Dating Trap

[LaserParticipant 33]

Some of my coworkers can’t take the hint that I’m not dating. Ever since my divorce, they’ve been constantly trying to hook me up with girls that are single that they know. So one of my co-workers had the bright idea of setting me up with one of his “relatives”. So this girl, who i found out is a single mom, decides to send me messages and friend requests out of nowhere. She first sends “my dad works with you.. my mom told me u are a great guy. So that’s why I friended u..as I always love friends, especially from my hometown (emoji)” then writes 15 min later “plus I feel like I’ve seen u before are u on any dating websites?!” days later at 1:30 in morning; probably drunk “I wish u would at least acknowledge my reaching out…” noon the next day “I’m so sorry, this message was not meant for u!”. It wasn’t meant for me??? What? Went complete ghost. At work I told dude im not dating and he still tried to get me to go camping to set up some meet. She obviously was angry when I ignored her. Bet she’s done it to a tons of guys.

[joetechParticipant]

Tell him you’re already seeing someone from out of state. That’ll shut everybody up.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[MGTOW_MikeParticipant 6253]

Laser wrote:

“plus I feel like I’ve seen u before are u on any dating websites?!”

Holy crap!!!! F~~~ f~~~ f~~~…..

Laser wrote:

At work I told dude im not dating and he still tried to get me to go camping to set up some meet.

You know why these guys keep pestering you to hook up? They want to see you copy their way of “life” in order to validate themselves. If you are an UNMARRIED (as Tom Leykis likes to use), most blue pill manginas will become envious and jealous of your freedom. These blue pill manginas cant resist the power of the pussy and at the same time want freedom. Not gonna happen. One or the other.

A tranquil mind is neither happy nor sad, it is uninfluenced by external conditions.

[AttonParticipant]

Give it time and these things will stop.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

You have to tell each of them AGAIN LOUD and CLEAR, “Please listen to me, it’s NOTHING PERSONAL about YOU or ANY of the WOMEN that YOU are trying to set me up with, but I’M NOT Dating ANYONE NOW. PLEASE STOP TRYING TO FIND ME DATES”

YOU do NOT have to give them reasons or excuses etc. If they continue, then ONLY communicate with them as NEEDED for work related reasons, and cut them out of your life as much as possible. Hopefully, they will get the message before you have to go this far.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[FrankOneParticipant 1417]

It is funny how colleagues try to pry into your personal life. I was with one on a business trip and he asked me about my religion and family. I hadn’t told anyone at work I was divorced for maybe 2 years. But I didn’t want to lie about it. Then he asked if I was looking, undoubtedly to ‘set me up’. I told him no, and asked, how does that saying go, ‘No wife, Awesome life’?

This guy is constantly saying that ‘Happy Wife, Happy Life’ saying… I really hate that as it implies the man should do whatever it takes to make the Queen happy.

So it was great. But I still should have kept my mouth shut. In my case, I have an FWB, but best to TELL THEM NOTHING AT WORK. All they (men and women at work) do is gossip like a bunch of little girls.

I do NOT ask my colleagues about their personal lives at work…

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Definitely do not talk about your personal life or your beliefs at work. Talk about work, talk about the weather or the latest sportsball event if you must, but never express an opinion or tell a personal story. It will only come back to bite you in the ass in the end.

[OneTrueMisfitSpectator 2690]

I hate when people at work try to dig into your personal life. Also when family members. My aunt does this continuously. “I just hope you and my son find yourselves a good wife.” She has been divorced 3 times. She doesn’t need to be telling anyone s~~~. She is constantly trying to hook people up. The other day we stopped at a yard sell and she talked to this girl who had a child and I think she gave her sons facebook information away and told her to add him and not mention that his mother gave her his information. She said he son was a good provider. She said later that he has already yelled at her telling her to never try to hook him up with anyone again, laughing about it and apparently she hasn’t learned.

Don't care

[BeerParticipant 11832]

One thing I’ve learned about people trying to set you up is its NEVER to your advantage. A sane, attractive female with her s~~~ together wouldn’t need a hook up, she’d be fighting guys off with a stick. If they have someone trying to play matchmaker odds are they are extremely undesirable…like even more crazy than average, single mom, etc.

