Divorced With Children……Its Me, Then My Kids, Then You

[RomulusParticipant 4667]

What information could a man gleam from the fact that a woman is divorced and has two kids. Generally that information is followed by the woman making some pronouncement about how her kids come first in her life.

Let’s Translate Shall We:

I said my kids come first, but really, I always come first and my kids come second.

You know this about me because I yanked my children away from their father. I took them out of an intact family. I did this because I wasn’t happy. My kids, they liked having dad at home, but my happiness comes before my children’s.

She isn’t loyal.

Its quite easy to be loyal when everything is going your way. True loyalty comes about when a relationship is tested and both know you can count on that other person to be with you……through good times and bad. I am not that person.

You, dear man, will come third. We’ve already established that I come first, before my kids and before you.

My kids come second.

That means you can be with me………if you accept that I will always be first in your life and you devote yourself to my happiness, my kids will come second……..and in truth you will always be third in my life.

Anyone who starts a relationship with a married woman with children is asking to be treated like a disposable commodity.

How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being.

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

Romulus wrote:

Anyone who starts a relationship with a married woman with children is asking to be treated like a disposable commodity.

Men are treated as a disposable utility Items by Women.

A Single Mom will treat her “New” Husband, Boyfriend, or Whatever like a “special” type of Disposable Utility Item a.k.a a Diaper.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[TrailbossParticipant 1844]

Oh no! Your WRONG! That new guy will be as SPECIAL as HELL! He will get dinners and sex and blow jobs GALORE! Until he puts on that ring! Then…he will be LAST! Hellspawn dragging bitches know enough to put up the front when it comes to interviewing for the next husbank! It’s AFTER he’s reeled in….then the hell starts! #MANOUT!

An educated, armed populace cannot be enslaved.

[RomulusParticipant 4667]

That new guy will be as SPECIAL as HELL! He will get dinners and sex and blow jobs GALORE! Until he puts on that ring! Then…he will be LAST!

Damn….this is getting worse. So let’s see…….its Me, then my kids, then Chad, then you!

How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being.

[TheDudeParticipant 724]

Trailboss wrote:

Oh no! Your WRONG! That new guy will be as SPECIAL as HELL! He will get dinners and sex and blow jobs GALORE! Until he puts on that ring! Then…he will be LAST! Hellspawn dragging bitches know enough to put up the front when it comes to interviewing for the next husbank! It’s AFTER he’s reeled in….then the hell starts! #MANOUT!

My ex does this. For the first year she did literally anything to please me. Then once we’d moved in together and had a kid of our own, all that s~~~ stopped.

She’s has a new victim now, and practically follows him around like a shadow.

[Admiral CrunchParticipant 776]

Usually, a man does not even qualify for 3rd place with a single mom….
1)the woman
2)the kids
3)the woman’s family/relatives
4) woman’s friends
5)pets
6)co-workers
DEAD LAST – The Dear Man

Women do not love men. Women only love what men can provide.

[RomulusParticipant 4667]

Really, its worse then I thought. Why would any sane guy do this????

How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being.

[Fr JackParticipant 926]

Believe me, you wont even be in the top 10.

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3293]

Women always want what they haven’t got. If they are single they want to be married, if they are married they want to get back on the c~~~ carousel.

They justify divorce to themselves and everybody else as they deserve to be happy and if they aren’t it’s the man fault. They checked out of the marriage years ago anyway so already have some new Chads lined up before the split anyway.

So they kick the man out and take away their children’s father. That is all OK though as gina tingles and feelings trump anything.

After six months on the carousel they suddenly realise they are just pump and dump fodder and the rich, handsome, ripped guy with tattoos and the right bad guy/good guy traits doesn’t exist (he does, he is f~~~ing 25 year olds not post wall hags with a bad shopping habbit.

So they grab a beta wallet, get married and are back in the same situation they were in before only this time it is 100 times more complicated.

Rinse and repeat.

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[ZoidbergParticipant 965]

Romulus wrote:

Let’s Translate Shall We:

I said my kids come first, but really, I always come first and my kids come second.

Nah, she said the truth. She is the 0th, so her kid is the 1st. 0-based indexing, get used to it.

[KevinStylesParticipant 2580]

Ya you’re 3rd priority in single moms life but SHE must be First in your priories. Nonsense.

[narwhalParticipant]

The whole priority thing is just crap and excuse to do what you want when you want it. The reality is that people care for and spend time with multiple people all the time. They simply prioritize who needs their time the most at that time.

That is how family works. The fact that women want to make sure you know your place and function in her life is proof she isn’t interested in a family.

Ok. Then do it.

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