Did I just take the red pill?

[fixthem_flythemParticipant 89]

I think I am calling this stage in my life “The Emergence”. Here’s why..

I posted in the M &D forum a while ago about being absolutely falsely accused of striking of my son. I also wrote in there about how my current GF was considering bailing based on this whole drama.

As I was processing all of this and coming to grips with the fact that after court soon, I could be GF-less, and on my own (so to speak) with my oldest and youngest son (presumably after fighting the family court BS).

So, being the linear minded guy that I am i put a lot of this on paper, flow chart wise. Don’t judge me, assholes, that’s the way I think. If things don’t go my way, I have to go through the family court process. GF and her kids bail. What remains is me, MY sons, MY house, MY dog, MY money, and MY schedule to raise my sons the way I want to raise them with a heavy dose of stoicism and MGTOW-ness as the foundation. In the end, I get to do what I want to do and have a shot at a part-time head-football-coach position at a local school where I can positively impact the lives on inner-city young men with the same principles I would impart on my sons.

All in all, that’s not a bad picture. Sure, losing the relationship will sting and her kids will be hurt some, but they’ll get over it. They’ll adjust, and soon I’ll just be a distant memory if that in their lives.

Is that a red-pill moment? It sure f~~~ing feels like one.

If it floats, flies, or fucks, it is cheaper to rent....

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

fixthem_flythem wrote:

Is that a red-pill moment? It sure f~~~ing feels like one.

YES. F~~~ YES.

If she’s thinking of bailing, show her the door, and hold it open for her. She’s just p~~~ed that she’s not the source of the drama, and your focus.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

fixthem_flythem wrote:

I could be GF-less

In my yelling like a coach voice, “Say it like it’s a good thing!!”

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

I wouldn’t give her the opportunity to bail. I would kick her to the curb.

YOUR LIFE will be SIMPLER and Better Without a girl-friend, especially a single mother.

The MOST that ANY Women can provide is Sex, and if you’re interested; that’s fairly priced in any city in the world.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[DocParticipant]

I am with awakened. Take the control and bail on her.
If it’s gonna happen she needs to be gone.

You see things for what they are. What makes you wait?
Uncertainty about the outcome?

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[fixthem_flythemParticipant 89]

Additionally, just for grins to see how this new way of thinking would impact my perception of my environment, after reading CAP’s stuff about POF, I jumped on there just to look and see what else might be out there should this thing not go my way.

I noticed how things changed immediately.

Then: I would consider driving 15-20 minutes away for date.
Now: The hell with that. If you’re not 10 minutes away, in the local area, or not willing to come to me, then the hell with you.

Then: She’s pretty…swipe right.
Now: She’s pretty, Read profile….nah, she’s looking to take my stuff and have me pay for everything.

Then: She said “ask me about what I like”; so I do. No answer.
Now: Um, no. She’s Attention seeking and looking for an ego boost with all the messages she gets.

Then: There are a ton of possibilities.
Now: There are next to no possibilities.

Funny how the picture gets more clear once you see it with different glasses.

If it floats, flies, or fucks, it is cheaper to rent....

[DocParticipant]

This is the rules of engagement or else all bets are off;

I make zero effort with females. None whatsoever.

If I were to end up f~~~ing one again she would have to do every single pit of the work and even then I would have to find her pretty f~~~ing good looking for me to even bother.

Afterwards I would be showing her the door.

So no date sites no drinks with a colleague no nothing.

Nice and simple rules.

And to be honest I think that’s pretty generous of me to go that far for them.

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Awakened wrote:

I wouldn’t give her the opportunity to bail. I would kick her to the curb.

YOUR LIFE will be SIMPLER and Better Without a girl-friend, especially a single mother.

Agreed it’s going to happen anyway, better to do it on your terms.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

fixthem_flythem wrote:

Funny how the picture gets more clear once you see it with different glasses.

The Red Pill provides CLARIY by ALLOWING YOU to SEE the TRUTH behind the Blue Pill camouflage.

Place YOURSELF and YOUR SONS in the CENTER of YOUR LIFE, and SEE what happens.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Awakened wrote:

Place YOURSELF and YOUR SONS in the CENTER of YOUR LIFE, and SEE what happens.

