Direct and indirect shaming tactics ?

[CasualGuy227Participant 170]

Hey fellas been a while but back at college again for another awsesome academic year !

Any I am currentley needing the help from some more wiser members on here about some female shamming tactics they could possibly use on a guy.

There was aguy at my college that buckled to the demands of a woman in a situation I was watching form a distance.

Any tips or general expreince with these and how to deal with them ?

Thanks in advance.

– Casual Guy

[John Woods 13Participant 2855]

There are many specific tactics, but the common theme is male privilege, and you as a male should be held to a higher standard and support or even empower women. Also, all the ‘bad stuff’ that men did will be projected on to you as a ‘representative’ of all men. Therefore you will be expected to accept bulls~~~ as a way to make amends.
My advice is to view yourself as an individual and force any argument to be directed at you specifically instead of ‘men’ in general. You will find that most of their arguments will not hold water and you will have both the moral and logical option to deflect any imposition made on you.

The answer is NO. “I could but I won’t”. Memini murum!

[John Woods 13Participant 2855]

Also, prepare for double standards. And these double standards have a dual purpose. The first purpose is to make you have less “rights and liberties”. But the second one is worst. They know that you will get frustrated and they will push that button in the hopes that you will react negatively or violently, at which point they will have a real argument to make that you are just another violent caveman and you are to blame for everything.
Just keep to yourself and try to avoid women.
I’m sorry if I’m not specific enough, but you didn’t describe the actual situation.

The answer is NO. “I could but I won’t”. Memini murum!

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

You’re a man. A free man.
You can do whatever you want.
You don’t have to do anything you don’t want to.
You have no obligations or responsibilities to anyone other than yourself.

A woman “demands” something? Response = “NOPE”

A woman tries to guilt, shame, disrespect, or treat you badly? Response = Walk Away.

[Swen AugustParticipant 373]

Yep the list of tactics is endless. Sometimes I just state things like- I’m not responsible for what someone else did. Mostly I just walk away.

You are not qualified to tell me what I am.

[Jon the Ex-SquidParticipant 298]

They try whatever tactic works best to get you to do what they want. Just ignore them all. Walk away, as others have said, and don’t engage. Or just shrug and do whatever it is you were doing. If there’s one thing women hate is when someone won’t engage them.

[Cap285Participant 6007]

Stare them the f~~~ down like the Terminator.

Let the flap their c~~~ holsters with the cliche s~~~….then ask them to give you one reason. One. To conform other than vagina.

Watch the gears lock up, wait for cliche insult, go about your day.

They have nothing but their sexuality. Nothing.

Fuck this planet.

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

don’t feel shame

stand your ground. these women are all bark and no bite.

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Treat them like birds on the sidewalk. Watch them flap and squak, peck and prod ……. as you go about your day.

You would be insane to try and talk with one ……. let alone listen …..they are after all ….. stupid squaking flappers.

[DDJParticipant 1880]

Women will try shaming tactics on you…just walk away…its the most respectful thing you can do. Think about it…if you encounter an extremely disabled person on the street, you acknowledge them, give them a wide berth and continue on your way, why wouldn’t you treat this the same…the disability here is very obvious.

Every woman is a slut, if you catch her on the right day.

[RockmaninoffParticipant 1641]

Remember that shaming tactics are meant to appeal to your insecurities, your misgivings, your guilt, your feelings—everything other than to your reason.

The error in your thinking, CasualGuy227, is trying to use reason against unreasoning beings. But you can’t. Believe me, you can explain why something isn’t true in the clearest, most logical way possible, and a woman will still insist that her feeeeeellings are right. It’s useless, and if you engage with them on their level, you’ve already lost.

Walk away.

". . . elle, suivant l’usage des femmes et des chats qui ne viennent pas quand on les appelle et qui viennent quand on ne les appelle pas, s’arrêta devant moi et m’adressa la parole"—Prosper Mérimée

[CasualGuy227Participant 170]

Thanks for the tips guys, will take note and just walk away and give thme a wide birth when I can.

