Destroying the wall

[dafunkxxParticipant 8]

I was raised in a female environment, Mother and sisters. Not a drop of testosterone in my family bucket. Pre-programmed with all the things that I thought would make me attractive to a women, Kindness, consideration, I was willing to put my own needs aside for a woman because I was taught that it was the way things should be. The pedastal that I had placed women on quickly grew into my own personal psychological wall.
Growing up as a teen I had no trouble attracting women to me, at the time I thought this was due to me having all of the qualities that a woman was looking for and there is truth in that. I did have what women wanted, Solid looks, Work Ethic, Good personality and a Mindset capable of being completely manipulated (which is clear to me now).
For years I carried on like this going in and out of relationships with women, always doubting myself and becoming scared to ever put a foot wrong. a true beta.
I recently starting thinking more about the life I was choosing for myself and the man I was becoming. not quite my redpill moment, but a glimpse of it in the distance. Even though I grew up in an estrogen fueled nightmare, the testosterone in me kept on chugging even when my brain was brought up to supress it. I am aggresive and competitive, The hunter was in there all along I just couldn’t see it. Perspective is invaluable though and I am lucky I had a good friend who shared his with me whenever we could talk. Reminding me that I have a killer instinct in me and that I should embrace it.

The relationship I was in was abusive down to its core. She was in complete control of the power dynamics between us. I got pussy, She got everything I had. I was a slave to the assumption that this is how men and women should be. When finally that gritty tasting redpill dropped things all seemed clear to me, like a smokescreen had been lifted and piercing light shot through the clouds towards me. Firstly It was clear that the bitch had to go and I very promptly told her to get her s~~~ tae’ f~~~.
I then evaluated my position and decided that it was time to take life by the b~~~~ack. Exersize regularly, Eat Properly, Become completely independant, Learn to stand my ground, Read more literature & so on. The steps I want to take towards becoming the kind of man I want to be and not what women want me to be.
I could have spent my entire life trying to scale that psychological barrier, instead I chose to tear the f~~~er down as it shouldn’t have been erected in the first place.

Moving into the present I am happier than I have ever been. I feel hope for the future again. My body and mind are getting daily nourishment. girls are throwing themselves at my dick but all the control is now mine. I have stopped caring what people think of me and have replaced it for what I think of myself and how I can better become the man that I want to be.

I look forward to this new era in my life and sharing it with others who have taken the same gritty pill and come out the otherside a man, the last men of the west!
Jesse Stuhr

[VileNordParticipant 766]

Great to hear from you brother! I’ll bet the look on her face was priceless when you told her she was finished, that you’ll have nothing to do with her anymore!

Lust for comfort suffocates the soul

[KeymasterKeymaster]

We’re going to be doing an article on this. Hi Dafunk! / Jesse Good to have you here.

The “good qualities” that men take pride in possessing are of no interest to the modern girl. You would think bringing them into the foreground would inspire her to look on you with admiration, but it’s simply not the case. They have been born and bred into the toxic, corrosive world of feminism, and emphasize the NEGATIVE qualities in men. Never the positive. She will spin your good qualities into a negative at every opportunity.

• instead of saying “he’s protective” they’ll say “he’s oppressive”

• instead of saying “he’s smart” they’ll complain “he demeans my intelligence”

• instead of saying “he’s hard-working” they’ll say “he’s obsessed with work”

• instead of saying “he’s confident” they’ll say “he’s an ego-monster”

The bottom line…every one of his qualities will be spun into a NEGATIVE, not a positive.

Of course, they don’t do this when you are dating. All women put up a good face early on. Later, after a few years of marriage, suddenly the real woman will emerge, and he will be subjected to negative diatribes about him, day in, day out, like a constant weight on his shoulders. So when a man marries a b*tch like this, he will slowly change to become the bad man that she sees. All the negative aspects of him will suddenly start to crop up. Eventually he will say “Well, fcuk it, if she’s going to attack me for a bad habit anyway, I might as well indulge in it.”

If she is gonna treat me like an asshole….
I may as well just go ahead and BE an asshole.

She will bring out the worst in him on purpose.

And of course, now, she’ll be “HAPPY”, because then she can scamper off to her feminist-asshole friends and say “SEE! We’re right! Men really ARE as bad as we’ve said!”. She wants to see the bad, and gets it in the end. Validating her core belief system is more valuable to her than meeting a “good man”. The good man with the good qualities gives her nothing to complain about – or “fix”. So she tires of him, calls the well-put-together guy “boring” and moves on to the one who gives her a fix for drama. Which she craves. She is “happiest” when she is complaining.

This is how women cultivate toxic disasters in their personal lives and end up saying “why can’t I meet a good man?” … “where are all the good men?” when she sought them out and destroyed it for herself. It’s practically a predictable formula now.

Welcome and thanks for the intro.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[ArboristParticipant 0]

Bravo, Jesse. Really happy for you!

[AposematicParticipant 2671]

My Dad taught me about the self fulfilling prophecy. A very important but over looked concept- thanks KM for explaining it here.

Another good one is projection.

Say my Ex accuses me of f~~~ing 4 women since separation- and I ask her names/details and she says “They all dumped you because your are an arsehole”

My interpretation:
She has had casual sex with at least 3-4 men in that time who have rushed off in the morning muttering excuses.
The accusation against me is defense of her own s~~~ty behaviour to give her the moral high ground.
Bitch is PROJECTING her negative thoughts and feelings on to me.

No need for me to defend or explain crazy s~~~- just appreciate it as a delusion as it manifests.

Afinogyny.. from the Greek Afino {to abandon/ to set down/ to leave /to allow/ to let } + Gyny {Women} MGHOW’s philosophy to not engage women without “hating them”. Narcorca =Narcissistic Orca typically spouting to a bathroom mirror taking an arms length selfie ; Wallinate describes post wall females whose SMV is terminally negligible New Years resolution "To not make women happy" . Instadestitue: yet another Neologism for Men that cohabit with women that decide to pull the handle of intervention orders.

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