Damn Awakened you’re on roll.
That’s the best advice you will get ever, ever, ever.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[fixthem_flythemParticipant 89]

Yes, Sir. That is now the focus.

If it floats, flies, or fucks, it is cheaper to rent....

[WallyParticipant]

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[TaxGuyParticipant]

FrostByte wrote:

Awakened wrote:

I wouldn’t give her the opportunity to bail. I would kick her to the curb.

YOUR LIFE will be SIMPLER and Better Without a girl-friend, especially a single mother.

Agreed it’s going to happen anyway, better to do it on your terms.

I agree, UNLESS she’s a narcissist. And I don’t mean a narcissistic chick, I mean a true narc. If that is the case, let her leave. A real narc can’t handle being dumped and you will see a s~~~ storm the likes of which you have never imagined. You want her contacting the DA and saying that she’s seen you hit your kid? Oh wait, it’s a lie? Yeah, chicks never lie, and they are never vindictive.

DO NOT dump her until you are done in court. Let her walk out on her own. That way she won’t feel like she’s missing something.

Order the good wine

[RomulusParticipant 4667]

I’d leave first and never question the decision or ever look back.

How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Just drop the “mold other people kids” if they ain’t your kids they ain’t your problem.

You don’t wanna get a s~~~storm do you?

If your ex accused you of hitting kids, you are already a marked man, do not put your selft at risk.

Your análisis is logical and probably correct.

Yes you took the red pill, now you will see how deep the rabbit hole goes.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[WarratahParticipant 895]

Taxguy makes a very good point. Let HER make the decision to move on.
All women are narcs – to a greater or lesser extent – and none of them can bear being dumped.
If however, they dump YOU – no problem!
A bitter woman in this day and age can make all sorts of baseless allegations and ruin your life – especially if there are children ( yours and others) involved.
And will they make allegations? S~~~, yes!
Let them dump you. There are many ways to do so. I once had to develope a weak bowel.
Bitch bailed very quickly. Which was good. Also I replaced all my underwear. Also good.
A win-win situation!

...And in our own despair, against our will, Comes wisdom to us by the awful grace of God. - Agamemnon; by Aeschylus

[sjt1975Participant 2536]

Doc wrote:

This is the rules of engagement or else all bets are off;

I make zero effort with females. None whatsoever.

If I were to end up f~~~ing one again, she would have to do every single bit of the work, and even then I would have to find her pretty f~~~ing good looking for me to even bother. Afterwards I would be showing her the door.

So, no date sites, no drinks with a colleague, no nothing.

Nice and simple rules.

And to be honest I think that’s pretty generous of me to go that far for them.

Nice rules!!! Should give you a quiet life, as far as women are concerned!!!

[KolaxisParticipant 668]

Cut her out like a cancer before she spreads and kills you. Do it immediately. Do not pass Go. Do not collect $200. Cut. Her. Out.

Jackie: How do you write women so well?
Melvin Udall: I think of a man and I take away reason and accountability.

[CthulhuParticipant 698]

Be the S~~~ Lord you were destined to be. Kick her and her f~~~ing kids right the f~~~ out of your house, revel in her misery and laugh at weak attempts at insulting you. She mentioned it, you make it happen, man. If she’s having those thoughts, make her a memory. You’ll never be able to be show your boys what true stoicism is with that harpy screeching and tearing at your liver.

Why vote for a lesser evil? #ICETHEMOUT

[DocParticipant]

sjt1975 wrote:

DocDJ wrote:

This is the rules of engagement or else all bets are off;

I make zero effort with females. None whatsoever.

If I were to end up f~~~ing one again, she would have to do every single bit of the work, and even then I would have to find her pretty f~~~ing good looking for me to even bother. Afterwards I would be showing her the door.

So, no date sites, no drinks with a colleague, no nothing.

Nice and simple rules.

And to be honest I think that’s pretty generous of me to go that far for them.

Nice rules!!! Should give you a quiet life, as far as women are concerned!!!

The safest way to move brother

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

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