Dealing with a X of the X time to hit?

[MotivParticipant 441]

Hi
So heres a situation that I find difficult to break down and approach the correct way and would like to know if any of you think my thoughts on how to are insane or just a bit unreleasable.
I move out from the wife and end up living near one of her x boyfriends, He contacts her to announce he knows where I live and plays a line like “do you” “thumbs up” etc so the dumb woman answers him after years of no contact, (they have a child together but was abusive and court orders for him to stay away).

Do I A, go give him a smack and tell him to stay the f~~~ out of my business
Or B, go and have a chat and get hes take on things for a better understanding of him, along with a friendly warning to stay the f~~~ out of my s~~~.
Or C, ignore him and hes little bitch gossiping.
Or D, All the above are wrong.
Remember I have to live around this lot for at least a year.
I f~~~ing hate the way women f~~~ your life up even after you up and opt out.

Cool story babe now go make me a sandwich

[Soldier-MedicParticipant 2566]

Do nothing.

And say nothing, but drink his beer, and start upper decking his commode, and keep quiet.

"I asked you a question. I didn't ask you to repeat what the voices in you head are telling you" ~ Me. ........Yes I'm still angry.

[MotivParticipant 441]

Do nothing?
He’s bitch talking about me brother and I need to p~~~ on my boundary’s . upper decking he’s commode ? you mean drink he’s beer and leave a turd in hes toilet haha
My first thoughts are rage and to let him and others know to back off

Cool story babe now go make me a sandwich

[Soldier-MedicParticipant 2566]

The best revenge and preventative measures can’t be traced back to you.

"I asked you a question. I didn't ask you to repeat what the voices in you head are telling you" ~ Me. ........Yes I'm still angry.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Soldier-Medic wrote:

Do nothing.

Do nothing. Let them stew in their own juices, and do not stir the cauldron.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[MotivParticipant 441]

Yea this dude acts like a complete little bitch, So your probably right in saying do nothing as hard as that is.

Cool story babe now go make me a sandwich

[olderwiserParticipant 65]

The best person you can focus on at the moment is yourself. As others have said, Do Nothing. There will be days it will be hard, your mind will try and play on all sorts of scenarios, it will trick you into doing things based on people’s action. Do Nothing. It will be hard to start with but will get easier. You deserve better than what you had thats why you left. They will try their best to pull you back into plantation. Do Nothing. Focus on yourself and cultivate your lifestyle how you want it and not how someone else wants it. Know the truth that women will go to extremes to get the control back. Do Nothing. Detach (or at least try to) and watch the show.

Life consists of two days, one for you one against you. So when it's for you don't be proud or reckless, and when it's against you be patient, for both days are test for you.

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

Hi Motiv, as others, I too am going with the same take. Nothing, is the best and most solid plan. That idiot is being played & is ready to throw himself under the bus to be her White Knight.

Motiv wrote:

(they have a child together but was abusive and court orders for him to stay away).

This is s~~~ that is just HELL NO

He is off his bleeding nut, to even risk putting himself back in the line of fire with her.

Motiv wrote:

dumb woman answers him after years of no contact

And she is being given more power from this X, it is not worth even letting yourself be bothered with it.

I know that is way easier said than done. I know. I have been through this exact BS, it didn’t end well, and that’s a f~~~ing understatement.
Not having this s~~~ register emotionally is challenging as hell…

Now imagine if you get caught up in this being escalated, and it goes south. How much more f~~~ed up will it be in regards to the emotions being off the damn chart?

Motiv wrote:

Remember I have to live around this lot for at least a year.

If it were me in your shoes here, I would bide my time & then move asap.

Motiv wrote:

I f~~~ing hate the way women f~~~ your life up even after you up and opt out.

I feel ya bro. It seems like once we do that, they come at us like more than ever before. Women hate seeing a free man.

Stay Free

[Dark KenshiParticipant 2132]

Brother, let the rage go, and like other brothers said, do nothing…

Just grab a bucket of popcorn, some beers, sit back and relax, because s~~~ between these two WILL go south.

Always remember that the bitch and your “new neighbor” relations~~~ went south years ago, and chances are that it will go south again.

By doing nothing, you will not only show HER that you don’t f~~~ing care, but it will show HIM too that whatever he does, you don’t give a damn. That PROBABLY will make him think and will strat to brew in him some respect for you, if he is a MAN, not a mangina.

I know, I am almost like you, brother… Rage always take the first round on the driver’s seat, but as a lot of brothers here said, I focus really hard to keep my focus and to keep my head cold.

Who you want to be? The spectator that will watch s~~~ going down and on fire by itself, and you will f~~~ing laugh your ass off, or do you want to be an actor in that and probably burn yourself with it?

"Young was I once, I walked alone, and bewildered seemed in the way; then I found me another and rich I thought me, for man is the joy of man." Odin, Hàvamàl, stanza 47.

[MotivParticipant 441]

You Guys have saved my ass, After reading all of your advice, that is what I did Nothing and one person involved stood in absolute shock of my care free attitude, It was a little more complex than it first appeared and if I had of gone in guns blazing it would of been a mess for a while and most likely just gotten worse, He’s the one getting played like a fiddle not me.
Nice one everyone really appreciate the good support you saved me a hell of a lot of bs, I did enjoy watching that shock of “why ent you mad” look..

Cool story babe now go make me a sandwich

[Just a ManParticipant 934]

Smile and wave at the guy. Talk with him when ya can and ALWAYS have a hint of a smile on your lips. Give him the ol’ “I know something I won’t tell” look. Straight outta “Injun Joe” Looney Toons, that line comes from, lol. Besides, we all know he is just trying to re-establish his “orbit” and there is enough humor in that to last a few.

Philosophy, the female repellent

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

Motiv wrote:

I did enjoy watching that shock of “why ent you mad” look..

Enjoy those moments so much….I relish in them 🙂

Wish I could have seen that…I picture the deer in the headlights when the question was being asked

[MotivParticipant 441]

Just a Man wrote:

Smile and wave at the guy. ALWAYS have a hint of a smile on your lips. Besides, we all know he is just trying to re-establish his “orbit” and there is enough humor in that to last a few.

Thats the way “just a hint of a grin” sticks are being pocked from many directions atm, he’s orbiting attempts are just funny to watch

Phantom wrote:

Motiv wrote:

I did enjoy watching that shock of “why ent you mad” look..

Enjoy those moments so much….I relish in them
Wish I could have seen that…I picture the deer in the headlights when the question was being asked

Oh its very satisfying to watch isnt it .. It has worked every time since and they do resemble a animal caught in head lights, even the very short peroid of time they have that blank “what do I say” look it burns an image in my mind and will last a long time and I can smile right now seeing it.

Im laughing inside at them all playing this out like a soap opera while I just watch… Its a huge relief to know we got each others back here, We are far and few on the streets and most man will happily give advise they think is right for them, here we all know better than just to give a man advise on how to keep a woman happy..

Cool story babe now go make me a sandwich

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

Motiv wrote:

they have that blank “what do I say”

Exactly. That moment when you can shut a woman up.

F~~~ing priceless!

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