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How do you guys deal emotional dumping women. Who use you as a dumping ground for their emotions. I find myself at throws of this weakness daily in the work environment. I hate being one and I feel like the only way to deal with this it is to either walk away and ignore it. What do you guys do to deal with that situation in the work environment. It’s trickier in the work environment. But outside of that I tell them to literally f~~~ off.
Society live's as if we have reached the pinnacle of human potential. Technological Advancement and Innovation, intellectualism, critical thinking is substituted for useless innovations, nasty narcissistic games, tyrannical laws that destroy the very foundation of family, and the world as we know it.
A better question is how do deal with people in general, both women and men, that emotionally dump on you?
I have had both women and men tell me to my face that they believed my opinions did not matter, and then they emotionally dumping on me.
My feelings on such people is that they are all emotionally immature little bitches, both the women and the men, whom need to be made to shut up for the betterment of society.
65% of men with a bachelor’s degree who are married for the first time are likely to stay married for 20 years
So what happens after the 20 years are up? Oh yeah, virtual slavery….
“Hyah! Get to work slave or we’ll throw you in jail with the sodomites!”
[Nothing against sodomy if that’s your thing, I just don’t want to be stuck in a cell with Thunderdick]
"Data, I would be delighted to offer any advice I can on understanding women. When I have some, I'll let you know." --Captain Picard,
How do you guys deal emotional dumping women. Who use you as a dumping ground for their emotions.
I don’t converse with them in the first place.
I hate being one and I feel like the only way to deal with this it is to either walk away and ignore it. What do you guys do to deal with that situation in the work environment. It’s trickier in the work environment. But outside of that I tell them to literally f~~~ off.
Hey TDRP, i think you’re referring to the coworkers, acquaintances, “friends”, etc, that won’t shut the f~~~ up, right? People who just blah blah blah whenever they see you – you’ll note that they feel an undying need to talk about themselves, their own drama, problems, whatever.
Anyway, if that’s what you’re getting at, i’ve found an effective solution is to set & enforce boundaries. You don’t have to be rude, but after a certain point you can always say “Excuse me for interrupting, but i really have to prepare for a meeting now. I enjoyed talking to you, and i hope you have a good afternoon.” If it’s in the workplace, they should know work comes before socializing.
If it’s a social encounter, bumping in to a neighbor or whatever, you can always say “Excuse me, but i have a prior commitment that i have to run to. Hope you have a good morning”.
Is that what you’re getting at?
Btw… women and mangina read “new” books written by the latest fade c~~~.
Men read very old books of great depth and wisdom.
And finding these older books of wisdom in book stores and libraries.
But, book stores are just loaded with the latest garbage about nothing lining their walls and shelves.
Publishers are some of the most bigoted PC groups out there. It is not about quality of the material, nor skill of the writer. For publishers, it is about the gender or skin color of those they publish, so they can advertise how politically correct they are. The only exceptions are examples of nepotism within the publishing industry.
It is disgusting at every level. And self-publishing is just not worth it.
No matter how intelligent, how skilled, how experienced, what achievements one has accomplished, if you are a white man in this world, anything you do, say, or be, has less value than s~~~ to society, and unless that changes, it is best just to leave society behind.
Let those in society wallow in the gutter mud of their own waste, while I take a walk into the beyond.
Never date at work and ghost at work. Tell them nothing about your private life. Mangina are traitors.
Ghosting is best.
A better question is how do deal with people in general, both women and men, that emotionally dump on you?
Ghosting is best times two.
Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?
My well is almost dry..I have no patience listening to others problems. .quick response and must go do something important. .
There are many ways to solve the problem of women talking out their problems with (or at) you.
Women talk for one reason mainly, to hear themselves. I don’t mean to be rude by this, but it’s exactly that. They need to hear their themselves voice what’s in their head, and then they adjust their emotions and thoughts according to how it sounds. They make a big deal about telling everyone that they need someone else to hear them, but really, that’s just them asking for someone else to confirm that they did in fact speak the words that just came out of their mouth. Women don’t want you to solve their problems, they just want you to listen (actively, if that’s actually possible!? Surely listening is passive…..??)
So how do you stop them feeling like you’re good at listening to them?
Be a man. Solve the problem, immediately. Just jump straight to the solution and tell them directly, “Well, you need to do [xxx]!” Don’t empathize, don’t hummmm or haaaahhh, or agree or say “I see, how does that make you FEEL”….. just offer the solution. They hate that. They should stop talking to you because you aren’t engaging in the DRAMA of talk. And quite rightly so.
The only time a man talks seriously with another man is if he has a problem that he really can’t solve. He asks that man, who offers a solution, and bingo, the talk stops. Two happy men.
So your conversations could go like this:
Woman: I really felt bad this morning because I took someone else’s parking spot
Man: Well don’t take his parking spot.
