Dick Sizing by my mother.

[AkanbiParticipant 2120]

My mother is a member of the “women’s department” of an organization. This organization holds their weekly meetings every Sunday.

Last week Sunday, during dinner, she gave my father the gist about what happened during their meeting:

“People were asked to donate some amounts of money so that we can complete one of our centers that is currently under construction. Mrs S’ husband was in attendance and he donated the highest amount. He donated two million Naira.”

“Hmm that’s good”

“Mrs S’ son was also in attendance. He donated two hundred and fifty thousand Naira”

“Good…good.”

“The husbands of most of the women in my department also donated. Not all of them were in attendance. Those ones that didn’t come made sure they sent money across….”

^This was all I got from the gist as I had to quickly finish up my dinner so that I could catch up with a local football match that was being played at that moment.

➡Last night (Sunday), during dinner, my mother said to my father:

“It was kind of you to send that donation across. The chairman and other members appreciated it.”

My father smiled and nodded proudly.

It was then I realized that she wasn’t giving my father some gist the other time. She was indirectly comparing him to the husbands of the other women in her department and trying to make sure that he also donated something.

-I witnessed this as a proof that women see/use men as a status symbol. My mother didn’t want to be left out of the “league” of women in her department whose husbands are loaded with money.

After hearing what she said last night, all I could say in my mind was:
“Only if you know, father….Only if you know.”

My brother make you no follow sheeple o. Look them and Go Your Way.

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

Akanbi wrote:

After hearing what she said last night, all I could say in my mind was:
“Only if you knew, father….Only if you knew.”

I think this all the time when I listen to other blue pill men talking about their wives and girlfriend and what is “demanded” by them…

Let them sleep. They will finally understand the MGTOW mindset after their divorce…

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[GargamelSpectator 29101]

And you are completely right:

To women, we are only status symbols.

If you happen to have a “bumpy” childhood and I don’t mean convictions or school dropouts… Just a bad reputation given to you by your own complaining mother and borderline sister, then no c~~~ in the entire vicinity will ever want to be with you.

You are not “hive compatible”

Even if you make big bucks and everyone else respects you.

The hive will never forget what you did at 8 years old. C~~~s will be ashamed of being seen with you.

All you can do is laugh when they hate the guts out of you for ignoring them.

Man, I still get that medicine: I sit in some place, have a business talk and old school classmates see me there… And the hateful looks are priceless.

Yes, the hive never forgets when they once stamped you “a loser” and a few years later they are suddenly “below your standard”…

Woman hit on you, and 2 days later – after reassurance of the hive – they don’t know you anymore…

“If you go with that (now wealthy) asshole then we will no longer talk to you”… (They do this out of jealousy)

I am a non status symbol.

And proud of it.

Some women here in town “licked me” with their eyes and couldn’t do the rest because of “hive”…

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[Mr. SpockParticipant 10907]

One way or another a woman is ALWAYS responsible for the reason a man tries to keep up with the Joneses. Woman are all about status and expect/demand that a man provide it for them.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

Mr. Spock wrote:

keep up with the Joneses.

I was never accepted by the Joneses…

“Keeping up” was futile.

“The Joneses” all agreed: “He will never amount to anything”

Now I am the only one left not paying CS and vaginamony…

F~~~ the Joneses. I hear them bitching at each other… Filling their miserable life with hate.

(My house is situated in a valley and right in the center of that valley… Like the LNB over the focal point of a round parabolic satellite dish: I hear everything! And they hear my 1 KW of music if I try it)

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[HitmanParticipant]

Good share.
Shows what really goes on in a marriage.
F~~~ing hell on earth.
Avoid at all costs.
No price is too high for freedom! !!

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Akanbi wrote:

She was indirectly comparing him to the husbands of the other women in her department

And he failed the test.

[AkanbiParticipant 2120]

Gargamel wrote:

Mr. Spock wrote:

keep up with the Joneses.

I was never accepted by the Joneses…

“Keeping up” was futile.

“The Joneses” all agreed: “He will never amount to anything”

Now I am the only one left not paying CS and vaginamony…

Gargamel, I’m looking forward to being like this when I’m older.

My brother make you no follow sheeple o. Look them and Go Your Way.

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

Akanbi wrote:

Gargamel, I’m looking forward to being like this when I’m older.

It takes the psychological strength to have the whole village and the entire hive around you hating you, avoiding you and YOU still not caring.

If you don’t play their game, they treat you worse than a criminal.

But you’ll get used to it, make money with things other people from outside of your town respect and your “wealth island” will be their pain in the ass to look at.

Best if you manage to move away where you can live more anonymously.

