Do all relationships run their course?

[BeeParticipant 700]

I have a theory….. maybe men and women are not meant to be together forever. Maybe nearly all relationships run their course. Some may be meant to last an evening, others a few weeks or months, maybe some a few years….. After that time, boredom sets in. The relationship may stabilize for a while but most are either growing or dying. Another poster made a comment that “daily life kills marriage”. This seems on point. What are your thoughts?

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22521]

Bee wrote:

maybe men and women are not meant to be together forever.

One has to work at having a job.

One has to work at being happy.

One has to work at even having a vacation.

When someone wants something, that person has to work for it. The same goes for relationships. Except in a relationship, both parties have to work to maintain the relationship. Unfortunately, women have become too lazy to hold up their end of the relationship. And thus the relationship eventually collapses.

I have had the privilege of talking to married couples that had been married for over fifty years. Every one of those couples said the same thing. Both the husband and wife had to work as maintaining their marriage. It could not be a one way street.

Right now women are demanding a one way street with men. Where men get all the work and responsibility, while women get all the rewards and respect. And in response to this hypocrisy, men are going their own way.

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3293]

We live in a disposable society now and the same goes with relationships. Years ago people fixed things, I still remember my father fixing his car on a Sunday afternoon so he could go to work the next day. Today we have the following situation:

Lease a car, get a new one every 3 years so you never have to open the bonnet.
Mobile phone on contract, chuck it in the bin and get a new one every two years.
TV not working due to a dry joint, chuck it in the skip and buy a new one.
Marriage not as much fun as you hoped, get on Facebook/POF/Tinder and look for someone new.

Because of this I do believe that all relationships run their course these days. My only advice is to understand when this starts to happen and get out as soon as possible. This will save you from being stuck in a soul destroying marriage until she can put up with it no longer and money branches.

The relationship will be great for the first year, she will have sex with you as often as you want and make you dinner afterwards. You will actually believe that NAWALT is a myth invented by bitter men on MGTOW and you will believe you have found your Unicorn (just like Sandman does)

However, once she thinks she has you enslaved with her golden vagina the relationship will slowly but surely go downhill and she will gradually get all the power. The warning sign for this is the first time she refuses you sex. This is the s~~~ test of all s~~~ tests and it is her testing you to see if she now has the power due to Vagina. If you fail this test and stay with her she knows you are whipped and she can treat you like a doormat.

The old joke that men are like floors, if you lay them right you can walk over them for a lifetime is unfortunately true……

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[MENGINEERParticipant 583]

Regardless of how amazing the relationship is presently you will get sick of each other over time. Run out of things to talk about, crappy in-laws, hobbies change, etc.

Even if you did everything you could to keep her “happy” if the woman wants to monkey branch to someone richer/better/younger she could. The judicial system will support her in her decision and you will be f~~~ed.

Combine kids or 10-yr+ marriage in your emotional investment and you are an indentured servant during the rest of her life.

Bye bye everything you worked for + your nest egg!

No thanks I’d rather be MGTOW!

[narwhalParticipant]

I think all relationships go through periods where are they no longer easy or fun, and require work to maintain. I think people tend to believe that ending a relationship will resolve issues that are not caused by the relationship.

Although not exactly the same, I don’t see why a parent-child relationship, sibling relationship, or even friendship should be treated all that different. In all of those cases, the relationship goes through periods where it’s not easy and fun, and requires work to maintain. Yet, people don’t easily bail on those relationships. Why? Partially because the expectations of those relationships are lower, and partially because there is shame involved in abandoning those relationships.

So no, I don’t believe relationships run their course. I think people refuse to deal with the rough patches.

Ok. Then do it.

[Cap285Participant 6007]

Totally agree.

Male and female wants, needs, hobbies, etc are far too different to live together peacfully. Hence, all marriaged are one long argument broken up peridocally by short bouts of ‘making up’.

