Deep Insights to the female mind.

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

Summary: T~~~ is p~~~ed at her sister for having the gall to get engaged 6 weeks before T~~~’s wedding, thereby, diminishing T~~~’s attention whoring experience. Never mind that T~~~’s sister really didn’t have any say in the timing of her engagement.

Diagnosis: C~~~ [ICD-10 code F44.9].
Prognosis: Terminal C~~~.

https://www.foxnews.com/lifestyle/angry-bride-releases-10-year-old-letter-to-sister-who-stole-her-spotlight-before-wedding-thank-you-for-your-thoughtlessness?intcmp=ob_article_footer_text&intcmp=obnetwork

“A bride has released a letter she wrote before her wedding 10 years ago expressing her anger toward her sister for getting engaged ahead of her special day.

The letter was shared on air in Ireland on RTE Radio 1’s Ryan Tubridy Show as part of a competition called “The Letter You Never Wrote,” The Mirror reports.

The anonymous woman details how furious she was at her sister, who was also a bridesmaid, for stealing the spotlight nearly two months before her wedding.

“Dear sister, it is now six and a half weeks to my wedding, I’ll be spending this week putting together the invites and trying to get them off in the post. It’s a very stressful time and I’ve had to compromise a lot of my wedding plans to suit people I don’t even know. To top it all, I’ve spent the last two days crying over something that I shouldn’t be,” she wrote, per The Mirror.

“Now don’t get me wrong, I’m very happy for you. I’m delighted that you’ve found someone who makes you happy and who you wish to spend the rest of your life with. But could you not have waited another six weeks before announcing your engagement?”

The anonymous woman goes on to say that you “only get engaged and married once” and that the run-up to her wedding should be a “special time” for her.

“Forgive me for being a bit of a bridezilla but the focus should be on me and my day, not you and your engagement,” she wrote.

She claims she decided to write her feelings down and seal the letter away instead of sharing them now because “we’re not children anymore” and “life is not a competition.” Though she did note that she might “consider posting [the letter] after the wedding.

“I’m so hurt that neither you nor your fiancé thought for even one moment the impact it would have on me and mine, it should be our time to shine and celebrate our wedding, and you have thoughtlessly taken that away. You both will have your time in the future, I hope no-one does to you what you’ve done to me,” she added.

She said she didn’t tell their parents because she didn’t want to take away any of her sister’s happiness or have her parents fight before the wedding.

“Too many people have helped me so far for my day to be overshadowed,” she said.

“So, dear bridesmaid, thank you for your thoughtlessness. Although I’m not really surprised.””

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Had the same thing happen to two of my buddies, but not sisters. The two guys were friends (my roommates in fact) and the girls were friends. First couple gets engaged, both of the second couple are in the wedding. Girl #2 is a bridesmaid and Guy #2 is a groomsman.

Anyway, as the wedding approaches Guy #2 proposes to Girl #2. Of course she says yes. Then Girl #2 completely blows off helping Girl #1 with anything, focusing 100% on her own s~~~. After committing to helping Girl #1 with her wedding.

The story above is about girl #1 being selfish. My story was more about Girl #2 being selfish.

The only constant is girls being selfish…

Order the good wine

[AwakenedParticipant 35216]

It’s NOT surprising that even at times that are supposed to be some of their “most joyous”; their TRUE COLORS come out and they can’t help but show the world how Bitter and Miserable they truly are…..TYPICAL.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

TaxGuy wrote:

The only constant is girls being selfish…

And the Earth is round. And the sun rises in the East. And water is wet. And gravity is constant. Well you get the picture. . .

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[Branched offParticipant 11022]

The way that a wedding is a huge ego trip for a woman should tell a man all he needs to know about the wisdom of marrying a woman today.

She is celebrating because she finally became an adult at the same time as getting a meal ticket.