Woman: But I FEEL bad.
Man: Simple. Don’t take the parking spot.
Woman: But I did.
Man: I’ve solved that one for you, what’s next?
Woman: [looks blankly at you]Woman: Hey Brad, you know I was telling you about my mother-in-law’s excema problem?
Brad: She needs cream.
Woman: Yes, but she feels like it’s ruining her Bingo night
Brad: Get her cream.
Woman: You never listen to me!
Brad: Your MonsterInLaw needs cream. I need coffee. I’m happy to solve your problems for you. What’s next?
Woman: I don’t want you to solve my problems!
Brad: Well don’t ask me then.
Woman: [pouts]If you reinforce that you will only provide solutions to her tamponning you, she’ll pretty quickly get the message not to do it.
I look at whatever I’m working on and shut them out. If they ask if I heard I blame my former job for hearing loss.
If I get cornered I act like I’m listening really intently, and then offer the absolute worst advice possible. If they are in drone on and on mode, I interrupt them with the “perfect answer” to their problem without them finishing even the first two sentences of set up. After a couple amusing to me blurts, my counsel doesn’t seem to be sought.
– The insurance company tried to low ball your claim. I’d firebomb their office… want help?
– Your wife doesn’t want to get a job to help with all the bills that have been accumulated since she popped out baby number two. Remind her her job is to make you and sandwich and blow you while you enjoy it. If she doesn’t like that answer you need to beat her more often.The more outlandish and unlikely they’ll follow it, the safer I feel from them pointing the finger. My actual bosses all understand boundaries of professionalism (not much personal talk) and consider me a solid performer.
Obviously, you have to follow whatever professional protocols are appropriate for your level of employment, but my chosen level of employment is ghosting as a peon. I am paid only for my time and a little bit of effort, and even with the things I’ve said I’m far from the most anti-social borderline sociopath of the total group that my employer has on shift at any given time.
I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.
Quietlyquietly, I use a similar tactic in dealing with s~~~ test for female family members. When I am asked to do a chore or task, I immediately do it, so they cannot complain to me later, or add to the difficulty of the chore.
I make it clear that I was do the task in immediately, in the quickest way possible. And after a few attempts at insults, the women in question shut up because even they realize they look like fools (which they are) complaining about a man immediately doing a task they requested of him.
I hate being one and I feel like the only way to deal with this it is to either walk away and ignore it. What do you guys do to deal with that situation in the work environment. It’s trickier in the work environment. But outside of that I tell them to literally f~~~ off.
Hey TDRP, i think you’re referring to the coworkers, acquaintances, “friends”, etc, that won’t shut the f~~~ up, right? People who just blah blah blah whenever they see you – you’ll note that they feel an undying need to talk about themselves, their own drama, problems, whatever.
Anyway, if that’s what you’re getting at, i’ve found an effective solution is to set & enforce boundaries. You don’t have to be rude, but after a certain point you can always say “Excuse me for interrupting, but i really have to prepare for a meeting now. I enjoyed talking to you, and i hope you have a good afternoon.” If it’s in the workplace, they should know work comes before socializing.
If it’s a social encounter, bumping in to a neighbor or whatever, you can always say “Excuse me, but i have a prior commitment that i have to run to. Hope you have a good morning”.
Is that what you’re getting at?
You are correct mundo
Society live's as if we have reached the pinnacle of human potential. Technological Advancement and Innovation, intellectualism, critical thinking is substituted for useless innovations, nasty narcissistic games, tyrannical laws that destroy the very foundation of family, and the world as we know it.
One if the other things that I find myself feeling is the after effects of guilt but I am so Raged that I don’t feel guilty anymore.
Do any of you experience that guilty feeling or does society sicken you so much that you don’t have any sympathy for it. I have no sympathy what so ever.
Society live's as if we have reached the pinnacle of human potential. Technological Advancement and Innovation, intellectualism, critical thinking is substituted for useless innovations, nasty narcissistic games, tyrannical laws that destroy the very foundation of family, and the world as we know it.
Emotional dumping can be counteracted with your own crazy rantings. When ghosting doesn’t work, start dumping right back at them. Make s~~~ up, tell them how you’re upset because your gf won’t eat your ass or how she doesn’t like being peed on, or go on a rant about conspiracy bulls~~~ or some political bulls~~~. That usually f~~~s em up and then they go somewhere else.
Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.
I’ve always been that guy that girls come to when they want a moan about their boyfriends – a few years ago when I was firmly blue pill I would actually help out some of them out. Things started to change after my advice was regularly ignored or they’d get offended by what I would say.
Nowadays I don’t bother at all and it’s funny how many girls stop talking to me as soon as I refuse to be their tampon. This huge weight off my shoulders was topped off by my mate saying one time “You’re too nice [ ], you need to be more of a c~~~” 🙂
Still one of the best pieces of advice I’ve ever been given though.
