Did you noticed that the more you learn…

[GregB0Participant]

blade wrote:

Don’t worry . Not on earth that long to give a s~~~ bro .

Amen Blade, never sweat the small stuff and yes, it is all small stuff.

​"​My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.​" - Clarence Buddinton Kelland

[AsceticmonkParticipant 857]

there is a lot to this thread.

i could give multiple answers to this. but.

one of the things i’m trying to do is not sin when speaking or writing. i avoid getting dragged into lengthy discussions or arguments with people that really think they know what they are talking about.

oftentimes, if you get them to a point where you are VERY SURE they are wrong about one thing, perhaps something you have a lot of experience/research/understanding on, with good arguments, even if we have a bit of healthy self-doubt about our own view on the matter, but still believe we have a decent handle on it or reasonable view, if you counter with your info that is contrary to their belief, many times they will ARGUE WITH YOU, and its not based in fact or logic, its based in PRIDE.

i can admit my own problems with pride as well, but i am forsaking it and resisting it, not feeding it by being stubborn about something that i know deep down i don’t have a strong defense for.

many times i don’t like to engage people much anymore, or at a deep level, because they PUNISH YOU for understanding something better by being resistant, argumentative, or taking it the wrong way.

frankly, the less time i spend with people, and the more time i spend with God, i feel better. feel more peaceful. feel more relaxed from confession.

spending less time explaining things to people, and more time with alone with God, brings peace, relaxation, and quieting of mind.

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

Silence is golden.

[ResParticipant 542]

Res: Are you new also in the life related issues?

Relatively new I suppose. I’ve only been on MGTOW for a week or so now and still reading quite a bit. In general it’s good to be concerned about one’s online identity, but I don’t think we’re going to be the targets of mass feminist protest unless we go about waving huge flags at feminist rallies. MGTOW comes from within.

Mr. Boats: "'Avoid the reeking herd! Shun the polluted flock! Live like that stoic bird, the eagle of the rock!' You know what that means, son?" -American Splendor

[AntipathyParticipant 4901]

one of the reasons you want to share less, is the more information you aquire, the bigger the presentation you have to offer, and you feel like it would be like explaining math to a horse, and you’re probably right … unless someone is REALLY interested in something, their attention span is very short.

i am willing to crack jokes with guys at work, but that’s about it because i know we are living in a different reality concerning mgtow related topics.

[The CaptainParticipant 133]

Res wrote:

but I don’t think we’re going to be the targets of mass feminist protest unless we go about waving huge flags at feminist rallies. MGTOW comes from within.

You don’t need to be a MGTOW to become the target of the feminists, if you are a man you are their enemy, and they will fight you or slave you (if you agree with them)

Everybody knows that.

[Anonymous 3]

I dont know about others, but my path in life is not really been about learning more stuff, but learning that the stuff I knew was wrong!

So, when we unlearn stuff, is that learning?

And another thing I noticed is that when I knew all those things I would defend them like my life depended on it.

So, by personal experience I dont think it is possible to teach (?) these things. Either you are ready to drop your illusions or you are not.

[The CaptainParticipant 133]

Anonymous wrote:

I dont know about others, but my path in life is not really been about learning more stuff, but learning that the stuff I knew was wrong!

So, when we unlearn stuff, is that learning?

For me it’s learning also, for others maybe it’s fixing.

Anonymous wrote:

And another thing I noticed is that when I knew all those things I would defend them like my life depended on it.

So, by personal experience I dont think it is possible to teach (?) these things. Either you are ready to drop your illusions or you are not.

I think that a teacher should teach his students how to learn and to be aware to change their paths if they find that it’s a wrong path.

People are so different, what works with someone maybe won’t work with other, even living in the same place and with an identical situation. I think that there’s not universal solutions or answers.

[SESQUI ano estParticipant 2535]

The more I learn the more I realize that I don’t know two fifth’s of f~~~ all.

The Captain wrote:

The less you want to share?

When someone else does not have they same knowledge base as you in a subject but they hold strong idealogical opinions or just long held beliefs counter to the facts you know it can really be painful to share. You end up feeling a need to educate or correct someone and then you seem like a c~~~ when they don’t get it.
Don’t share, they’ll just use it against you:)

Everyday above ground is a good one. Everyday above ground while single...better still.

[FullMetalExoParticipant 2383]

Autolite wrote:

I’m not sure why people behave like that but it makes me less inclined to explain s~~~ to others…

Denial is one of the ways to ”deal” with the problem, by ignoring it. Of course its not fixing the problem. And as one poster above mentioned, the Pride/Ego thing.

That’s the reason why they are p~~~ed aswell.

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[Puffin StuffParticipant 25018]

I only know what I’ve been through. Any other information I bring here I like to source. Sometimes not the best sources but it’s not just my opinion.

When I feel like writing something about a post I don’t hesitate. This is a blog and the content consists of the posts and reply’s. Without those this place wouldn’t exist.

So, in my opinion, you should post often even if it’s just to ask a question. Maybe you asked Alexa and the answer is something you would like to share here.

If you lead with your real life experience you will win people over and we’ll get to know you.

That’s what I am here for. To learn from other men and help them with what I learned.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[surfdude12Participant 4103]

Lao Tzu: “Those who know do not speak. Those who speak do not know.”

[Zuberi TauParticipant 10606]

“Wisdom is wealth.”
-African Proverbs-

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

the more you learn – the more you doubt what you already know to be true – the less you want to share because you’re not sure if it’s true or not

If I desire to share anything these days, I’m always trying to preface it with: “There is an opinion that…”

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Zuberi Tau wrote:

“Wisdom is wealth.”
-African Proverbs-

Amen

Anonymous wrote:

So, when we unlearn stuff, is that learning?

Yes it is!!

challenge everything even your own thoughts.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

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