People separate or turn in to my mom and step-father, just togethr so they’re not alone. It’s funny, becasue when you’re married, you’re more alone then when you are single.

No thank you.

Fuck this planet.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Bee wrote:

I have a theory….. maybe men and women are not meant to be together forever.

I think that’s a biological certainty. In fact, it would be easier to prove that they are NOT designed to last or fit together — except in one way.

• Why would “the maker” design everything BACKWARDS in all ways – except for the anatomy?
• Just look at the way the entire power / social dynamic flips almost completely.
• She starts out with all the advantages and then loses them over time. He starts out with nothing.
• You think. She feels. And you spend the entire time duking it out.
• Your brain is compartmentalized. Hers is a scattered cross-wring mess
• She believes “multi-tasking” is a plus! “Multitask”? Don’t make me multi-laugh.
• You’re most content being peaceful.. She thinks there is something “wrong”.

But even more importantly, women throw it off further by not even being consistent. Women wanted older man when she was 15. When she’s 32 and He’s dating a 19 year old, she now has a problem with that ….. even though SHE set that standard and started that game!!

The idea that women and men “belong together forever”…. is a joke.

And don’t tell me it[‘s supposed to “work”. That’s a woman’s silly idea. She actually believes you should want a “relationship” with her before having any sex or spending any significant amount of time with her!! How INSANE is that. The criteria for sex to take place is “are you attracted or are you not”. The criteria for a “relationship” or “marriage” is a mile long list of s~~~ that is worked on — and earned — over time by YOU.

FACT: You are 10,000 more likely to meet a woman who you are wiling to bang than a woman you are willing to live with, talk to, listen to, spend time with, sit across from, live with, or marry.

So in who’s f~~~ed up imagination does anyone think a “relationship” is going to happen (or work) first????

And then…. because he REALLY has a sense of humor…. he created cats and dogs as exact parallels, and then sat back in his chair, and is looking down and laughing his sick f~~~ing ass off at all of us. I’m not even a “religious” man per se, but that was very genius and had to be calculated.

Men and women were perfectly designed to f~~~. Not to live harmoniously for life. But then again, my parents were married until death did them part. As an observer, it sure looked like they hated each other, with all the petty squabbling, barking and clawing that went on. Then again, maybe…. that’s why it lasted.

All the timeless, classic, legendary couples from films and TV got on each others nerves and drove each other crazy,
You want a relationship that lasts? Let a woman hate your f~~~ing guts and nag you into the grave.

A match made in heaven.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10908]

Yes, they can and most do. Once the ultimate s~~~-test is applied, the relationship has run it’s course. Others may disagree with me but “sex” and “relationship” are synonymous with each other. Without the sex, the relationship is nothing more than a glorified friendship. Women slowly divide the two terms so that they are not synonymous with each other and when they think they have convinced you of that, they throw the ultimate s~~~-test at you which is refusing sex. The men that don’t fall for it get accused of wanting nothing but sex from women.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Do all relationships run their course?

In my experience, yes they do. I envy those who make their pair-bonding last a lifetime, but these are so few that I do not believe I can become one of them. My odds of winning a lottery are about the same as a lifelong relationship.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[FahraynkParticipant 67]

When a women gets bored and leaves a loving relationship spontaneously….
because why the hell do you think a loving family environment is supposed to be exciting ? Its just supposed to be a loving and stable.

So, if they think we are here to entertain them then a relationship will run its course with that type of girl.

Until everyone realizes that if they cant even make yourself happy what chance does someone else have ?
I’m not convinced that ALL relationships will run their course, because there is probably an emotionally mature women out there… But think about it… If you find an emotionally mature sexy women… your going to marry her ASAP to keep her (not MGTOW im talking general men). So the chances of you finding an emotionally mature reasonable and cute girl who is single is pretty much lottery odds.

That’s why I wouldn’t hold my breath. Id just remain very skeptical. A good women such as ive described, if she does exist, would respect your skepticism. But yeah realistically… No.

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