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Deadbeat mothers and why they can be a blessing in disguise
Inspired by this thread and by popular demand…
I stated that my mother was bitching at us endlessly making us feel guilty for being born.
We – my father and me – were the cause of all of her life’s problems… And she succeeded in making me feel guilty and pressuring me to do all of her s~~~.
And as a long-term result, I got used to doing my own household business because doing my own laundry and eating at the canteen is by far not as energy draining as her constant yelling and bitching.
Every meal was handed with a cloud of shaming. I hated eating at the family table for all of my youth. Sometimes she would throw the porcelain plates around until they all had dents in their edges. I still hate that sound…
Sometimes her bitching and shaming went on for hours at a time until I burst out, saying: “I didn’t ask you to set me into the world”…
Women make you feel like a piece of s~~~… And mothers do the “basic training” of boys. But that c~~~ ran me head-on into the wall – beyond repair.
My heart and mind has grown to be unc~~~ed.
I sometimes wished she had taken off after my birth.
Or that I had come out of some kind of “cloning machine” without any ties to “that family”Whenever she was not around, I could suddenly “get things done”.
I saw that video on “Deatbeat Mothers” from “Red Pill Germany” and I can totally relate to everything he says.
If my mother had taken off and left us, I would have had a beautiful childhood. Subtract her years of constant nagging, quilt shaming and constant bitching from my life and I would be galaxies ahead.
Her s~~~ is what got me stuck in my youth. What got me to become a “late starter” after I shook her off and reading stacks of psychology books to see through this madness.
And her bulls~~~ was entirely useless as following any of her advice would have made any life-situation worse. I was on my own in every respect. No support and if any problems from the outside world surfaced, I was ALWAYS the one to blame and never the others. And she incited the entire village c~~~ hive as a pressure tool to discipline me.
All in all: EVERY problem became bigger because of “Mama”.
And the damaged self-consciousness of being part of such a f~~~ed-up family and the social isolation she caused around me did the rest.
I was always loved and accepted in any place and social circle where my mother was not around to ruin me and spread her s~~~.
That’s what kept me from hanging myself.
Knowing what I can do and that it is her mental problem… And not me.
At age 15, you can only do your A-level school and be the facility manager of the 3-story-house, and do her s~~~… And help your father in fixing his car weekend after weekend. And re-mediate a destroyed apartment from rental nomads.
If she had taken off and we would have been left to our own devices, things would have been totally different. My father was calm as a huge monkey when she was gone. Then, he did not freak out and smash our furniture. And I could actually talk to him and make plans without mama’s bitching p~~~ing him off in between.
I can feel in my heart and in my bones what Red Pill Germany speaks about.
He had the sunshine period of his youth because there was no TOXIC female around him to drag him down.
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This is like my biography to a tee. On the one hand having a shaming, abusive mother who was never satisfied with anything caused me to learn to be self-sufficient but on the other hand it also caused me to have emotional problems that kept me back for years until I too started reading Psychology.
Deadbeat mothers and why they can be a blessing in disguise
Thank You for opening your heart to us all. This is one amazing testimony brother Gargamel. You are for sure not alone on mgtow.com to have gone through something like that because mothers can crush their son’s spirit in soooo many ways. Mine crushed mine by not allowing me to grow apart from her since my father had committed suicide. (Partly probably because of her constant attacks) The best text by far that I remember reading from you 👍🍺
You must own a better Crystal ball than ISandman is right.
I can relate to all of his stories:
Debunking the bulls~~~/false advice mothers tell their sons to turn them into utilities…
Mothers & Sons – MGTOW Mail Bag
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The best text by far that I remember reading from you 👍🍺
There is more:
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Let me re-post some of my answers here.
“C~~~s wonder why they are single” and the thread is about an article full of man shaming and female bulls~~~. Hard to read…
I can’t read that.
It hurts.
Like the constant LOUD bitching of my mother.
She is now 92 years old because she has not worked her ass off and sits in front of the TV all day still claiming that she built half of the house…
All through the 1980’s she sat in front of the TV and watched Boris Becker for weeks while the place laid in ruins. I gave her 2 TV sets so the earth would not fall out of orbit when one was on the blink.
I came home from school and had to clean up the hoard and stacks of collected paper catalogues and boxes that cluttered up entire rooms.
I had to lock up my room beginning at age 12 because she would clutter it up too.
And yell and bitch for being “so lazy”…
And tell the whole village about her lazy and disobedient son.