But sometimes – like in my case – the family owns the house and you lack the money to pay rent and start over somewhere else at the same time.

I had the opportunity to be able to do all of my space consuming hobbies at home. The money I saved by “making” my own cars and appliances was just amazing. All of my regular income stayed in the bank for years. I manged to live off my tip money and “sideshow work”. Even my boss back then gave me things that were “uneconomical to fix” at normal standards, but I did it “at home” and for less.

100 bucks “on the hand” for half a day of soldering?… Sometimes whole weekends were filled with repairs, doubling my regular income.

Soon you care so little about the “Joneses” and their mediocre lives and narrow minds that you start to think of it at fun when you drift around corners with your car and they shake their heads at you.

It becomes fun, not to “integrate”.

In Germany there is this saying “Once your reputation is ruined then you you can live without shame”

“Keeping your reputation” is playing the game that is rigged to ruin men/you.

And then you finally arrive at total freedom, do well and stay healthy…

And suddenly c~~~ after c~~~ appears in your life and wants to tear it all back down…

Before you had money and status, not a single f~~~ was given about you…

But suddenly they appear out of the blue and want to put handcuffs on you and “restrict your lifestyle”…

Because (quote, what they all said):

“If you get married you can’t do all that anymore”

WHAT????????????

Over a hole?

Giving up all freedom, fortune and fame (local fame) to please that same useless c~~~ that 2 years ago did not even return a smile and your “good day”

A c~~~ that doesn’t even follow basic rules of courtesy will now want to establish a rule set in my/your life?

What gives her the right to even think that?

“Knock knock, Is there anybody home… McFly”

MEN wake up!

I was shocked about the stupidity and audacity women have and about the rights they THINK they have to rule your life.

After you drop all dependency on women’s validation and see them for what they are…

It’s:

MY RULE OR NO RULE.

EVERYTHING about me, my hobbies, interests, finances is completely non-negotiable.

No way any woman will ever tear down anything I have built.

That includes EVERYTHING:

… She will never scare away: Friends, customers, business connections,

… She will never forbid me: To be nice to ALL other people in public (out of her little minded jealousy)

… She will never throw away or demolish anything I need for my job or just plainly enjoy: Test equipment, tools, music collections, stereo systems, cars…

And I have a lot of s~~~.

If she doesn’t like it, there is the door.

I am anything but cold-hearted… (that what “people” always say when they hear that)

I only protect myself.

C~~~s are cold-hearted by not seeing and appreciating anything I have achieved and built. C~~~s want you to give up your identity to make their life a free ride.

If you let them, c~~~s will drag you down so deep that you will end up as a welfare king. All advice they give you is out to kill off your business. To “take down” your toxic male personality”.

There is also no point in trying to change one of them, they were raised that way: Indoctrinated throughout the feminist school system to hate men and they openly live that concept.

One of my c~~~s would actually start to interfere with sales presentations.

C~~~s are the scum of the earth, or why do they only fall in TRUE love with criminals and deatbeats?

The NAWALT hasn’t come yet. It will not come because it doesn’t exist. All of my c~~~s came disguised as NAWALT unicorns and stopped the “NAWALT show” to become full blown c~~~s after they thought they had me “secured”.

When I think of women, I think of boots, doors and my feet…

That is what they symbolize to me.

Worthless, reckless, careless, self-centered, dumb, vile, smelly, nagging, bitching, insulting, cold-hearted and bringing absolutely nothing to the table at all.

By using sex to control me/you and make you damage yourself by following this control, they have also lost their last value.

I would have wanted children, but not on these terms.

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[AkanbiParticipant 2120]

Thanks a lot for the above input, Gargamel. I really needed it (I wish I can give you a +100 for that).

I’m seriously preparing for the time when my family will start asking when I’ll bring a laydee home and also when they find out the crucial life decisions I’ve made for MYSELF.

I’ll be 23 in two months time– a sign that the time for marriage pressures from my family is near.

I come from a very large family. My maternal grandfather was a polygamous man with MANY wives. Most of my relatives are girls and women. I don’t have a female sibling though.

The common culture here (in West Africa) is that your family members constantly know your business. This can be of merit sometimes but, it’s annoying to me most times.

Don’t get me wrong. I love my family (…or at least the family members that I’m on talking terms with). I just don’t like the fact everyone is expected to end up like everyone else (go to school-> get a job-> get married-> have children) and that parents are to choose the kind of life they want us to live instead of the kind of life we want for ourselves.

For now, I’m just maintaining stealth while I work towards attaining COMPLETE INDEPENDENCE.

Once again, thanks for the input. I really NEEDED it.

My brother make you no follow sheeple o. Look them and Go Your Way.

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