Definition of a White Knight

[DazzleParticipant 67]

If you are a young guy visiting and thinking of going mgtow, one of the first things you need to purge from your system is that white knight attitude and the putting pussy on a pedestal mind set. It should be number one on your list of priorities.

Last night I watched The Great Gatsby and just sat there quietly fuming and getting annoyed with myself over my past stupidity with women. Now I know its fiction, but if you haven’t already seen the movie, please watch it and see a good looking, rich, successful, sane man turn into the biggest quintessential white knight/mangina you could ever imagine. Watch it and ask yourself, what the hell is so great about this average looking, over indulged, shallow, husband cheating girl that makes him ultimately lose the lot after raising himself from nothing to great wealth. Then apply this to your own actions with woman.

Why do men do this? What is it in the male brain that makes so many of us act like this with women? A lot of mgtows like myself still like to indulge now and then and why not, but guys, you have to stop this pedestalising behaviour, it’s demeaning and completely the wrong approach. A man’s worth and contribution to this world far outstrips that of women, so it is men who should be up there on that pedestal with woman fawning and indulging our needs and desires. Do this and you will be taking your first massive step to becoming a man going his own way.

[TheNinjaUWannaH8Participant 386]

Good Advice @dazzle.

 

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Dazzle: I agree with you completely… but it goes even deeper. The only reason Gatsby even acquired all that wealth in the first place was to get this female. The character had a distinguished career in the military and some schooling but only started his obsessive rise to wealth and popularity when he learned that Daisy had married a high society man.

So really his entire adult life was wasted on the pursuit of a female, not just the part after he had become wealthy. And in the end he took a bullet for her and she just paddled away like a duck after a rainstorm.

Gatsby is 100% a polemic on pussy begging that young dudes would be wise to read and internalize.

 

[johnconnor777Participant 85]

the movie was just Meh… I think that part of that is that is so unbelievable that Leo, probably the biggest MGTOW celebrity, would play a white Knight when she has banged/dated more lingerie models than a Victoria Secret’s catalog. Leo from the wolf of wall street, that’s probably a lot closer to him … and another example how a millionarie man loses everything after getting married to the wrong person.

This photo sums it up

 

 

 

[ShotDunyunParticipant 17]

I was raised to respect women and treat women like princesses. For a long time I was sure that that was the right thing to do, to endure all the s~~~ beacuse is worth it at the end. F~~~ that. I understood that self-respect comes first, and anyone should belittle themselves for female attention/respect. Being a white knight is not good as the society makes it feel.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

OK first I want to know where Ninja got that picture(?)!

Dazzle wrote:

Why do men do this? What is it in the male brain that makes so many of us act like this with women?

Dude its not a man’s fault. He has (we have) been socialized since the crib for that s~~~. It’s pounded into you since kindergarten and even earlier. Christ, I remember being in the 1ST GRADE(!) and my teacher – Mrs. Pierpont – made us all cut out a f~~~ing hearts from red paper and give it to one of the girls. What a c~~~, right?

Don’t know if you have read our front-end article “the water fountain”
/the-water-fountain/

.. but that s~~~ is REAL man. True story! And it translates into ALL mentalities.
Eggs are expensive. Sperm is cheap.
Everything – everything – flows from that fundamental premise.

The whole f~~~ing WORLD operates on that. Titanic. Valentine’s bulls~~~. “you probably can’t get a girlfriend”. Men should pay for a first date. Men “should” do this. Men should do that. Men should open doors. Men should give their jackets. Like she is the goddam prize and you exist to SERVE her. Wanna see more?

Look at that S~~~. It’s disgusting. And observe what she said very closely. You catch that? She openly admits inferiority. In the same statement – immediately after saying men should serve women – she says “instead of acting like little bitches with vaginas”. And there you have it. Little bitches with vaginas. She’s a goddam misogynist! and a misandrist all in one! She’s got no f~~~ing idea what she is saying. You should treat her like a superior…. but women are inferior. Dead giveaway that it’s ALL bulls~~~.

It takes a man 1/2 a lifetime to de-program himself from that s~~~ and to stop listening to women. Seriously. But it’s engrained into him. We are much too nice to women. All men are. If they didn’t have vaginas there would be a bounty on their heads. That’s true. A 4 year old girl will behave like you’re supposed to do s~~~ for her. A 6 year old girl in the Disney movie Enchanted says “Men only want one thing” and she has NO f~~~ing idea what that one thing is. She says it herself. “nobody will tell me”. She is socialized as early as SIX F~~~ING YEARS OLD. And so were you. It’s a very big problem bit it’s EASY to fix. It just takes a little flip of the script like a switch in your head. All you have to do is KNOW that it’s bulls~~~ and everything – the entire world and your outlook changes.

Eggs are expensive. Sperm is cheap.

As soon as a man understands he is nothing in the eyes of the world and she is EVERYTHING…. he already has the first step beat. Understanding your expected “role” as a pathetic groveling White Knight who exists to serve women is the first step to cracking the code. Once you have decoded it, you see the message everywhere. In female behavior. In social situations and expectations. In relationship dynamics and in general social attitudes. Only then can he can stop himself and retrain himself. He stops being a slave and becomes…. like Maximus in the film Gladiator. MGTOW all the way.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[– Deleted on Request –Spectator 936]

I would have disregarded whatever January Jones says anyway.  She doesn’t impress me as being Mensa material.

 

[RoyDalParticipant]

I admit it. I’m a man and I only want one thing — to get out of women’s clutches!