Until EVERYONE gave me a hassle!
C~~~S I AM THROUGH WITH YOU!
GAME OVER!
My washing machines are more expensive that your s~~~ty cars and I don’t need you.
Before I forget:
I grew up in her cat stink.
And I don’t need YOUR CAT MADNESS.
Stay single and f~~~ off.
Women are completely useless.
A man getting married must have something wrong in his head.
Sorry for speaking my mind.
Among the 4000 customers I had there were the majority women EXACTLY like that (or worse), I call them the scum of the earth.
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I took the liberty to extract a quote from that thread thank you Gargamel ⬇
Yep women can f~~~ up men pretty bad by their crazy behaviour !
Many things I went through and have seen were so painful that I haven’t written about them yet.
I haven’t yet finished my introductory story. Words are not enough to describe the misery a c~~~ causes in a man’s or son’s life.
Making it in life WITHOUT THEM – or after getting them out of your life – and showing them squeaking tires… Yes, that is fantastic.
I like it when they hate me, so they leave me alone.
Traumatic.Mother c~~~ still loves her damn cats more than the last human who takes care of her and saved her life countless times by taking her to the hospital “on time” or taking care she does not suffocate or drown in her collected garbage hoard. And I saved her cats countless times as she would not care if they are really sick.
And every Christmas I stand by with my fire-extinguisher army because she puts candles on newspaper stacks. 2015 almost made us homeless. It was God’s message to go up there “chasing her cats” and seeing the fire just starting to spread in “recycling paper paradise”.
Who needs another female in his life after that?I still care even though everyone would expect me to ignore her and wait for her demise. My sisters would have abandoned her long ago. And given her to an elderly asylum for her early death. But I still care.
We all suffer from the male care illness. That we care and sacrifice for people who have nothing but hate left for us.
But she will be the last female I ever tolerate in my life.These women – or the TYPE OF WOMAN – will terminate our culture.
Believe me, I have never been to a prostitute.
No appetiteYou must own a better Crystal ball than IMany things I went through and have seen were so painful that I haven’t written about them yet.
I haven’t yet finished my introductory story. Words are not enough to describe the misery a c~~~ causes in a man’s or son’s life.
Making it in life WITHOUT THEM – or after getting them out of your life – and showing them squeaking tires… Yes, that is fantastic.
I like it when they hate me, so they leave me alone.
Traumatic.
Mother c~~~ still loves her damn cats more than the last human who takes care of her and saved her life countless times by taking her to the hospital “on time” or taking care she does not suffocate or drown in her collected garbage hoard. And I saved her cats countless times as she would not care if they are really sick.
And every Christmas I stand by with my fire-extinguisher army because she puts candles on newspaper stacks. 2015 almost made us homeless. It was God’s message to go up there “chasing her cats” and seeing the fire just starting to spread in “recycling paper paradise”.
Who needs another female in his life after that?
I still care even though everyone would expect me to ignore her and wait for her demise. My sisters would have abandoned her long ago. And given her to an elderly asylum for her early death. But I still care.
We all suffer from the male care illness. That we care and sacrifice for people who have nothing but hate left for us.
But she will be the last female I ever tolerate in my life.
These women – or the TYPE OF WOMAN – will terminate our culture.
Believe me, I have never been to a prostitute.
No appetite.
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But I still cannot complain.
Other boys growing up in the 1970’s and 1980’s had it much worse.
And in the 1990’s they began drugging boys to paralyze them and make them as passive as girls.
Now we complain about a generation of UNEMPLOYABLES…
C~~~s committed a crime against MAN-kind. Drugging boys was totally against nature and can be put on the same level as the crimes against humanity committed by the likes of Hitler and Stalin.
Stalin put “non-conformists” into slave-labor camps to brainwash them. Boys being boys were chemically mind-castrated with Ritalin and other toxic s~~~ to make them compliant to women desires…
That’s a crime.
Time to overthrow c~~~ dictatorship and dry them out.
Women no longer deserve ANY man. Good or not.
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in the 1990’s they began drugging boys to paralyze them and make them as passive as girls.
Now we complain about a generation of UNEMPLOYABLES…C~~~s committed a crime against MAN-kind. Drugging boys was totally against nature
Yes that’s a pretty sick way to take control!
You must own a better Crystal ball than Iin the 1990’s they began drugging boys to paralyze them and make them as passive as girls.