[bagsofsandParticipant 1391]

Beer wrote:

One thing I’ve learned about people trying to set you up is its NEVER to your advantage. A sane, attractive female with her s~~~ together wouldn’t need a hook up, she’d be fighting guys off with a stick. If they have someone trying to play matchmaker odds are they are extremely undesirable…like even more crazy than average, single mom, etc.

Man, I was just going to post this!
The few ‘dates’ I’ve been matched with by female co-workers were not really remotely interesting women…

I might not be a super model myself, but, c’mon, why is it the dates have always been uglier or fat or just bats~~~ crazy… and my co-workers would think I would be a good match to them?…. f~~~ that!

One was a single mom, where the (very loud) kid’s father lived in a different country, she even said she kinda trapped him to give her a child, and then she just left him — and now *I* could take good care of her and the daughter it seemed like….

Hahahahahaha….

Ha..!

[BeerParticipant 11832]

bagsofsand wrote:

and now *I* could take good care of her and the daughter it seemed like….

Stupid women just don’t get it. I bet you could take good care of them…but why would you want to? If I wasn’t f~~~ing her in her prime and she has kids that aren’t mine, she’s pretty much the last thing I’d want to spend my money on.

[Anonymous 6]

This one question will shut it down immediately: “How soon into a relationship does one initiate aggressive sodomy? That’s really my favorite act with a female.”

[bagsofsandParticipant 1391]

Beer wrote:

bagsofsand wrote:

and now *I* could take good care of her and the daughter it seemed like….

Stupid women just don’t get it. I bet you could take good care of them…but why would you want to? If I wasn’t f~~~ing her in her prime and she has kids that aren’t mine, she’s pretty much the last thing I’d want to spend my money on.

The hypocrisy was off the charts. She kept saying she didn’t expect me to be her daughter’s ‘dad’, but the world revolved around that kid 24/7.. Only at planned hours could we get together.
If I wanted to be a part of that woman’s life, naturally I’d have to relate to and take care of the kid, too.

As if I wanted to take care of another man’s sperm….

So the woman had her kid with her ‘Chad’, and now *I* could get to raise her, in order to f~~~ mommy once a month maybe…………..

CLASSIC TEXTBOOK EXAMPLE!

[BeerParticipant 11832]

bagsofsand wrote:

The hypocrisy was off the charts. She kept saying she didn’t expect me to be her daughter’s ‘dad’, but the world revolved around that kid 24/7.. Only at planned hours could we get together.
If I wanted to be a part of that woman’s life, naturally I’d have to relate to and take care of the kid, too.

As if I wanted to take care of another man’s sperm….

So the woman had her kid with her ‘Chad’, and now *I* could get to raise her, in order to f~~~ mommy once a month maybe…………..

CLASSIC TEXTBOOK EXAMPLE!

Even worse…not only would you get to take care of another man’s sperm, but time and time again the kid would be as an excuse to c~~~ block you. C~~~ blocked by a kid that isn’t even yours…yeah…no thanks lol.

[SamsquanchParticipant 4226]

@lazer

You have to keep telling them that you’re not interested like Awakened mentioned. My sister in law wouldn’t stop trying to set me up with her loser single friends. I had to raise my voice to her in front of the entire family before she finally got the hint.

You don’t want to date someone who knows someone you work with. Everyone in the office will learn everything about your personal life.

[OldBillParticipant]

Laser wrote:

So this girl, who i found out is a single mom, decides to send me messages and friend requests out of nowhere.

Get off Facebook, you fool.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

I’d tell them I don’t date women for LTR, I only do hookups with women who do FMF 3-somes.

Best case scenario, that’ll shut them up.

Worse case scenario, you’ll get steered to women who do 3somes.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[OneTrueMisfitSpectator 2690]

Ranger One wrote:

I’d tell them I don’t date women for LTR, I only do hookups with women who do FMF 3-somes.

Best case scenario, that’ll shut them up.

Worse case scenario, you’ll get steered to women who do 3somes.

Tell em only women who do foursomes

Don't care

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