Desperate women in their 30's and 40's looking for a relationship

[Lee22Participant 126]

Where I live its very low inventory of women my age I’m 37 thats not a fatty, past their prime and all they want is a serious relationship. I kinda been low-key until my Divorce is final but I can already see that it will be slim pickings one I get out there. I been out of the dating scene for 16 years a lot has changed I know. Im not interested in dating I’m just looking to get laid not sure what to do. Any advice brothers?

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

1. WAIT till the divorce is final
2. WAIT until you are over the divorce (no rebounding)
3. WAIT until you are emotionally healed
4. WAIT until you feel fully sovereign.
5. WAIT.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Not all men can monk it out, if you still wanna step into the arena:

Get a vasectomy.
Never go raw or you will get burned.
Don’t date single mothers.
Always have an aliby.

Good luck gladiator.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[Lee22Participant 126]

Yes Im waiting for sure I guess I’m just thinking ahead I’m not pursuing anything right now thanks for the advice brother!

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Lee22 wrote:

Yes Im waiting for sure I guess I’m just thinking ahead I’m not pursuing anything right now thanks for the advice brother!

Once you get to a certain point in life, when you feel like you own 100% of your own life, then things will take a huge turn for the better.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[NomadicExpatParticipant 1785]

Lee22,

I’m in your exact age bracket and your going to be in for a treat if your still wanting to get laid. Mid thirties is when Men’s SMV begin to peak, and I’ve certainly noticed.

I’ve got a seperate thread going called Robbing the Cradle detailing how right now, there’s a hot 19 year old begging for me to take her out. She’s literally almost half my age. She’s unfortunately an employee at my new job. :/

It’s not hard to get laid at all in your thirties. It’s keeping them away that’s the hard part.

Best advice is to NOT try at all. Just go monk style and it frizzles their brains. The only reason why this girl wants me is because I wouldn’t react to her flirty behavior when I arrived.

Be careful buddy, and my best advice to you is avoid anything over 27 if possible. That’s when they start thinking about their aging eggs and ovaries.

I have no idea how to get laid and then have them go away. I’m still working on it, I’ll report back and become the most Important Man in the Universe. 😀

[The Black ScorpionParticipant 2145]

Treat your self to a high quality escort every now and then.

You haven’t lived until you have.

The greatest tragedy in life is to spend your whole life fishing only to discover that it was not fish you were after. - Henry David Thoreau

[MaddladParticipant 765]

Mate, I’m 44 and i still get 18 year olds trying to hook up with me, so dont go old when you can go young (legal of course). You’re not looking for a relationship, so just have fun, and nothing feels better than someone young and fun. Just tell them upfront its only a hook up. They’re used to that culture so they are better at it than the older women. Have fun. 🙂

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

The other day at the gym I had a 16 years old all jumpy around me, I was like… WTF?

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[bstoffParticipant 4863]

First off, as others have already said, WAIT.
When you are fully free from your ex and there’s no drama between you, about 20 mores years, stay the F away from dating sites, always! No good will come from you entertaining throngs of single moms, selectively shopping for their next meal ticket.
As bad as this sounds, trust me here. Do not let any potential sex partner know your real identity. Your freedom depends upon it. Maybe even your life.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22510]

Lee22, you are so fortunate. You are going to be getting in on the dawn of the golden age of sex robots that are worth buying, to deal with the passing urges. Avoiding all the drama and moddiness and STDs swarming around out there now (65 million women have them, 55 million guys have them). Just for the hope of a short period of time for sex – maybe.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[PrincekieParticipant 1042]

All I can say is you lucky lucky bastards!
16 yr old girls chasing you…

[Anonymous 43]

never go back to your place. f~~~ at her place
if ya really have to.

diseases
unexpected pregnancy
unknown boyfriend/husband
physical damage
drunken women issues
the one phone call
assault
rape
theft
damaged condom
lie about pill

emotional problems
unwanted phone calls
requests for money
help me with …
my friend needs…
my kids need….

Yeah, like any of that is a good idea
Stay the f~~~ away from women
s~~~ vortex
public shaming
loss of job
spending money

[narwhalParticipant]

Carnage wrote:

Don’t date single mothers.

OP said he was just looking to get laid. Why then, is it necessary to exclude single mother’s?

I’ve never really understood this advice. Yes, single mom’s are likely to be looking for a wallet, take you for granted, and all that, but any woman is likely to do that. It’s really not as if your safe with the non-mom’s.

The only thing I’d say is, don’t ever meet the kids.

And on a general note, don’t get caught up in games. Develop a habit of being honest. That may or may not result in getting laid more, but the more honest you are with them, the more honest you’ll be with yourself, which can help keep you from doing something stupid.

Ok. Then do it.

[KevinStylesParticipant 2580]

I’m in teh same boat, a little older but still … live in a small town where the fugly bomb must have gone off. Finding an attractive woman that doesn’t have a bunch of kids is like finding a unicorn. I’d need to date women in their 20’s to get someone attractive child-less but that’s got a whole host of other problems. So I just kind of gave up, it’s easy to MGTOW when you’re surrounded by fugly land wales towing a horde of offspring around with them.

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

narwhal wrote:

OP said he was just looking to get laid. Why then, is it necessary to exclude single mother’s?

The father of her child was probably just looking to get laid too…learn from his mistake…

[LurchParticipant 3866]

Princekie wrote:

All I can say is you lucky lucky bastards!
16 yr old girls chasing you…

I was thinking the same thing. 100% of the time, when I happen to cross paths with a wollomo (I live in the mid-west so ALL women over 30 are land whales. Pulling the pin on the fat grenade, once they spit out Chad’s bastard brood!), they glance, cringe and quickly shuffle away.

They don’t want to f~~~ me, they FEAR ME!

In retrospect, since I’m not into chubby chasing, maybe this is a good thing. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Blue-Pill Virgin: Women hate me! That's what it is.
MGTOW Man: Hate them back; it works for me.

[Chase PesosParticipant 2136]

I understand the feel bro, but it dissipates after I rub one out LoL. They aren’t worth the hassle and as Esther Villar put it, prostitutes since age 12.

Protect yourself at all times if you gonna diving!

Chase a check, never chase a chick...

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