[RoyDalParticipant]

If you absolutely must be in college — meaning you need your degree to land a job in your chosen field — then get that degree and get out. Leave the battles with feminazis to the MRM guys.

OTH, if you are there “just because you were told to go to college,” then rethink your life strategy. If you do not absolutely need that degree, then you either are in the wrong major, or you do not belong in college at all.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[CasualGuy227Participant 170]

RoyDal wrote:

If you absolutely must be in college — meaning you need your degree to land a job in your chosen field — then get that degree and get out. Leave the battles with feminazis to the MRM guys.
OTH, if you are there “just because you were told to go to college,” then rethink your life strategy. If you do not absolutely need that degree, then you either are in the wrong major, or you do not belong in college at all.

On no haha I went there of my own acord and yes it is a degree I need to start in my career

[megatoad69Participant 449]

A well worn shaming tactic my ex used to snip off my nutsack was that if something in the house needed repairs, she would nag, then if I didn’t get right on it she would threaten to ‘get the professionals’ in at great expense to fix the problem like a real man would.

I pride myself on my ability to fix almost anything, and she used that against me.

You can't reason with unreasonable, there; women, figured out, there is nothing to reason.

[MadScientistParticipant 131]

Just make sure to cover your ass as well. Remember mattress girl? Check out that whole pile of steaming crap. Insane. There are apps for this.. check them out and if a women is getting weird with you, record everything, document everything. Without their knowledge. And hook up OFF CAMPUS, if you really want to do that. Do NOT hook up with women in your college.

Shaming tactics is the least you have to worry about, friend. But the posters here are right: there is no reasoning with them. You have to find a Third Way. The moment you engage with their argument, they have you right where they want you. Just act, and really FEEL, like everything they are saying has zero effect on you whatsoever.If you have to, imagine you are an actor in a movie, and act like that character who isn’t affected. Let it all go, be polite, but stay disinterested.

But if they try to unleash any real world consequences on you, read Sun Tzu. Go all Art Of War on their asses. They will never see it coming. Especially if you are totally nice the whole time.

Anyway.. as you can see.. it is a hell of a lot easier to just avoid the problem altogether and hook up OFF CAMPUS if you must. And ONLY hook up.. no girlfriends. Never ever. You don’t have time for that. Believe it, say it out loud to them if they ask, and you’ll succeed.

Be cool. Be Smooth. Be positive (to paraphrase Herr Hemmingway). But most of all, don’t get a girlfriend, don’t date on campus.

[The Shadow ManParticipant 29]

A mature respectful woman would not stoop to the tactics of shaming. But then women are women are they do like control, drama, and conflict. Women who try shaming genrally have a whole bag full of tricks that they will use against you to illicit the response that she wants from you. Namely a negative reaction. Then she can use your negative reaction against you and begin to emasculate you because using the excuse of your negative reaction. Its all part of the breaking down and gaining control process.
Shaming is a fairly strong trigger as it is a tactic that was probably used on us by our parents in some form at some time. “You stole that biscuit from the biscuit jar didnt you you bad boy”!
You can turn this back on them by becoming aloof, naming the tactic that they are using, expressing what a low act it is, expressing how it makes you feel, and as others have suggested, walk away.
Hopefully, the out come is that you feel better about yourself because you have maintained your integrity and honoured your values, and hopefully they learn a lesson and become a better person for it…. Ha ha ha yer right on the last point, but we can only hope.
Hold your head up brother and walk the warriors path!

lust awakens a desire to possess, Her shining jewel is a fake treasure chest, The truth is that thing hidden under her dress invariably ends in murders and deaths........JW.

[Ricardo (Shadow)Participant 12]

I would just tell them to Stfu straight out dude I don’t Bulls~~~ and I don’t take people attacking me verry kindly that’s just me do there is times where walking away is the best option like all the other members have commented on here but I like standing up for what I believe in.

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