cunt, shit, piss, bitch or any racial slurs then you just scroll down.

[MonkeyMindParticipant 5340]

I read somewhere a while back that marriage was done in front of the rest of the community back when we lived in smaller groups to re-inforce the fact that two people were now tied to eachother. If either of them strayed it would result in social ostraisation and a boat load of shaming for the infidelity that was comitted. With a small community, this can have servere consequences to their social interatcions with the rest of the tribe and probably kept both parites comiited for mutual benefit.

The woman always knows 100% that a child is hers as it’s come out of her womb, but the man is never 100% sure, taking the man’s name often helps strengthen the bond betewen the man and the offspring.

I doubt that a woman changing her last name will help her escape from her past, women gossip like crazy and they’re like elephants. They never forget anything.

[Maraudrz1Participant 2250]

anomousyam: Sounds to me like another benefit men bring to the marriage table. smh

Women's brains and vagina have one thing in common. There is nothing in there until a man puts something in there.

[Maraudrz1Participant 2250]

“The woman always knows 100% that a child is hers as it’s come out of her womb, but the man is never 100% sure, taking the man’s name often helps strengthen the bond betewen the man and the offspring.”

I read somewhere that the reason women say a baby looks just like its father is an attempt to keep the father around instead of him learning a different possible truth and leaving.

Women's brains and vagina have one thing in common. There is nothing in there until a man puts something in there.

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