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Smitty the Great OneParticipant 1535]

I would like to serve Miss Jones a Whitman Sampler’s size taste of the backside of my hand. That bitch needs put in check….Sean Connery style!

Life is too long to play by someone elses rules....

[Jim01Participant 6678]

That bitch will hit the wall sooner or later and someone who is called January plus has to pretend to be someone else for a living isn’t worth listening to

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

Definition: complete ass kisser, bit of a wimp, too.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[RennieParticipant]

A dope who puts a woman/women ahead of other men, to the point of starting fights, interfering, openly expressing a condescending attitude and getting confrontational. Has no b~~~~.

I’ve run into such types before, they make me want to vomit.

[aroomwithaviewParticipant 6]

This one is possibly going to be difficult for me to give up on. When I was young I was very unsympathetic to women generally & felt no desire to protect them. I had been jumped & had fights & proplems a lot of times because of women either getting guys after me, or mouthing off to guys who then because they weren’t going to hit her, put a beat down on me/ I would gladly have watched a girl take verbal abuse or even a smack & thought it was funny.

But any more nowadays, Especially sinc emy mom died; there are women who I work with in the charities I am involved with & one of them, one time a guy accosted her in parking lot & I was after this guy. I am not even violent but I just when I heard what happened was like; where is this f~~~ing guy & I was ready to throw down. I ran outside to find him. I never used to be this way. And it really isn’t, you know like she is an older lady like my mom’s age & I respect her charity work & that was what someone accosted her about/it wasn’t someone in a dating situation or anything.

I think in some of the same ways I feel protective of my older sister. Most of my worst female hyprocricy stories from an early age were actually caused by having a slightly older sister; she beat my ass until she couldn’t any more & suddenly when I was the bigger one, I didn’t even get to win one fight; it was: you don’t hit girls (this is like 10 or 11 & she was 13 or 14). Anyway she raises my Nephew now Ethan who has Asperger synndrome & she makes a f~~~ton of sacrafices & I just can’t help feel protective of her. Its funny because my mom was a mjor source of my dehumanization as a kid as well, but I just think she just didn’t know how to deal with a boy; wasn’t equipped.

But by the time she was on her deathbed I was going through my divorce & she was on my side about it & I really connected with my mom. And honestly I know where most of this comes from because its family. Also my dad emotionally disconnected from my sister & I when he remarried after my mom died so I feel a strong, strong link to actual women in my family. But rreally that’s like the source of white night-ism isn’t it (Moms & sisters)

So no big conflict really except in the psycho analyisis. I was raised thinkign women were superior to me in the chivalric tradition by my dad who is a pussy whipped slave. My mom was good to him, fathful to him & he loved her until she passed away. But I always resented the fact women in the ciscle & class I grew up in seriously expected to have s~~~ carried for them & doors opened where they would clear their throat & not get out of the f~~~ing car if the guy didn’t walk arouind & open the door. So that was the last thing I would ever have done. In fact my resnetment of women is really what was the catalyst for me to find the version of myself which women were interested in dating & having sex with.

Later (20 years later)I developed the habit of openeing the door for everyone – men or women – like if you get to the door first, hold it open – gender neutral it’s just polite. So I still resist chivalric bulls~~~ liek that & I always thought flowers were bulls~~~. I even had girlfriends who used to really buy s~~~ for me all the time. I actually managed to sidestep a lot of that bulls~~~ being taken advantage of crap when I was younger. But I digress.

I am trying to decide to what extent I disconnect from all women, & how much i really need to re-evaluate where these protective feelings come from & what they mean. I think its important to not especially in dating/romantic situations ever, ever be chivalrous – so no more being the shoulder to cry on when she gets her abortion & a billion other times I have held the bag for other dudes & stuff just from niceness & empathy. Its just I am such a different person now because the stakes of life are so deifferent. Women don’t deserve it & they don’t deserve me. I think the main thing is like with getting mad & wanting to punch guys – that is so f~~~ed if I am so ass backward & f~~~ed up & frustrated in my life by my experiences with women & then I am going to go & get agressive with some dude over it??? It’s just difficult to sort out.

New to the community. Kinda purging here.

But yeah I would hate for it to turn out that in a roundabout way I wound up becoming the white night my dad always was indirectly. He used to always be putting me last after my sister & mom, like protecting them from me. My sister got him to kick me out of the house for instance. And I always felt so betrayed. And now in my 40s those protective feeling I always thought were the drippyest most bulls~~~ things, & I am tending that way myself.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

That picture up there of the gambler with the two females on his arms… how is he supposed to place a bet with the two of them holding his arms back?

That’s a perfect image for me of a man who thinks that having lots of females in his life is a sign of success. Other guys may think he’s got it made, but it looks to me like he’s being restrained and might wake up in the morning a few hundred grand lighter, or worse.

[TheHelper15Participant 0]

White knights huh? I grew up a white knight, but by the age of 13, I stopped. I saw what women had done for me, nothing. They only hurt me… Granted, my only family member is a female, but she grew up when WW2 was happening, so she’s exempt and physically incapable of causing me harm. Anyways, I was in High School at the time and saw some guy stand up for some female, so I poked around and found out that the female was the one who was the ass. As soon as I confronted her about it, the white knight tried to start some s~~~… Let’s just say, he was deathly afraid of seeing me again as I had put him in the hospital for attempted murder… The female also fears me to this day…

[LunaticReasonParticipant 78]

As a former white knight I respect women.

Hands the sword over to “woman” Here fight your own battle.

On second thought better not, you might stab me with that.

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