Now we complain about a generation of UNEMPLOYABLES…
C~~~s committed a crime against MAN-kind. Drugging boys was totally against natureYes that’s a pretty sick way to take control!
Just as sick as some political dictators.
Just “finishing off” the discussion on why single mothers produce criminals.
Boys get f~~~ed in the head and then get drugged to lose the “male inherent smartness” that might give him the mental escape one day.
Then these pussy whipped boys do everything the “female way” by beating, yelling, screaming and not caring about others… But – because lack of vagina – not getting pussy passes, thus ending up in jail.
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Gar,
Within your beautiful, heartfelt writing, was one snippet that managed to make me laugh. Finding the crumb of humor in all the bulls~~~ is what lets us survive. Thanks.
I gave her 2 TV sets so the earth would not fall out of orbit when one was on the blink.
btw, I grew up with a father who similarly worshipped the tube. That’s a topic for another day.
Gar,
Within your beautiful, heartfelt writing, was one snippet that managed to make me laugh. Finding the crumb of humor in all the bulls~~~ is what lets us survive. Thanks.
I gave her 2 TV sets so the earth would not fall out of orbit when one was on the blink.
btw, I grew up with a father who similarly worshipped the tube. That’s a topic for another day.
It was my fathers escape from her bulls~~~.
And I installed 2 TV sets to reduce to fighting and increase “peace time” when they sat “separated” in 2 different rooms.
“Oversize garbage collection day” constantly delivered new TV sets for me to pick up from the streets and practice my repair skills.
Without having to worry about customer’s property getting killed. But I got better and soon supplied the whole family with color TV sets, which in the 1980’s were still luxury items.
My mother still brings every TV to the end of life.
(Only German built Metz TV sets – partially resoldered by me – made it for longer than 10 years.)
But she kills the CRT by “operating hours”
Like THIS
LOL.
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Anonymous1And in the 1990’s they began drugging boys to paralyze them and make them as passive as girls.
Now we complain about a generation of UNEMPLOYABLES…
C~~~s committed a crime against MAN-kind. Drugging boys was totally against nature and can be put on the same level as the crimes against humanity committed by the likes of Hitler and Stalin.
Stalin put “non-conformists” into slave-labor camps to brainwash them. Boys being boys were chemically mind-castrated with Ritalin and other toxic s~~~ to make them compliant to women desires…
That’s a crime.
C~~~s started drugging us shortly after kindergarten. Now they do it IN kindergarten. I remember the C~~~ teachers trying to diagnose me with some kind of “behavior disorder.”
I used to get sick every day and throw up at school, getting such bad headaches I would go blind. That was my excuse to get off the drugs. The other boys were not so lucky. 10+ years of continuous drugging ruined their brains and altered their bodies.
I did a thread on this a while back.
The drugs are also “Gender Benders.”The Forced Drugging of Boys in the School System is Turning Them into Girls
I used to get sick every day and throw up at school, getting such bad headaches I would go blind. That was my excuse to get off the drugs. The other boys were not so lucky. 10+ years of continuous drugging ruined their brains and altered their bodies.
Thanks for sharing.
I knew you would join in.
This is a topic that gets much too little attention and I consider it a crime against humanity.
It should go before the tribunal or the International Criminal Court in The Hague.
We still have a long way to go.
MGTOW is just the beginning of taking our dignity back!
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Anonymous1This is a topic that gets much too little attention and I consider it a crime against humanity.
Its even worse than destroying a Man’s life. They are PREVENTING a Man’s life from developing. Some of these drugs have caused little boys to develop female breasts and totally ruined their endocrine system, permanently. I know that other drugs like Ritalin retard brain development in boys too.
This is no accident. USA has clearly learned from East Germany. Like that thread you did on East German Orphanages. I think East Germany was like a test lab to see what works and what doesn’t. Having determined what drugs to use by experimenting on German boys, they implement it in USA during the 90’s.
In the end you emerged stronger than ever.
A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!
In the end you emerged stronger than ever.
They “created” another black belt MGTOW.
They did more damage to the entire c~~~hood of the world then they will ever get to see.
Over 20000 threads of “c~~~-control wisdom” (read: pest-control) have already been written here.
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In the end you emerged stronger than ever.
They “created” another black belt MGTOW.
They did more damage to the entire c~~~hood of the world then they will ever get to see.
Over 20000 threads of “c~~~-control wisdom” (read: pest-control) have already been written here.
#c~~~controlNOW!
A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!
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