A woman is like fire -fun to play with, can warm you through and cook your food, needs constant feeding, can burn you and consume all you own

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22564]

Solo MAN’S Wisdom wrote:

Summary: T~~~ is p~~~ed at her sister for having the gall to get engaged 6 weeks before T~~~’s wedding, thereby, diminishing T~~~’s attention whoring experience. Never mind that T~~~’s sister really didn’t have any say in the timing of her engagement.
Diagnosis: C~~~ [ICD-10 code F44.9].Prognosis: Terminal C~~~.
https://www.foxnews.com/lifestyle/angry-bride-releases-10-year-old-letter-to-sister-who-stole-her-spotlight-before-wedding-thank-you-for-your-thoughtlessness?intcmp=ob_article_footer_text&intcmp=obnetwork
“A bride has released a letter she wrote before her wedding 10 years ago expressing her anger toward her sister for getting engaged ahead of her special day.
The letter was shared on air in Ireland on RTE Radio 1’s Ryan Tubridy Show as part of a competition called “The Letter You Never Wrote,” The Mirror reports.
The anonymous woman details how furious she was at her sister, who was also a bridesmaid, for stealing the spotlight nearly two months before her wedding.
“Dear sister, it is now six and a half weeks to my wedding, I’ll be spending this week putting together the invites and trying to get them off in the post. It’s a very stressful time and I’ve had to compromise a lot of my wedding plans to suit people I don’t even know. To top it all, I’ve spent the last two days crying over something that I shouldn’t be,” she wrote, per The Mirror.
“Now don’t get me wrong, I’m very happy for you. I’m delighted that you’ve found someone who makes you happy and who you wish to spend the rest of your life with. But could you not have waited another six weeks before announcing your engagement?”
The anonymous woman goes on to say that you “only get engaged and married once” and that the run-up to her wedding should be a “special time” for her.
“Forgive me for being a bit of a bridezilla but the focus should be on me and my day, not you and your engagement,” she wrote.
She claims she decided to write her feelings down and seal the letter away instead of sharing them now because “we’re not children anymore” and “life is not a competition.” Though she did note that she might “consider posting [the letter] after the wedding.
“I’m so hurt that neither you nor your fiancé thought for even one moment the impact it would have on me and mine, it should be our time to shine and celebrate our wedding, and you have thoughtlessly taken that away. You both will have your time in the future, I hope no-one does to you what you’ve done to me,” she added.
She said she didn’t tell their parents because she didn’t want to take away any of her sister’s happiness or have her parents fight before the wedding.
“Too many people have helped me so far for my day to be overshadowed,” she said.
“So, dear bridesmaid, thank you for your thoughtlessness. Although I’m not really surprised.””

Note the man did not write such a note. The woman p~~~ed off talks about overshadowing ‘THEIR’ special time. Pretty sure the guy would not care, or just look at it as nothing or lame and let it roll off him. The woman is the one p~~~ed because its about HER, ‘HER’ day, women never talk about THEIR day includong the groom, its HER day.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[JB BooksParticipant 3182]

I don’t even want to have to figure all that s~~~ out. It’s a no-win situation whenever a guy chooses to become involved in that s~~~ show.

We just don't realize life's most significant events while they're happening. Back then, I thought, "Well, there'll be other days". I didn't realize that that was the only day. - "Moonlight" Graham

[Anonymous 3]

Secret Agent MGTOW wrote:

Note the man did not write such a note. The woman p~~~ed off talks about overshadowing ‘THEIR’ special time.

But from the moment they are married HER fellings are supposed to be THEIR fellings. If the guy does not sing in her tune, he will quickly learn to do so…

How did Twist say once? “I had to remember who I was supposed to hate and why…”

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10924]

TaxGuy wrote:

Had the same thing happen to two of my buddies, but not sisters. The two guys were friends (my roommates in fact) and the girls were friends. First couple gets engaged, both of the second couple are in the wedding. Girl #2 is a bridesmaid and Guy #2 is a groomsman.
Anyway, as the wedding approaches Guy #2 proposes to Girl #2. Of course she says yes. Then Girl #2 completely blows off helping Girl #1 with anything, focusing 100% on her own s~~~. After committing to helping Girl #1 with her wedding.
The story above is about girl #1 being selfish. My story was more about Girl #2 being selfish.
The only constant is girls being selfish…

And not one of the women blamed either of the men? That has to be a first!

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

The degree with which the women become offended by having to share will show you the woman you will face when you divorce.

Divorce is the other time that woman are in the spot light and the family court judge will make sure that everything revolves around her.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[AutoliteParticipant]

So what’s the rest of the story? Which one filed for divorce first???

[MonkParticipant 17057]

‘Deep insights into the female mind’ ?

As I’ve never seen anything so shallow, that must surely be a contradiction in terms.

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

Monk wrote:

‘Deep insights into the female mind’ ?
As I’ve never seen anything so shallow, that must surely be a contradiction in terms.

Kind of my point.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

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