Diffusing verbal attacks

[LowKeyParticipant 702]

What do you guys usually do when a woman verbally attacks you?

I am planning on compiling ways to diffuse them and make a sort of self defense system for us MGTOWs to avoid getting angry (keep our cool) and playing into a woman’s hand when getting verbally assaulted

 

Don't let defeat, defeat you; Let defeat be your greatest teacher.

[Soldier-MedicParticipant 2566]

See shaming tactics.

"I asked you a question. I didn't ask you to repeat what the voices in you head are telling you" ~ Me. ........Yes I'm still angry.

[rebelandboltmanParticipant 640]

The best thing to do is walk away.   Don’t respond, because generally if this woman verbally attacks you, she wants to get a rise out of you and initiate some kind of conflict.   Some women who are high conflict get off on that, and it’s a complete waste of energy.   You know yourself better than anyone else, and you don’t need any abuse from people who wish to tear you down just to make themselves feel better.   If you are comfortable in your own skin, that is all that matters.    Just be you, and don’t worry about what others think of you.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

This is one of the easiest things to handle.

When a woman goes off on you…. SMILE.

When she continues …. SMILE MORE. Give her a really nice Tom Cruise s~~~-eating grin. Like when he was p~~~ed off at Kelly McGillis or Iceman in Top Gun. He’s good at that and it comes naturally. He may want to rip your throat out, but he just smiles. And when he doesn’t know what to say, he just starts laughing. He’s a master at it.

If her blood is really boiling … “you want me sexually, I can tell”.

Here is a GREAT story on exactly the right attitude to take:
http://unleashthebeef.com/tag/flagrant-c~~~s/

When done properly the same bitch will be in tears. Just be completely and totally obtuse.
whatever she says, don’t respond to it directly. It will drive her insane.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[xgreenlanternoxParticipant 253]

Keymaster wrote:

Here is a GREAT story on exactly the right attitude to take: http://unleashthebeef.com/tag/flagrant-c~~~s/%5B/quote%5D

The best story ever.

I agree though – this is exactly how to get a rise out of them and beat them at their own game. Women are so easily predictable when it comes to emotional outbursts. I remember back in my blue-pilled days when girlfriends would try to start an argument with me I would pick up on it and shift everything real quick. I’d start by attempting a civil conversation with them (which we all know is not possible, but I didn’t know that just yet) and of course, because females have drama tanks that need to be filled and also cannot handle someone else’s point of view, her voice would raise rather quickly. In response, mine would just get lower and lower until finally I just stopped responding. She would continue and at that point i’d have turned on the TV and began flipping through the channels and then I would look up her and say something to the effect of “sure, i’d love a beer – thanks for the offer”… I wish I had recorded what usually happened next. So much fun.

[FermatParticipant 3478]

Smile and ignore them. These two actions are the ingredients to achieving peace in a hostile female environment. It has worked wonders for me.

I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

My ‘go to’ system is smile, wait for a pause, say “can I just stop you there” and then turn and walk away.

They don’t like that …. for some reason.

However, I don’t normally appear on their radar to get cornered.

[BestoftherestParticipant 285]

If its a professional setting I just get my phone out and start recording. So far this has only occurred once and the c~~~ ran off.

 

"Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a man's character, give him power."
Abraham Lincoln

[Mango IngawayParticipant 2264]

Just smile and nod. If she keeps on going just say “If you say so, that must be right”, then proceed to have the biggest smile you could possibly have on your face.
Drives them nuts and they can’t do anything about it.

It is a common failing of childhood to think that if one makes a hero out of a demon the demon will be satisfied.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Bestoftherest wrote:

If its a professional setting I just get my phone out and start recording. So far this has only occurred once and the c~~~ ran off.

Good move. If you added the tactic of just doing the Tom Cruise grin — off camera of course — maybe you could catch her in a full cycle of escalation to meltdown. I don’t suppose you can post things from the office on YouTube? Probably not all that wise if you want to keep your job, but the thought is entertaining.

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[Deus Ex MachinaParticipant 1068]

What’s always worked for me is what everyone said above, I’ve heard shaming language since I was a little kid(as we all have). So after a few years you start to pick up on what really p~~~es Women off. And what does work quite well, is ignoring, laughing and/or just smiling at them. One female wanted to push the issue and try and get a rise out of me (not in my pants thankfully). But she tried and tried, and every time i laughed louder and louder.

She even tried the “Are you gay” which in my book makes me crack up laughing, given my track record with pussy.

 

Like Keymaster said, Tom Cruise!.

 

"If You have the Tooth of a Whale, You must have the Whale's Jaw to hold it". (i.e. One Must have the right qualifications for leadership) -Hawaiian Proverb

[Soldier-MedicParticipant 2566]

See the wall section about shaming tactics

Shaming Tactics

I also posted a somewhat lengthy post entitled “Reflections On My Ex Wife’s Bulls~~~”

A lot of work has been done already.  I posted “Reflections” to demonstrate just how women will collectively put you on the spot to agree with their ideas.  Their ideas may required that you engage in a 18 to 20 year commitment.  Saying ‘no’ will be unreasonable to them because it’s what they want.  But if you point out the it is unreasonable to have the continued expectation that you commit to something you are unable, or unwilling to undertake, then the person making the demands is being unreasonable.  You are just living you life by your own terms.

They (women) will resent your logic, but they cannot refute it.  That’s when they start embarking on different tactics of “Forgetting to take her pill”, or “The pill isn’t 100% effective”, or “You knew what could happen just as much as I did.”

Ultimately their tactics are aimed to get you to toe the line, and get you to become what every man should be.  Which is a mindless drone that is available for DNA submissions, and can be a puppet that hands over his pay check, cleans around the house, changes dirty diapers, and does house work.  The idea of MGTOW is a fundamental threat to the fulfillment of women’s social worth.  Which is making babies.  They will use any measure, from lying to going to the sperm bank, to get you in to the role of a walking ATM.

In my opinion, understanding their objectives is far and above more important than understanding their tactics.  The problems is getting a blue piller to see it for what it is.  But, by the time they do it’s too late.

I didn’t realize until after three son’s, and a long standing resentment towards my ex in particular and women in general.

"I asked you a question. I didn't ask you to repeat what the voices in you head are telling you" ~ Me. ........Yes I'm still angry.

[BurgundyParticipant 1525]

Well, keeping calm and smiling is not always easy, but with time you will master these, to utilize other means of destroying female logic circuits.

 

Such as, keeping eye contact through out the whole argument/discussion/whatever, while doing so, when you interrupt them, as you spot an obvious lie/flaw in their logic, can and will often diffuse/break their assault, in a single strike, and leave them open for you to logic/fact slicing them.  But if they are in clear authority over you, it may also escalate, the importance will of course be to keep your cool and a handsome smug smile, as you destroy each of their bulls~~~ bullet points.

It will sometimes lead to you being able to lecture them, not only come off as clear victor, but also like you just became their teacher in what’s right and what’s not.

I will be honest, it makes me all mushy inside, when I have turned an assault around, into me lecturing them “kindly”.

It does take a certain charm to it, and being very confident in your stature.  After years in customer service and arguments/debates with female co-workers, you become quite sufficient at slicing discussions and cracking ballistic artillery attempts.

[Just a ManParticipant 934]

I have found the quickest way to try Darwinism is to LAUGH at their anger, this sends them over the edge faster than a forced shove off of a cliff. If they survive then I guess they were allowed to by something beyond our understanding. Then give them a “you’re welcome” for testing the condition of their health.

Philosophy, the female repellent

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