Difference Between Me "Then" and Me "Now"

[DoinMyOwnThing40Participant 1000]

For the longest time I just didn’t get it. I didn’t realize that women have two separate desires. They have the desire to get laid by guys who turn them on. They have another separate desire to get married to a guy.

To be the guy that they want for sex, you have to connect with them on a certain level that causes them to “feel” certain ways. I haven’t ever figured out HOW to do it, but I know that is what it takes.

To be the guy that they want to marry, you have to be a guy who shows that you will secure a future for her. Plain and simple.

The difference between me then and now is that………..now I realize that I just want to be the guy that they choose to have sex with. I have no desire to be the guy that they choose to marry (even if I did have what they are looking for, which I don’t).

I never was able to separate those two things. I figured to get with a girl you have to be the kind of guy they are looking to get married to. Now I realize, with the help of this site, is that is not true.

I would like to be the guy they choose to have sex with and nothing more than that. However, I do not have the energy to fake a personality that I do not have. I am not a boring person by any means, but I just don’t have the energy to be a “salesman” if you will. If they don’t want me for who I am well that is fine. I am not about to go out of my way to try and be some ideal for anyone.

 

Women are parasites. Each and every last one of them.

[AFTParticipant 2722]

I already knew about women’s hypergamy, and I identify with your development from the nice guy persona, but putting the two together, I suppose men and women are opposites in their development.

It’s women that want to enjoy the freedom to be ho’s in their SMV peak early in life, and men that are looking to settle early on.  Then as we wake up to a greater SMV, later in life with the realisation of hypergamy, and the gynocracy, we realize it’s our right to be free to provide another ride on that carousel.  Avoiding any LTR on a used up vag, that is simply not in our interests.

I was at a social function a while back and commented that women prefer bad boys and assholes, while I was working all this information through in my head,  and the women replied not to change and “don’t worry, they never end up with the woman anyway”.  That was so revealing to me, I automatically thought, “why would I want to END up with the used up woman”?

They unknowingly confirmed their hypergamy, alfa f~~~s / beta bucks strategy, and tried to reassure me that my beta bucks would eventually pay off.  They are “programmed” this way, and I’m sure they have no idea just what a revelation they gave me.  They expect to have fun with the free and wild bad boys, and have a Beta chump ready for provisioning, at a time that suits them.  I think they are in for a hell of a surprise as men are waking up individually, one by one, opting out of the gynocentric trap, and into a new understanding that will totally shift the game.

Now I want to know, whats in it for me?  Why should I LTR a rapidly decaying vag, with drying up eggs that’s on the wrong side of the wall, when I have my financial freedom, and autonomy?  Now that I have wisdom, experience, financial resources, I am able to attract any woman I want, the funny thing is I don’t want them anymore, because I see their ugly truth.  Back to providing another ride on the carousel.

When the war cemeteries are half full of the corpses of dead conscripted women, only then will women have earned the right to speak of equality. Sidecar “A man is a success if he gets up in the morning and goes to bed at night and in between does what he wants to do.” - Bob Dylan

[harpo-my-“SON”Participant 2410]

+1 AFT I lived the beta life for 10 years before waking up to this realization and it took two more years to wiggle out of the marriage…good post men +1 for you too doingthing40….One year younger than me She was still beautiful when we divorced, but I can attract a better looking cross section of females than she can attract of men now..So its never  bad timing for a man to get free …anytime she stops getting wet for you, or you feel your receiving the short end of the  rope in this emotional tug of war Men should let go of the rope and let a woman fall on her ass….Be happy or be gone…

I was bound to be misunderstood, and I laugh at those who misunderstand me. Kind mockery at the well intentioned, but unfettered cruelty towards those would be prison guards of my creative possibilities. This so as to learn as much from misunderstanding as from understanding. Taking pleasure in worthy opponents and making language fluid and flowing like a river yet pointed and precise as a dagger. Contradicts the socialistic purpose of language and makes for a wonderful linguistic dance, A verbal martial art with constant parries that hone the weapon that is the two edged sword of my mouth.

[DoinMyOwnThing40Participant 1000]

AFT, you said it brother!

If I had a dollar for every time someone (usually a woman) said to me “Don’t worry you will find a woman one day who will love you and marry you”, I would be a millionaire.

“Don’t worry, they never end up marrying the woman”. Well, that’s just it. Why would I want sloppy seconds? Why would I want to “end up” with a woman AFTER she has been used as a bowling ball by many guys before me?

I feel the same way as you do. Even if a woman did come along, I don’t even want them anymore. I see their ugly truth. So exactly what is in it for me?

Another poster here, I forget who it was at the moment, said something that really stuck with me. He said why would he want a serious relationship with a woman? Where is the fun in that? He want’s a FUN relationship. Why the hell would any man sign up for a serious relationship? Life is serious enough.

Women are parasites. Each and every last one of them.

[ExsliventxsParticipant 1067]

DoinMyOwnThing40 wrote:

Another poster here, I forget who it was at the moment, said something that really stuck with me. He said why would he want a serious relationship with a woman? Where is the fun in that? He want’s a FUN relationship. Why the hell would any man sign up for a serious relationship? Life is serious enough.

I’m 99% sure that was KeyMaster.

That’s what I see in my mind every time he posts.

I personally love watching women hit the wall. It’s like watching someone undergo a time forced inescapable epiphany.

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