"You can suffer from a life experience, or you can learn, move on and thrive."Emotional dumping can be counteracted with your own crazy rantings. When ghosting doesn’t work, start dumping right back at them. Make s~~~ up, tell them how you’re upset because your gf won’t eat your ass or how she doesn’t like being peed on, or go on a rant about conspiracy bulls~~~ or some political bulls~~~. That usually f~~~s em up and then they go somewhere else.
Politics is something that will probably do it for me I notice that women hate politics and cannot process every time I talk about politics women would try to change the subject to something so stupid.
Society live's as if we have reached the pinnacle of human potential. Technological Advancement and Innovation, intellectualism, critical thinking is substituted for useless innovations, nasty narcissistic games, tyrannical laws that destroy the very foundation of family, and the world as we know it.
How do you guys deal emotional dumping women.
I deal with them by refusing to deal with them. It doesn’t matter whether it’s at work or in my personal life.
When a woman attempts to recruit me as her emotional tampon in the guise of “sharing” personal information, feelings, and whatnot, I interrupt politely but quickly and tell them:
“I am uncomfortable hearing about the intimate details of your personal life. Please don’t tell me anything more.”
If they continue to dump, you reiterate your discomfort and ask again that they not share. If they’re still stupid to continue after that – and most will be until you “train” them – you excuse yourself and walk away. (Of course, you’re not really uncomfortable, you just don’t give a f~~~, and you’re saying please simply to sugar-coat things.)
This technique works because it flips the myth of the ‘More caring, more feeling, more empathetic” female right on it’s head. She’s supposed to be the one more in tune with everyone’s feelings and here you are telling her flat out that she’s hurting yours. The cognitive dissonance alone is usually enough to shut them up. Once you pull this technique a few times on female acquaintances and co-workers, they’ll be less inclined to share the details of their empty lives.
Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.
Anonymous42Dealing with the emotional tampon
That’s easy, when it comes to tampons I’m a bunch razor blades string by a piece of barbed wire! Ouch!
I don’t wallow in my own misery, I’ll be damned if someone’s going to have me wallow in theirs!
OldBill is more diplomatic than I am, I throw whatever it is right back in their face!
For instance: I advised a relative to get a divorce because “she” was in a bad relationship and that it’s unhealthy for her. She went back to try again. The second time she was “separated” (five years later), she came to me whining again, I stopped her in her tracks and told her she wasted five more years, that I told her what to do, and not to bother me with her revolving door bulls~~~!
She went back AGAIN!
She’s finally divorced now, and wasted 10 years being a yo-yo, had she listened to me, she’d be established now living in her own condominium with her mortgage paid down, but no, she tried to make broken work, and lost everything in bankruptcy.
People that need emotional tampons live in a cycle of endless misery, it’s as if they like being cut, so they can bleed. ETB syndrome! (Emotional Tampon Bleeding syndrome)How do you guys deal emotional dumping women.
I deal with them by refusing to deal with them. It doesn’t matter whether it’s at work or in my personal life.
When a woman attempts to recruit me as her emotional tampon in the guise of “sharing” personal information, feelings, and whatnot, I interrupt politely but quickly and tell them:
“I am uncomfortable hearing about the intimate details of your personal life. Please don’t tell me anything more.”
If they continue to dump, you reiterate your discomfort and ask again that they not share. If they’re still stupid to continue after that – and most will be until you “train” them – you excuse yourself and walk away. (Of course, you’re not really uncomfortable, you just don’t give a f~~~, and you’re saying please simply to sugar-coat things.)
This technique works because it flips the myth of the ‘More caring, more feeling, more empathetic” female right on it’s head. She’s supposed to be the one more in tune with everyone’s feelings and here you are telling her flat out that she’s hurting yours. The cognitive dissonance alone is usually enough to shut them up. Once you pull this technique a few times on female acquaintances and co-workers, they’ll be less inclined to share the details of their empty lives.
Thats some really good advice bro. I am more inclined to mix things up with politics turning people off, and overall just being polite. Politely asking people to f~~~ off.
Society live's as if we have reached the pinnacle of human potential. Technological Advancement and Innovation, intellectualism, critical thinking is substituted for useless innovations, nasty narcissistic games, tyrannical laws that destroy the very foundation of family, and the world as we know it.
Politely asking people to f~~~ off.
It works well for me, brother.
“Polite, terse, and dismissive” is a term I’ve used here a few times now. You can get away with a lot by being polite, terse, and dismissive, especially after you develop a reputation for it. If you don’t let them use you as an emotional tampon, if you stop them from even trying to use you as an emotional tampon, they eventually stop trying and turn their attentions towards someone else.
Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.
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